Not all scars shows. Not all wounds heal. Sometimes you can’t see, the pain someone feels. We can’t compare someone else sufferings and experiences. We can only incorporate and commend particularly their endeavor and conviction to rise up after the fall. We may not always end up where we thought we were going; still we will always end up where we were meant to be.

Our destiny is never tied to anyone. Just because it’s not what you were expecting, doesn’t mean it’s not everything you’ve been waiting for…. It just means that there will come a time when you have to choose between turning the page and closing the book. Everything you want comes after you stop looking for it. Yet, we‘re all given the choice and will to merge the game of life and play our cards right.

When you feel strongly about something without logical basis to it, that’s called intuition. It comes in three impressions: clairvoyance or “the third eye”, sensing clearly and feeling through listening. 

Clairvoyance is when your eye goes beyond what it can see. This is when you know what is happening somewhere.

Sensing clearly is basically what we refer to as “hunch” or “gut feel.” This is the time when you are overwhelmed with a feeling and you can’t explain it and all you can say is “I just know.”

On the other hand, feeling through listening or clairaudience is being able to “listen” between the lines. Intuition also happens at times when a certain sound, whatever it is – be it a car’s honk or a bird’s twitting – ushers in an intense feeling.

They say only a number of people are gifted with intuition. Astrologers even insist that people born under the Scorpio or Pisces signs are naturally intuitive it almost borders on E.S.P. But studies have been sprouting left and right that proclaim that anyone can develop intuition.

Why the need to develop intuition, you ask? Why not let your emotional and psychological state as it is? First and foremost, intuition promotes good communication. It makes you more sensitive to the people around you; it often keeps you from hurting those you love because you are intuitive enough to understand them. Intuition also makes you far more creative than ever. Intuition means releasing more creative juices for any means of expression. Lastly, intuition has a healing power. This healing power is not in the physical sense, but in delving deep into your soul to eradicate some negative energy buried in it.

With that being said, are you ready to develop your intuition? Here are some ways to unlock this gift:

1. Hypnosis

Oh yes, get yourself hypnotized. Hypnosis is not limited to watching a pendulum move back and forth. Perform self-hypnosis or you can avail of hypnotic programs that can strengthen your intuition.

2. Meditation

Meditating means finding peace in yourself. If your mind and heart are cluttered with too many baggage and hurt,  you wouldn’t be able to quiet down that part of you that could eventually initiate intuition. There are so many ways to meditate: take a yoga class, or just simply practice some breathing that could bring you straight to Zen.

3. Think positive!

A worry-free, fear-free state could do so much to improve your intuitive ability. By staying positive, you attract good energy that would be able to easily recognize imminent feelings and events.

4.  Just let go.

What does this mean? If you are on the brink of making a huge decision, let go of all the inhibitions and head to a quiet place where you could find out where the letting go has brought you. Sometimes you just have to listen to the voice within you, and that voice wouldn’t come out unless you let go.

5. Never expect.

After letting go of the inhibitions and all those things that stop you from thinking and feeling clearly, never expect for an answer right away. Never expect that the “hunch” would fall on your lap immediately. Give it a little time then you’d just get surprised that — wham! — now you have your answer.

6. Believe in your first impressions.

When you see someone for the first time and think that he is a bit too arrogant for your taste, chances are that impression actually holds true. Most of the time, first impressions are brought by intuition.

7. Stay happy!

See? All you need to be intuitive is to stay happy! Happiness attracts immense power and such power includes intuition. In tapping your intuition, your motivation must be happiness and contentment. Given that premise, intuition will fall to you easily. 

Intuition is helpful, because sometimes it leads you to something that cannot be achieved otherwise. A lot of lives have been saved by intuition alone. Decisions are easier done if armed by this gift. Develop intuition now and reap benefits you have never imagined. 

Comfort yourself. Tell yourself letting go just means a step closer to being happier in the future. You would never find happinese if you can’t even bring yourself to let go of somethings that’s making you sad.

Talk about it. Its always nice to express your feelings. Every human have their social needs and at a time like this, talking to someone close to you is absolutely a need. Who knows, maybe they can cheer you up in some ways, even if they can’t, its will always be nice to have someones shoulder to cry on.

Move on. Easy said then done? True. It takes time, but its the only choice we have. Held your head up high and continue with your journey to find happiness. 

Take it as a life experience. Letting go of someone is part of life. Take it as a life experience or a lesson. Learn from it or accept it and move on. 

If all of the above doesnt work..then talk to yourself. Yes, talk to yourself. Everytime when you are force to let go of someone. Think of the great times you have. And the bad times. Be proud of yourself for going through this phrase of live.

Twirl me into happiness, and sing me into joy.
Show me more important things than one cold-hearted boy.
Open up my eyes to laughter I have never known.
Make me strong so I can know I’ll make it on my own.

Rivers beneath my smiling eyes are steaming into hearts.
They keep a warm a different place for each of this song’s parts.
People awe and tremble when my true joy pushes through.
Now they see the river’s steam is making smiles too.

Whisper close into my ear that they can see the steam.
Remind me why I broke my heart and let this river stream.
They’ve wondered where I’ve gone as I’ve been swimming underneath.
They want me to return before I hang my Christmas wreath.

“I’m back!” I say, “I’m stronger now! At last, I see the light.”
It’s time I wrap it up, I think, this long and dreary night.
Goodbye, my love. I held you close. You meant so much to me.
Dancing with the broken-hearted turns grief into glee.

Think of a notebook with several pages. Each page in itself is just an open page. It is up to us to either scribble on it or write poetry on it. Irrespective of whether we scribble on it or pen poetry on it, we can still turn to the next page and again have the choice of either scribbling on it or writing poetry on it. Till the notebook ends, the freedom of choice to use or abuse the pages of the notebook purely rests with us. More importantly, even if we have wasted the first half of the notebook with just scribbling, we can still write enough poetries in the second half of the notebook and make it worth preserving. Metaphorically, the notebook can be compared to our life. The dawn of everyday offers us the choice of using or abusing the day. Till we embrace death, the freedom of choice to use or abuse the today’s of our life purely rests with us. Whatever be our age, as a worst case scenario, even if we have wasted the entire past of our life, we can still make a beginning, starting today. We can make the most of everyday of our life from now on and create a life that will be cherished. So, focus your energy in building your future than in processing the bygone past. The rear-view mirror of an auto mobile can aid in driving, but you have to look ahead through the wind-shield, for that’s the only way to reach your destination. Your past only serves as a rear-view mirror, reflecting your accomplishment and your failures. It teaches you the lessons on what to do and what not to do. You must mature out of yoru past and take the future awaiting you, head on. With derived maturity from your past, you must and you can do much more with your future. 

Two monks were walking when they spotten a teenage girl standing near the stream they were about to cross. The young girl had fear written all over her face. It as already dusk and daylight was fading. In respons to the question one of the monks had asked, the girl replied, “I am afraid of crossing the stream.” The monk volunteered and carried the girl on his shoulders and dropped her at the other bank. The two monks continued to walk. After they had walked for about 30 minutes, noting a sence of unease in the other monk, the monk who had helped the young girl asked him if something had bothering him. The other monk retored, “don’t you know that monks aren’t supposed to touch the opposite sex? why then did you carry the girl on your shoulders? That’s why I am upset.” Centred and still smiling, the monk who had helped the girl replied, “Oh, the girl you are talking about… I dropped her long time back. Why are you still carrying her in your head?”

Your past has left you a long time back; so, what is the point in you continuing to carry it in your head. You can help a person caught in the jaws of a crocodile. But how do you help a person who think he is caught in the jaws of crocodile, while all he had is just the picture of a crocodile under his feet? Your past has no other reality except in your memory. Nothing is a greater retardant to growth than the burden of the emotions in the past. The troubled with the emotions of the past is that it leaves you ith scrached spectacles. Through your scrached spectacles, everyting you see appears to be scrached You become incapable of seeing life as it is; you only see it through the experiances of the past. Someone misbehaved with you in the past and because of those scrached spectacles every new acquintance too appears to be a rogue.An employee of yours learnt everything from you and then became your competitor. Now, every new employee is viewed with suspeccion. you tend to burden your present with your past.

You need new spectacles to view your today and build tomorrow. Treat your past not as a source of hurt and agony, but as an experiance that you needed to gain this maturity. You needed those experiances to become the person you are. But for that yesterday, you on’t be at you are today. The process of chiselling may not have been pleasent, but wiothout it you won’ t be the sculpture you are today. Use yout today to construct you future, and not to dissect you past. At the point of maturity, it is crucial where you are looking. If you focus on your future, you will only feel negative and low. If you can focus on your future, you will fell positive and charged up. Bitter yesterdays have the potential to create better tomorrows. when bad things happen to good people, they become better people. This is the buleprint on which life is built.

Yesterday was over yesterday. Draw a line to your past and move on. Today is a new day. Today is a new beginning. Don’t make your future an imposition of you past. Your past is just a picture of a crocadile… it doesn’t really exist. Wake up from the phsycological slumber of your past. Don’t waste another drop of tears on your past. The beginning is from where you begin. Begin today. Begin now. The person you will become in life is waiting for you in the future. You must go and meet him. So, focus your energies in being an architect of your future.

The past of an exquisite sclupture was a stone, which took numerous blows from the chisel of a scluptor. The past of a flute in the hands of maestro was bamboo that as seasoned in fire and with holes drilled into it with hot iron rods. A glittering diamond was once an unnoticed piece of carbon. You can go through anything in life, if you can become what you can become in life. There is nothing in a catterpiller that suggests that it can be a butterfly; yet, it becomes a butterfly. Your past is not equivalent to your future. What you have been, and what you are , are inconsequential to what you can be. Crucify your past and resurrect into a new future.

Only time heals the pain, maybe it takes a very long time but there will be the right time to ease all behind in the past. And Yes! It is possible to forgive and forget, even we’ve hurt us so badly before. But, maybe what we should do is to give time ourselves to retreat on it. Set at least one day to cry and express your been hiding feeling. This will really make your feeling so light and also to accept the fact that it over. It’s been almost after how many times. So, give yourself to move out from bitterness and show up the world happy again. Sound it very hard but try to think how pity yourself to still be live in past. Don’t let be a prisoner and trapped from the past. Try to move on, and cope up. The best thing to helps it easy way, is to talk that person one on one and asks for forgiveness and forgiven.
Don’t waste your time, in a world that doesn’t yours at all. Decision the right thing because you can’t ever be back that what have been lost and over. The heart knows when to stop when it really has to stop and move on. Do not rush, take your time and your heart to heal. You’ll get there.

Either way, here are 5 reasons good enough for you to dump him:

1. You hate everything he wears, his hairstyle and his moustache
2. You feel that none of the things he says are right, and they scratch your ears as they come out
3. No matter on what side of the bed he sleeps, you’re just not comfortable near him
4. You turn you phone off at work because he calls too much
5. You can’t have him touching you in any way

So far, there is this slight possibility that it’s you, none of the above suggest that he might be doing something wrong, but that you consider wrong everything he is doing.

Moving on, here’s another 5 reasons to dump your boyfriend:

1. He wears the same t-shirt three days in a row, his hair gets greasy and he forgot to shave
2. All he can talk about is football and kick-boxing
3. He snores and gets all over the bed at night
4. He never calls
5. All the making love turned into plain sex

Now that is definitely him, right?

And there is another direction, where it’s just not meant to be and I have 5 more reasons for you to break up with him:

1. You don’t have the same opinions on what to wear when you go out for a movie, so that the outfits can match
2. When it’s just the two of you there’s not much to talk about
3. The romance is dead
4. You practically stumble upon one another when trying to have some activities in common
5. You feel you want different things from life

So, if you find yourself in either of the three possibilities, you can definitely dump him; it’s not going anywhere!

Anything that happens around me affects me & my thoughts. My thoughts on the other hand are nothing other than a collection of over-processed reactions to situations I left behind or choices I never tried. Or maybe they’re just incomplete ideas I picked up from people I talk to. Either way, they just don’t end up being mine from scratch. Not a single thought is mine which makes my actions alien too. If My thoughts aren’t mine, My actions won’t be something I’d want to do in the first place…its just the thoughts making me do whatever I do.

If I’m thinking too much, it’s an action that is engineered by a thought. I may form a hierarchy out of it, solidify my thoughts with sensational claims, references or anything, but they still remain alien. I may figure out anything & call it a fact of life, pass it on & make it a phenomenon yet it would just be the same thought that started it all. Maybe this is a thought that makes us all, seeing everything around you makes you believe & that again validates the same thought & it keeps continuing. As you proceed to think, you come across experiences that make common information that you share with other thinkers. That makes all of us nothing but a conscious thought, processing itself, experiencing itself & figuring out the origin of itself, as the real thought lies beneath the heap of the million thoughts in every million seconds that we think & we number in more than millions ourselves. That’s a lot of work.

So, whatever you think right now, simply adds up to the thought field around you, it doesn’t solve the riddle of your existence. And going back in time to look for that basic thought that started it all is the work of a Lifetime. But if you seek the origin of any one thought you might notice controlling you, you may not understand how the universe works, but you might just know how you work. You’ll know how you see things & why you do so, would you judge yourself then?

Because when that realization comes to you, right & wrong doesn’t matter, good & bad doesn’t matter, differences don’t matter, what matters is living without that mask of judgmental self-hypocrisy.

Go Get a Life for Yourself. And get that over concluded thought out.