Valentines Day can also be a hurtful time for some. Many can be confronting a cheating partner. The arguments to work late or get away from home that day. The phone with lock codes or left in the cars so you can’t see calls or messages. The I am hanging with friends that day. Anything to be away on the day that is nationally known to be with the one you love.

So a person has to face reality. They have to decide do they face reality or continue to live a lie. Do they pretend to be happy or fight for the relationship.

Only you and your partner can decide that. Maybe if this is you, it is time to sit down and be real with them. If you are cheating ask yourself why are you doing it. Do you need someone else to validate your worth? Is your partner not enough? Are you not happy with them? Maybe you should leave. Maybe you should be grownup enough to talk to them and tell them what it is. It isn’t fair to let another person think everything is okay while living a lie. It is pure selfishness.

If you are being cheated on you have to decide if that what you are willing to live with for the rest of your life. You have to decide if you deserve more or are you ok with living a lie. You also have to look at the health part. Are you ok with the fact they they may not be using safe sex? Are you ok with the fact that you maybe putting your own life at risk? Are you able to ask them and believe them? Could you believe someone that is already violating the vows?

You have to decide whether to fight for your relationship. People do make mistakes and maybe people change. Most never do.

But you are the one that has to live with the decision no one else. 

But remember, If you want things to change you have to do things different. Things cant remain the same. Both people have to do things differently. One person can’t make a relationship work it takes TWO.

It is what makes TWO people make it. A relationship does not consist of one person. Actions speak louder than words!!!

The Act Of  Being Progressive: Is The State Controlling Your Children

Ryan Keith Johnson

© Copy Right 2012 All Rights Reserved

            The State and Federal Government has been controlling your children for the last two decades. They’ve been controlling the public for the last one-hundred years by getting people to do things that they don’t really want to do. If you can understand a selected group of people who aren’t elected, but are part of the Council of Foreign Affair then you’ll be able to understand this article very easily.

            Through time elite groups of people have always sought to rule over groups of people. You can read about it with the Egyptians, Chinese, Romans Greeks and other empires that have come and gone. For thousands of years these selected groups of people have used any means to keep in power. You could call them the Illuminate, the Bilderburg Group or the Free Masons.

            When the United States first formed it was occupied by the Occult and Christians. The elite had ideas that they were going to use America as the world’s reserve currency. This decision was already decided before WWI and II. They knew that the country was going to be a free society and have advantages over the other dictatorship countries. A country that is free from government regulations and taxations becomes very rich, people have good jobs and the standard of living goes up. The elite also knew that they wanted a society where they are revered to as rulers or kings. They orchestrated WWI and WWII because they knew that something life changing to get the masses to do what they wanted. The best way to get a mass of people to want more government control is fear. People look to the leader or their president for help and that gives him power.

The Concil On Foreign Affairs, United Nations and The World Banks

          After  World War II there was a big change in United States.  There was a lot of good changes because we became the most powerful nation on the planet. We had the best economy, the best military, the best auto motive industry and manufacturing jobs. But our leaders; people in Congress, Judicial and Presidents have made a lot of mistakes since 1945.

            One mistake that led to many mistakes was sending money over seas to rebuild other countries. In our constitution it says that we’re not to send any money to any foreigner. Our president has sent money to Japan, Germany and other countries of the world. It served as a double sword because then the countries were forced to use our currency, the dollar. Pretty soon everyone in the world valued the dollar.

            As this was happening The United Nations was formed and The Concil on Foreign Affairs.  As these other programs gained momentum slowly the presidents began passing laws and tightening their noose around the American public.  In the constitution its high treason for the president of the United States to be serving another entity like the United Nations. The president is suppose to be serving the public and taking orders from Congress. You can look at it like a corporation with the Board of Directors telling the President of the Company what to do to keep the company in business.

Nixon Took The Dollar From The Gold Standard

            Most people get confused between paper money and gold. When America first got started people used silver and gold as way to pay bills. It wasn’t until later when we won our independence from England that we moved to paper money. The whole idea of the dollar from our fore fathers was that it was a certificate of gold. This meant that it was the same as gold and so colonist started using the dollar. Miners traded in their gold for dollars because companies would only accept the dollar.

            This is one of the biggest reasons why we’re in the trouble we’re in. Our country is going to experience a lot of monetary trouble. With inflation and the printing of the dollar from the Federal Government we have a certificate for something that no longer exists.

            We got into this problem because President Nixon passed a bill that allowed him to take the dollar away from the gold standard. Before this was done the United States could only print money based on the value of how the dollar was in relation to gold. Ever since Nixon took the standard of gold away from the dollar and printed (printed money whenever he felt like it)  money we’ve seen the change in the value of our dollar. The value of gold has steadily been going up until now you can see and hear commercials of companies who want to buy your gold.

            That along with all the unnecessary  wars with Vietnam, Korea , Gulf War, Iraq and Afghanistan have weakened our dollar, but lets also look at all the other great things in America that have been lost along the way. The size of government has increase a lot because of the wars and ego of the presidents that believe they have to re-invent the wheel. In the last ten years; manufacturing jobs left the country because of high taxes and regulations. The Automotive Industry closed most of their assembly plants because of regulations and high taxes backed by the Federal Government. People losing their jobs left and right, the housing market going to hell and worst of all the Federal Government has been bailing these companies out. The banks made poor decisions to give out loans to people that weren’t ready for them. The Federal Government bailed out the banks, the car companies and other corporations that should have went out of business. In the last fifty years the divorce rate increased by 50% as women’s right made the big move through the sixties. The idea of marriage being a sacred thing has diminished, now people get divorced and it’s no surprise, it’s a normal thing because we’ve allowed it to happen in our lives. Now the biggest thing we hear about is gay marriage and how gays are denied to be legally married. The Federal Government is making decisions that isn’t there’s to give on what is acceptable and not acceptable. President Obama fired Rick Warner of General Motors and took control of the company. A decision that is against the Tenth Amendment. A president has no authority in taking control of companies in a free enterprise.  It shouldn’t be up to anybody in office to get in anybody’s pursuit of happiness, but the Federal Government does it and so does the president.

            Jimmy Carter passed a bill that allowed the Vice President more power to over see the country, taking power away from our generals. It used to be that it would be up to the general to ok a war to see if there really was an exit strategy, but those laws got changed and funneled to the President and Vice President of the United States. The president would also have to go to Congress to declare war on the other country as well, but with all the bills passed through the last one-hundred years Congress doesn’t do anything. It doesn’t matter if it’s a Democrat or  Republican because who ever is in the Oval office reports straight to The Concil on Foreign Relations who tell them what to do. President Obama has told Congress that he doesn’t have to report to them and that he reports to the United Nations on his war on peace with Libya, Sudan and Somalia.

            The truth is, wars are very expensive and the elites know that through war they can get the public and masses to act a certain way. They can create this illusion that people think they’re voting in a new president who’s going to give them what they want when really they won’t. Rich corporations have been manipulating our Federal Government to pass policy’s that would put their competitors out of business. High end, rich insurance company’s and Wal-mart are actually in favor of the Health Care Bill because they know it will bring them business. It will force people to buy health care just like the state passing the seat belt laws (to force people to buckle up)  or forcing the consumer to buy booster seats for their children even though there’s a recall on the product. The law is the law and nobody has a say.

            The elite love this system and they know that Americans aren’t going to put up a fight over it because it’s so small. The average American doesn’t realize how big the problem is with The Concil On Foreign Affairs and The United Nations.  All the major decisions aren’t being made by the president or Congress, but people in these other entities.

The Best Thing We Can Do

            There is a growing movement to take our country back, but people need to do more than go to the voting machines on election day.  They need to get involved in their communities, start buying gold and silver, invest in guns and bullets, by years worth of food that is perishable because the inevitable is going to happen.

            The elite want America’s Bill of Right totally dismantled and destroyed so they can carry on with their next plan which is to force the biggest depression since 1930. They want America to start World War III with Iran and bring down the worlds population from seven billion people to about two billion people.  If we take action now, together, we can win and prevent this from happening.

            Militias are being formed and taking action to help the communities and are people who care about the country and want to help people. Most of Troops that are stationed in other countries of the world are not happy with the direction of the country. Some of the discharged soldiers from the army have spoken up to give support to their countrymen. About 90% of the military have been sending donations to Ron Paul for his run for president. Even our own soldiers are against President Obama’s policies with the citizens. We shouldn’t be afraid of the eminent revolt we should embrace it and take action. We shouldn’t think that our children down the road can take this on because by then it may be too late.

Ryan Keith Johnson

© Copy Right 2012 All Rights Reserved.

Progressive Concept; Make The People Want  An  Evolution Not a Revolution.

            It is true that in the past leading up to now that politicians have worked hard to motivate the public by telling them to give up their guns. They also like to say that America needs to get into foreign affairs and that the people should be passive about regulations that are passed.

            Now with the Patriot Act that has been passed, the Federal Government can continue monitoring and with Obama signing the Defense Act Bill you can be sure that your rights are being infringed. These bills break the Fourth and Fifth Amendment of being safe and free in your home and having a trial with a jury. What this means is that the Federal Government can consider anyone a Terrorist. They can break into your home, hand cuff you and take you away to a location where no one can find you. You hear about interrogations being done in Egypt and that the citizens of Egypt are taken from their homes and basically disappear.

What The Federal Government Wants

            The people that are in our Federal Government want to break the country in pieces.  They want to destroy families and destroy communities so that things get so bad that the people cry out for help. When the people cry out for help then the Federal Government will declare Martial Law. Martial Law is an act where the country becomes a police state. People will have a cure few that will lock down the community into their homes. It will be like Nazi Germany when Hitler took control of the country.  The constitution  will be suspended and nobody will have any freedom, you’ll have total tyranny.

            The Federal Government want control over what you do, where you work, how your children are raised, how you should spend your money and where you can travel.

            They’ve already got control over where you can work with the credit score. People think that employers use the credit score to decide who to hire. The credit score is irrelevant when applying for a job, but yet you’re asked to sign a waiver giving them permission to look up your credit score.  It’s discrimination and against the Fourth Amendment. Employers aren’t even suppose to be photo copying your Driver’s License  because of the increase in identity thefts. Think about it you don’t know your employer and you shouldn’t be giving that information out. America is the only country in the world that has the Credit Score.

            The Federal Government wants control over the Education of what your child is taught. Jimmy Carter passed the Department of Education with Congress to take responsibility for your child’s education. The idea is to have a system in place to teach the children a small portion of America’s history.  They want your children to become followers, dependent on government and have no understanding for consequences for their actions. They want to dumb down your child by making it difficult for teachers to do their job. Think about the No Child Left Behind Act passed by President Bush, it didn’t help the children or the teachers.

            There have been other anomalies that can’t be proved the Federal Government is behind it, but the Federal Government isn’t doing their job to protect the public. There are food additives and high levels of toxins in health products; like shampoos, hair sprays, make up, lips stick.  These Toxins can cause degeneration of the brain and make it hard for your child to learn in school. The Federal Government knows that they can’t make you get your vaccine shots. These vaccines are loaded with Mercury that cause ADHD, ADD, Learning Disabilities, Behavioral Problems and Autism.  Vaccines are scams and the Federal Government is behind this scam to make you believe if you don’t get a flu vaccine that you’ll die. Mammograms are scams as well, they cause cancer.

What Can We Do?

            We can do a lot! We need to stand up and say no to big government and socialism. We need to preserve a Republic for the individual American Citizen. We need to work together by sharing what we know to other uninformed Americans. Get organized and talk to your neighbors. We can’t depend on the Fox 9 news or CNN or any News to cover the biggest SCAM that’s going on in our government.

            There is already a growing movement in the United States. Militias are forming; there’s one in Virginia and Michigan. Protests are being done in Washington DC with the direction this country is going the people in power don’t know what to think. We need to stop fighting among ourselves over petty things, our freedom is at stake. If we don’t have our constitution and our freedom then we’re allowing more government control that will lead to something worse, world governance.

Why do people assume and gossip about and blame others when they really don’t know the whole story?  I wonder why we so often judge others, family, associates, neighbors and our self in such a negative light and all because we think something might be such and so and all because we of what we think we saw or heard.  To assume anything and spread that assumption around is deception dressed up in a coat of whitewash.  It will never hold up in the end.

We need to be very careful about judging others falsely, judging them on what we assume to be the truth.  We have not walked in their shoes.  We don’t truly know the full circumstances of a given situation unless we have personally lived it.  We cannot read another person’s mind or heart and yet we assume and believe our judgments must be true since so and so saw or so and so said and they are presumed to be telling the truth about whatever and there might possibly be truth to it…and we end up repeating or doing, saying things and doing things that reflect negatively on others rather than ever really seeking out the truth, encouraging and building that person up, offering a helping hand where needed and we do it all on the weak foundation of an assumption on what we think we saw or heard or someone else told us. 

Truth is, they, we may not have truly or fully comprehended what they think they  saw or heard and to assume they got it right and we understood clearly the truth they assumed, has from the beginning of time been the downfall of man; of kings and of nations.  Deception, assuming that which is not true to be true is a powerful and destructive weapon.  It can’t be a good thing. 

Fact is I know it is not good in any way, shape or manner.  It is painful.  It is destructive in the greatest sense of the word.  It is not just.  No good can come from it.  It not only hurts the person you have made assumptions about, it hurts everyone connected to that person and yourself.  I know it is so because I have been there, been on both sides of the coin and both sides of the coin dealt me a crushing blow.  Never assume that which you do not know to be fact.  You cannot know if you were not there and a part of whatever the situation may be.  You cannot know what is going on in the heart and mind of another because you are not them.

“Great Spirit, help me never to judge another until I have walked in his moccasins.” American Indian proverb.  

Assumption is no more and no less than deception dressed up in a coat of whitewash.  Thou shalt not assume and then bear false witness.   What a situation appears to be from a distance is seldom, if ever, what really is and when the rains come and the whitewash is flushed away; the truth becomes evident, much to our disgrace. When we assume and presume we know the truth without ever having been there and gone through it, everyone gets hurt.

In the process of all this assuming we bring irrevocable harm to others.  We can destroy their reputation, hurt their family, their children, and cost them their job, their livelihood.  We can destroy their credit, cause others to lose trust in them; bring mental and emotional anguish to their being and to those they love and maybe even cost them their life.  It is a terrible thing to do to anyone and we certainly would not like it if someone did the same to us.  Thou shalt not assume.   

Familiar rhetoric example 1

Looks to me like a kid in school cheating off another kids term paper and handing in the same thing with his name on it. It gets better, how about the “State of the union 2012″ speech.

The economy is in shambles, Obama is a liar, I don’t like liars he will say whatever it takes, even words he stole from someone else. The truth is all presidents are just puppets of corporations that own America and it’s citizens. Obama is such a puppet he can’t even write his own lines, if you don’t see the truth from this article you the reader will never see it. Does he pay Patrick for these speeches ?

Obama has words that sound good as a campaign slogan, look great on a T-shirt, a poster or a coffee mug. It’s like he has practiced mastering the art of the sell, you know those catchy phrases used to sell products. Americans in a consumer culture are duped by these catchy phrases all the time, I’ll give examples. The usual phrases for example, “Buy now”, “Hot item”, “Good deal”, “2 for 1″, “Half off the second item but the first at full price”. I purposely used these examples because Obama has sold America out, he serves corporate interest and not the people.

We don’t need big government, we don’t need empty worded politicians, we need freedom. Voting is a waste of time, it keeps the voter a slave to big corporate America. The voter will never be free not truly until we stop voting in some man just as flawed as us to rule over us with lies. The needs of the 99% out weigh the needs of the 1%, Obama says he is fighting for the 99% percent. The actions of this president have never backed that up since he was elected. Total complete non-compliance to the system has always, will always be the key to getting out of this police state we live in. The next president will just continue more of the same as Obama before him, as Obama continued more of what George W. did before him. Wake up people, think about it.

There  is a lot of fuss being made about Fox news being banned from Canada. some people feel that by banning a news media for lying, free speech is being censored. Also shocking is the statement that Fox news was banned for lying. Are we to assume that in light of the fuss being made about this ban for lying.

Correct me if I am wrong but aren’t journalists supposedly governed by ethics and laws or are they allowed to tell lies under the guise of “freedom of speech” If not then I can’t understand comments I read online that suggest that banning a media outlet for lying is an affront on freedom of speech. Journalists are governed by certain ethical standards which would include telling the truth.

According to the Canadian Radio act, a licenser cannot broadcast misleading or false news. This law has meant that the right wing Fox News that regularly pushes the button as far as the facts in news reporting is concerned, cannot operate in Canada. Where civility in broadcasting has all but disappeared in the US media, Canada is determined to keep its political discourse civil.

So why do US citizens condone false and divisive news reporting that Fox news has become associated with? It could be because journalistic ethics are not as valued there as they are in Canada. It could also mean that since Fox news is a puppet of the monied class, the masses have little say in the degradation of the written or unwritten code of conduct of journalism.

But there is hope. Americans have started the Occupy Wall Street Movement which has spread all over the world. Despite a few setbacks there is  no doubt that they will rise from the ashes again. If anyone can, the Americans can call attention to a divisive news media and eventually bring an end to its existence. It will be difficult though since money talks.

Firstly, he may not have admitted to it because he didn’t think that you would ever find out. In some ways this almost makes sense – if you don’t need to be hurt, he is not going to. Unfortunately you obviously did find out which means that his plan didn’t go quite as he expected but at the same time, he was trying to spare your feelings!

The second reason why he may not admit that he betrayed you is because the “other woman” didn’t mean anything. What is the point in destroying a completely happy relationship for the sake of a drunken mistake? Sometimes these things happen and although they are not to be proud of, no hurt was intended.

The last reason that we are going to look at is that it actually gives the girlfriend or wife the upper hand and let’s face it; no man wants that! Every fight that you ever had would be finished with the “you cheated” card and it would be used in every occasion that she didn’t get her own way.

At the end of the day, as much as you want to hate him for what he did to you, the reason he never told was to keep your heart from breaking. If he really wanted to be that much of a (insert whichever word here) he would have just told you, right?

For the guys out there, you must have heard the phrase – “Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned” and never is this truer the case than with our modern feisty women that we love to hate and hate to love! Just remember that she knows things about you that you might not want released to the general public such as those photos of you wearing makeup as a laugh or the weird sound you make in the bedroom! Girls can be nasty, fickle creatures and if you are going to cross them, you better be prepared!

Of course, guys can be fickle creatures as well but generally they will be less nasty than their female counterparts. A guy that has been cheated on will more likely want to save face among his friends and therefore do his crying in public and his back biting about you in the pub with all of the lads about him. Of course, if you were silly enough to let him take photos of you in compromising positions, you maybe should ask for them back or at least delete them from his phone or laptop if you get the chance otherwise you could find yourself posted on a million and one websites for everyone to see!

The best thing is, of course, not to cheat on your partner but if you are going to make the decision to jump into bed with someone else, at least make sure that your other half won’t find out and if they do, that they don’t have any dirt to dish on you!

If you have already done the deed, felt bad about it but were sensible enough to make sure that your other half could never find out about your bad behavior, you really have nothing to worry about. What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her right? Just think about what would happen if you did tell her – she could break up with you and you don’t want that. She could make your life hell for a long time and you certainly don’t want that. OK, honesty is the best policy but is it really the best policy right now?

Not telling your other half about the bad behavior that you displayed doesn’t mean that you can do it again and again. In fact, if anything, it should persuade you to travel in the completely opposite direction; learn from your mistake, brush it under the carpet and prey that it never comes up and get on with your life and your relationship!