Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because: 

1) You’ve invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, and there simply isn’t enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on. 

2) Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all chances of moving on from here to seduction. 

Most guys don’t have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it happens so infrequently! 

Even on a good night, most guys will typically find one girl they hit it off with at the bar where a kiss is probably even a possibility. 

So normally, you’d have to face a lot of these rejections one by one to learn the best way to successfully go in for a kiss. 

But luckily, I’ve already gone through all those failures for you (until I discovered this killer technique), and can present the best way to avoid failure and shortcut right to success. 

Sound good? 

The Kiss Technique makes it so that when you’re speaking to a woman, you can intentionally give off subconscious triggers that will make her think about kissing you!

Pretty powerful stuff…

If you use this technique, suddenly making a woman want to kiss you will be something you have control over. 

If you decide to “wing it” in the stage like most guys, however, you’re going to run into problems…

First, you won’t know how physically receptive she is to kissing you. A tried and true rule to go by is this:

Your hesitation = Her reservation

So the more you hesitate, the worse your chances get, because she starts to build up all sorts of red flags and reservations. 

When you go to lean in for the kiss and you don’t do it the right way at the right time, you’ll come off as needy (like you don’t have a lot of options with women) because if you did have a lot of options, you wouldn’t be worrying about the kiss with this girl. 

So how do we show that you are absolutely NOT needy (even if you kind of feel like you are) and provide a way so that you will not fear rejection because you will know for sure ahead of time that she is wanting to kiss you?

We use what’s called The Kiss Technique. 

This involves combining two psychological concepts into a perfect recipe for mastering the kiss. 

The first concept is called triangular gazing. 

This will happen while you have built rapport and are looking to move into seduction. It involves looking from one eye to another, then looking at her mouth. 

When you start looking at her mouth, you will subconsciously start to think about kissing her, because this action is already anchored to the thought of kissing someone. 

Even if you look at a woman you’re not attracted to and look at her mouth, you can start to think about kissing her, and you will become MORE attracted to her. 

The good news is…the same happens for women. 

The even BETTER news is…you can lead her to subconsciously start to do this and feel more attracted. How? 

By using the second half of the recipe…another psychological concept called Mirroring. 

Whenever we are in conversation with someone, we will mirror the leader of the conversation in an attempt to build subconscious rapport with them. 

When you perfectly combine triangular gazing and mirroring, you have a combination that will make her subconsciously think about kissing you.

After talking with her in rapport, start to look at her mouth. At first, only for 2 seconds, then look back to her eyes. Switch between her left and right eye, then back to her mouth for a few seconds longer. 

Continue to go from left to right eye and back to her mouth for 2 seconds, 3 seconds, then 5 seconds.

Eventually, you want to be mostly looking at her mouth. 

When she begins to look at your mouth as well, you know for sure that she’s ready to kiss you. 

Voila! The Kiss Technique takes all of the guess work out of “making a move”. 

You will now know with confidence when she wants to kiss you, and get to be the fully assertive but perceptive man that women find irresistibly sexy. 

She will feel like you know exactly how to treat a woman and feel safe and confident moving on with you. 

Now, if you want to take this technique to the next level and make it so that girls will be leaning in to you and basically begging you to kiss them, you only have to know one magical sentence. 

Learn more about the Kiss Technique and the bizarre, magical sentence that activates her “sexual triggers” and makes her lean and practically beg you for the kiss.

Lita is studying psychology at Lingnan University, Hong Kong, said he has enough friends, clients and patients with problems of thislife-long singles. From his observations, having seen further, actually there are other causes why in the end a person never had a girlfriend or get married.

“Usually the most dominant trauma, never hurt anyone. There are a few of my clients like that,” said Lita.

In addition to trauma and lifestyle, influence of parents and the immediate environment can also be the cause of people chose not to have a boyfriend or get married. For example, because the person is brought up by parents whose marriage was not harmonious.

Lita see, in this day and age, especially in big cities, a lot of thehigh-income people, especially women, are reluctant to find a lover.”They have a good income and occupation. Being too independent. Make a woman is able to limit him, his ego appears,” said a woman who also graduated from the Graduate School of Psychology University of Indonesia.

People who do not want to engage the commitment usually alsobecause it was too comfortable with solitude. They do not want tobe responsible to commit or compromise with others.

But it would be different if your morning sex session is filled with ‘hot’ with her husband. In addition to getting pleasure, you and your partner can more passion to get up early. In addition, the scientists said the couple who started the day by having sex will feel healthier and happier than those who do not.

“Making love in the night will release happy hormones called oxytocin, which makes people feel loved and emotionally tied to each other all day,” said Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of ‘Because It Feels Good’.

Additionally, this fun activity also makes you stronger and more beautiful appearance. Why sex in the morning can strengthen the immune system by increasing the levels of IgA. That is the antibody that causes the body to be protected from infection.

Meanwhile, when it reaches the climax or orgasm, the body release chemicals that increase the amount of estrogen. These hormones work to improve tone and texture of your skin and hair. After knowing the benefits, to make sex more meaningful morning, follow the following steps, which launched the Women’s Health Mag and Galtime.

- Special moments of sex in the morning you will be damaged if you intend and plan. ‘Morning sex’ would be more exciting if done spontaneously.

- Go quietly out of bed and step into the bathroom to brush my teeth in order to be fresh breath before starting to make love. Kissed her with mouth-smelling odor will certainly make the desire for sex is lost. Herbenick said, “It just makes the breath fresh, but fresh menthol taste of the toothpaste will provide a unique sensation when kissing or oral sex.”

- Simply brush your teeth, do not have to wash my face especially my hair. The he would love to see your natural appearance. Nothing is more sexy for my husband, but to see his wife appear innocent with ruffled hair after waking. No need to hide under the covers when you’re both taking off clothes, think of it as ’scenery’ beautiful in the morning. The study, conducted at Emory University, Atlanta, United States found that women are visually similar terangsangnya with men during sex.

- In order not to be too old to make love, sebaikannya always remember to touch the erotic zones. Such as kissing, giving a soft touch on sensitive areas like the neck or chest. Always make sure that you and your partner do not pass through sensitive areas that give rise to stimuli that are convenient for both parties.

Time, as I like to refer to it as, is potentially the only thing that’s going to save your relationship with me.  I never know how much I’ll need, so don’t fret if I go a few days without talking to you.  It doesn’t mean I’m talking to some other guy and it also doesn’t mean I never want to talk to you again.

Guys, if she doesn’t answer your phone calls, she’s doing you a favor.  Personally, it means I value our relationship.  (However, if your girl starts the whole answer/hang up thing never allowing it to reach voicemails or ring more than 3x – you’re a gonner.)  If you really want to fix your relationship with her, don’t blow her phone up. (Um. literally or figuratively)  Eventually she’ll answer it, yes, but it’ll just hurt her more talking to you sooner than she wants.  Plus, it’ll start to annoy her.  If your girl is anything like me, a persistent annoyance is something I cannot tolerate.  It’ll only ruin your chances.

If you do make it to the voicemail: DON’T LEAVE RIDICULOUS VOICEMAILS ABOUT HOW SORRY YOU ARE/HOW MUCH YOU’VE MESSED UP/HOW YOU REALLY WANT HER BACK.

I’ve gotten voicemails of exboyfriends crying at 5:30 in the morning apologizing, MORE. BAD IDEA! If you’ve been blowing her phone up and leaving voicemails similar to this all hours of the day: EXPECT THEM TO BE PLAYED FOR EVERYONE. You’re really going to make yourself look like a fool.

Also, if this whole “time” thing doesn’t work for you. DON’T DRAW ASSUMPTIONS. (You know what they say about assuming…) I would HIGHLY recommend that you DO NOT let your anger get the best of you.  Sending her tons of threatening texts & leaving similar voicemails about how you want to harm her exboyfriend (the one you assume she’s wants instead of you) will get you in some serious legal trouble, bud.  

It sucks, but depending on your “crime” and whether or not you’re a repeat offender it’s hard telling how much time she’ll actually need.  Sometimes, going months without talking is the best thing. (DON’T WORRY: You don’t have to wait around forever, but if you really care about this girl “wasting your time” won’t even be a phrase that crosses your mind.)

Plus, long periods of time show her whether or not you’ve really changed.  If that’s what you’re trying to prove to her. (Especially if you’re a repeat offender)

All I can is: You do the crime, you do the time bro.

By  Pamela Lewis

Okay, I swear I think my heart is going to beat out of my chest.  Are my palms sweating?  Geez I think I have a spot on my skirt.   Oh my Gosh!  Am I getting a pimple? Yes, you guessed it.  Its a first date.  Then there is the constant watching the clock.  Wondering if he will show up.  Wondering if he will show up on time or be late.  Does he even want to go out at all?  He’s going to see me peeking out the window every 10 seconds   All  this pacing has made my curls fall out.  The sweat on my face has made my make up need refreshing and I haven’t even stepped out the door yet.

Okay, calm down I tell myself.  First off, there was an attraction between the two of us.  That’s what made us get to this point.  Secondly, he made the first move,  he called me!  If there wasn’t an attraction, he wouldn’t have called, right?  Thirdly, we talked several times on the phone and we know there was a mutual attraction.  That’s what you need as a base for a relationship, right?  I know that when we talked he was attentive and interesting.  So, we have the first glance which led to the attraction, the next move which was the phone call to show further interest, and then the actual “he asked me out”!

Its a wonder that people ever get together, past  the first date.  First dates are the most nerve wracking experiences.  You are just taking those first baby steps to get to know each other.  So what do we do?

Be on time.  If you say you will pick someone up at 7:00, be there as close to 7:00 as you can.  Don’t be early and catch the other person unaware.  They might still be in their underwear and hair rollers.   Show up late, and that person is going to start wondering if you ever wanted to go out.  It also makes people think, hummm is he always like this (unreliable).  First impressions are lasting impressions.

Be clear on where you will be going so you can dress appropriately.  You don’t want to be caught in faded, torn jeans when he walks you into some fancy restaurant, and vice-a-versa, you don’t want to be decked out in all your finery and he takes you to an outside carnival where you will be walking around in the grass in  your new high heel shoes.  

Discuss between you the things that you like and dislike.   You don’t want someone to take you out for Chinese food if you hate it and you know there’s not a thing on the menu that you will eat.   You wouldn’t want to go out to an expensive Seafood Resteraunt  if the food makes  you break out in hives.  If its a subject you had never discussed, then I guess, grin and bear it.  Make the best of it, but if you really like the other person, bring up the subject before you go out again.

Sometimes it is nice (if you really like the person), to bring the girl flowers.  Yes, flowers are the way to a girls heart, just as food is the way to a mans. (okay that was a joke).   Also, if you’re comfortable doing it, a bottle of wine might be nice to help the mood.   (I would definitely make sure each of you are on the same page in regards to drinking however.  You don’t want someone not seeing you again because they think you’re a lush)

Most importantly, relax!  Relax and enjoy each other’s company.  If there is something there, the mood will be light, the conversation flowing, and at the end of the night…… well, we will let you decide what is next….

A breakup usually does not mean a total end of a relationship. Sometimes, these breakups are premature, and that the other party would still not be emotionally ready to let go. That is why people find ways on how to get him back. There are a lot of ways of going back to one’s ex. Because people vary, it is important that one should adjust some ways so as it would fit the comfort of that person. Overall, these ways and tips are what most exes would generally prefer when someone wants to get back with them.

            When one wishes to find out on how to get him back, it is important that one knows ex thoroughly so as to know which particular approach to use. The first thing one has to know in approaching an ex is to know which words to say. It is also important that one knows the reason of the breakup. Why is “knowing the reason” important in how to get him back? This is because of the fact that when one knows the mistake, one will be able to correct that mistake through mutual understanding and hope that a mistake like that would never occur again. Also, it makes one realize whether or not the person is really worth fighting for. It is also important that one should also listen to what the ex has to say. The ex may talk about a lot of reasons one might have overlooked and ignored. Those reasons may be small to that person, but for the ex, it may be a bigger issue. Lastly, one should be the person that the ex-lover fell in love with during the initial stages of the relationship or during the courting stage. That is to remind the ex what one truly is.

            With all that is said and done, it is important to know whether knowing how to get him back will be all worth it. One should question whether or not breaking up with that person was right in the first place. Also, if the ex does not wish to come back, one should learn how to move on. The ex is not the only person existing in this world. Who knows? There might be other people who would treat one better than the ex, and would finally find their happy ever after. Those people might just even be right around the corner.

Then his mother, Veronica told him to go to his room. He asked her, “why do I have to go to my room?” She said, “because I told you too, you don’t need to be listening to what we grown folks are talking about.”

But before we had started talking I had noticed that Anthony was peeking out the door of his bedroom trying to hear what we were talking about. But anyway, I started our conversation off by saying, isn’t a shame that the adolescents today are more into sex then we were when we were growing up?”They are already kissing with their mouth open.

But before Veronica had a chlance to respond to what I had said to her Anthony came running out of his saying, ” I like kissing girls with my mouth open!” Then Veronica said, ” get out of hear Anthony, we were not  talking to you any way. Now go back to your room and close the door.

Then I told her, ” these kids are growing up so fast today. Can you believe it? The kids today know more then we give them credit for. Not only should they be interested in kissing, they should also be warned about the diseases that they could be transmitting from mouth to mouth.

If the adolescents and young adults today knew about the diseases that they could get from mouth to mouth like; hepatitis B, C, HIV/AIDS, HPV, infectious mononucleosis “kissing disease”, cold sores, canker sores and periodontal disease they probably would take a second thought before they somebody.

If a parent knows that their teens are going to be dating soon, this will be a good time for them to sit down with them to warn them about diseases that they may be spreading to from a kiss. And if they do decide to kiss their partner tell them to kiss each other on the lips with their mouth closed.

A charming and heart-warming kind of love story.  Something you don’t always get to see in movies.  I know I’m late.  The movie was shown last 2007.  My friend who is a Gerard Butler fan told me to watch it then, but I said I don’t want to watch movies with sad endings. I ate my words.  

Well, the ending could not really be classified as “sad” or “tragic” despite the fact that the husband died.  I’d even say it’s a movie full of hope.  When Gerry (Gerard) died, he left his young wife Holly (Hilary Swank) letters to help her move on with her life.

It’s very rare for men to be keen on the details and go out of their ways to make a woman feel special by giving her the attention she deserves.  Maybe that’s why I found the story engaging from the start.  Every hopeless romantic will dig this movie.

When Gerry died, Holly was a mess. She closed her doors from the outside world for weeks.  As a coping mechanism, she pretends Gerry was still around.  She talks to him, wears his clothes, hears him sing.  Until her 30th birthday when a birthday cake was delivered—from Gerry.  There was a recorder taped at the cover and it was Gerry’s voice she heard when she played it.  Gerry was telling her to get dressed and even ordered her best friend to make plans for the night who was present to surprise Holly. It’s like he was really there talking to her friends and reasoning to Holly.   He told her to wait for the letters to arrive in the coming days.  And the letters came.  Giving her instructions; buy a dress, go out for a karaoke night, get rid of his clothes in the closet.  He was so thoughtful that he even booked a trip for her and her girl friends to his hometown Ireland, where they both first met.  

It’s amazing how Gerry predicted Holly’s reactions to what he’s suggesting her to do.  She knows how crazy and hard headed his wife could be so he knows how to push her to do something which he knows she wouldn’t dare do.  

He knows Holly will be lost without him.  Even in the after life, he was there guiding her, keeping her steady, showing her what to do best with her life, reminding her how amazing and loved she is, being the shoulder Holly can always lean on.

She led her to places, people and events that helped her pick up the pieces and start over…until she finally got her life back.  He finally let go of her hand after a year.  When Holly finally felt his presence left her and said “He’s really gone”, her life was already back on track.  Even her somewhat distant relationship with her mother and her issue with her dad was taken care of.   It’s like Gerry made sure first that she’s alright before he finally rested.

Astonishing how love can cross boundaries and defy what we all consider normal and ordinary.  I was so touched by a love so strong and true I was still crying even after the movie was over.  Ha ha. 

There’s this line Holly’s mother said after Holly’s last letter from Gerry, which I love.  

So, all alone or not, you gotta walk ahead. The thing to remember is; if we’re alone, then  we’re all together in that too.

I wish someone gave me that advice when I was a little crazy and melodramatic that I thought I was all alone in this big cruel world. Boo hoo. He he.

Seriously, sometimes we’re so caught up in our own misery we fail to see the people who are also going through, or went through a battle, who knows what and how we’re feeling, and knows better than we do. 

I know it’s so easy to become a selfish, self-centered biatch when you’re going through something tough.  It sometimes becomes an excuse to be insensitive with what others are feeling.  But the show must go on.  The sun will still rise tomorrow.  You’ve got to move on.  The world will not stop for you.  But there are people who are willing to put theirs on hold just to be with you and help you keep up with the rest.  It’s all up to you if you push them away or allow them into your life until you’ve gathered the strength you need to walk ahead.  

P.S. I Love You is more than just a romantic movie for me.  It’s a movie full of realizations, hope and lessons about moving on.

I cried 90% of the time.  But it was a good cry.  It’s been a while and I feel so relieved.  

Thank you, Gerry and Holly! May you inspire more couples.  Maybe life would be less complicated then.

Falling in love might not as sweet as what we expected it to be. When we fall in love with a person, it’s not certain that we could answer him/her when that person asks, “why do you love me?” For love knows no reason. For love has its own reason.

Too often, when we feel attracted to a certain person, we tend to mistake it as love. We tend to make things just to make that affection be feeling–love. We tend to do unethical things for that affection. Less we expected that this might make us selfish, not just to some but to ourselves as well. But when could a person tell that it is love he feels inside? Neither I could answer that question. For love could be a traitor. It hits you at your weakest point and heals you at your strength.

At times, when love comes to a person, she tries to take hold of that love refusing to see that it is a gift. When hurt, we put the blame to our heart. We put all the curse in it. We even wanted to take it out from ourselves and slashed it for real. We will reach a point of our life that we will feel extremely in love, so we thought. We will give our everything and not minding to take some for ourselves. We forget who we really are and the do’s and dont’s of our identities. We even forget the people surrounding us. The ethical and unethical things, so to speak. Our world just revolves around that certain person. Beware! For when the world rotates against what it should be, we will find ourselves to the most hurtful situation one could imagine in with.

That shouldn’t be the act. That shouldn’t be the attitude. When we fall in love, we make sure we leave some to ourselves. But who could I convince anyway? People are naturally hardheaded when falling in love. We won’t listen to things people think are best. We think that what we do is what should be done and they are all alright and don’t violate any morals, so to speak.

If you find yourself in love with someone else and yet that person cannot return your love. Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Be kind to yourself. Don’t get jealous to those who have along with them, their Mr./Ms. Rights. I tell you dear, everybody has her/his Mr./Ms. Right. Love chooses when to make you feel loved and when to make you not. Feel honored when you feel that tickling feeling inside. How do you deal with love is how love deals with you.

Keep this in mind, when hurt, don’t regard it as bad note. Hurting is part of loving. A person will not see through the way love and life want her to see if she wouldn’t be hurt. But don’t be too harsh with yourself. Have your limits and know them. It is a mystery why we fall in love. Be glad that it comes to live for a moment in you life.

Who knows, if you keep your heart and mind open, a love lost is a love found again.

I hate being so skinny. I am fairly tall and weigh only 104 pounds. People always get tips on how to lose weight and look good, but what about me? There in no way to make a stick look nice.

I hate how people assume that I am ill because I am skinny, people have actually asked me if I make myself puke or if I starve myself! OOH, this is so irritating! I don’t ask obese people is they ate too much or sat around too much!

I hate how eveyone I know thinks that I am a geek. So what, I like to read, are they jealous or what?

I hate house breaking puppies. Actually, I hate when some one else steps in the doo doo because I am the only one who apparently can smell. And, I am the only that will clean it up and put the pup outdoors. I also hate how everyone acts like it is my job to clean up the accidents, even if they see the doo doo, they won’t clean it, they will yell “Mom, there’s doggie doo….”

I hate how male cats like to pee on plastic. What the heck is the deal with that? Can’t they pee on a tree like dogs?

I hate how my cat leaves dead creatures with their guts hanging out, under my dining room table!

Ok, enough ranting this morning… if you can’t tell, this has not been one of my best mornings…..