Therefore, to obtain satisfaction for both men and women, couples should be able to communicate well. Therefore, there are many things that affect the quality of our Sex. So not only our physical condition alone.

The first thing is to have a major influence our state of mind. Sex should be fun. And, many people who say that sex is one of the activities we can do to relax.

So, your mind should be relaxed, because sex is the most intimate moments for you and your partner. The second thing is your ability. It is very important. Because by knowing different styles in sex, then you and your partner will get the satisfaction that you both want.

The last thing is your physical condition. when we talk about the physical conditions related to the quality of your sex, perhaps most men think that their penis size is most important. It is not entirely true.

Yes, a big penis size and length will be easier to reach the most sensitive point in the vagina. However, it did not make that men with large penis size will be easier to satisfy their partner. To engage in sex with your partner, you will need a lot of energy.

Therefore, the physical condition of the we talking about here is your stamina. If you have good stamina, then you can bear to have sex in a long time. That means, you and your partner will definitely get satisfaction, especially when you have all the factors mentioned above.

However, the most important here is your chemistry with your partner. You have sex because you and your partner love each other. And it will cause a tremendous sensation, when compared with the activities of sex with a partner who does not love you or your legal spouse.

Basically Sex is a beautiful, fun and satisfying to do. Therefore, it is important to prepare for this activity as well as possible, both in terms of mind and your physical as mentioned above, so that all can benefit you and your partner get.

Well I could have saved her a whole lot of time and trouble in the very beginning and told her she wasn’t right on this one.

It is incredibly depressing how some people like to make a real fuss about the fact humans are essentially polygamous, especially men.

I can only conclude these people just haven’t met the right person yet.

Yes it is true that biologically, just like any male animals, men are geared to casting their net wide in a bid to spawn many offspring. At the same time though I think it is running down the very essence of what it is to be human to say we are no more developed than animals in this way.

Our brains are wired so that we feel emotion far more acutely than animals and because of our greater thinking power we have worked out the benefits of finding and settling down with that one special person.

Holly Hill, the Australian author in question, is a psychologist, and I think this can be the problem. Scientists of this nature do tend to over analyse this kind of thing too much and as a result veto their own feelings and emotions.

She said she became extremely unhappy when she allowed her boyfriend to cheat on her. She continued that, rather than feeling in control of the situation as she imagined she would feel, instead she felt just as jealous as anyone else would and felt her self-esteem radically knocked.

Her boyfriend also reported not feeling happy with the situation and felt emasculated.

Needless to say, Holly and her boyfriend are no longer together.

One idea that you could do would be to take him on a day out somewhere and take him shopping. This won’t be anything like the type of shopping trips that you like to go on, because men have a completely different style when it comes to shopping, but they will enjoy spending a bit of money on themselves. The trick is to make a whole day of it. You could go somewhere for a nice walk in the morning for example, and then perhaps go for lunch, then taking him shopping in the afternoon. If you give him a budget, he will then be able to choose exactly the gift that he would like, and this means that you know he’ll be getting something he really wants rather than something that you’ve thought he might like but will probably never use.

You know what men are like for their cars and football, so why not try something that includes either one of those things? You can buy experience days where your man could drive around a racing track in the top cars that you see on television, and this is something that he wouldn’t forget in a hurry. If you wanted something physical to be able to give to him on the day of the occasion, you could give him something like racing gloves as this would give him a clue about what his present was going to be, and it would mean that you could give him something that was more than just a voucher as well. If he likes football, then buying him a pair of tickets to an upcoming match might be a fantastic way for him to celebrate. If you don’t like football then I am sure he would take one of his friends with him, but you could offer to go with him if it was something that you felt as though you would like to do. 

If he likes a particular band, and you know that they’re going on tour in the near future, then you could try to get him tickets for a venue near your home. If you have no children, or you could get somebody to baby sit, then you could even go somewhere a little further afield and make a weekend of it. This means that it is more than just a gift, but it is an experience that he would be able to remember for the rest of his life. 

For men who cheat, the phrase “boys will be boys” is applied, and for those who manage to not cheat, well they’re congratulated like a puppy who is finally house-trained. Do men not find this practice at all condescending? And also, if you are one of those men who revel in being given permission by society to be as base a human being as possible, how do you know that what you’re doing is just human nature, or societal conditioning instead?

There are no theories that all women cannot give in to any naked man standing in front of them. Does this mean that in reality more is expected from women, morally and intellectually? Why don’t men demand the same level of respect? For centuries they supposedly were above females, and the promiscuity of men was a power tool, rather than what it is now, just sad. It’s ironic that it has come full circle on them, a practice that served them in the past merely makes men little boys with big toys these days. Boys to be looked down upon by the more evolved females. Why men stand for this degradation, I don’t know.

Are men REALLY so primitive that they cannot think for themselves? That they are always controlled by their sex drive? I would think that many intelligent men find this societal theory as patronising as discrimination was towards women. 

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Once upon a time, a little boy asked his mother, “Why are you crying?” The mother answered… ”Because I’m a woman,” she …told him. “I don’t understand,” said the  boy. His Mom just hugged him and said, “And you never will.”

Later that same day,  the little boy asked his father, “Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?” “All women cry for no reason,” was all his dad could say.The little boy grew up, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, “God my Lord, why do women cry so easily?”God said, “My son, when I made the woman, she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children and her husband. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up and to take care of her  family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her own child has hurt her very badly. I gave her  the strength to carry her husband through his faults and further fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him un-falteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed.”"You see my son,” said God, “the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes because that is the gateway to her heart…the place where love resides.” That day, the boy sat down quietly and all the while, he kept looking at his mother with more awe, more  love and fully came to appreciate even more that the tear she sheds wantonly is actually a very special tear made for her specifically by God. Happy Mother’s Day!

The same applies to you. You shouldn’t have to change who you are. Your values, your beliefs what you feel is important. 

Compromise is important, but you should change WHO you are for anyone.

When you are in a relationship or even a friendship that person should not have to change. You accept them as they are. If there are things they have to do to be with you, then you should move on and so should they.

If you met a woman why do you tell her how to dress? Or who to hang out with? How to think and feel?

Women if he hangs out with the boys and watches sports why now do you insist he stop? Why are you blowing up his phone and freakin out because he doesn’t answer?

You know confidence starts within. If you aren’t confident in the relationship that person can’t do it for you. If they are doing something that justifies distrust, maybe it is time to step back and re-evaluate the relationship. Just make sure it isn’t your own insecurities.

If you want them to change their personality to accommodate your insecurities then you aren’t accepting them as they are. You can’t ask a out-going person to become a recluse because you are afraid they might laugh, smile and talk with others.

You can’t ask a person who loves sports to stop watching them all together because you feel so lonely during a game. Not only is it unfair , it is selfish. 

Remember why you liked them, not loved them but liked them. Many people can’t even say they like their partner, but will say they love them. 

So remember why you liked them. Remember why you were so attracted to them in the first place. Differences can compliment each other, but to many can cause huge problems.

Don’t try to change someone to accommodate you and don’t let them change you to accommodate them. Compromise is okay but no one person should do all the bending.

There are times that women will choose to overlook the fact of the matter even when the reality manifests blatantly. These women are maybe afraid to face the truth but determining the signs your man is cheating is something that women should learn. This does not mean that you will hound every activities of your husband or boyfriend but it pays to be vigilant, before it is too late. You do not want to wake up one morning wondering why he suddenly left you for another when all you could think about was that you were actually okay, or so you thought. So when you observe some particular activity or behavior or changes in your man, it might be the best time to assess the situation. If you are vigilant and observant enough, you will be able to read several signs your man is cheating on you. It is not only what he does but what he is not doing anymore that you should also look into. Read on to know more.

1.    Communication bog-down. If he used to call and text you several times a day but lately, does not even reply to most of your messages and calls, his attention might be engaged anywhere else. Of course, he may be busy with work but if you can verify that he is not busy at work or with some other engagements, then he is probably involve with someone else. Meeting someone new is always exciting and if he is just starting an illegal liaison with someone else, he would be naturally  too excited for anything else.

2.    Mr. Sweet suddenly. If he is extra-nice and sweet to you recently, when he was not like that before is something to look into too. Men who cheats and who does not want to be found out, acts extra nice to his wife or girlfriend so that they would not be suspected. They also do this because they feel guilty cheating their partner but don’t want to stop the cheating either.

3.    Mr. Critic. If he always find fault with you, always noting your bad points without any instigation from you, is also one of the signs that your man is cheating. If he has not acted like that before and then suddenly finds yourself at the butt of his “criticism” frequently, he is maybe comparing you with his new interest. This may not always be one of the signs your man is cheating but you could explore on this to know the truth.

4.    Telltale signs. If you find telltale signs in his wallet, clothing that he cannot explain such as ticket to a cinema when he is not fond of going to cinemas, lipstick mark on his shirt, unfamiliar perfume on his clothes and the likes.

5.    Suspicious cell phone usage. If he is becoming secretive about his text messages and calls, grabbing his cell phone the moment it rings and running to another room to answer it or guarding his cell phone and bringing it anywhere he goes, can also be one of the signs that your man is cheating. Late night calls which he attributes to some emergencies or officemates can be another indication.

6.    Unaccounted for. When you call him at the place where he says he is suppose to be, he is nowhere near there and he always has lame excuses that he was at the comfort room when you called or he was just walking through the foyer when you called. Of course, you should not take this as one of the surefire signs your man is cheating on you.

7.    Suspicious computer activity. He suddenly blacks out his laptop or minimizes the window of his laptop when you go near him. He spends longer hours on his computer than before and closes the door to his study when he is doing so.

8.    Unavailability. He used to spend time with you but now it is becoming less and very infrequent. He might tell you he is busy at work or some other important function, even during the weekends, holidays and yes, at night. Chances are, he uses this time spending with someone other than you. This is perhaps one of the sure signs your man is cheating on you. When he says that he is spending time with a male friend, and this has become more frequent, either he has turn gay or the male friend has magically turned into the sex siren of his dreams.

9.    Infrequent or absence of sex life. He has become a stranger in your bed, only engaging in sex with you as if it is his duty and only by appointment. When you get the urge and start showing him signs, he has so many excuses that often leave you feeling unwanted and cold. He does not hold your hand anymore, hug, cuddle or his kisses are as perfunctory as his greetings where it used to be so hot, it almost always drives you mad with desire for each other.

10. Changes in grooming preference. Men are generally stickler for things that they are used to. If your man had been using specific cologne, deodorant or a certain fashion style ever since you met him and then he suddenly prefers something he used to dislike and abhor, then it is telling you something. Of course, he may be on a self-discovery journey and changing his lifestyle and grooming habits might be part of that. However, if you can prove that he is not into a self-development quest or some other similar endeavor, this is perhaps one of the signs your man is cheating.

Men and women are born with the same cognitive. Only course, parents often differentiate. Thought this was  developed since the late 80s, and often become the basis of a question. What exactly differentiates men and women.

The majority of psychologists believe that the brain perbedan shown by men and women are innate. “We often mebedakan men and women, but they turned out to be biologically different,” says Diane Halpern, a psychology professor at Claremont McKenna College, who has studied gender differences in cognitive impairment over the past 25 years.

Across age groups, cultures, and countries, men tend to have special skills are better than women. As an example, men are able to rotate an object in their minds so that they could imagine the whole object, whether they saw or what they imagine.

These differences have been documented in infants as young as 3 months. Men are also known to skilled in determining the angular orientation and navigation.

Whereas, women tend to have larger memory with verbal fluency. “They are better at remembering things,” said Halpern. 

However, as quoted by LiveScience, differences in skills owned by men and women do not make a difference in the level of intelligence.

“There is no gender is smarter.”

In a study conducted in the United States reported that men tend to do better in mathematics, while women often excel in reading and writing.

Women also tend to be better in all subjects taught in schools. Whereas, men tend to excel in areas outside of their school curriculum. When men and women are given equal access to education, on average, women will tend to do better in reading than in men, and men tend to be better lam tasks that demand creativity.

And again the question arises if there is no gender smarter, why 90 percent of CEOs are male and 90 percent of women just a secretary.

According to Halpern, most women are looking for a job with flexible hours and not longer than men on the grounds that they have the time to take care of household needs.

This is why, mostly career women tend to be shorter compared to men who have the responsibility to provide for family.

Many areas of talented women who lost their jobs. And it turns out, men also can be an excellent caregiver.

The topic of Love is a complex matter.
Whenever you feel ‘love’ sometimes or usually you’d be be happy about it and appreciate that wonderful feeling.

Horatio Prince, © 2012

• Do not yawn continuously in the presence of your date. If you feel like yawning or feel sleepy suddenly, excuse yourself and do the needful. A yawn gives women the impression you are disinterested.

• The same goes for the uncontrollable urge of getting rid of that irritable chunk of dry mucus in your nose. Do not pick your nose in front of a woman. It’s yuck, a complete turn off.

• If your date is wearing a dress with a revealing neckline, do not gaze continually at her cleavage. Women hate it. Men have this habit of taking a quick greedy peek when a woman is not looking. Beware! Women catch you unawares. You feel like a helpless moron when a woman’s eye catches yours staring at her cleavage. The silence that follows accompanied by a wry smile on the woman’s face doesn’t help. You feel like vanishing in thin air. Relax! Women love this naughty harmless eye storming session. The key is not to gape but rather let her know you are aware of what needs to be noticed by throwing in the occasional teasing glance. A dress with a revealing neckline is worn on a date by a woman to ensure her man takes notice.

• Do not be a dumbass and nod at everything she has to say. The last thing a woman would want a man to remind her of is her headless rag doll she had as a child. It is important for a man to converse on a date. Women enjoy interesting conversations. Engage your woman in an engrossing talk. Smooth talkers are a hit with women.

• A mistake every man makes to earn brownie points on a date is talk about his failed relationships. Tales and stories about why your ex dumped you or why you let go of your wife or girlfriend do not earn you sympathy points from your date. This tactical move only works if your date doesn’t have a brain.

• Women dislike bragging men. Men! Do not send your date to the depths of boredom with brag talk. If you brag it may well be your last date with her.

• Every woman loves compliments. On a date compliments work well if they are straight from the heart. Mean what you say. Do not pay a compliment to a woman for the sake of paying one to make her feel good. Women hate fakes.

• If you are at a restaurant, make sure you let your date order what she likes. You may have excellent taste in wine and food, women have their own and you cannot argue about it.

• Make sure you pay the bill at a restaurant. Sometimes woman may insist the bill be split. Take the right decision in accordance with the situation you encounter.

• If you are aware the woman you’re on a date with has gone through a painful breakup recently, avoid talk and conversation that involves her recent past. If she decides to talk about the episode be a good listener but do not play God to her.

• Laughter is the best medicine! If humor is your thing use it, if not don’t. Women love to laugh and smile on a date. Every woman loves a man that can make her laugh and smile.

• When you talk to a woman look into her eyes.

• On a date you’ve got to be yourself. Do not pretend to be somebody else to impress your date. Women can tell when you’re putting on an act.

Tips for men going out on a date

• Remember, women love well-dressed men. Dress to impress, it works. Depending on where you’re planning to take your date, select formal clothing or casuals. Wear clothes that you feel comfortable in. Do not wear shirts, tee shirts or dinner jackets that are too loud. Accessories, if any should complement your style of dressing.

• Personal hygiene is important to a woman. Make it a point to take a shower before you go on a date. Do not go on a date directly from your workplace. Go home, freshen up and then head for your date.

• Wear a mild aftershave and perfume on a date. Women dislike overpowering fragrances. Women love a woody aftershave fragrance that lingers gently rather than one that fills the nostrils instantly.

• Most women do not prefer men with a close clean shave. Feel free to sport fine stubble, women love it. If you’re sporting a long unruly beard or mustache and are planning on taking your date to a fine dining restaurant, make sure you trim ends of facial hair before you go to pick up your date. The last thing a woman would want to see is a man munching his food along with strands of his mustache or beard. Men with a long mustache or beard are often unaware of food particles getting trapped in their thick growth of facial hair. If you’re a man with a bushy mustache or beard, avoiding eating ice-cream, gulping milk shakes when on a date. Sticky milk based products latch on to long protruding facial hair, which can be embarrassing for a woman. Hair jetting out from nostrils and ears is a complete no-no for women. If you’re a man with surplus hair in such places, make sure you trim it before you go out on a date.

• Bad breath ruins it for most men. Play it safe. Use a breath freshener or mouthwash before you go on a date. No woman is going to kiss you if you smell like a morgue with your mouth open.

• Never ever keep your date waiting. Make sure you are there on time. If you are going to be late inform your date, and yes, you better have a valid reason.

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