Are you ready?

Ask yourself whether you’re really need and ready to do it. Both, study and work would require more of your time, energy and mind. When you’re certain enough that you’re going to do both at the same time, go for it.

Find the perfect job

Make sure that you can combine your work schedule with your schedule at school. If it is possible, tell your bos that you’re still studying. Hopefully your bos can help you in adjusting your work schedule with school.

Work to learn

Mostlikely you can use your work as a form of learning. Perhaps not exactly related to your major of studies, but one day you’ll need to know how to share, cooperate and compete in the healthy way.

Manage your time

Working while studying would make you have less time in almost every aspect of your life. That way you need to manage your time accordingly and stick to the plans you’ve made.

Don’t forget homework

Since you’re a student, then your study still have to come first. You can do your homework after work, or ask your bos if is it okay if you’re doing your homework whenever you’ve got nothing to do in your working place.

When it’s time to refresh your mind

Use holiday to the max. It is time to take a rest or indulge your self with things you want but can not do during working and studying hours. That way, forget anything related to study and work. Go ahead have some fun.

What is mind. What’s the role and importance of mind in our day to day life. How we

relate and what is the role of mind in our life. This is very important to know.

Human mind is very delicate and complex. Brain is not the only part of our mind

but some other entities like heart, soul, experience, wish and will also influence our

mindset. Sometimes our brain guides us to do a particular thing in a particular way

but we do exactly the opposite. Schizophrenia is nothing but a conflict between

various states of mind. Except brain no other constituent of mind is known till day. Even

any other factor associated with human body which has some impact or

control over our thinking is not proven yet.

Mind has no shape or form. It is not a thing to be seen with eyes. We can only

understand and feel it. Mind is responsible for all our sorrows and joys. We can

revolutionalise our life and surroundings if only we can understand our mind

completely. Mind never rests. It passes through various stages but no stage is stable.

To understand the how to live and the very purpose of life,we have to first understand

our mind.

Conscious Mind : The first and foremost stage of mind is conscious mind. This is a

state of mind which continuously thinks about past and future. This mind hardly and

slightly lives in present. But the real and true life is in the present and not in the past or

future. This is a solid and somewhat bitter truth. We feel as if we are living but the

true/real fact is that we pass our entire life by remaining away from the present.

Conscious mind wastes a lot of our body’s energy and mental sickness is also

associated with this. Anger, fear, tension, anxiety all develop in our conscious mind. In

this stage of mind the speed of thoughts is very fast. Different thoughts occupy and

surround our mind all the time. Due to pressure of these thoughts we become mentally

sick. Psychiatrists too agree that 80% of diseases and sicknesses are mental and can

be stopped even before developing and appearance of signs and symptoms.

If not all,99% human beings live in conscious mind forever during their entire life and

this very fact is the reason behind our all pains and sorrows.

Sub-conscious Mind : The second stage of mind is the sub-conscious mind and this

mostly works when we are asleep. Dreams come out from this stage of mind. There are

many other reasons for dreams but the dreams of sub-conscious mind are always

fear full and meaningless.

Un-coscious Mind : The next stage is unconscious mind. The person who first

discovered and understood the functioning of this mind has immensely and hugely

contributed to the life of human beings only by making it understandable. This is nine

times larger than the conscious mind. In this mind the baseless and meaningless

thoughts and ideas are rare. So it do not wastes our energy. The man who realizes and

understands this mind feels more fit and contented. Such persons usually live alone and

are always]happy. Poets, writers, philosophers normally live in this stage. Pious and just

motivation and innovative ideas begin from this mind. In this mind things mostly happen

without logic. We can’t clearly demarcate conscious and unconscious mind. The

unconscious mind is the state/stage of mind hidden behind the conscious mind.

In reality both these states of mind can mix with each other. We do it and the way

is also very easy. Whatever we decide in our conscious mind becomes practical and

gets completed only when it reaches the unconscious mind. This is the reason that we

can’t leave our vices and bad habbits easily because we try to get rid of them in

conscious state of mind which is very small comparatively. We can never overcome or

over rule our unconscious mind. Whenever there is a fight between these two

states, unconscious mind always emerge victorious. Sexual desire also develops in

unconscious mind and can’t be stopped so easily. So conscious mind can win only by

following the unconscious mind. This is a very pity situation. We think ourselves very

intelligent and understanding but when subconscious and unconscious minds overcome

our thoughts and decisions, our no logic or intelligence works. Try to understand your

entire inner self as much as you can. At the initial stage you will only see darkness

inside you but slowly it will start vanishing. Due this initial experience a kind of fear

develops and we can’t sit, understand and concentrate about deepest states of

unconscious mind because it doesn’t allow us to do so.

Mind continues to think all the time and making it blank even for a fraction of a second is

not easy. Both conscious and unconscious mind are makers of lowest levels of our

present life.

Enlightened Mind : This is a stage of mind which is above the conscious state

and equals the unconscious state. When someone reaches this stage of mind, the

deepest realities of life become clear like death, love, agony and emotions.

Cosmic Mind : We can call this state of mind which thinks beyond general and

common things. It thinks beyond life, death, birth and worldly things. We can also call it

a saints mind. This mind thinks beyond normal human thoughts. According to

Guru Nanak, the first Sikh guru, this is the state of mind which should be called “fully

conscious”.

We have discussed five stages of mind namely

Conscious, Sub-conscious, Unconscious, Enlightened and Cosmic or Saint’s

mind. Conscious mind is the state which is mostly known to us. If we move even below

conscious mind, it will lead to darkness and degradation of life. If we move upwards, the

picture of life becomes more clear. We can move both ways because the way/path is

the same. This thing needs understanding. Going there is easy. We know the way but

we have forgotten it. Still we can easily find the way only if we have the will and the wish

to find and follow it.

These states of mind differentiate us from animals. Human life is greatest of all other

lives known to us which are present on the planet earth.

The human life is a glory, a blessing and a curse, all depending upon our mindset.

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 Cool down. Getting too emotional means you are opening another chance for them to criticize you. Everybody has got the right to share their opinion, even though their opinions might upset you.

 Open your mind. You might think what they have said is wrong, but they think the otherwise around. People have different angle in viewing so many thing in life. Try to understand their point of view before giving any appropriate respond.

 Never take it too personal. Taking things too personal is equal to torturing yourself. So, let it go and see how things flow.

 Asking why and how. Ask for more information on the thing being criticized. Use the information to do some reality check or finding new solutions.

 Be quiet. Replying criticism with another criticism might spark unnecessary debate. So, be quiet when there were no better things to say.

 Second opinion might be needed. Ask for a fair opinion from others. That way you can be sure whether the criticism is right or wrong.

 Get used to it. Life is a long journey and you’ll never know when you’ve got to deal with another criticism. So, once you’ve managed to deal with a criticism in a calm and positive way, just keep it that way.

It has been strongly authenticated that there is a marked constituent of sexual brutality often associated with the childhood of a serial killer.  Their deceitful conduct as adults is often times related to events from their past whether it be sexual, physical, emotional, or a combination of all three.  These forms of abuse ultimately mark where fantasy begins to surpass reality and some really alarming activities begin to surface.  Many become captivated with arson and/or there is the development of the cruel torture of animals to name a few.  It is worthy to note as well that there are many people who endure tragic childhoods, but yet do not become murderers.  Something in the mind of the serial killer gets triggered to an on position that cannot be stopped. 

As adults after traits of psychopathy and sociopathy have already set in, the serial killer will take on such acts as becoming engrossed with inner organs of the body, exclusively the sexual parts with an instance of this nature being necrophilia.  As psychopaths, they will lack any compassion or sympathy for their victims.  As sociopaths, their perception of what is considered correct and unethical has been corrupted. 

Most of the famous serial killers in America have been white males approximately around the age of thirty.  Ted Bundy is a notorious psychopath that comes to mind.  He lured women into his car and would do unspeakable acts with the bodies following their demise.  Sexual predator, John Wayne Gacy, and his psychopathic tendencies became the center of attention amongst researchers after he was imprisoned for raping and killing several young males. 

There has been some progression and conjecture as to why a select group of individuals will become serial killers.  Some theorists have considered that they are biologically born as killers with anomalous activity being experienced in the brain.  The mind of the serial killer continues to be studied and more superior gains of knowledge are expected to evolve in the future.

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But what about more abstract ideas? I think especially in this time, due to our technological advancements, of age everything is possible. For example YOU only know that YOU are alive and are just inferring that everyone else is also. STOP i know what your thinking “this guys crazy”. But think about it what if this whole world is made specifically for you? Or perhaps this is a simulation. A simulation that lets you experience life so when you come out of it you know the knowledge of a lifetime, meanwhile still in a child’s body. Great movie idea huh. Think about how insane people believe what is happening remember the brain is capable of anything. Or perhaps we are all the same all the EXACT same entity only changed by genetic differences and different events that take place to you. Picture this, If you take twins and they where identical in their genes no variation what so ever a clone so to speak. Then you take these two people and run them through life with the same exact events taking place. Shouldn’t they respond in the same manner? If they do what does it same about life that we are just like animals we respond to our environment in order to survive. You can say that then why do people kill themselves? The simple explanation can be that in their minds they believe that life on earth is worse then death and they think that the only way for their soul to survive happily is to rid of the pain.

However you take this whether you think that this is bogus and impossible then you go to church or go play on your Ipads. Think about how abstract an Ipad it how you can read, write, and watch movies all in a small portable device. Also that you are going to worship something that no one truly knows exists. So once again are these inquiries truly outrageous.

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Tricks of a magician. To see the world that allows us, with eyes full of dreams, until we learn more about how we believe your eyes and look to see that blank look in his eyes. The search for truth is the ultimate tool to polish each lens of perception. See, in fact, the truth is we live in is the main reason, there is little chance that the mind is patient enough to do at home and strong enough to recognize in-one. identify 

Wisdom is not knowledge in reading with many years of accumulated books. Wisdom is a life experience knowings extract lived a long time. 

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The experience is a landscape view. A landscape of dreams, beliefs and paradigms learned fact. While the mind can be satisfied with the surface, be sure to keep in mind the soul, the heart that lives there, what you see and beyond what is perceived. 

Life is the time to stop the presentation, where the eyes can see, and where the mind can not comprehend. Life is in hand, and while obviously part of it, just pushes denser version of what life is really like. 

It requires concentration, discipline and commitment within the eye of the beholder, given the power to open the road and that is ultimately the power of decisions and resolutions are given. It takes a complex deal between omniscience, feelings, thoughts and actions flow as a constant, which is a way of life to become the source of life that seems to align. 

Although difficult, is possible. Life lived, and when understood against attempts before brushing is walking toward you. It is, as expected, at least you and your life will collapse as the final report. Check out the obstacles and get to see the blessing. Look in the box and is the gift. Look beyond the obvious and is subtle. Searching the perception and find the truth. Find a guide you can move on. Finding a “Yoda” who have gone before you and there may be some wisdom to share with you walk with humility and gratitude.

The open mind is also susceptible to “a lack of conviction.” Too many conflicting viewpoints can enter an open mind and cause indecision and unfair treatment.  

With regard also to any standpoint, it is indispensable now and then to conceal the mind from reality and connect it to the real world where individuals do utterly communicate, disallow any more input, make a decision and act.

Perhaps, more significant than having an open mind is having a mind that is capable of being open or closed. The hinges of our mind are our capability to act upon.

We can decide to accept or reject information depending upon the fair judgment, trials and animadversions from the people around. It might be local or international.

Finally, information should be dished out with correct acceptance and unmistakable honor to divulge and pin down with laurels.

Thе brain cannоt tell thе difference between imаgіnаtіоn, suсh аs а drеаm, оr rеalitу. If уou сlоsе уour eyеs аnd imаginе оrdеrіng а рizzа аnd then уou оpеn уour еyes аnd асtuаlly оrdеr the ріzza уоur brain wіll go thrоugh thе exаct ѕamе eleсtrісаl рrосеѕѕ, ассeѕѕing the еxact ѕаmе pаrtѕ оf thе brain іn the ѕаme ordеr. It is the mind thаt dіѕсerns the difference between thе twо states bу аttаchіng tо іt а сеrtаіn sequеnce of emоtionаl inѕurrесtіonѕ, drаwn frоm an еmоtіоnal ѕсаlе, bаsеd on уоur роѕitiоn on аn еvеnt (dо I lіkе or dіѕlіkе еtс…) thiѕ іѕ oріnіоn, expectatіon, or intеntiоn. Brain memоrу wіll dіsаpрear аfter 7 tо 9 уeаrs but thе mіndѕ emotіоnаl іmprint wіll bе thеrе indеfinіtеlу waiting to bе brоught fоrth аnd аttаchеd tо the mоmеnt, rесrеаtеd thrоugh соnsсіоus аttentіоn.

It iѕ thе асt оf trуing tо reconсіle the mind аnd thе brain thаt іѕ thе рoіѕоn of humаnіtу. Thе mind іѕ not the brain although thе mind iѕ what structurеs the brain. Thе іndivіdual iѕ neithеr the brain nor thе mind but the еmbоdiment оf the рroсеѕѕ bу whіch thе two іnterаct. I oftеn uѕе my hourglаѕѕ аnalоgу to dіsplaу what I mеаn. Imаgіnе thеre tо bе a currеnt оf еnergеtіc movеment раsѕіng like sаnd thrоugh аn hоur glаss.

Aѕ ѕаnd fаlls thrоugh the hour glаsѕ іt іs іmроrtаnt tо observе the forсеѕ that реrрetuatе or rеѕtrісt іts mоtіon. The masѕ оf the ѕandѕ mаttеr in conjunсtіоn with thе grаvіtаtіоnаl pull of the muсh lаrger bоdу of mаtter bеneath wіll dеtermіne how quісklу the sand pаssеѕ through thе holе. Thе smallеr the hоlе thе slоwеr thе flоw until thе hоle getѕ ѕo small thаt a sіnglе grаіn of sаnd ѕtоpѕ thе entіrе flow аltоgеthеr.

In contrаѕt іf thе hоle oрenеd wіdеr the sand would flоw fastеr until thе ѕаnd would stаrt tо paѕѕ completеly unreѕtricted. (Kеeр іn mind thаt if еverуthing wаs goіng the ѕаme ѕреed then nоthіng wоuld bе mоvіng, аll motiоn wоuld thеn bе relatіve to thе ѕtаtіоnary pоѕitіon оf the оbѕerver, аnd іt cоuld vеry wеll be thе оbѕervеr that iѕ movіng).

Thеrе аrе fоur роintѕ іn thіѕ modеl to оbѕеrve, the ѕаnd itsеlf (it’ѕ maѕѕ), thе grаvitatiоnаl pull оf the bоdу beneаth іt (paѕt), thе glаѕs tubе that ореns аnd clоѕеѕ to аllоw оr rеstrict the flow, and thе аnd the сеnter bу whіch everуthing pasѕes.

Now take а mоment аnd рісturе thіѕ hоur glаѕѕ іn an infіnite pilе оf sand thаt appеаrѕ to bе coming frоm а bright lіght and ѕlowlу matеrіаlizіng into іts grаіnѕ; theѕe аre аll рoѕѕibіlіties cоming іntо fruіtіоn, thе future.

Belоw іs а maѕѕive рile оf ѕand, the reѕult оf a lifetime оf outроurіng; muсh largеr than the masѕ above but ѕtіll diѕаррearіng іntо thе same bоdy оf light, thіѕ оf соurѕе iѕ all thе mеmorіes, fragmentѕ оf familіаrіtу аnd соndіtіоnіng, thе раst. Wе саn rеlatе tо the almоѕt gravіtatiоnаl рull оf the рaѕt aѕ a reѕult оf hоw tightly we hоld on to it.

Thе сlear hourglаѕѕ ѕhаped funnеl оpеnіng and cloѕіng tо аllоw оr rеѕtrіct thе рlеthоrа оf ѕаndу еxсіtеmеnt iѕ of course thаt which iѕ оbѕerving all оf thе асtіvіty, thе wіtnеѕs. Mаny реoрlе trу to ѕераrate aѕ thе ѕelf.

And оf сourse thе center or hоlе bу whісh evеrуthіng pаѕѕеѕ, thе роint оf the most аttentіon аnd foсuѕ, thе рreѕent. Wе maу evеn saу that “I” iѕ a stаtemеnt оf роѕition that іѕ а result оf thе relаtiоnѕhiр оf thеse fоur соmpоnеntѕ wоrkіng tоgеther.

Thе mind haѕ nо оpinіоn, еxpеctаtion or іntеntіon either yet it iѕ the ѕourсe оf all haррineѕѕ аnd mіsеrу whісh іѕ the раіnt with which we usе thе сolor оur exрerіеnсеѕ. It iѕ the idеa thаt thе brain аnd mind аrе іn are thе ѕamе thаt саusеs of all imbalanсе and іn faсt сrеаteѕ tіmе and ѕрaсe bу mаnіfeѕtіng all the phyѕіcal wоrld.

Wе dо thіѕ by disсardіng the mіnds emotіоnal еlаstiсitу bу аttaсhіng it tо the brains immоvable rіgіd memоrу struсturе. I felt this wау аbоut а situatіon that аррeаrеd ѕimіlаr ѕо I must hоld оntо thіs аnd іdentіfу thе new sіtuаtiоn іn the samе еmоtіоnal ѕhadе (оріnion). Thiѕ doеs nоt allоw fоr рerѕоnаl growth аnd еxpаnsіоn оf cоnѕсіouѕnesѕ аѕ wе faіl аt аllowing thе moment tо bе а new and unique еxpеrіenсe. Wе arе simрly limіtіng ourѕеlvеѕ and thіѕ rеѕtrісtіоn buіldѕ up рresѕure аnd rеsistаnce.

“For these patriotic defenders of the fighting cultures of African people, imperialism is not a slogan. It is real; it is palpable in content and form and in its methods and effects. Imperialism is the rule of consolidated finance capital and since 1884 this monopolistic parasitic capital has affected and continues to affect the lives even of the peasants in the remotest corners of our countries. If you are in doubt, just count how many African countries have now been mortgaged to IMF — the new International Ministry of Finance as Julius Nyerere once called it. Who pays for the mortgage? Every single producer of real wealth (use-value) in the country so mortgaged, which means every single worker and peasant. Imperialism is total: it has economic, political, military, cultural and psychological consequences for the people of the world today. It could even lead to holocaust.

The freedom for western finance capital and for the vast transnational monopolies under its umbrella to continue stealing from the countries and people of Latin America, Africa, Asia and Polynesia is today protected by conventional and nuclear weapons. Imperialism, led by the USA, presents the struggling peoples of the earth and all those calling for peace, democracy .and socialism with the ultimatum: accept theft or death.”

Wa Thiong’o sees language as an essential component of the daily affairs of human life. Language is the thread of connectivity from one generation to the next. When the linguistic tradition of a place itself is attacked, it is clearly an attack on native culture.

The author muses on the reason why linguistic colonialism still continues in the present day, decades after the colonizing powers have left most African nations. What is the reason for a state of affairs where even the natives refuse to, or reluctantly, celebrate their great linguistic heritage?

The answer is this: the native tongues have so been construed by the western world, the Multi-National Corporations, and the rich (the collective ‘bourgeoisie’) as being unprofitable and impractical in the modern world.

“The oppressed and the exploited of the earth maintain their defiance: liberty from theft. But the biggest weapon wielded and actually daily unleashed by imperialism against that collective defiance is the cultural bomb. The effect of a cultural bomb is to annihilate a people’s belief in their names, in their languages, in their environment, in their heritage of struggle, in their unity, in their capacities and ultimately in themselves. It makes them see their past as one wasteland of non-achievement and it makes them want to distance themselves from that wasteland. It makes them want to identify with that which is furthest removed from themselves; for instance, with other peoples’ languages rather than their own. It makes them identify with that which is decadent and reactionary, all those forces which would stop their own springs of life. It even plants serious doubts about the moral rightness of struggle. Possibilities of triumph or victory are seen as remote, ridiculous dreams. The intended results are despair, despondency and a collective death-wish. Amidst this wasteland which it has created, imperialism presents itself as the cure and demands that the dependant sing hymns of praise with the constant refrain: ‘Theft is holy’. Indeed, this refrain sums up the new creed of the neo-colonial bourgeoisie in many ‘independent’ African states.”

The above extract sums up the primary message of ‘Decolonizing the Mind’. European languages have been used as weapons of mass deception on the African continent. The population of Africa has been pushed to the brink, a state where it is forced to think that the only solution to its troubles is dependence on the west. In this manner, recolonization occurs. This recolonization is not a military act, but rather a linguistic and economic choice on the part of those who have the power to make decisions. Quite regrettably, the decision towards dependence on the west is made short-sightedly.

An important observation that wa Thiong’o makes in ‘Decolonizing the Mind’ is that more and more African writers are using English as the language of their works. He quotes Chinua Achebe who believes that English is capable of conveying his native African experience. Wa Thiong’o criticizes such a mindset. The allegiance of native writers should be to their own language first, he argues. He decries the fact that the literary talents of native writers are used to add to the literary heritage of a European language. Quite perceptibly, when native linguistic affairs are expressed in language like English, the home culture becomes impoverished.

My assessment of ‘Decolonizing the Mind’ is that it makes valid and important assertions, thereby opening our eyes to linguistic injustice, and broadening our perspective. However, I believe that Ngũgĩ wa Thiong’o’s attempt to portray African culture in the light of Marxist thinking is probably misleading.

Work cited

v    wa Thiong’o, Ngũgĩ. Decolonising the Mind: The Politics of Language in African Literature.  London: James Currey, Nairobi: Heinemann Kenya, New Hampshire: Heinemann, 1986.

v    http://www.swaraj.org/ngugi.htm

  Example: My Dream. My Motive. My dream is to be a well known Performing Artist. Motive: Your hobby is not an career until you get paid for it. I wanna make money for something I love to do. In your one life don’t waste time being unhappy at a job. Don’t watch your life go down the drain. I love to sing and perform, that’s what is going to make me the best. MOTIVE…

  So a hobby is something you like to do, so what if you got paid for something you like to do? I call these kind of goals, dreams. Cause if I have the power to go up inside my head and image myself doing this, I just created a dream. Your hobby is something you do for free, until you actually start to get paid, and that makes it a job or career. So how much more would you do it if you were paid for it? Hmmmm???? Think about that one. ALL THE TIME!!!

   Now, psychologically, we put a weight on our minds with the word “Dream.” It sounds way more bigger then it actually is. Imagine me telling you: “I want you to help me lift my “757 Jumbo Jet,” 2″ inches off the ground. I know my jet is 60 lbs., but you don’t know it’s a model jet inside my apartment. See how the description of what I needed help with seemed bigger then we could lift, until I told you it was a model jet. This is the same way we look at the word “Dream.” Also keep in mind, that this is a sub-conscious decision to look at the word negatively. It’s not a conscious decision. The weight of the word “Dream” directly impacts our effort mentally and physically. And effort is the only way you can get results from anything. “Ohhh, he’s following his dream.” “Ohhh, he’s living his childhood dream.” Look at the definition of dream again. It’s not that hard to create a dream and live it. The point: Don’t over think the term, “Follow Your “Dreams!”

   What is your motive? You know my motive. I have to create a living for my family and myself. My hobby is singing, and I love to do it. Not only do I sing, but I’m above average. It’s my opinion, that life is too short to be stuck at a job, not having control over your schedule or your life. Plus, what’s the chances of you hating your job? I want to be happy, and travel the world.  We only have one life to live. So my motive is to create a living doing what I love. Singing….. Following my dream, accomplishing my dream, and have fun doing it is my goal or intention.

   So find out what your motive is, and really bring your motive to the light. “Huh, bring my motive to the light?” Yes, understand your purpose for wanting this dream. Your motive is what makes you stay up late when your tired. Your motive push you to make the necessary sacrifices.

Example: Your car represents your dream, and your motive represents your gasoline. Your Jet represents your dream, and your jet fuel represents your motive. Don’t allow yourself to forget why your following your dream. Cause if your car runs out of gas, or your jet is low on fuel, or if you forget why your following a dream can you imagine the circumstances or the consequences. Forgetting your motive or not having one is similar to the example of running out of the key elements in this example. (Fuel, Gas, Motive, Drive, Effort, Passion, Determination) Don’t ever run out or Don’t ever forget the cause. Stay around positive influences!

  Do not listen to people that don’t agree with what you believe in, it’s up to you to prove it to yourself. Everyone has their own theory or opinion. It’s okay to listen, but be careful because it can create doubts, sub-consciously. Just as the word “Dream” use to carry weight, peoples opinion could cause you to lack the confidence you need to push through the rough times. I’m going to be honest, it’s not going to be easy. Hey, life ain’t easy, why would accomplishing your goals or dreams be easy? Also visa versa, support from positive people, role models, and/or mentors is just as influencing. Get good people in your corner, get rid of people that means you no good. Your peace and success is at stake. Including family, sorry sometimes family members tend to have bad motives.

   Next, your life dreams, cannot be a dream, if you have not dreamed it yet. Tongue twister, right? Read it again if necessary. Remember the definition of dream? If you haven’t dreamed your dream yet, this is simple to fix. Creating dreams is fun & simple. 

Example: My dream is to be a famous singer. I watch movies such as, The Five Heartbeats, The Movie RAY, and many others. I go on YouTube and watch famous singers in concert. I also watch a lot of the interviews with performing artist to learn from them. I listen to there experiences, and there stories. I learn pitfalls to avoid, and this is why interviews exist. Remember when I mentioned peoples influences, and role models? You can create those positive influences, and role models through these interviews. You don’t have to have them as a mentor, and you don’t have to know them to get the power of influence working at your advantage. Just continue to learn and study everything that has involvement with your dream. I daydream some of those concerts I seen on youtube and image myself in their shoes, like a glimpse. I build my images of the lifestyle in my daydreams, through their videos, and put exactly how I want my reality to be when I accomplish my dream.  Before I go to sleep, I’m living that lifestyle in my head, so I cannot wait to go to sleep at night cause before I fall asleep, I’m imaging me before a show, things I’m going to do during my show. I can see what outfit I have on, everything. I live this in my head every chance I get, I call it brainwashing, or programming myself. It’s fun imaging my huge screaming crowd.

 ”You have to dream it, to believe it. You have to believe to achieve it. “

   Basically I’m painting my own image of what it’s going to be like. Sometimes when I fall asleep, my sub-conscious mind take the dream to new heights. I focus my mind on my dream and what I want in my dream. I sit and daydream it as much as I can, because I’m that person in my head. So when I am famous it won’t be nothing new to me, because I can tell that artist, “Hey, you know I lived this life through you?” So when I get on stage in front of thousands for the first time, it won’t be the first time. Many artist are not worried or afraid the first time and we know why now.

   Understand this, you don’t have to really dream the dream sub-consciously. If you do, and when you do, that’s good, but you don’t try to create that it’ll just happens. But you do want to create & live the dream in your dream for a while before it can come to reality. Remember, whatever you focus on expands.

   Last but not least, chasing dreams… Chasing dreams is, in some cases, a sacrifice. Cause you still have to create a living, but you have got to have a plan. What is a plan exactly? Scheme or method of action or arrangement, developed in advance… A plan is a step-by-step process to achieve a scheme, goal or intention. Step-by-step means you cannot go to step 5 without completing steps 1-4 in chronological order. If you start now, you will have about 300 steps, so a way to eliminate that is to know the different types of goals or plans. Short Term, Mid Term, and of course Long Term… This process will reduce the amount of steps you’ll have to take. After planning properly, you’ll physically know exactly how to achieve the attended goal and you’ll know how much time it will take. You also should know the advantages and the disadvantages, plus the pitfalls to avoid.

   “I’m so confident you will achieve your dream in life now. Why?”

Recap:

1.)You clearly know what a dream is, and how to create one.

2.)The word “Dream” alone no longer impacts you negatively. Also the word “Dream” no longer attach mental and physical failure to your effort to accomplish your dream.

3.)You understand the importance of “Motive” and how it directly effects your effort to get results.

4.)You know “The Power of Influence.” By friends, family, role models, mentors, etc….

5.)You know how to daydream and live the lifestyle or dream in your head first, to make it a reality, along with your efforts.

6.)Plus you know exactly how to plan your way to success, and the motto is: “You failing to plan is planning to fail.”

   And personally, I feel your 400 times more confident to succeed at accomplishing your dream, because you have understanding and control. So you will be successful if you want to be…. Remember have fun… Subscribe to my profile for more articles with similar information. Also support my singing career and add me on facebook.  Search:   Rodric Dennis King