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		<title>&#8220;Everyone Has a Story&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 00:37:40 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heres why I cry: I&#8217;m strong, I can&#8217;t give up, but I&#8217;m tired and cannot commit suicide! <br />[ (Suicide) Against My God ] <br />Can you imagine that? You&#8217;re strong so you never give up, but your tired and cannot die! <br />[ (Tug Of War with the mind.) ] </p>
<p>&#8220;This pain I feel, is from my head to my heels. I&#8217;m always doing right, cause I know kindness kills. I have one problem with all the feelings I feel. I would love to know when will it heal. Made lots of good choices, though some was bad, but I&#8217;m forgetting a good feeling, so now I&#8217;m hanging my head. I&#8217;ve always been strong but I&#8217;ve struggled to long. Lord when I raise my kids I&#8217;ll be ready to come home. I try to make friends and I try not to sin. But lord I seem to continue to give in. Can a have a break, if even just for a day. Oops! Lord I forgot you still letting me breathe!&#8221; -Rod </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been struggling for so long and I&#8217;ve just been wanting the simple things out of life! A family, kids, wife, running car, and a home! Not a house, a home! I have not yet to get them, but I&#8217;m constantly preaching and teaching to do the right thing! Yes! There is a reward for the hard times and doing the right thing but these rewards are in heaven! </p>
<p>For once I&#8217;d just like to be without the same issues. I&#8217;ve address them in several different manners but getting the same results. I don&#8217;t steal, kill, drink, smoke, club or talk bad about others! A trustworthy person, but for some reason I&#8217;m always getting the cheating girlfriend, the fake friend&#8217;s, the temporary jobs! It&#8217;s just I never really get a way out, and yes I&#8217;m complaining cause I don&#8217;t complain cause I understand it makes thing worst. Some of you have family that loves you and will give you an arm or a leg, and you take it for granted! </p>
<p>Some of you have the perfect woman and won&#8217;t treat them like a queen, forget a woman, like a queen! Some you can have any job you want, or can go to any college out there, and you just take these things for granted! But someone that really needs the opportunity is just in the mud! It is just so painful to go through these type of problems and still being a good person! Not walking around hating people, not stealing in desperate situations, allow people to talk bad about you and keep quiet! </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve dealt with a lot and all I want out of life is a family and to help as many people as I can in the world! I feel like I can cry for the people that can&#8217;t do it, I could cry for the world cause I feel others pain and I hate it! There is barely any love going around in the world anymore, and I know God is love. So we really need to start looking out for one another, it&#8217;s people around you barely making it! </p>
<p>And I know everyone has there own story but every chance you get show some love and wipe somebody&#8217;s tears away! Cause I could use one million dollars right now, just like you! But right now I need a should, or something to wipe my eyes! If you don&#8217;t care about others more then yourself your already dead! Go to the nursing homes, hospitals,&nbsp;jails, yes jails, homeless shelter, or just find someone needing love.</p>
<p>Love is a nuclear weapon for Christian people&#8230;. &nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Rape: The Crime Most Misunderstood</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Feb 2011 03:39:44 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How is the crime of rape the most misunderstood? As a survivor, the simplest answer I can give to the general lack of understanding of violation, the perception is stubborn, like believing in the false teachings as &#8220;being in the wrong place at the wrong time&#8221; or &#8220;looking for trouble. &#8220;</p>
<p>For centuries the study of criminal cases and hundreds and thousands of living witnesses, and a rape victim and the offender has shown that victims of crimes that surround this most &#8220;applies rape&#8221; as a person &#8220;wants to be killed or maimed. &#8220;</p>
<p>Because violence sexual abuse is often not correct? The obvious answer is cynicism, because the typical lack of eyewitnesses and incomprehensible to the dynamics involved in such an unusual deviant actions. Without the eyewitness accounts of an attack so violent, &#8220;he said, he said,&#8221; is the starting point for the majority of criminal cases in which rape.</p>
<p>Beyond is one of the claims mysterious witness for prosecution in court, the court of public opinion is even more difficult to obtain, as in cases of harassment and sexual violence, such as Michael Jackson and R. Kelly, I have not told hundreds of cases over the years in which the Catholic Church.</p>
<p>Every two and a half minutes, somewhere in America someone of rape. One of six American women and one in thirty-three men are victims of sexually. Only sixteen percent of sexual violence reported to authorities.</p>
<p>About 44% of rape victims are under 18, and 80% are under 30 years. Since 1993, rape and sexual assault has decreased by over 69% [Source: RAINN.org (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network)].</p>
<p>Contrary to the belief that rapists are hiding in the bushes or the shadows of a parking lot, nearly two thirds of all rapes are committed by someone known to the victim. 73% of sexual assaults are committed by a stranger and not 38% of perpetrators are friends or acquaintances of the victim, 28% are private and 7% are parents.</p>
<p>Sixty-seven percent of all victims of sexual assaults reported in 2005 were aged under 18. 34% of all reported rape victims were under 12. One of the seven victims of sexual assault are under age six. Forty per cent of offenders with child victims under 6 years, were younger than 18 years. [Source: U.S. Dept of Justice].</p>
<p>Sexual Assault Prosecution Act of 2002 eliminated the previous limits charges for sexual offenses, which represents the percentage reductions of annual cases of rape. Meanwhile, public attitudes towards rape, rape victims at trial, and widespread negative reactions to rape victims has expanded.</p>
<p>Perhaps one of the main causes of skepticism toward victims of rape when the number of false allegations of sexual abuse, which currently represent about six percent of all rapes standards worldwide.</p>
<p>Whatever the reason for the common prudence, allegations of rape often artificial. The key to changing a misconception in all circumstances, is open communication. Survival, chronicles and awarding of the offender is first-hand stories to reveal hidden truths and dispel public fear and confusion, which supports all victims of sexual crimes.</p>
<p>Public awareness is the realization of transforming the lack of sensitivity for the perseverance and a total disregard for acquiescence. Nothing less, live in a state of complete denial.</p>
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		<title>Charlie Sheen and Porn Star Capri Anderson Misunderstood</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Nov 2010 00:43:55 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Many of us love the sitcom 2 &frac12; Men starring Charlie Sheen as the funny and witty Charlie. But it looks like the comical actor has done it again . Ending up not in the publics eye for the comedy , but for the on going Sheen drama . Except this time getting caught with a  22 year old porn star, that says that she is seriously misunderstood, that she is not a prostitute .</p>
<p>In an interview she told a reporter this was her first encounter with Charlie Sheen, and that they went to dinner with a group of people . Afterward they went to Sheen&#8217;s hotel room . But she also said that she was afraid of him.</p>
<p>Now common sense would tell you that if you are afraid of someone that you would not even go in to the room with them. As far as Capri Anderson and the &ldquo;I&#8217;m not a prostitute&rdquo; comment , sorry but in the dictionary under prostitute it states: Offers ones self in a sexual way or offers talents for unworthy purposes . Therefore technically making her a prostitute no matter how you look at it . Whether she gets money or not she is a prostitute.</p>
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		<title>Your Attitude Says It All</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2008 10:18:07 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some of us walk through life with our heads held high. Some of us sail through, breezily and others pass away tip-toeing quietly. Some slip away from the pages of memories and others are etched in there forever. What makes one person successful and the other a failure? What gets one person everywhere she wants to be but lets the other down?</p>
<p>The Key to this mystery is within you. It&#8217;s your attitude.</p>
<p>The right attitude can turn your tough, rocky life into an exciting adventure but a wrong one can make your perfect life seem boring. Turning difficulties into solutions, going out there and achieving your goals and proving to people just how worthy you are all requires a little work. You just have to work on your attitude Teenagers, as I&#8217;ve seen and experienced sometimes feel its imperative upon them to have a negative attitude towards anything and everything. It has become a strange kind of trend.</p>
<p>&ldquo;Studies suck&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;Life is boring and unfair&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;My parents are so horribly old-fashioned&rdquo;</p>
<p>&ldquo;I&#8217;m no good&rdquo;</p>
<p>And this goes on and on without fail and at some point on time it all becomes a part of them. Instead of occasionally feeling wronged they constantly feel everything&#8217;s Black. They get depressed for no apparent reasons and allow themselves to wallow in self-pity.</p>
<p>How will you progress in life if all you think about is ending it?</p>
<p>How will you get what you want if you always feel misunderstood?</p>
<p>This kind of attitude not only spoils the vibrant colors of youth but also kills all sorts of incentives to work towards success.</p>
<p>We all know certain people who certainly do not feel that life has been unfair to them. They are seemingly very content with what they have. What goes wrong is these teenagers suddenly start feeling superior when they see that they don&#8217;t seem to have problems at home, or problems in their love-life like the other girls.</p>
<p>They start suffering from a major superiority complex. In their dictionary, everything is defined in their terms.</p>
<p>What they say, should go. What they wear is supposed to be fashion. What they do, is what&#8217;s stylish. It&#8217;s all about them. These kind of teens do not realize the harm they are causing; the damage to themselves and to others. They don&#8217;t realize how much they&#8217;ve hurt the next person by passing nasty comments about her clothes or her weight. This attitude never gets you anywhere.</p>
<p>If you really think mean-ness makes people look up to you, then you seriously need to sit up and open your eyes. Look at the monster you&#8217;ve made out of yourselves only because you feel you&#8217;re more important. The people who pretend to be your friends do not really think you&#8217;re nice but are scared you&#8217;ll lash out at them, next. Is that how you want to be recognized? Do you really want this kind of attitude to rule your life?</p>
<p>No one wants to be the bad person.</p>
<p>No one wants to be the mean person.</p>
<p>So you should take control of your lives and see if you&#8217;re going in the right directions and towards the right goals and one day you will surely be looked up to by a whole lot of people and in a nice way.</p>
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		<title>Asexuals</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 May 2007 04:37:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Asexuals]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[desire]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gay]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[misunderstood]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[sex drive]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Asexuals are not a rock band, instead they are one out of every 100 people 
who don't desire sex with men nor women. A lot of these people are often misunderstood. Are they gay and in denial, normal, or are they just plain weird?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> Asexuality is a general term or self-designation for people who do not<br />
 exhibit sexual attraction, or who otherwise find sexual behavior unappealing.<br />
 There is debate as to whether this is a sexual dysfunction or a sexual orientation.<br />
 Unlike celibacy, which is a choice, asexuality is a sexual orientation. Asexual<br />
 people have the same emotional needs as everybody else and are just as capable of<br />
 forming intimate relationships. </p>
<p> What causes these people to have no desire for sex? Is this the same issue as those<br />
 who suffer from sex addictions or is it more of a hormonal imbalance. Do all of the<br />
 Asexuals have the same painful childhood or sexual traumatic experience? What makes<br />
 some of us sex crazy and others the opposite. Is this truly a new sex orientation<br />
 or myth run a mock.&#8221;I have never felt sexually attracted to anyone at all.&#8221;<br />
 Activists have already started campaigning to promote awareness and acceptance of<br />
 asexuality.</p>
<p> Asexual people have the same emotional needs as anyone else, and like in the sexual<br />
 community we vary widely in how we fulfill those needs. Some asexual people are happier<br />
 on their own, others are happiest with a group of close friends. Other asexual people<br />
 have a desire to form more intimate romantic relationships, and will date and seek<br />
 long-term partnerships. Asexual people are just as likely to date sexual people as we<br />
 are to date each other.</p>
<p>Sexual or nonsexual, all relationships are made up of the same<br />
 basic stuff. Communication, closeness, fun, humor, excitement and trust all happen just<br />
 as much in sexual relationships as in nonsexual ones. Figuring out how to flirt, to be<br />
 intimate, or to be monogamous in a nonsexual relationships can be challenging, but free<br />
 of sexual expectations they can form relationships in ways that are grounded in our<br />
 individual needs and desires. Many asexual people experience attraction, but they feel<br />
 no need to act out that attraction sexually. Instead they feel a desire to get to know<br />
 someone, to get close to them in whatever way works best for us. Asexual people who<br />
 experience attraction will often be attracted to a particular gender, and will identify<br />
 as gay, bi, or straight.</p>
<p> For some sexual arousal is a fairly regular occurrence, though it is not associated with a<br />
 desire to find a sexual partner or partners. Some will occasionally masturbate, but feel no<br />
 desire for partnered sexuality. Other asexual people experience little or no arousal.</p>
<p>Because<br />
 we don&#8217;t care about sex, asexual people generally do not see a lack of sexual arousal as a<br />
 problem to be corrected, and focus their energy on enjoying other types of arousal and<br />
 pleasure. There is no litmus test to determine if someone is asexual. Asexuality is like<br />
 any other identity- at its core, it&#8217;s just a word that people use to help figure themselves<br />
 out.</p>
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