A female seduction is something the men folk detest discussing among themselves and get to learn about it through experience. There are several individuals who might not have been fortunate enough to know about how a woman can be seduced. Female seduction has nothing to do with picking up cheesy lines and repeating them every time, just to get her attention. It is about triggering the sexual feelings within a woman at the right time and making her feel that you are the man that she has to crave for. For individuals who are still in a confused state, given below are 10 tips as to how you can seduce your woman. Try it!

The first and the foremost thing, is to look presentable. There might be guys who would be looking bummy and then wonder why they failed in their attempt to seduce their woman. Wearing decent clothes and smelling good wins half of the battle for the guys. Secondly, you need to be confident enough to impress your woman. Seduction is more of a mind game than a physical thing. If you look nervous and agitated, your woman will be able telling you the same by looking at your body language. Look confident if you really want her to get the right signal.

To entice and allure women, a man has to look and sound charming. Nobody can become a Mr. Charmer overnight and expect to impress his woman. It gradually comes with time and there are several guys who are already inclined to this and are good at it as well. Being too nice will do a lot more in a woman and she will see you as a brother and not as a lover. Be the kind of guy she wants so that you have a decent probability of getting her into your bed. Seductions don’t imply to the fact that you make her do things the way you want but being the person she cannot resist.

The most important part, you need to know how to get physical with a woman. Doing it in the correct way will not result in the loss of time and energy. If you try too hard to do it, you might end up turning her off. Take her to a place that she has never visited. Make sure that the place is calm and quite. The serenity of the place also plays an important role in evoking positive response.

Do not concentrate only on the physical aspect of seduction. Try to know what a woman wants, so that she feels welcomed and gets enticed to you all the more. All this love, care and support will ultimately draw your lady close to you. Most of the women do not get to the climax part while having sex. For this, you need to let go of your ego for some time. If you fail to deliver her expectations, you may not find yourself with her on the bed the next time.

At times, you also need to make her feel jealous, so that she turns green. Make her feel that you are also the fantasy of several other girls, but you only feel for her.  Making her feel special will always work in your favor. Last but not the least, try being a ‘Thinking woman’s sex symbol.’ Make sure that you are smart enough to talk to her in an intelligent yet tactful manner. The common sense or the intelligence of a guy also appeals to a woman. So remember this, the next time you try seducing her. 

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Walter Thomas Beck III appeared at the Chicago Tribune Printer’s Row Lit Fest this past June. He has also performed at Chicago’s New Town Writer’s Showcase, a salon for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered writers. Beck’s next performance is at the Verve Nightclub at 677 Wabash Avenue in Terre Haute, Indiana on November 20, 2011 at 10:00 PM, where he will be accompanied by blues musician Eli Van Sickel.

More than a dozen publications have featured Beck’s gritty word portraits during his six-year writing career. His poems “Slaughter of the Innocents” and “Sanctuary” appeared in Burner Magazine in September 2010. The poems skewer college kids “grown plump on Disney diets” with “their guts singing the Broken Bottle Blues.”

Beck’s poem Last Tent City Blues appears in the December 2010 issue of Yes, Poetry. It’s sing-song cadence provides a cotton-candy accompaniment to his description of the struggles of summer camp staff, whose “life is chocolate cake.”

“If Only They Knew” appears in the June 2011 issue of Swellzine. Describing the everyday life of queer youth, this queer youth activist asks “How many of us are fighting just by existing?”

Beck’s career in activism began at age 16. Beck explains: “I was sixteen, very young, very angry and damn it, someone was gonna listen to me, so I got hooked into the anti-war movement. I believed in the ideas of ‘We the People,’ that we as Americans had a right to voice our opinions and be heard. I still believe in those ideas.”

Beck adds: “We had our little picket, got a few stares, a few angry shouts and then we went home. But I felt alive, felt like I was doing something instead of just griping about it. I was making a physical move, you dig?”

A rash of suicides among GLBTQ youth prompted the queer youth activist and others to form the group Equality Speaks. The group fought against discrimination and bullying. Beck has now switched his focus to Wabash Valley Pride and Terre Haute PFLAG.

Beck explains: “The highlight of our existence was the visibility we achieved so quickly. Our only public event was Equality Speaks: Unplugged, a gig we put on at Indiana State University. Hell, the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and queer community here in Terre Haute is so splintered and small to begin with that it’s hard for any group to get anything done.”

Beck and his fellow activists recorded Equality Speaks: Unplugged. His performance of Mental Cage Menstruation is a free download. His second poetry album Mystic Fire Be My Muse, is also free. Beck and his fellow poets recorded Mystic Fire Be My Muse at the Coffee Grounds in Terre Haute.

Head to the Coffee Grounds at 423 Wabash Avenue in Terre Haute, Indiana on December 15, 2011 for the first-ever public performance of excerpts from Beck’s upcoming novel, “Fear and Doughnuts” about his experiences as canteen staff member and poet laureate of Camp Krietenstein in Center Point, Indiana. The book skewers management and takes the reader on a year-long, head-banging Spring Break complete with MIT-level pranks. Its madcap humor is worthy of Douglas Adams and its verbal portraiture and rhythmic word choices entitle Beck to a seat with Jack Kerouac and the Beat Boys.

Nobody have seen the tears I’ve shed

No one knows of my pain from what he’s said

Only me alone with my self

Feeling the deep sadness I cannot help

I go and see the happy lights

Liberating freely as if I have all the rights

Doing and having fun alone

I prefer more than mourn at home

Fingding the good in life

Searching for cure in every strife

Looking for peace of mind

Something that I can’t seem to find

I only live for today

Having the shadows of yesterday

Life is too short to live

I must move on and survive that’s what I believe

There are also the days where a swift kick to the head is required for me to even open my eyes. For some folks it’s a result of their desire to exist on the fringe of society. The people who don’t fall asleep until you are out for your morning run. Or it could be attributed to a night of heavy drinking, all too common in the college scene and at times, even hard to avoid. There are more simple coping methods (notice I didn’t say “cures”) to the biting feeling of a hangover than raw eggs or other wives tales and it starts with that morning cup.

Then comes the better half of the marriage, the cancer stick that can jump start your brain. Combined with coffee it is no more than a legal high, a euphoric highlight to an otherwise terrible part of the day. It is a cocktail of carcinogens and caffeine, nicotine and nerves-booster that could resuscitate a frozen woolly mammoth corpse. Certainly not for the faint-of-heart, but they stopped reading at the start of this paragraph. I know justifying smoking a cigarette is commonly considered as acceptable as huffing paint before making a speech in church; but I am not preaching this practice. Hopefully people can be adult enough to realize that everyone knows the dangers of smoking, its been drilled into our heads since before we could operate a lighter. There are, however, some people who choose to continue to exercise this ritual for a great number of reasons.

Not everyone has to be a health nut all the time, and naturally there should be a balance. Sometimes indulging in this “deadly” combination can bring sanity to a mind on the edge of cracking up. Many people feel this way on any given day before the clock turns to P.M., myself included. So to the night owls and the “clubbers” and “grave shifters” who make up the night life that keeps your city breathing while you sleep: forget the snooze button and raise your mugs high, flip a lucky and pull out a cig. Be proud of the throbbing feeling that means you are dancing around the edge of what is considered acceptable. Remember that once you stub out the ember and leave a few grinds in the bottom of the cup, you will be ready to join the masses of civilized society without them being any the wiser that you had to take a cab home just hours before you had to start all over again.