Therefor, only one who is careless of his or her life… or a fool… approaches, let alone openly seeks out, welcomes, and embraces the unknown wholeheartedly and without caution.

This is not the same as those rare, extreme, but nonetheless real moments in our living and exploration of life when we may be faced with having to choose between the certainty of destruction or death on the one side, and the unknown, which may hold out at least the possibility of success and life on the other…

… those (hopefully few) times in one’s life when hope must, and rationally does, rule against caution in choosing the unknown, our doing so then coming from our thrust FOR life, being at those moments the only – and coldly logical – choice to be made to HAVE a chance to live by experiencing the glory of a miracle in random chance… or the Universe’s (or God’s, if you prefer) blessing… instead of the sureness of non-existence.

But in our everyday lives, what is much more often the case is that we hold on to many things that make us unhappy because, for bad or worse, they are familiar and have become “home” to us… the place inside and outside us to which we have become accustomed or inured (which is often a palpable dullness), but are at least certain that they exist… fearing that to venture outside of and beyond what we know simply for the sake of what only MAY be is to risk that the unhappiness, and the awareness that we feel that we somehow don’t “fit” well in our life as we’ve come to know it, may get even worse, that we might not even be able to return to living even with the degree of unhappiness we’ve become used to and know that we can at least live with (despite our discontent)…

… and prove to us NOT that our hopes for the existence of “better” may be real, but that our fears that we cannot… and will NEVER… experience the happiness and joy that our souls innately know and so BELIEVE life is capable of containing for us are (real)…

… causing the loss of all hope… which we fear would be the death of our soul.

In that way, accepting unhappiness in our lives and becoming content with it is to live by a compromise with our desire for happiness, a kind of wager with our souls, clinging to the hope that we may yet find or achieve happiness, but doing so ONLY by never risking loss of it by ever actually seeking it out and possibly not finding it, or, having found it, finding that it doesn’t last as long as our unhappiness does.

And therein lie the half-lived and continually unhappy lives of countless many…

.. existing in the purgatory of the misery of life, while believing that they may be avoiding something worse, Hell… which is to live with the soul’s having died…

… by never taking the chance – in any way other than in our dreams – to be more fully alive, to look for and possibly find and live our dreams, and to soar.

It is no wonder, then, that depression makes us want to sleep…

… depression being so often the sadness and frustration of feeling only partly alive and hopelessly “lost” without enough of a functioning sense of ourselves and who, and what we are (which is the inner flame of our souls) to even know where to LOOK for happiness and fulfillment… let alone find it.

To change your life, begin by changing your thoughts.

It is useless to try to change your outer world unless you first change your inner world.  If you attempt to make external changes before doing the necessary inner transformation, the outer world will just keep repeating the same pattern.  The movieGroundhog Day illustrates a very entertaining lesson in how we keep re-creating the same situation over and over again until we change our mind.  The moment our attitude shifts, so does the situation.

If you want or love something a great deal, you will attract it into your life.  And if you fear or worry about something with emotional intensity, you will attract the object of your fear.  The universal manifestation machine is unbiased in turning your thoughts into reality.

If you are not aware that your thoughts are powerful, you will spend a great deal of time thinking and talking about what you do not want, and you will receive more of the same, and on and on, until your life is a mess and you have no idea why.  You will identity yourself as victim, find people who agree with you; and discover news stories, scientific studies, and all manner of evidence to prove that life is unfair and you are just a pimple on the complexion of the universe.

There is another way.  You weren’t born to live small, and you don’t have to.  You can shift your attitude now and begin to think about what you do want instead of what you don’t want.  Then, the universe will have no choice but to give you what you are concentrating on in your favor, instead of against it.

Worry is the power of creation turned against your own best interests.  The same engine that runs your car in reverse will move it forward if you but reposition the gearshift.  To shift from reverse to drive, reframe your experiences to find the blessing rather than the problem.  Then you will become the master of your universe, rather than its victim.

What you become is not a result of what happens to you; it is a result of how you think about what happens to you. 

Here is your antidote to worry:  Choose a phrase that brings you release, relief, and empowerment, such as “Peace, be still,” or “Love is the answer.”  Whenever worry begins to set in, consciously and meditatively repeat your positive phrase until you return to peace.  The mind is capable of paying attention to only one thought at a time.  If you focus on ideas that uplift you, your mind will be unable to dwell on fearful issues.  Eventually you will develop the habit of positive thinking, and the worry that once haunted you will have no reality. 

If you’ve placed second in a writing contest, will you jump for joy and push for better results the next time or will you be discouraged and find an excuse not to join again? 

In life, you are always filled with choices. You may opt to have a pessimist’s view and live a self-defeated life or you may decide to take the optimist’s route and take a challenging and fulfilling life.

So why nurture an optimist’s point of view? And why now?

Well, optimism has been linked to positive mood and good morale; to academic, athletic, military, occupational and political success; to popularity; to good health and even to long life and freedom from trauma.

On the other hand, the rates of depression and pessimism have never been higher. It affects middle-aged adults the same way it hits younger people. The mean age of onset has gone from 30 to 15. It is no longer a middle-aged housewife’s disorder but also a teen-ager’s disorder’ as well.

Here’s how optimists are in action and researches that back up why it really pays to be an optimist:

Optimists expect the best

The defining characteristic of pessimists is that they tend to believe bad events, which will last a long time and undermine everything they do, are their own fault. 

The truth is optimists are confronted with the same hard knocks of this world. What differs is the way they explain their misfortune—it’s the opposite way. They tend to believe defeat is just a temporary setback, that its causes are confined to this one case. 

Optimists tend to focus on and plan for the ‘problem’ at hand. They use ‘positive reinterpretation.’ In other words, they most likely reinterpret a negative experience in a way that helps them learn and grow. Such people are unfazed by bad situation, they perceive it is a challenge and try harder.

They won’t say “things will never get better,” “If I failed once, it will happen again” and “If I experience misfortune in one part of my life, then it will happen in my whole life.”

Positive expectancies of optimists also predict better reactions during transitions to new environments, sudden tragedies and unlikely turn of events. If they fall, they will stand up. They see opportunities instead of obstacles. 

People respond positively to optimists

Optimists are proactive and less dependent on others for their happiness. They find no need to control or manipulate people. They usually draw people towards them. Their optimistic view of the world can be contagious and influence those they are with. 

Optimism seems a socially desirable trait in all communities. Those who share optimism are generally accepted while those who spread gloom, panic and hysteria are treated unfavorably. 

In life, these people often win elections; get voted most congenial and sought for advice. 

When the going gets tough, optimists get tougher 

Optimists typically maintain higher levels of subjective well-being during times of stress than do people who are less optimistic. In contrast, pessimists are likely to react to stressful events by denying that they exist or by avoiding dealing with problems. Pessimists are more likely to quit trying when difficulties arise.

They persevere. They just don’t give up easily, they are also known for their patience. Inching their way a step closer to that goal or elusive dream.

Optimists are healthier and live longer

Medical research has justified that simple pleasures and a positive outlook can cause a measurable increase in the body’s ability to fight disease.

Optimists’ health is unusually good. They age well, much freer than most people from the usual physical ills of middle age. And they get to outlive those prone to negative thoughts. 

So why not be an optimist today? And think positively towards a more fulfilled life.

Why not look forward to success in all your endeavors? Why not be resilient? Like everybody else you are bound to hit lows sometimes but don’t just stay there. Carry yourself out of the mud and improve your chances of getting back on the right track. And why not inspire others to remove their dark-colored glasses and see life in the bright side? 

In life, you are always filled with choices. You may opt to have a pessimist’s view and live a self-defeated life or you may decide to take the optimist’s route and take a challenging and fulfilling life.

So why nurture an optimist’s point of view? And why now?

Well, optimism has been linked to positive mood and good morale; to academic, athletic, military, occupational and political success; to popularity; to good health and even to long life and freedom from trauma.

On the other hand, the rates of depression and pessimism have never been higher. It affects middle-aged adults the same way it hits younger people. The mean age of onset has gone from 30 to 15. It is no longer a middle-aged housewife’s disorder but also a teen-ager’s disorder’ as well.

Here’s how optimists are in action and researches that back up why it really pays to be an optimist:

Optimists expect the best

The defining characteristic of pessimists is that they tend to believe bad events, which will last a long time and undermine everything they do, are their own fault. 

The truth is optimists are confronted with the same hard knocks of this world. What differs is the way they explain their misfortune—it’s the opposite way. They tend to believe defeat is just a temporary setback, that its causes are confined to this one case. 

Optimists tend to focus on and plan for the ‘problem’ at hand. They use ‘positive reinterpretation.’ In other words, they most likely reinterpret a negative experience in a way that helps them learn and grow. Such people are unfazed by bad situation, they perceive it is a challenge and try harder.

They won’t say “things will never get better,” “If I failed once, it will happen again” and “If I experience misfortune in one part of my life, then it will happen in my whole life.”

Positive expectancies of optimists also predict better reactions during transitions to new environments, sudden tragedies and unlikely turn of events. If they fall, they will stand up. They see opportunities instead of obstacles. 

People respond positively to optimists

Optimists are proactive and less dependent on others for their happiness. They find no need to control or manipulate people. They usually draw people towards them. Their optimistic view of the world can be contagious and influence those they are with. 

Optimism seems a socially desirable trait in all communities. Those who share optimism are generally accepted while those who spread gloom, panic and hysteria are treated unfavorably. 

In life, these people often win elections; get voted most congenial and sought for advice. 

When the going gets tough, optimists get tougher 

Optimists typically maintain higher levels of subjective well-being during times of stress than do people who are less optimistic. In contrast, pessimists are likely to react to stressful events by denying that they exist or by avoiding dealing with problems. Pessimists are more likely to quit trying when difficulties arise.

They persevere. They just don’t give up easily, they are also known for their patience. Inching their way a step closer to that goal or elusive dream.

Optimists are healthier and live longer

Medical research has justified that simple pleasures and a positive outlook can cause a measurable increase in the body’s ability to fight disease.

Optimists’ health is unusually good. They age well, much freer than most people from the usual physical ills of middle age. And they get to outlive those prone to negative thoughts. 

So why not be an optimist today? And think positively towards a more fulfilled life.

Why not look forward to success in all your endeavors? Why not be resilient? Like everybody else you are bound to hit lows sometimes but don’t just stay there. Carry yourself out of the mud and improve your chances of getting back on the right track. And why not inspire others to remove their dark-colored glasses and see life in the bright side? 

I’m sure you have a bright idea hidden somewhere in the back of your mind that you just can’t wait to test out. Of course you’re not the only one with the bright idea. So what motivates you to churn those creative, or even inspiring juices to its utmost flavor?

It’s always best to set up a personal goal where you can accomplish the most in record time, maybe like mowing the lawn in an hour before the big game on TV. A correct and positive attitude in whatever you do will make things easier, and even enjoyable.

Here are some tips to make it through the week even if you’re just sitting in your favorite couch. An idea takes time to form in your head and is always at work while you are busy sitting.

Having a bit of positive thinking can help you realize things that are never thought possible. Thinking big is indeed the American Way and that what made our country prosperous.

1. Take passionate action towards living your life by design. Talk is cheap. Action = deposits in the bank of a passionately authentic future. Without it, passion is void.

This is a perfect example where dreams are made of where you start by tinkering with your mind, then with your hands. And if the idea weakens, you can always go back to it later until you finish it.

2. Commit to yourself as well as those you love to create powerfully a life you can love. Instead of reacting, commit to creating from your heart and soul, out of love rather than fear. The American Dream will always be there, but a dream will still be a dream without motion. Be amazed as the transformation begins.

3. Recognize and embrace the thought that each moment is perfect regardless of its outcome. Every time you hit on something that may appear too extreme, why not give it a shot and see if it will work. You will be surprised to see of there are other ways to get the task done in time. If you are not pleased with the outcome, decide to use that moment to learn from and make the appropriate shift. 

4. Dwell completely in a place of gratitude. Learn to utilize what you have in your hands and make use of it in the most constructive way. Slipping into neediness will become less of a habit when you repeatedly shift towards gratitude, away from poverty consciousness.

5. Use a Passion Formula of Recognize/Reevaluate/Restore in place of the Shoulda/Woulda/Coulda whirlwind. The former is based in increased knowledge and abundance while the latter focuses on scarcity and lack. As you face people or tasks that may seem harder than scaling the summit of the Himalayas, allow yourself to realize that the task is just as important as giving out orders to your subordinates. You would rather be richly passionate!

6. Keep humor at the forefront of thought, laughing at and with yourself when possible. You may find yourself quite entertaining when you loosen up! I am yet to see a comedian ever go hungry even though his jokes are as ‘old as great-grandma’. Life has so much to offer to allow you to mope around in self pity. Humor is very attractive, very passionate: life-giving. 

7. Believe that you are the architect of your destiny. No one can take your passionate future from you except for you! Create your life authentically. As long as there’s still breath in your body, there is no end to how much you can accomplish in a lifetime. The concept of thinking big is all about enjoying your work, which would lead to celebrate a discovery that is born within your hands. Watch everything flow into place with perfect, passionate precision. 

It’s interesting how people get wallowed up by something trivial as learning to use a computer, when nowadays that top computer companies are manufacturing software that even the kids can do it. I don’t mean to be condescending, but that’s the idea of not having any positive thinking in your life-you’ll just end up as a dim bulb in a dark corner. So instead of subjecting yourself to what you will be doomed for, make your path by taking the first step with a positive attitude.

              Our negative thoughts attract negativity in our life. And this id the biggest problem of our life. As we focus on negative, it comes i  our life. The law of attraction brings negativity to us, and cause of this is our thinking. In most of the time it is very difficult for one to stay away from negative thoughts, and this brings us the fear of losing in our mind, and law of attraction brings the same.

                “Whenever we do something we create it in our mind. So if we take it positively and leave negative side away, we can bring positive situations, people etc in ourlife.”

                 To stay away from negative thoughts we may always think about our success stories where we won/completed the work/task, as it increases our confidence and will help in thinking positively. Also if negative thoughts are striking our mind we must change our focus, so that we could remain away from it.

            “Remember law of attraction brings us, what we think about either negative of positive”

Making our minds filled with utter faith is also difficult. But if we can do that, then we can feel the positive impact that will come.

Eliminate negative thoughts

Not infrequently, someone have negative thinking and have a feeling of self underestimate. This is what often makes people end up being someone who is not confident in his abilities and strengths. Positive thinking oneself can be achieved if, someone had been able to accept the flaws and strengths that exist within him. Throw away the bad mood, bad feeling of control over it.

The people who believe themselves better able to control themselves by always think objectively and realistically. Objective of seeing things as directed and realistic.

Build self-confidence

Build confidence for what he dreamed to be started from a person’s self confidence. And do not ever make yourself suffer in the presence of God. When we feel left out or feel all that power and that our efforts do result zero, someoene often blame themselves. Even at certain points, you no longer blame themselves, but blame God. This is what should be avoided.

Make it a failure as a teacher for success

Sometimes, the source of failure is not entirely derived from his own actions. There are still many factors that may be less support for the achievement of your dreams, which may be a failure. So, do not immediately feel inadequate or feel can not do, when a failure. Do not forget, the failure is the best teacher in your success, achieve your dreams.

A maximum effort

Earnest effort, accompanied by the spirit and hard work, will deliver maximum results for everything that you dreamed of. So believe in yourselves, make yourselves, that you can get your dreams, and do not hesitate, and do not easily discouraged.

Once again I remind you, when you can have postitive thinking, right mindsetting, then the molecules in the molecular nature will provide support to you, as I told you about in the article Changing the settings thinking to achieve the dream (Part 1). So, change your way of thinking, change your mindset, to achieve your dreams. Don’t be afraid, and don’t give up, try harder to achieve your dreams.

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Because, basically, when born into the world too, people in a positive state. But along the way, positive thoughts often collided with the negative side of mutual attraction. As a result, not a few people who are more dominant negative attitudes as influenced by the characters themselves, personality, and habits. Making a positive mind as part of everyday life certainly does not hurt. With positive thinking, then you get used to doing positive things that have a positive impact in your life anyway. 

Unfortunately, reality is not always possible because the human mind is influenced their subconscious. ”subconscious always control one’s behavior, so sometimes what was done was not what she thought,” said Rani Noesman We MPsi of the Foundation and the Heart Fruit at Home Batik Danar Hadi, Melawai, Jakarta. Rani admitted unwittingly sabotaging subconscious mind often. 

For example, when you call your partner because it has not come home on the hour as usual, then the negative thoughts began to haunt. Lest he or she was here. ”Success factors of positive thoughts was 85 percent dependent on attitude, while 15 percent are influenced by knowledge. So to change yourself, then you need to do is change your behavior or attitude,” he said giving tips .

One factor that greatly affects our health is the pattern of our daily lives. And is influenced by our perspective on life. How much we appreciate in our lives. What do you think that’s what you get.

The following 8 simple ways is quite effective and require absolutely no financial sacrifice. This is what you get totally free, so please save it and immediately run from today:

8 ways is divided into two main points :

1. Physical Activity:

Early To Bed And Wake Up Earlier

If you are already on the move all day, of course, this has been very draining your energy, but very often we do not want to feel it. Just because an activity may not be so important that you often sacrifice your body and sleep very late at night. By staying up late to make your rest periods are not long, and you still have to work the next day. You will wake up later in the day with an uneasy feeling of having to rush to catch the subway to go to work. You’ve lost the freshness of the air is very beneficial for your body. Change pattern like that. To bed early to get adequate rest periods and wake up early to enjoy the freshness of the air is beneficial for your body. Breathe the fresh air as much as possible in the morning …. Because it is very good for your lungs. And it’s free, nature provides for us.

You Must be Active To Maintain Cleanliness

It is generally accepted, something that you think should be made visible is not clean to be clean including our bodies.

Do Not Eat Too Much

Consuming foods that we love may make us forget ourselves and eat to excess either of quantity or frequency. Try to eat in moderation, eat when you feel hungry and stop eating before you feel stuffed. This is good for our bodies.

Walk As Often As Possible

Today is full of ease, including the various types of vehicles that are available to take us anywhere. Efficient and effective. But do not ever leave the walking activity, even if you do it once a week and just around your neighborhood, it is enough to help to nourish our bodies.

2. Non-Physical Activity:

Do Not Become a Grumpy

If you people are easily angered, then you’re pretty vulnerable to some diseases. Believe it! You also will face a serious problem because if you are often angry at the moment so angry that we often make the wrong decision! With you often angry this spur heart works out of character, and this is not good, not to mention you’ll definitely feel more depressed, if it is stressed this is the beginning of various diseases would enter. So …. Do not be grumpy! Here are a few tricks to quell the anger that was welling up: If you’re angry and in a standing position, then sit down, this will significantly reduce your emotions, if it still feels anger try to lie down for a moment, and try to wash your face with water or more better you go for a shower, this will relieve your anger.

Build Your Optimism and Do Not Easy To Despair

Optimistic attitude will be a positive influence in the form of strength in our soul, with a never say die will provide fresh in our minds to continue to move with the spirit and confidence.

Never Envy

If you have strong feelings of envy towards anyone then be prepared to suffer! Because feelings of jealousy will affect your mind to do the things you usually do not do. When it comes to any form of exaggeration, is not very good. Avoid excessive feelings of envy.

Be Forgiving

Forgiving is a commendable trait that will bring peace in our heart and soul, with the forgiving nature will make people become more spacious and therefore contributes to our body and become healthier.

Yups … that’s all guys, apply the points mentioned above in your everyday life in order. Starting now! believe me .. and you will feel the change very significantly over the health of your body.

Surely happiness is not because we get something … but happiness is because we provide benefits for others.

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