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		<title>How to Have Information About Other People</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 01:21:11 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Those who are immature have many dreams about their past. Those who are in love have frequent dreams about the person they love. Those who are facing a difficult challenge have many vivid dreams about various dangers. All dreamers have a series of dreams about the most important issues in their lives, the same way they have a series of dreams about their psychological reality.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The unconscious mind that produces our dreams works like a natural doctor. You can understand everything you need to know about someone only by translating the meaning of their dreams according to the scientific method. You can also understand your own psychological reality when you translate your dreams.</p>
<p>I greatly simplified Carl Jung&rsquo;s method of dream interpretation, proving that he was a true genius. You should take advantage of this new alternative.</p>
<p>The unconscious mind helps you in all ways, giving you information about your psychological condition, and about the psychological condition of those who are around you. You also have trustful information about the world, which you could never have otherwise. Only the unconscious mind shows you all hidden truths, without distortions.&nbsp; &nbsp;</p>
<p>People who have constant nightmares are mentally ill. Those who have recurring dreams have an important obligation that they keep postponing. They will face the tragic consequences of their negligence in the future if they don&rsquo;t take action.</p>
<p>Those who have dreams about their mother are influenced by their anti-conscience all the time. This means that they cannot control their behavior. The anti-conscience is the wild side of the human conscience, which generates mental illnesses within our human conscience. It appears in dreams as the dreamer&rsquo;s mother because the anti-conscience is our primitive conscience, which is the result of the disorganized formation of the first live conscience.</p>
<p>Many times you will have information about the influence of the dreamer&rsquo;s anti-conscience into their conscience by analyzing the characteristics of certain part of their personality that belongs to their wild side. All parts of the dreamers&rsquo; personality are represented by other people in their dreams.</p>
<p>There are numerous dream symbols that will give you a trustful image of the mental condition of those who will tell you their dreams. This alternative will be immensely helpful, especially if you are a psychologist. The unconscious mind does all the work for you, showing you exactly why someone has a certain psychological problem and how they can be cured.</p>
<p>You will also have objective information about your patients&rsquo; mental condition in your own dreams. This is information that you can trust because the unconscious mind has a divine origin. The unconscious wisdom proves God&#8217;s existence.</p>
<p>Even if you are not a psychologist, you can learn how to become a psychiatrist and psychologist by obeying the unconscious guidance. You can cure the people you love by translating their dreams for them. Everything only depends on your seriousness and on your obedience to the unconscious guidance.</p>
<p>Perhaps you don&rsquo;t want to become a doctor and help others solve their psychological problems, but you surely need to know who they really are for many reasons. Before getting married, before accepting a business preposition, of before taking an important step in life, you must carefully analyze the personality of the person you are trusting.</p>
<p>Dream translation will show you if you can really trust someone, or if you must be careful because they are not really balanced as they seem to be. You will also be relieved in case you are afraid of someone who deserves your confidence.</p>
<p>Besides understanding the most important aspects of someone&rsquo;s psychological condition thanks to the information given to you in the dream messages, you will also understand which issues are more important for each dreamer.</p>
<p>For example, those who are immature have many dreams about their past. Those who are in love have frequent dreams about the person they love. Those who are facing a difficult challenge have many vivid dreams about various dangers. All dreamers have a series of dreams about the most important issues in their lives, the same way they have a series of dreams about their psychological reality.</p>
<p>You should study the meaning of dreams for a while and have this precious knowledge for life. This knowledge will be your best tool in life and give you numerous advantages.</p>
<p>Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung&#8217;s research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to accurately translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.</p>
<p>Learn more at:</p>
<p><u><a href="http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com/" target="_blank">http://www.scientificdreaminterpretation.com</a></u></p>
<p><u><a href="http://www.booksirecommend.com/" target="_blank">http://www.booksirecommend.com</a></u></p>
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		<title>The Other Side of Lover&#8217;s Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 04:03:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><a target="_blank" href="http://www.triond.com/users/Michael+Eboh">Michael Eboh</a></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lover&#8217;s Day or Valentine&#8217;s Day is really a time to celebrate love and friendship. It is a time to show love to our loved ones, a time for courtship, time to fell in love, best time for wedding and so on but at the same time quite unfortunate a time to get trapped into trouble.]]></description>
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<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day should rather be a moment set aside to give care to our loved once, show love to the unloved, the poor, even to our enemies, the sick people, the prisoners and the likes. By this act of charity shown to these people we have gained bountifully than lavishing time, talent and treasure on unprofitable immoral acts.</p>
<p>Every good thing they say have a bitter side of it. I am not trying to spoil the D-day but at the same time not trying to praise those who promote amorous and sensual life without envisaging its implication to the moral lives of people. Now coming to the other side of it, children and mostly youths are being affected here; of course they are the major victims due to the erroneous views by some groups to acclaim Lover&rsquo;s day.</p>
<p>In some cities of the world, the lover&rsquo;s day is being coined a sexual jamboree; a day which law permits for sexual immorality rather than seeking for a best way to curb the menace. In fact, some see immorality as constitutional legal and thus celebrate it the best way they could to gratify the body. In a situation like this, immorality is highly propagated and not putting in control.</p>
<p>Hotels, restaurants and party houses are big time sponsors of these acts. They go extra length via the media to re-twit the minds of the young concerning love which are but virtual. No doubt this season is one big time when promiscuity is on high record. The future leaders of our time learn more of licentious and blind acts capable of tarnishing their images in the near future.</p>
<p>The media as one of the chief sponsors are not left behind. They have indeed contributed a larger quota via dissemination of such misguided information published on dailies. Government on the other side have done little to take it as a major role to educate the minds of young people and then the religious bodies (Christians) have also done little on their own part. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>
<p>It would be rather late to do something serious now to re-educate the minds of people concerning Lover&rsquo;s Day but I believe there is still hope for the future and thus every sensitized leader in the family and the society at large should rise up and face this challenge. It is a wake up call.</p></p>
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		<title>Change is Inevitable</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 03:45:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[An analysis of MLKJ's quote &#34;Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere&#34;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One wise man once wrote, &ldquo;Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere&rdquo;. This man, cherished by us today, was Martin Luther King Junior. King was the foremost leader and martyr of the civil rights movement in the 50&rsquo;s and 60&rsquo;s. In his &ldquo;Letter from a Birmingham Jail&rdquo; King lays out his deep seeded struggle for liberty and transcends racial segregation. This &ldquo;law of injustice&rdquo; implies that even minor injustices may have far reaching outcomes (a butterfly effect of sorts). This declaration has been mulled over for years as some modern contemporaries endorse this ideology while others spurn it. In retrospect, one has to admit; his social law has catalyzed many revolutions and pushed inexorable change into tangible action. Though we in a world of ever increasing parity and acceptance, we have only achieved partial integrity. Poverty, starvation, lack of fundamental care, and discrimination have soiled our emergent societies and therefore we have only achieved penultimate societal success. Before one may begin to analyze King&rsquo;s statement however, one must establish the definition of injustice. Injustice may mean the violation of the rights of others but may also simply address inequity; there is no <i>defining</i> definition. Therefore, one may manipulate fact and find flaw in this universal theory. However, if King&rsquo;s injustice is taken at face value, his statement proves itself over and over again. The Arab Spring embodies King&rsquo;s argument and demonstrates how long established oppressions are never concrete and eventually incite revolution leading to the eventual restoration of justice.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Injustice foments and revolution is imminent. The series of protests and demonstrations collectively known as the &ldquo;Arab Spring&rdquo; or &ldquo;Arab Awakening&rdquo; was predetermined. The oppression of dictators and unyielding governments seemed inescapable, and slowly but surely the populace accepted their predicament and yielded to their social and economic erosion. However, as the years progressed three factors gave hope for renewal and prompted this enlightened revolution of today. The dawn of the new millennium saw a rapid increase in Arab literacy, a falling birthrate, and a significant decline in the widespread custom of endogamy, or marriage between first cousins. This shows that Arab societies were on a path toward mental and cultural modernization in the course that the individual became more important than an autonomous entity.&nbsp; The transformation of the political system, the spreading wave of democratization and the conversion of subjects into citizens are the products of this liberal movement, and the ensuing revolution was well under way.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; As the people became more educated and informed they became less complacent and unrest soon sat heavy on the shoulders of each nation. Though progressive reformists sought a national enlightenment, the political injustices and crimes of range of tyrants continued.&nbsp; As a result, a decrease of nationalism and an increase in emigration sent up a red flag to the Western world. A new class of Western Arabs was born, and in due time, their homeland economies diminished further. Governments had begun to sense this growing unrest and they attempted to placate the poor and unemployed with bread and money but it was too late; the time for change had come.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; First went Tunisia, then Algeria. These leading cases of insurrection prompted the tidal wave of change, and the revolts of December 2010 shattered the dams holding them back. With the success of the protests in Tunisia, this wave of unrest sparked by the self-immolation of a Tunisian man struck Algeria, Jordan, Egypt, and Yemen and then spread to other countries. The largest, most organized demonstrations have often occurred on &#8220;days of rage&#8221;, usually after Friday afternoon prayers. Demonstrations of epic proportions shook the Middle East, and the governments of Tunisia, Egypt, and then Libya were overthrown. These uprisings took many lives, signifying the relentless determination of the people. Even some of the better off nations, like Lebanon and Morocco sought reform and an end to corruption. The geopolitical implications of these protests have drawn global attention, prompting further protests in Europe and Asia. Even the &ldquo;occupy&rdquo; movements were influenced by the Egyptian revolution. This tidal wave of change had <i>far</i> reaching repercussions which, in hindsight, was the result of decades of injustice with little to no change.</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; King was right; change <i>is</i> inevitable. It only took a Tunisian spark to ignite people&rsquo;s suppression and it all went up in flames. The Civil Rights movement of the 50&rsquo;s and 60&rsquo;s shared the same principles and desires of the Arab Spring; conformation is eventually succeeded by unrest and revolution. Voters are taking part in free and fair elections, newly elected lawmakers are issuing progressive legislation, and the morale is generally high in these post dictatorial nations. Though much work is left in the name of transition, the Spring was a success and it will surely influence multitudes of revolutions to come.</p>
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		<title>So Far So Gone</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 03:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><a target="_blank" href="http://www.triond.com/users/LewisThomas">LewisThomas</a></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I just want to sit and vent about everything, to moan about how people change, how the world is changing, how I&#8217;m changing.
The word community has ceased to exist.]]></description>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">Sometimes I just want to sit and vent about everything, to<br />
moan about how people change, how the world is changing, how I’m changing.</font></font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">The word community has ceased to exist; it seems people<br />
would rather look after themselves than help someone else out. Selfishness is<br />
common as of late, there are a few exceptions, the selfless people who do<br />
anything to help others out.</font></font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">I feel lost; so much time lately has been spent thinking why<br />
people do certain things, why certain things happen. It pains me sometimes how<br />
people are expected to conform to what’s ‘cool’ and if they don’t they’re<br />
rifled for it, for some reason I just can’t work that out, originality should<br />
be praised not scolded. I’m surrounded by so many people and I just can’t help<br />
thinking that hardly any of them would help me out if I needed something, apart<br />
from a handful of people.</font></font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">To know if I ever left my phone on a bus, I’d want someone<br />
to return it. I can honestly say 90% of the time it would be stolen, apart from<br />
the 10% who would return it. They are the good people in this world. I’m not<br />
saying the others are bad, just selfish! It really just does sum up the<br />
generation we live in. </font></font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">Through experiences I’ve learnt so many things, a single<br />
person can’t make much of a difference to such massive problems, but I just<br />
wish that for once people could maybe come together and look out for each<br />
other. Yes we all have dreams and we are all-star reaching, but people cease to<br />
remember most people achieve with others people help, remember that.</font></font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">People moan about the economy failing, maybe if the sense of<br />
community was returned things would straighten out as so much more could be<br />
achieved if somehow we helped each other out and worked as a team.<span>&nbsp; </span>Sometimes though I do get the feeling that<br />
it’s much too late for things to be saved and this despairing attitude does not<br />
help the situation especially if we all feel this way.<span>&nbsp; </span><span>&nbsp;</span></font></font></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">The worst bit is<br />
that everybody talks and everybody listens, but somehow the truth just always<br />
manages to come up missing, it’s almost like people enjoy the lies, why?</font></font></span></p>
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<p style="margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt" class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN"><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">Maybe just maybe<br />
change will happen, I hope somehow this will encourage people to care for<br />
others not just themselves, yes it’s important to care for yourself, but<br />
sometimes it is nice to take the time to help bring the community feeling back<br />
and help someone out.</font></font></span></p>
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<p></font><span style='line-height: 115%;font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";font-size: 11pt' lang="EN">I hope in the foreseeable future that one day you help<br />
someone who needs something or support. It might be nothing big, but your help<br />
will have an impact. <span>&nbsp;</span>I will continue to<br />
say the smallest of things and actions mean the most. </span></p>
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		<title>Becoming a Better You!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 19:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><a target="_blank" href="http://www.triond.com/users/Demoine">Demoine</a></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This article is for those who don't know what it takes to becoming a better person.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article is to help you understand what it takes to become a better you.&nbsp; Many people sit and wonder &#8220;why is my attitude like this&#8221;, &#8220;Why do people not like being around me&#8221;, &#8220;Why do I not have many friends&#8221;, &#8220;Why is it so hard to see things in a positive way&#8221;, &#8220;Why does it feel like the world is against me&#8221; and &#8220;Why can I not find the right person for me&#8221;.&nbsp; I am here to help you answer these questions because the answer is pretty simple.</p>
<p>I will start with this story; there was a man working in an office building and he worked with about 20 other people.&nbsp; He had been working on his job for about 10 years and he hadn&#8217;t been promoted in 4 years.&nbsp; He asked his boss time and time again why he hadn&#8217;t been put in for any awards or promotions and his boss told him &#8220;You need to do a self evaluation and you may not be pleased with what you see.&nbsp; The man didn&#8217;t know what that meant but he went back to his seat and thought about things he did over the past year.</p>
<p>The first thing he thought about was how he used to take notes of things and research things to be better at his job to stand out, he thought about how much stuff he had been through in his personal life and he noticed how he allowed&nbsp;past circumstances to dictate his future, he realized he stopped working out 4 days a week and started going straight home sitting on the couch watching Television shows full of drama and sadness, he also realized how he became a pesimist about everything and no one wanted to be around him.</p>
<p>Many people have the same kind of issues in their life and they can&#8217;t seem to figure out where things took a turn but you must sit down and do a self evaluation.&nbsp; A lot of times people go on for years and years and never seem to be able to get back to being themselves after something tragic happens in their life and I&#8217;m living proof of that.&nbsp; After losing my brother to suicide I was stuck asking myself the question what could have possibly been that bad but the reality is I&#8217;ll never know that.</p>
<p>People go through different types of things in life and some people look at pressure like it&#8217;s nothing and some people buckle under pressure.&nbsp; I remained in the same mental state for about a year and I noticed one day while sitting at a table with a bunch of people that I wasn&#8217;t myself because I loved laughing and having fun but I was so serious about everything which wasn&#8217;t like me at all.&nbsp; After sitting in listening to the conversation that was going on at the table I knew something was wrong with me.</p>
<p>The first thing I did was I went in search of a minister because I had a lot of stuff on my chest that I needed to get off and I knew I could talk to just anybody because they wouldn&#8217;t understand.&nbsp; Once I reached out to a minister and they listened to me I was told to get the Purpose Driven life book and I started on my journey of getting back myself.&nbsp; After understanding that I have no control over situations or even my own life I realized I had to stop stressing and worrying about things I couldn&#8217;t change.&nbsp; The past is the past for a reason.</p>
<p>I learned I had to look forward to my future and stop looking back into the past because I was only hurting myself.&nbsp; The question was asked to me &#8220;Do you drive a car in the forward motion while you are looking back?&#8221; The answer to that question was obviously no which I no one does that but I understood the point.&nbsp; I began to look at my life in a different way because I had goals and dreams so I had to move forward.&nbsp; I made up my mind I was going to focus on my future and leave the past behind.</p>
<p>After sticking to my plan great things started happening in my life like I performed on America&#8217;s Got Talent, I was promoted on my job, I was casted in a major film, I was invited on a number of television shows and I met my wife shortly after.&nbsp; I believe if I would have let my pride get the best of me and I would have never sought help for my issues I would have never been able to do the great things I have done in my life.&nbsp; I also believe that if anyone reading this has issues let&#8217;s the pride go you will be able to move forward into your future.</p>
<p>If you chose to live your life in denial you&#8217;ll only end up hurting yourself more and the people around you because a void still exists in your heart and no matter who you run to they won&#8217;t be able to help you if they don&#8217;t understand your situation.&nbsp; We only live once so I think everyone should make the best of their lives now and enjoy everyday you have.</p>
<p>My final point is in order to have success in your life you must find out who you are first and work on being a better you.&nbsp; Practice Good business principles and building solid relationships with positive people.&nbsp; Negative people never make it far because they focus on the negative things too often.&nbsp; Remember that negative energy goes in a circle but positive energy busts out of the circle and makes change.&nbsp; Being a positive person makes people want to be around you never know they may want to come to you for help.</p>
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		<title>What Caused The Bitterness?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 00:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever met someone who just refused to allow others to be happy? They would literally get mad if someone shared their good news.What if they did not know everything about you but wanted to?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever met a person who refused to allow others to be happy? They may sit around thinking of ways to make a person (s) life miserable. It could have something to do with their unhappy childhood or it may just be that their a mean person. What ever makes a person so bitter that they will stoop to unbelievable measures to knock a person down. What if they tried to ruin your marriage or took something form you? A person who is bitter does not keep friends. They will invite someone in only to use them and continue their bitter ways. Bitterness is no where near sweet and people in that state will only make trouble.</p>
<p>It is quite obvious that these people are unhappy with themselves. Some are bitter because they are overweight or lonely. Some mother&#8217;s become bitter because they want to be in their children&#8217;s lives. It is so hard to deal with a person filled with bitter thoughts or moods. It makes me down right angry when a person like that causes havoc. Bitter people will play mind games and they are quite controlling. You must protect your self and family from these people and pray for them. I know many bitter people and they are sure no fun to be around. Limit your time with a bitter person so that it won&#8217;t rub off on you.</p>
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		<title>Ways Towards Punctuality</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 15:22:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Time is precious for everyone and spending it for waiting or doing something that is not that valuable simply means that we are wasting this precious time. Maybe, due to some reasons, we may not feel the effects or consequences of  us, wasting our time over something nonsense. However, if we think about it thoroughly, we realize, that we are wasting not just our time but our lives as well. Not just our own lives but as well as the people we interact with.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time is precious for everyone and spending it for waiting or doing something that is not that valuable simply means that we are wasting this precious time. Maybe, due to some reasons, we may not feel the effects or consequences of&nbsp; us, wasting our time over something nonsense. However, if we think about it thoroughly, we realize, that we are wasting not just our time but our lives as well. Not just our own lives but as well as the people we interact with.</p>
<p>Every second counts. That is how valuable time is. Being punctual is a part of improving our personality. Being punctual reflects us as someone who is responsible and trustworthy. Being punctual helps us value our time but how exactly are we going to become one. It&#8217;s not an immediate act. There are steps to follow. Let&#8217;s take one step at a time. Here are some steps to help us make our way towards punctuality and make our time more valuable.</p>
<p><strong>1. Acknowledge your Kryptonite.</strong> &#8220;YOU are not punctual&#8221;. Unless you admit to yourself your weakness, you cannot step up and reach your goal.</p>
<p><strong>2. Be Time-Conscious. </strong>It&#8217;s not really that necessary that you buy new Rolex or Timex. The clock on your phone is enough. Always wear your watch and make sure that it gives you an accurate time.</p>
<p><strong>3. Rise and Shine Sleepyhead.</strong> Wake up when you are supposed to wake up. The usual picture is, when the alarm rings, you get out of bed and throw your alarm clock to the trash bin. Poor thing! It&#8217;s not its fault that it rang. You set it up, you throw yourself! Kidding! No. Discipline yourself and follow your schedule. Don&#8217;t be tempted by your soft pillows and your warm blankets. They won&#8217;t help you reach your goal. What goal? PUNCTUALITY.</p>
<p><strong>4. 15 Minute Flash. </strong>Be 15 minutes early to everything. Try as hard as you can to get or reach to something 15 minutes early. People will truly respect you for that.</p>
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<p><strong>5. Watch yourself.</strong> Observe and take note of your daily activities and determine where do you spend much of your time. This will help you minimize those activities and terminate or stop those activities that are not really that useful.</p>
<p><strong>6. Stick Notes helps. </strong>Make a note where you should be in a time. Always carry with you your planner. Stick notes on your wall, in your fridge or even on your door walls so you&#8217;ll be reminded everytime.</p>
<p><strong>7.Keep Organized.</strong> Keep all your stuffed properly arranged. You don&#8217;t want to spend your time looking for your misplaced ballpen. Do you?</p>
<p><strong>8. Plan ahead.</strong> Planning is a must. Through planning, you will be able to determine and identify those activities that you are about to do in the future.</p>
<p><strong>9. Go to sleep on time.</strong> Stop staying up all night just checking out you Facebook account. Your body is not a machine. You don&#8217;t want to slow down, do you? Have enough time of rest so you have a full load of energy for the next.</p>
<p>These are all for now. Remember, if you practice it all the time, it&#8217;ll become a habit and what&#8217;s next could be you being responsible, good mannered and Punctual.</p>
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		<title>Ordinary People</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 19:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p><strong>ORDINARY PEOPLE</strong></p>
<p><strong>&nbsp;</strong></p>
<p>This world is filled with ordinary people,</p>
<p>yet each unique in their own way</p>
<p>just doing those common, ordinary things</p>
<p>in living their life each day&hellip;</p>
<p>Dealing with each day as it comes,</p>
<p>each joy or trouble they may face,</p>
<p>facing it with hope and faith</p>
<p>and in their ordinary ways;</p>
<p>living their life best they know how</p>
<p>and doing it with grace.</p>
<p>They&rsquo;re just ordinary people</p>
<p>that we may chance to meet</p>
<p>as we go about our own life</p>
<p>at work, at play or on the street</p>
<p>or maybe in the shopping mall;</p>
<p>they may just nod or talk awhile,</p>
<p>share some friendly greeting</p>
<p>or maybe just a smile&hellip;</p>
<p>There is something unique about them</p>
<p>that gives your heart a lift,</p>
<p>lightens the gray, maybe in your day</p>
<p>like an unexpected gift.</p>
<p>They are just ordinary people,</p>
<p>no different from you and me</p>
<p>who share a bit of sunshine</p>
<p>for all the world to see,</p>
<p>through a smile, some simple kindness</p>
<p>that brightens up your day</p>
<p>as they go about their daily life</p>
<p>in their ordinary way.</p></p>
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		<title>Human Life : a Blessing &amp; a Curse Depending Upon Your Mindset</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 06:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>HUMAN LIFE : A BLESSING &amp; A CURSE DEPENDING UPON YOUR MINDSET</strong></p>
<p>What is mind. What&#8217;s the role and importance of mind in our day to day life. How we</p>
<p>relate and what is the role of mind in our life. This is very important to know.</p>
<p>Human mind is very delicate and complex. Brain is not the only part of our mind</p>
<p>but some other entities like heart, soul, experience, wish and will also influence our</p>
<p>mindset. Sometimes our brain guides us to do a particular thing in a particular way</p>
<p>but we do exactly the opposite. Schizophrenia is nothing but a conflict between</p>
<p>various states of mind. Except brain no other constituent of mind is known till day. Even</p>
<p>any other factor associated with human body which has some impact or</p>
<p>control over our thinking is not proven yet.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Mind</strong> has no shape or form. It is not a thing to be seen with eyes. We can only</p>
<p>understand and feel it. Mind is responsible for all our sorrows and joys. We can</p>
<p>revolutionalise our life and surroundings if only we can understand our mind</p>
<p>completely. Mind never rests. It passes through various stages but no stage is stable.</p>
<p>To understand the how to live and the very purpose of life,we have to first understand</p>
<p>our mind.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Conscious Mind </strong>: The first and foremost stage of mind is conscious mind. This is a</p>
<p>state of mind which continuously thinks about past and future. This mind hardly and</p>
<p>slightly lives in present. But the real and true life is in the present and not in the past or</p>
<p>future. This is a solid and somewhat bitter truth. We feel as if we are living but the</p>
<p>true/real fact is that we pass our entire life by remaining away from the present.</p>
<p>Conscious mind wastes a lot of our body&#8217;s energy and mental sickness is also</p>
<p>associated with this. Anger, fear, tension, anxiety all develop in our conscious mind. In</p>
<p>this stage of mind the speed of thoughts is very fast. Different thoughts occupy and</p>
<p>surround our mind all the time. Due to pressure of these thoughts we become mentally</p>
<p>sick. Psychiatrists too agree that 80% of diseases and sicknesses are mental and can</p>
<p>be stopped even before developing and appearance of signs and symptoms.</p>
<p>If not all,99% human beings live in conscious mind forever during their entire life and</p>
<p>this very fact is the reason behind our all pains and sorrows.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Sub-conscious Mind </strong>: The second stage of mind is the sub-conscious mind and this</p>
<p>mostly works when we are asleep. Dreams come out from this stage of mind. There are</p>
<p>many other reasons for dreams but the dreams of sub-conscious mind are always</p>
<p>fear full and meaningless.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Un-coscious Mind </strong>: The next stage is unconscious mind. The person who first</p>
<p>discovered and understood the functioning of this mind has immensely and hugely</p>
<p>contributed to the life of human beings only by making it understandable. This is nine</p>
<p>times larger than the conscious mind. In this mind the baseless and meaningless</p>
<p>thoughts and ideas are rare. So it do not wastes our energy. The man who realizes and</p>
<p>understands this mind feels more fit and contented. Such persons usually live alone and</p>
<p>are always]happy. Poets, writers, philosophers normally live in this stage. Pious and just</p>
<p>motivation and innovative ideas begin from this mind. In this mind things mostly happen</p>
<p>without logic. We can&#8217;t clearly demarcate conscious and unconscious mind. The</p>
<p>unconscious mind is the state/stage of mind hidden behind the conscious mind.</p>
<p>In reality both these states of mind can mix with each other. We do it and the way</p>
<p>is also very easy. Whatever we decide in our conscious mind becomes practical and</p>
<p>gets completed only when it reaches the unconscious mind. This is the reason that we</p>
<p>can&#8217;t leave our vices and bad habbits easily because we try to get rid of them in</p>
<p>conscious state of mind which is very small comparatively. We can never overcome or</p>
<p>over rule our unconscious mind. Whenever there is a fight between these two</p>
<p>states, unconscious mind always emerge victorious. Sexual desire also develops in</p>
<p>unconscious mind and can&#8217;t be stopped so easily. So conscious mind can win only by</p>
<p>following the unconscious mind. This is a very pity situation. We think ourselves very</p>
<p>intelligent and understanding but when subconscious and unconscious minds overcome</p>
<p>our thoughts and decisions, our no logic or intelligence works. Try to understand your</p>
<p>entire inner self as much as you can. At the initial stage you will only see darkness</p>
<p>inside you but slowly it will start vanishing. Due this initial experience a kind of fear</p>
<p>develops and we can&#8217;t sit, understand and concentrate about deepest states of</p>
<p>unconscious mind because it doesn&#8217;t allow us to do so.</p>
<p>Mind continues to think all the time and making it blank even for a fraction of a second is</p>
<p>not easy. Both conscious and unconscious  mind are makers of lowest levels of our</p>
<p>present life.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Enlightened Mind </strong>: This is a stage of mind which is above the conscious state</p>
<p>and equals the unconscious state. When someone reaches this stage of mind, the</p>
<p>deepest realities of life become clear like death, love, agony and emotions.</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Cosmic Mind </strong>: We can call this state of mind which thinks beyond general and</p>
<p>common things. It thinks beyond life, death, birth and worldly things. We can also call it</p>
<p>a saints mind. This mind thinks beyond normal human thoughts. According to</p>
<p>Guru Nanak, the first Sikh guru, this is the state of mind which should be called &#8220;fully</p>
<p>conscious&#8221;.</p>
<p><u> </u></p>
<p>We have discussed five stages of mind namely</p>
<p>Conscious, Sub-conscious, Unconscious, Enlightened and Cosmic or Saint&#8217;s</p>
<p><u> </u></p>
<p>mind. Conscious mind is the state which is mostly known to us. If we move even below</p>
<p>conscious mind, it will lead to darkness and degradation of life. If we move upwards, the</p>
<p>picture of life becomes more clear. We can move both ways because the way/path is</p>
<p>the same. This thing needs understanding. Going there is easy. We know the way but</p>
<p>we have forgotten it. Still we can easily find the way only if we have the will and the wish</p>
<p>to find and follow it.</p>
<p>These states of mind differentiate us from animals. Human life is greatest of all other</p>
<p>lives known to us which are present on the planet earth.</p>
<p>The human life is a glory, a blessing and a curse, all depending upon our mindset.</p>
<p><strong> &#8211; DR.NAVRAJ SINGH SANDHU</strong></p>
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		<title>DO YOU WISH TO BE DATED?</title>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you want a Date? A Date you will remember and tell others about? stop wishing for I can help if it&#8217;s alright with you&nbsp;let&#8217;s start, but a first a few things must happen. The wardrobe for the &nbsp;occations should be something comfortable something that with encourage freedom you don&#8217;t want to be restricted.&nbsp;Choose a&nbsp;natural fabric that highlights who you are,&nbsp; suggesting that you are in tune with your spiritual shape&nbsp;excentuating the beauty of your heart. It should drape the silhouette calling curious eyes to the mystery of your spirit for it is a deep and intimate search. Do you still want&nbsp;a date? I hope I have not turned you off but, turned you on for I am truly interested in this &nbsp;potential date&nbsp;.</p>
<p>The details of your phyiscalities&nbsp;are of no importance&nbsp;nor is physical romance there will be no exchange of bodily fluids. You require a certain need I feel&nbsp;you need to be filled&nbsp;with something wonderful, your depth will&nbsp;take time to reach&nbsp;in the corridors of the&nbsp;heart and soul. For &nbsp;You&nbsp;yearn for&nbsp;more and believe me more is available but first you must be sure&nbsp;if&nbsp;you want to be dated?</p>
<p>I want this date to be the beginning for you, it requires a very personal commitment.The truth is that it is a matter of importance&nbsp; a date that will be the beginning of the&nbsp; resurrection of your spirit, the return of knowledge of your true beauty.&nbsp;Important because&nbsp;it is&nbsp;meant to put you in the here and now Do you still want&nbsp;to be&nbsp;dated?&nbsp; Then whatever&nbsp;date it is&nbsp;right now consider this your date, the beginning of the search for your personal truth and the truth of Oneness. For for this is the&nbsp;date you will choose to do the work and give spirit a chance to see&nbsp;and the heart&nbsp;time to feel.&nbsp;&nbsp;This the date&nbsp; when&nbsp;the revelation begins when you&nbsp;start to see who you truly are no matter what the reflection Do you still want a date? A&nbsp;date&nbsp;you will remember and tell others about?</p>
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