Character development is an absolutely worthwhile goal for most people. Only those who have already achieved success and ease in life, may not really in good conscience let this matter lie on the left. All others would do well to look closely to deal with how they too can achieve this status and the way is there personality development.

After all, success and happiness does not depend on external circumstances, but always of his own personality. Not by chance, there are certain characteristics that all successful people have in common. The sum of these properties is an ideal state, the well reached almost no one, however, the approach should be as far as possible, a very worthy goal and purpose of personal development.

For this purpose it is necessary first of course, to know oneself and one’s own personality. The proper assessment it is important. One must know his own limitations, strengths and weaknesses and learn. And on this basis one can then find out in a second step, what makes you unique. These exercises will lead to more and more inner clarity, confidence grows and so it forms a clear and strong personality. With this process also improves the broadcasting and communication and personality development through these stages leads to more success and happiness.

However, this may sound too simple. Therefore, one must stress, personality development is a process that takes time and requires much work and exercise. Practice new behaviors until they become a habit takes several weeks or months until the target is you have some work ahead. But for the result of personality development is all the more rewarding.

2.       The way you think affect how you live your life

3.       Whatever occupies your  minds get energized

4.       Thoughts are things

5.       The quality of thoughts determines your success

6.       There are no limits to what you can achieve except the boundaries of your thoughts and imagination.

7.       An empty mind guarantees and empty life.

Fear is one of the deadliest enemies of mankind. Fear eats away us. It is a threat for development Anxiety, nervousness, worry are brothers and sisters of fear.

Fearlessness is essential for the acquisition of all other noble qualities. Fearlessness means complete absence of all the fears except fear of God. Fear is an uninvited guest.

Feeling of self inadequacy, attachment and dependence on external objects and disbelief in God and cosmic order are the chief causes of fears. Feeling of separateness is also a cause. The greatest fear is the fear of death and so many people have the fear because they die on some day.

The body faces lot of physiological reactions due to fear. Usually the heart rate increases and breathing speeds up. Blood pressure increases. Like this there will be several physical changes in the body. Especially fears  lower the general resistance of the body and this may lead to infections or other diseases.

Language is the dress of thought. A speech needs a language. The UNESCO advocates that every child should be able to read and write his or her mother tongue, as well as in the other dominant languages of that region, by the time he or she leaves school. India is known for its diversity of languages. Basically, three languages are taught in Indian schools. However no man fully capable of his language ever masters another.

Learning new languages is a hobby to many. Learn a new language, master if possible. At the same time one should not neglect one’s mother tongue. There are good examples of people who have learnt more than ten languages. Kannada poet M. Govindapai had a good working knowledge of 21 languages. Dr. R. Ganesh is proficient in 17 languages and he performs Avadhanas in eight different languages.

Today there are “Teach Yourself” books designed to help learners. Moving with other people who speak a language different from yours, which also help to pick up their language. One can attend classes conducted by various organizations. In Bangalore there are better organizations which teach French, German and Japanese languages.

What is the advantage of learning a new language or languages? You may ask.

One can improve his personality as he can come closer to those who speak to him in their own regional language. That is, he can mix with them. His scope of learning becomes wider.

Becoming a multi-linguist is a scholarship. Ignorance of local languages could be a handicap. These days, many states insist that their employees should be well versed with the regional language.

We should never allow a language to die. At the same time we should see that the language meet the needs and aspirations of the people. Otherwise it is bound to meet a natural death and its extinction is a natural process. Moreover with the loss of a language we lose a culture a collective knowledge of generation. This shows us that one should love his or her language. Master your language. Then you can learn other languages.

Personality development expects a change. The growth of personality is thus a gradual process. While you prefer reading, writing, knowing languages, time management you will find a change.

So when and where ever you get opportunity to learn a new language, don’t miss the opportunity, just learn!

Of course, to perform life’s duties the first requirement is health. Health is wealth. A healthy person can only discharge duties in life efficiently. One should be in top health. We have to be healthy both physically and mentally. Mental and physical health go hand in hand.

What do we need to have good health?

• Fresh air
• A good ventilated dwelling house.
• Pure water to drink
• Clean food [Fresh prepared food]
• Handful of work
• Physical exercise. Walking is a good exercise.
• A cheerful mental attitude, free from anger, jealousy, etc.,
• Keeping away from bad habits like smoking, alcohol, etc.,
• Yoga and meditation.

You can expect anything from a healthy person. What can be done by a sick person? A person who desires to improve his lively personality has to maintain good health which also enables him to keep up his bodily personality. Remember the saying “A sound mind in a sound body.”

These aids may help:

Read articles and research reports on various aspects of health and ill health. Innumerable articles are being published in newspapers and magazines.

• Know the functions of different organs of the body.
• Know first aid techniques.
• Avoid overeating.
• Avoid eating in irregular hours.
• Know that early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.

The preservation of health is a duty. Remember, illness tell us what we are.

Man is said to be the darling child of mother nature, crown of creation, supreme product of evolution. The mother nature had given him or her brain to think and act. Man is very different from an animal. But until and unless he utilises his body energy and intellectual power efficiently he cannot reach a stage which is different from that of an animal.

Especially in this computer age where things are different and due to the complexity of present day living, not only academic, but also many other matters such as personal development, positive interaction with people etc. counts.

That two young people desire to acquire a balanced growth of personality along with academic education.

Personality does not mean just physical fitness and pleasing look. Personality includes intelligence and character of an individual in addition to look. It can be said that personality is a blend of one’s intelligence, character and look. Totally a person must be smart and not to be over smart.

Personality is self motivating, that is it activates one’s life at every stage. We call people like Dr. S. Radhakrishnan, Abdul Kalam, Mother Teresa as towering personalities. They are great personalities.

A well developed personality is not achieved at one stretch. They were also born as babies. How did they achieve such an immense personality? It was due to their positive interaction with people from infancy to old age. So people development is a gradual process. It is not achieved in a day. Nobody becomes great automatically. This indicates that personality can be improved. We must be in a position to assess our own personality.

Who likes a wicked person?

Does any one advice others to follow the footsteps of Ravana?

We, in India have recognised Sri Rama and Sri Krishna as ideal persons. Sri Rama is called “Maryada Purushottama” which means best among men. Sri Krishna is “Purushottama”. He is Gitaacharya. The Bhagavad Gita is the divine message. It is a manual for life. We have solutions for all our problems in Gita. Rama and Krishna personified conduct of the highest standard. They were the persons of excellence. They became ideal heroes. They might have lived in mythological age.

But their influence is for ever coming to modern world, we have examples of people like Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, Swami Vivekananda, Basaveshwara and many others. They are better examples. They lived according to what they said. They had reached the status that was recognised by one and all.

Personality is not what people usually say, that is, handsome personality, shining personality, wonderful personality. They tell us only the outer features of a person like handsomeness, attractiveness, good looking but not the real distinctive character.

Swami Vivekananda Said: “We must have life building, man making, character moulding assimilation of ideas. We want that education by which character is formed, strength of mind is increased, intellect is expanded and by which one can stand on his own feet.” Thus, a person’s personality is not built up in one day. It has to be developed in stages, but at the same time a person should be enthusiastic.

Enthusiasm is the propelling force necessary for climbing the ladder of success.

The right time for a beginning to develop and improve personality is at the time of learning, that is student life. In olden days there were “gurukulas” where the guru or the teacher used to watch students [pupils] closely as the members of the family.

Actually the teacher moulded their character and enabled them to face life as they grew up. But today the teacher – pupil interaction is only through the medium of examinations and periodical test. The students strength is also large. Individual attention is not easy as in olden days. The parents have no time as both husband and wife are engaged in their office works or involved in activities that help to build up their status. They have no time to take care of their children and they leave it to the school or college authorities.

By virtue of the knowledge one earns, his or her personality had to be developed.

First of all we all charge to apprehend which way we are branch and again we charge to assignment on that. Kids charge a guardian who can adviser them and analyze appropriate or amiss from them but adults don’t charge any guidance.

We all accept the acquaintance and adeptness to adjudge what is amiss and what is right. So, the best reliable way to advance yourself is to acquisition out your loopholes and to apprentice from day to day experience.

Still there are a aggregation of techniques that a being can use in adjustment to annihilate abrogating ancestry and assignment on personality development. Here are the afterward achieve which will advice in cocky improvement.

Use of Quantum Power
This specifies the claim to analyze the deep, active admiral of the hidden mind.  Our hidden apperception is actual able and we can do absurd things if we can dig abysmal central our hidden apperception again we can acquisition some abysmal things about ourselves.

This helps to achieve added absorption through meditation. It decreases belief time as it increases application power. It gives a abiding fix of ailing brainy problems such as depression, low cocky esteem, and addiction to biologic or booze etc. It helps to allay sex drive.

Goal Setting
This is one of important achieve to access cocky improvement. If a being knows his or her ambition of activity again their lives has a abiding focus and they apperceive what they demand from life.

If a being is abnormality hopelessly after the ambition of his or her activity again he or she will absolutely appear beyond to some problems such as depression, ADD (attention absence disorder), addiction etc.

Recognizing the ability of absolute practice
Self advance asks an alone to embrace the ability of absolute practice. This will absolutely advice a being in rinsing abrogating accordance from his or her surrounding and from their perception. This will absolutely advance a being to seek the appropriate aisle and will animate them to go advanced with a absolute intent.

These bristles tips can advice us admit the positivity in ourselves so we can advance our selves.

 “Help yourself to what music has to offer – and help yourself.” Louis G. LaMair

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 Many workers are unusually sensitive and easily offended by unthinking managers. There are people who wear their feelings on their coat sleeves, where they are unprotected and a silly develop a jumpy, neurotic, erratic make-up. While it is true we may dislike association with them, and lose the free – and easy attitude which automatically makes for pleasant relations, we must nevertheless exert ourselves to overcome any repugnance and “go out” to them.

 Many centuries ago a great man said, “Let not your heart be troubled.” Someone else advised, “Do not become agitated.” They are the same thing. You have heard that people do not get stomach ulcers because of what they eat. They get ulcers in the same way by allowing ourselves to become bored, irritated, negative, hurt, argumentative, and upset. Just like the familiar quip, that “a man’s body is remarkably sensitive… pat him on the back and his head swells.”

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Experience is a great teacher; it is the road we have been over. But the wrecks in the rear aren’t the ones we are now trying to avoid. It’s the curves ahead that count now. Whatever mistakes we have made, our only way out is ahead. This is life’s inflexible formula. What has been and might have been may well serve as a warning – but what may yet be is our first concern.

– Richard Evans

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Look for a book or any products that can help you in developing your personality. If you feel you’re different from others and if you don’t have confidence in yourself, then you badly need some books to bear with you at anytime.

     A good and real friend might help. It is said that a peer-to-peer relationship is a good help in personal development. Being with friends you can express who you really are. Friends can help you they can give you good advices and will support you in anything you do.

    Always think that you are unique! It is just normal that you commit mistakes. No one don’t like to do such mistakes, right? Those mistakes that we make, also helps us to help ourselves to be better and to improve. Mistakes are just one of the factors that will help us to develop and open a new door for a better life.

If you think of yourself that you are no one, you are useless then it will not help you to develop. Self-help means that you believe in yourself, you believe that you are strong and you believe that you can do things because you are not useless and you are someone who is capable of doing things and not afraid of taking a step forward. Believing in oneself is a big help to personal development.

     In your day-to-day life you come in contact with many kinds of people, those people that you meet may affect your confidence and many things in your life. Everyday is a challenge, and everyday you are able to find many things for you to be able to help yourself improve and develop your personality. 

     Of course, no one wants to be called as “nothing” in the community. It is one of those factors that will challenge you to get better, be developed and more improved. Sometimes bad things help us to be better not bitter. Everyday is a challenge and you will always find a way to get over with that challenge and it’s a big help for you to make you develop your personal life and that’s what we call self-help.