But to me youre nothing
Nothing but a user
Boy you have so much to prove
Before you can come near me
You need to hear me
Or you will always lose
No matter how much i care
You have so much to prove

I wish you would begin to see
That in the end its me
A guy that you could trust
Your past holds you back
And now you begin to lack
you shouldve already known
I wont always be here
So now its time you hear
Everything that is wrong
Youre like dope
I keep false hope
You cant give me a reason to stay

So to me youre nothing
Nothing but a user
Boy you have so much to prove
Before you can come near me
You need to hear me
Or you will always lose
No matter how much i care
You have so much to prove

Before you get here youre gone
Youre always running away
you make me feel like im wrong
Like theres no other way
So now ill take a stand and say

Youre nothing to me
Nothing but a user
Boy you have so much to prove
Before you can come near me
You need to hear me
Or you will always lose
No matter how much i care
You have so much to prove

Japanese people more easily in the association, and not hard to do something, because they have principles that they must obey.

The Japanese are holding the principle, because they still keep a promise of something.

In fact, Japanese people on time, so the principle of keeping promises, and timely to provide a high level of discipline.

This principle is owned by Japanese people, and is used in everyday life so that their work can be done well.

In the field of industry and commerce, they use these principles as a basis for advancing their economic sector.

Japanese people work in earnest, and they work hard, and unyielding spirit.

Japanese legend, Zatoichi is always well prepared anything, and do not want a bit forgotten, even pay attention to people with a variety of efforts, so it can move quickly Zatoichi.

Zatoichi, finally wounded, and killed as a result failed to defend themselves from enemy attacks. Because the enemy does not move, and are in a static state.

Every year people make resolutions to stop doing things like smoking or drinking.  Others vow to exercise more and eat less.  And many people promise to fix certain parts of their lives they are not happy with.  For some their resolution is simply a wish list, while for others it is a goal they plan on reaching.  

Thankfully for me I do not smoke and barely ever drink alcohol.  I do however like my “junk food” and don’t get enough exercise so if I do make a resolution it will probably be to take better care of myself.  What about you? Is there something in your life you want to change for the better?  What would you like to see different in your life happening in the new year?  What’s your New Years Resolution?

because we aren’t promised tomorrow will be won

In fact this life is so fragile we never know ahead

if the time is on our side or if we’ll make it out of bed

the next day could prove to be an eye opener or not

reason for whispering a prayer before laying on a cot

as we fall into sleep where we dream about awakening

to another day filled with dreams that are breath taking

away with our lives we take advantage of many things

especially those people who are close to us that brings

joy and happiness which abounds like the miracle of birth

a once and a lifetime event so precious that it’s so worth

the pain comes from the pleasure which began in the mind

can’t be revisited as it was the first time that seemed unkind.

It’s best to journey through life making every minute count

without any hesitation so we can get the memories to mount.

I than thought about all the things I ever promised to my own daughter. I feel like a proud Mommy right now. I never ever broke a promise to my child. I think it is one of the best things I could say about myself. I believe we as people should be honest about what we can and can’t do. I am poor in every way that counts. I have given my daughter all I could ever give in life. So,today I hope while your reading this you can say the same.  

We have to be responsible in every way with our kids. It’s not about giving all the time but about honesty. Don’t say your going to take the kids to the park when you know you want to go smoke and hang out. It makes you a liar and untrustworthy to others. Your kids should be able to trust everything you say to them. 

As we wait for tonight’s speech on jobs in America by president Obama, the world sits on edge. Will it be a success, with the right answers or is it going to be more promises that never become more than a good story? The president has made promises before regarding the job outlook in this country and very little has improved. Instead, the country continues to sink further in debt and jobs continue to disappear.

The American people have a solution regarding the job problems. Bring jobs back to American soil! It is that simple. There are many ways to entice businesses back to America and provide them with benefits for hiring Americans. Tax credits and incentives, lease free land, company insurance, employee credits and more. But none of these options seem to be a part of the plan.

The American’s Job Act may include tax credits for large businesses, but it is not clear if the business has to work out of this country or if they can continue to outsource overseas. There will be tax cuts for Americans, but it is not enough to save homes and if you are out of work, the tax cut will not help. There is talk of creating a global banking system, but that helps governments, not individual workers.

With all the information and misinformation, no one is really sure what is going to happen. So far, he has tried to have the debt ceiling raised in order to keep our highest credit rating, but that is not the answer. Everyone else is told to pay their bills and get their income to debt ratio under control. The government should be trying to do the same thing.

Limit the amount and time of welfare in every state. Right now is a hard time for such a law, but it must start somewhere. Pass a law that every person that is collecting a welfare check should have to take a drug test every week. Yes, a drug test! The reason is that welfare money is supposed to be for the support of family and children, not pleasure items like drugs, movies, designer labels and cigarettes.

Encourage education and specialized training. It can begin in high school with office administration, construction, web design, business administration and other jobs available in every day life. Teach about e businesses and how to begin one. All the information from your local small business administration and how to help the community become a money making project.

We will all watch the speech to congress, but no one is really expecting real solution on the basic level. It will be offers of information to help the government, not citizens.

A little over three years in, Obama’s presidency has been a turbulent affair, and that might be the understatement of the new century. While there hasn’t been any single scandal on the same scale as Tea Pot Dome or Watergate, and Mr. Obama presumably hasn’t been getting his winky whacked in the Oval Office by any unpaid interns, Republicans (and some Democrats) would be quick to point out that under his administration the federal deficit has ballooned to its highest level in history due to reckless spending on costly stimulus packages and bailouts and quantitative easing measures; foreign governments now own a higher percentage of our debt than ever; entitlement spending, the third rail which all politicians are loathe to address due to the strong potential for political backlash, has remained untouched in all the proposed budget cuts, which should be considered tantamount to putting a bandaid on a gangrenous, diseased limb; and the worst of both parties’ major tax proposals were enacted into law, allowing the rich and middle class to accumulate more wealth while neglecting the funding for programs that benefit the lower class.

For all its aches and pains, some good has come from Mr. Obama’s time in office. For one, the intensity of political warfare has turned itself down a few notches. Republicans willfully sat next to Democrats in a rare show of bipartisanship at the State of the Union (and while this can be directly attributed to Rep. Gabrielle Giffords’ attempted assassination, rather than Mr. Obama himself, it certainly bodes well for both parties and can do nothing but help the president attain his goals). Active combat in Iraq is coming to a close, freeing up a large and controversial wedge of the federal budget pie chart for more virtuous endeavors. The framework for a universal healthcare system is now in place, even if it is far from functional or efficient in its current form, and its failure in the short term would be attributed only to the Republican opposition. A new agency has been formed to oversee the complex world of derivatives and other “new” financial instruments in an effort to prevent the unlawful and unethical packaging of toxic assets that ultimately caused the financial crisis.

Yet, despite these positive steps, a large portion of Democrats still are disappointed with their once-beloved candidate due to his failure to follow through on some of his most important campaign promises, most notably the demise of the public option and the closure of Guantanamo Bay. However, disillusioned Democrats need to understand the nature of the political beast in order to understand these failures.

First, when Obamacare was passed, millions balked at how Mr. Obama “dropped the ball” on the public option. Advocates of the option believe that a government-sponsored plan would have enough clout to lower market prices and make the system cheaper and more competitive, which, in theory, would address the ballooning cost of Medicare. Opponents believe that the government has no right to enter the marketplace as a competitor, and that the most efficient healthcare program is one that facilitates the most widespread and inclusive competition possible through interstate insurance exchanges. (Rep. Ron Paul, a strict adherent to free market economics, once sponsored a bill that would prevent the federal government from operating state-owned enterprises in direct competition with the private sector; while the bill went where all unnoticed bills go to die, this is a good illustration of the free market principles that are seen as incompatible with the public option).

The option was lost because of a compromise inside the Democratic Party. The fact of the matter is that there were many democrats who would vote down the bill if it was left in, and far fewer who would vote it down if it left out. In the end, the bill won by a margin of five votes (with one Republican, surprisingly, from Lousiana). If the bill hadn’t compromised on what the majority of Democrats saw as a superfluous mandate, it wouldn’t have passed at all.

The poster child for broken promises among fans of human rights, however, is unequivocally Guantanamo Bay. The President began the process of closing Gitmo almost immediately after he assumed office, but he soon ran into several setbacks. First, after he issued the executive order to have the prison closed within a year, it was discovered that many of the inmates didn’t have certain documents in their files essential to their defense and prosecution, and the procurement of these documents would take months. Second, the reality is that these prisoners would need to be transferred to the mainland, and while the majority of Americans support the closing of the prison, nobody wants these people anywhere near them. The governor of every prospective state to which the President has tried to transfer them has vehemently opposed the prospect of housing war criminals in their jurisdiction. Third, Congress has blocked funding several times for the transfer of any Gitmo prisoners inside American borders because it believes the prison serves an indispensable purpose–to prevent the detainees from being treated with the rights of normal citizens or war criminals, a view that has become quite contentious. The political hurdles for the President have thus far been insurmountable, but certainly it is not from any lack of effort on his part.

To blame the president for at least these unkept promises is not only unfair, but it reveals ignorance of our political system. Indeed, if the president were able to accomplish everything he wanted without a system of checks and balances from those with opposing viewpoints, we would have far more serious problems than Guantanamo Bay. In any case, it is clear that the original Obamacare bill will not remain intact; Republicans have displayed earnest perseverance when it comes to opposing “socialized” medicine (or socialized anything, for that matter), but eventually there will be some kind of middle ground reached. Social Security was passed on partisan lines, but it ascended into political sacrosanctity, and very few politicians are willing to touch the program nowadays (though it will be necessary to implement new expenditure rules in the near future; the debt ceiling bill made sure of that one). Similarly, Gitmo will see its demise in due time. Once all of the current detainees are tried we will be well on our way out of Afghanistan, if not out altogether, and there will be less of a necessity to keep so-called “enemy combatants” without a war to justify doing so.

58 days… I’ll be back to visit, you promised you would wait for me, i promise you the best time of your life <3

• The “True Love” approach.One study reveals that the most prevalent line used is “If you love me, you’ll let me.” Guys have used this since the beginning of time. But if does get what he wants, what proof will you have that he loves you when it is all over? More likely he uses hes own urgent needs. And furthermore, if he gets what he wants and doesn’t leave you high and dry, you still won’t have very much. Usually the guy who use this line is a slow but a steady operator who tends to hang in there till he gets what he wants. A good respond to this line is “If you love me, you won’t ask.”
• The situational approach.“Everybody’s doing it” is the line used by the situational_ethic crowd. These new morality fellows try to imply that there is something the matter with the female who won’t jump on the bandwagon, become mod, and live the way the rest of the world lives. They accused her of possessing Victorian ideas. “Times have change,” they chant. “Live today and don’t look back.” They put such pressure on her that she begins to wonder whether she really might be missing something the rest of the crowd enjoys.
• The sympathy approach.“Nobody but you understand me. Everybody is against me-my parents, the school, the law. All I need is you to help me, and everything will be Ok.” It doesn’t take much of this approach to appeal to the mother instincts of the average girl. You want to help this fellow who could amount to something if only he had an opportunity! You know his reputation isn’t the best, but that could change if only others would give him a chance. Whatever the version, beware of this line. This guy has mastered the technique of playing a woman’s sympathy.
• The big-shot approach.“Girls are standing in line for blocks to date me. You are a very lucky person, you know.” He probably doesn’t verbalize, but you get the idea through his words and actions. This guy is probably good-looking, tall, athletic, intelligent, personable, and popular with others. He has the ability to make you feel super special. You’ll be especially vulnerable to this type if you are very young and inexperienced or if you have a good case of inferiority complex.
• The logical approach.“I thought we were going to get married.” “Who needs a slip of paper to legalize a love like ours?” “It’s a good experience that will benefit our future together.” This lines comes on so gradually that is often difficult to recognize. It occurs most often to a long-term, steady relationships with a basically nice guy whom you “know” is right for you. A good response to this approach would be: “In case we ever change our minds about each other, I wouldn’t want you to feel obligated to me.” Then be prepared for protests! Some study revealed that more than 33% of the sexually experienced girls believed when they first had sex that they would marry the fellow-but few of them did.One of two thing was taking place-either she was fooling her self or he wasn’t telling the truth. Take your pick.
• The abnormal approach. “Whats the matter with you? Are you frigid or something?” “You don’t want to be known as a cold cucumber, do you?” Every normal girl look forward to a sexual complete relationship with her husband someday, but this guy plant seeds of doubt about her ability to function sexually. She wonders whether she might undersexed or desirable. WARNING: Fellows who used this approach generally believe that women are “things” to be “used” by males.REMEMBER: gals, that 99% of frigidity is located in the brain!
• The intellectual approach. “If you don’t, I’ll date someone else.” “If you aren’t interested, I won’t have any trouble finding someone who is.” This fellows hope to intimidate you by implying that unless you give in, you will have to sit at home alone for the rest of your life. He probably won’t have any trouble finding a willing someone. But you know exactly what he wants from a relationship, and any girl will do.forget him, then look for someone who will appreciate you and your standards.
• The promises, promises approach.“You won’t get pregnant.” “Even if you do, I’ll take care of you.” “We’ll get married.” Under the pressure of sexual tension, some guy will make promises that they could never keep. They may mean ecery word at the moment, but it would surprise you how quickly these fellows can forget all their promises once the desperately urgent sexual pressure have been relieved. Girls falls for promises because they desperately want to believe what the guy says. Girls use a logic approach on him. Think it through. It is possible you could get pregnant? Is he in the position to take care of you if he do? What does he mean by ”take care of you”? IS he in a position to marry you?
• The guilt approach. “I’m so tensed up I can’t stand it! You’ve lead me on. You can’t stop now! I just gotta have it!” No he doesn’t “just gotta have it.” If he doesn’t get a sexual release right then, nothing bad will happen to him. He won’t suddenly develop a hernia or suffer brain damage or have his growth stunted. The worst thing that might happen to him is that he might have to run around the block a time or two before he can go home, but that won’t hurt him either.

There are many lines that the guy could use just make girls believe on them so that they can get what they want. I never intended to produce negative image of males. They’re really great-I’m in a commitment to one! Their tendencies are God-implanted, but these are powerful drives. The keen male sense is forever pursuing and trying to conquer. And the facts remains that it is the girl who get hurts the worst-through pregnancy, yes, but also emotionally. Note: Before you get in into any serious relationship which sex are involve you must to think of it wisely before things going worst!   
 

Holding God by his words is the best way to cause God fulfill his promises to you. Even before he made you and moulded you inside your mother’s womb and brought you out after nine months, his words as promises have been made to you. I always tell my readers in a Nigerian magazine where I pen the motivational column that you never asked to be created by God therefore you need not worry about what to eat nor what to wear as he has said in his word that as much as he provides the birds of the air and earth foods, how much more someone like you whom he made in his own image.

In the Bible, Jacob used it on an angel whom he battled for hours on end telling him bluntly that he will never let him go unless he blesses him. Did that happen in his life? Yes it did – his lineage begat our lord Jesus Christ. He is your Rose of Sharon and your Lilly of the adorable valley – your mountain-mover.

God also said that everyday his name still remains the same, that you should try him. Bring all your burdens to him in prayers and there is no way he would not come to your aid for as much as a father would not feed his children scorpion in place of bread, that he would do exceedingly well all that concerns you today and for the rest of your life. You don’t have to hide under your cloak of sinfulness and refuse to pray yourself out of your heavy laden situation in life believing that he will not answer you when you did for he said that while we are still sinners, he sent his one and only begotten son our lord savior to die on the cross for our sin. This is pure and undiluted love – the only reason why we should persist in knocking down the doors of our Lord God in our times of trials.

God’s words in the bible are many and you must hold him responsible to all of them by saying and repeating his words to him. There is no way that you do so and he wouldn’t soften his unblemished heart in his mercy and grace to remember you and carry you on his bosom like your earthly father would and you will have cause to sing his praises once again.

Remember, God does not lie for put it succinctly that instead of any word that came out of him to come back to him unfulfilled in our lives let instead the entire world and the heavens pass away. And now, remember he made us know that there in nothing difficult for him as he neither sleeps nor slumbers and that by faith we shall make exploits in his name. So go on and hand him over all your burdens and desires as he would handle exceedingly all that concerns you today until you are in the midst of plenty and the blessed will call you blessed.