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		<title>The Ideal Woman?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 11:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is it worth searching for your &#34;ideal woman&#34;?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Often when young and crazy, one imagines what one&#8217;s ideal woman would be like. Why not? Before you get serious, why can you not dream? Depending on one&#8217;s age and attitudes towards love, this may involve describing physical appearance, emotional states, hobbies and activities, material wealth, attitudes to life, or all of the above. And one says to oneself, &#8220;damn, if I could meet this one perfect woman. Then my life would be <i>sorted</i>!&#8221;. But would it really?</p>
<p>The thing is, we envision this &#8220;perfect woman&#8221; based on what we would consider before we&#8217;ve actually encountered a relationship. And then, as we go through life, it gets shaped by the ones we meet, changes gradually, and hopefully eventually find that person of our dreams, settle down, and retire from life. And we go through life always sitting with that hope in the back of our heads, that the next girlfriend will be better, that we&#8217;ll get that ideal woman eventually. Sure, some of us have minimized the dissatisfaction this line of thought causes to virtually nil, but it is still <i>the wrong idea</i>!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s flawed for two simple reasons: you don&#8217;t <i>really</i> know who&#8217;s going to perfectly match the nooks and crannies of your personality and lifestyle, and you&#8217;re also probably never going to meet them. Who you <i>are</i> going to meet on the other hand are a lot of other equally attractive and equally compatible women, a few of whom will stand out quite a bit more than the rest. But you&#8217;ll never know.</p>
<p>And so when a beautiful blonde comes knocking at your door when you&#8217;re expecting a brunette, don&#8217;t be scared to open it, you might end up pleasantly surprised. That&#8217;s not to say take any girl that comes along (that might raise a few eyebrows!) but don&#8217;t object to some characteristics that seem way out of line at first. Personally, I&#8217;ve found that I fell in love with a girl whom I should never have done on paper; we didn&#8217;t have an awful lot in common, but we just <i>clicked</i>. And the funniest thing was, she was almost the exact opposite of what I would have penned as the ideal girlfriend for me.</p>
<p>So there you have it, folks. Nothing in life is predictable, especially when it comes to women. So you might as well just enter the game area without any preconceived notions or expectations, and, trust me, you&#8217;ll pull out something far better than you would have otherwise!</p>
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		<title>A Man Hide Five Things From Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 06:41:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Men]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even though it became lovers or husband and wife, not all men uncomfortablerevealing much. Evidently, there are a few things hidden from her. What are they?

The attitude of the man who &#34;cool&#34; sometimes led to the mysterious in men. And, behind these mysterious side, not infrequently he was hiding some things from her.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>1. Men&nbsp;want&nbsp;women&nbsp;to hang out with&nbsp;her ​​friends</strong>&nbsp;</p>
<p>For men,&nbsp;they&nbsp;want a partner who&nbsp;not only&nbsp;loves&nbsp;himself&nbsp;alone,&nbsp;but&nbsp;also&nbsp;hanging out with&nbsp;friends.&nbsp;They&nbsp;might&nbsp;not&nbsp;get along&nbsp;all the time&nbsp;but at least&nbsp;when&nbsp;there is&nbsp;a chance, women&nbsp;can&nbsp;use&nbsp;that time to&nbsp;socialize with&nbsp;friends.</p>
<p><strong>2.&nbsp;Men do not like&nbsp;when&nbsp;she&nbsp;&#8221;adores&#8221;&nbsp;the other&nbsp;guy<br /></strong><br />Whether it&#8217;s&nbsp;a&nbsp;famous&nbsp;artist&nbsp;who&nbsp;became&nbsp;an idol&nbsp;even&nbsp;atapun&nbsp;other&nbsp;figure,&nbsp;he&nbsp;reallydid not like&nbsp;when&nbsp;other men&nbsp;adored&nbsp;her partner.</p>
<p><strong>3.&nbsp;Men&nbsp;worry&nbsp;if&nbsp;their partner&nbsp;finds a&nbsp;better than him<br /></strong><br />Concerns&nbsp;a man&nbsp;on&nbsp;her partner&nbsp;if&nbsp;she&nbsp;would&nbsp;find&nbsp;a better&nbsp;figure&nbsp;it&nbsp;is often&nbsp;haunting.This often&nbsp;makes&nbsp;him&nbsp;very uncomfortable.&nbsp;However,&nbsp;he&nbsp;was always&nbsp;good at hidinghis concern&nbsp;is&nbsp;when&nbsp;in the presence of&nbsp;men.</p>
<p><strong>4.&nbsp;Men love&nbsp;a hug</strong></p>
<p>Especially&nbsp;when the&nbsp;agenda of&nbsp;the ongoing&nbsp;sex,&nbsp;men want&nbsp;you&nbsp;to&nbsp;hug him&nbsp;and&nbsp;notjust&nbsp;holding hands&nbsp;or&nbsp;touching&nbsp;his arm.</p>
<p><strong>5.&nbsp;Do not&nbsp;tell me what happened&nbsp;tonight&nbsp;against&nbsp;another man<br /></strong><br />Men&nbsp;really&nbsp;do not like&nbsp;when&nbsp;women talk about&nbsp;what he does&nbsp;along with&nbsp;her ​​partner&nbsp;to others.&nbsp;Whether&nbsp;they are just&nbsp;sports&nbsp;activities,&nbsp;play bike,&nbsp;by car,&nbsp;and&nbsp;so forth.&nbsp;In essence,&nbsp;he&nbsp;is&nbsp;not&nbsp;interested in&nbsp;it.&nbsp;buy.</p>
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		<title>Preparing for a Peaceful Relationship Breakdown</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 04:33:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relationships are wonderful since they not only make us have a lifetime assurance of love, care and satisfaction.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are different kinds of relationships that that are important to us in our lifetime. One of the most important relationships is one that you have with your spouse or your lover. Unlike the relationship with your siblings or friends this is a strong relationship that is based on trust and mutualism in the events that there is betrayal and a <strong>relationship breakdown</strong> is inevitable there is too much pain. So how can you survive a <strong>relationship breakdown</strong>?</p>
<p>Relationships that we have between us and our spouses or lovers are very hard to break unlike the relationships we have with ordinary friends. It is therefore a painful experience going through a <strong>relationship breakdown</strong> it is therefore good that you equip your self with the necessary skills of surviving a <strong>relationship breakdown. </strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;Majority<strong> </strong>of us can not bear such situations and it requires a lot of courage to face this daunting moments. It is in this regards that this article seek to enlighten you on a few ways that may be very helpful while you are going through a bad time of <strong>relationship breakdown</strong>.</p>
<p>If you are critically taking into consideration breaking with your boy friend or girl friend you should first take to them about the issue and try to explain to them how you feel about the whole thing of relationship since a great relationship creates a strong bond and understanding your partner will be more than willing to listen to you and understand your reasons why you feel that the relationship may not be for the good of both of you.</p>
<p>With such a platform you can easily make the decision to separate without necessarily having quarrels with your partner. Such an arrangement creates a good way to accommodate the bad and painful memories that come with <strong>relationship breakdown</strong>.</p>
<p> It is perpetually a nice experience to be in a relationship.&nbsp; But when a relationship does not work for both parties it is nice to give your spouse or partner sometime for them to think about the relationship before you make the final decision that the relationship is not working and there is no other way than a <strong>relationship breakdown</strong>.</p>
<p> Now that I have given your partner sometime to think about the relationship it may be good that you both agree on the time frame that you should take to come up with a conclusive decision on whether the relationship is good fit for both of you. At this juncture each one of you finds time to reflect on the good and the bad times of the relationships and makes his or her decision based on the their assessment. This is the best way prepare for a <strong>relationship breakdown</strong> as oppose to shouting and fighting with your partner.</p>
<p>With such an arrangement both parties will be well prepared for the <strong>relationship break down</strong> or a reconciliation but even if it goes the bad way the post psychological trauma of <strong>relationship breakdown</strong> will not be severe.</p>
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		<title>Special Site to Rent &#8220;Fiance&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 17:04:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Provide those services whose job it pretends to be engaged in the presence of family.]]></description>
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<p>Almost all can be obtained through internet networking. Old books, music, cars, even a spouse.</p>
<p> In China, single women who want to please their parents and families at the beginning of the year now have an instant solution. The site Taobao, eBay sales-type lease the site to be a man &#8220;fiance&#8221; for single women.</p>
<p> The man is not for dating or having sex. He would only pretend to be engaged in the presence of her family. Understandably, many parents want their daughter&#8217;s fiance introduced at dinner together at the beginning of the year.</p>
<p> Quoted from Weird Asia News, with rental costs 100 yen per day, a woman can have a fiance contracts to be introduced to parents at home.</p>
<p> Pay the extra cost of making the woman&#8217;s right to hug and hold hands &#8220;fiancee&#8221; of his. Special charges also apply if you want to share a bedroom.</p>
<p> Rising popularity of these services given the strong tradition of bringing home fiance in Chinese culture in the new year</p>
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		<title>How Do We Forgive</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:41:43 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time is a Cure of <a href="http://www.guidetopsychology.com/forgive.htm" target="_self"><strong>Forgiveness&nbsp;</strong> </a>every person has the capability to forgive, every person has been wronged some way in their life&nbsp;</p>
<p>Many people could probably write a book on how many times they have been challenged to forgive someone&nbsp;</p>
<p>Anyone that wrongs a persons needs &nbsp;forgiveness a stranger pushed me and beat me up of course I&#8217;m angry and at first probably want revenge that is the natural feeling for most of us</p>
<p>How we are able to choose to deal with our situations the sooner our feelings are dealt with the sooner to our <strong>Forgiveness</strong> appears the anger and bitterness go away&nbsp;</p>
<p>For many of us this is hard to do controlling feelings emotions&nbsp;</p>
<p>True <strong>Forgiveness</strong> strengthens character, calms emotion,conquers hate,</p>
<p>hate destroys all&nbsp;</p>
<p>Thinking of the past is a&nbsp;that holds forgiveness back,constantly dealing with those kinds of emotions keeps the resentment alive&nbsp;</p>
<p>Many people try to deal with their emotions on their own and prolong their <strong>Forgiveness</strong> Help is available on line could be the most comfortable way&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://helpguide.org/mental/mental_emotional_health.htm" target="_blank">&nbsp;Needing Help may be hard to accept It is great knowing their are places to contact&nbsp;</a><a href="http://helpguide.org/mental/mental_emotional_health.htm" target="_blank"><strong>Help Guide&nbsp;</strong></a>can assist&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Preparing a Valentine Date, for Guys</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tips for guys on preparing a date for Valentine's Day that will surely be memorable for their special someone.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Valentine&rsquo;s Day is tomorrow and many women are surely excited about this event. Sadly, most of the guys manage to celebrate this special day by exerting a little amount of effort for their significant other. This article will help guys how to prepare or set-up a memorable Valentine date that their women will never forget.</p>
<p>First step of preparation is fixing yourself. Try cleaning up a bit extra before the night. You can buy a new shirt if you like or something that you do not wear on an ordinary day. This will give the impression that you treating this day special for her.</p>
<p>Before picking her up, stopping by to buy flowers is also a great idea. A dozen of roses are the most usual but you can try other kinds, but the best would be to know what type of flower/s your girl like.</p>
<p>Exerting extra efforts like popping a breath mint will also not hurt, a women pay attention to these little details and she will surely love it once she smell the mint. If you have a car to pick her up, be a gentleman and open the door for her, give her a kiss and hand her the flowers, whichever comes first, it&rsquo;s all up to you.</p>
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<p>If you are eating in a restaurant, make sure you have made reservation at least a week before the date so that you will have a sure table when you come. Choose a restaurant that is not loud and crowded, so you can hear each other better. Choose also a place with low-light ambiance because that is where women feel most attractive in, like a candle-lit environment.</p>
<p>Be extra attentive with her during your meal, ask her how she thinks about the food, if her wine glass is filled, and give compliments to her once in a while. Just give focus on her, this will make her feel so special and would be excited to tell her friends about.</p>
<p>After your meal and asking for the bill, ask her first how she feels about the night, then head to anywhere you want to spend the rest of your date with.</p></p>
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		<title>Valentines Day is Also a Day of Tears</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Valentines Day can also be a hurtful time for some. Many can be confronting a cheating partner. The arguments to work late or get away from home that day. The phone with lock codes or left in the cars so you can&#8217;t see calls or messages. The I am hanging with friends that day. Anything to be away on the day that is nationally known to be with the one you love.</p>
<p>So a person has to face reality. They have to decide do they face reality or continue to live a lie. Do they pretend to be happy or fight for the relationship.</p>
<p>Only you and your partner can decide that. Maybe if this is you, it is time to sit down and be real with them. If you are cheating ask yourself why are you doing it. Do you need someone else to validate your worth? Is your partner not enough? Are you not happy with them? Maybe you should leave. Maybe you should be grownup enough to talk to them and tell them what it is. It isn&#8217;t fair to let another person think everything is okay while living a lie. It is pure selfishness.</p>
<p>If you are being cheated on you have to decide if that what you are willing to live with for the rest of your life. You have to decide if you deserve more or are you ok with living a lie. You also have to look at the health part. Are you ok with the fact they they may not be using safe sex? Are you ok with the fact that you maybe putting your own life at risk? Are you able to ask them and believe them? Could you believe someone that is already violating the vows?</p>
<p>You have to decide whether to fight for your relationship. People do make mistakes and maybe people change. Most never do.</p>
<p>But you are the one that has to live with the decision no one else.&nbsp;</p>
<p>But remember, If you want things to change you have to do things different. Things cant remain the same. Both people have to do things differently. One person can&#8217;t make a relationship work it takes TWO.</p>
<p>It is what makes TWO people make it. A relationship does not consist of one person. Actions speak louder than words!!!</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><u></u>After he was finished reading his son a story, they hugged one another and he turned on his son&rsquo;s radio to some classical easy listening music. Slick then stood up from the edge of his son&rsquo;s bed and head out the door after flicking off the light. It was late when he got home, and Jasmine wore a face that was filled with contempt, considering him to be beneath her. The contention started, and he already knew he had no chance of winning. Upon entering their bedroom she spouted &ldquo;Can&rsquo;t you ever come home at a decent hour?&rdquo; &ldquo;I can&rsquo;t really do much about me&hellip;&rdquo; Slick tried to talk but was quickly interrupted. &ldquo;Your son misses you!&rdquo; &nbsp;Silence filled the room as Slick thought. &lsquo;Well, I&rsquo;m sorry Paul was having a difficult night and I couldn&rsquo;t very well leave him in distress.&rsquo; He threw back the covers on his side of the bed and slid in. Without a word, Jasmine crawled into her side, turning away from Slick, and fell asleep. Jasmine continued to give him the silent treatment, which she kept up for about a week. Because of this, Slick decided to just stay overnight at Paul&rsquo;s house during the time they weren&rsquo;t speaking. He felt tormented with thoughts concerning the family and its well-being. It seemed they could never make any decisions together about it. What more could he do? He was trying to provide the basic needs for both his family and Paul the best he possibly could. His Dad had told him before to settle down and have a family. He was his ancestor who conceived him through his mother. A male guardian, he told him &ldquo;Yak got to make sure food is on the table. Yak got to settle down and listen to me boy.&rdquo;&nbsp; He was young enough then that he wasn&rsquo;t truly able to understand what his father was saying. As a mentor of sorts, his own father trained him. He spent many hours of his day out in the fields tilling soil for a living. His profession came so naturally to him, as if it were as simple as breathing. He worked by the sweat of his brow, certainly a hard worker. He once told his son &ldquo;Boy, remember and don&rsquo;t yak forget, yak family comes first always, and if yak have anything left yak get it, yak hear?&rdquo;&nbsp; &nbsp;He hung around him until he was convinced his father was right. They would always walk home after his father had worked hard in the fields, his son marveling at the dedication he put into caring for his family. They would talk and play little games to pass the time as they walked. His father taught him all sorts of things, and they played games like &ldquo;Name that tree&rdquo; in which they would quiz each other on the types of trees that they walked by. He reminded his son &ldquo;I never did get much learning done from the school books because I wasn&rsquo;t there long enough. But what I do have, son, it belongs to you.&rdquo; &ldquo;Daddy, will we be home soon, I&rsquo;m hungry and thirsty!&rdquo;&nbsp; &ldquo;Come on, keep walking, there is a small spring of water up ahead.&rdquo;&nbsp; &ldquo;Wow, this water is so nice and cold, I could drink this stuff until I exploded!&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp; &ldquo;Now now, I think that&rsquo;s enough. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing.&rdquo; Slick cherished those memories they shared. The next morning, Slick woke up and rushed into Sonny&rsquo;s room to get him dressed for daycare. They ate a quick breakfast but then it was off to school. Then they drove for 13th street on-ramp to interstate 30 east. Slick knew that he had a lot of responsibility to care for his family and its impact would make him feel slightly depressed from time to time. But never the less he was determined to stay there and keep them safe. Even with as difficult as their situation was, it still paled in comparison with his father&rsquo;s job. He just had to wonder if he&rsquo;d be up to the challenges ahead after already walking through so much fire. He knew he would have to be, his father told him to be, and so he shall. But, with that in mind he had to also consider how he would manage to better spend his time more effectively. He thought going to school would be a good idea.</p>
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		<title>Struggling with Pornography?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 00:43:02 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Pornography can be very addicting. At first you may watch once or twice a month&#8230; but then it starts burning into part of your reward cycle in your brain. You began to want it more and more up until you can&#8217;t go one day with out it. This is why pornography is bad. There is not much wrong with masturbation, except that its a sin for some religions such as Christianity. But porn does and can ruin your life. You become so dependant on it that you&nbsp;begin to stop caring for things or forget about your loyalties to your current partner. You begin to have strong sexual desires and you search for something better each day. If this is you right now&#8230; this is your notifier&nbsp;that you really need to put some effort into stopping. Don&#8217;t think &#8220;oh ill just do it this one last time and will never do it again&#8230;&#8221; because that&#8217;s not true. I have learned the hard way that its either <strong>NOW</strong>&nbsp;or never. Some people don&#8217;t get far into the addiction thus it is easy for them to get out. But most people go deeper and deeper each day. Remember this: every single time you do it again, the farther away you are from turning around.&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;Pornography is said to be a healthy masturbatory aid. But in reality, porn is a very addictive mental drug. It can be more addictive than smoking or drinking for some people. The only way your going to stop is with help from the outside. There are only a few people in the world that have forced them selves out just by saying no. But this is not the case for most people. There are many solutions. To name a few: Give you self a positive attitude. Think about your family or friends. When you watch porn, you are betraying them. When you wake in the morning, say to yourself &#8221; Okay, its a new day and there is no way I am going to let porn destroy my life. Another way that helps to get out of the addiction is tell someone. Your close friend or partner is likely to understand. Tell them when hey are in a good mood and make a plan to how your going to stop. The first thing you can do is to have someone set a password on the computer and not tell you so that when your alone, your not tempted. Speaking of which, try to never be alone in the computer room. Take notice that you usually start getting cravings when you alone. Do you best to avoid this situation and it will help you allot. The last way that I am going to share is get rid of the source. If its the computer, get programs that block bad sites, or even batter, get rid of the computer entirely. If its magazines, burn them. If its tapes, burn them and smash them with joy. If its anything else, obliterate it. There are different methods for getting out, but remember this: its either <strong>NOW</strong> or never. I wish the best of luck to all of you that have fallen into the trap.</p>
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