There are five factors that causes the most romantic breakup. What are they?

1. Incompatibility
Some couples, no matter how hard they try to be together, it still can not match. At first the couple will feel fine when there are differences that make the relationship interesting and alive. But eventually, so the couple started having serious and mature, some different views can lead to conflict. Differences would not be a problem to some extent, but when you will create a life together, a mismatch will cause even more frustrating and often the main factor driving the couple apart.

2. Infidelity
Some couples make it through perselingkungan cases, while others could not. Infidelity is often a destroyer of many a committed relationship because it means you’ll be faithful, and if your partner is doing it, how can you trust them? Another problem is that the affair often occurs when there is seseuatu wrong in the relationship, so that when one of the couple began looking for an escape to another person, the relationship may already be in ruins.

3. Long Distance Relationships
Ties that make every relationship goes forward may end up far from the expected over time. What began with strong connections that make you both stay together is not always under pressure. When this happens you will feel awkward at your partner and think more like people that are foreign to you. Not many couples can live a distance apart, and usually it is time you do not really depend on the relationship.

4. No Chemistry
Loss of desire in love with your partner can be daunting. If you always wanted to be with a partner all the time do not be quick to think that it is love, it could be just because of an obsession. When the intensity of the meet too much, there would be no challenge and desire to descend. Finally, the feeling of love was gradually fading.Many relationships end simply because of loss of desire or feeling bored.

5. Different vision
That is different from the way here, you and your partner want different things in life, but not necessarily love each other. For example, your boyfriend would rather stay home, but you are someone who wants to be venturing into a variety of places. This is a difficult situation to be addressed if a compromise is not reached.Often there is no choice but to break up because of different visions and opinions, despite the feeling that you have to mate with each other is very large.

As i was preparing to summon a portal to take us back to Earth from the Azure Paradise, another reaver came and attacked us. This time i let Meera handle it since i was in no mood to fight him and I had a portal to summon, this reaver was called Blackshroud, he is an expert in shadow arts and has a fire-based attacks and he was pretty swift too, Meera had a hard time dealing with him, she tried to dodge the best she could but he kept slashing and cutting at her. Like I said, we don’t die normally, that is due to our extremely fast regenaration, Meera finally had a chance and shot an ice bolt at him but he dodged it and threw a few daggers towards me, i drew up a force field and shot a spear at him impaling his shoulder, he fell to the ground wounded from the spear and paralyzed and Meera finished him off with a lighting spear. ‘Why do you keep showing off?’ Meera asked me with a new curiousity. ‘It wasn’t showing off, i was merely helping you kill him so I continue with the summoning of the portal and luck you it is done.’ I said with a smile. The portal shimmers and shadows dance around it as we can see our beloved urban Earth in the year 2020 and quickly crossed into our universe. Now it may be confusing but there are countless laws and rules of nature and how do we operate by it, for example, we don’t die from old age or normal weapons, but we die by normal weapons if they are used by guardians, that means guardians can kill guardians as well as there are other kinds of creatures capable of killing us.

We returned to Abu Dhabi(our local guardian base) to rest and meet up with other friends. we entered Ravenshearst tavern and found Grimoire Fauna, a french guardian who appears to be older than me by two years(I am sixteen, we stop aging at random times), he is well known for his practice of strong spells and sagecraft forbidden by the counsel of the magi which at sometimes are gross and disgusting such as his divine bolt of bile which shoots bile bolts of course or his jet of diarrhea and you probably know what it does. ‘Well if it isn’t the beautiful Meera Salem and apparently has the royalty with her too.’ Grimoire said. ‘Thank you Grim, Me and Khalid are going on a quest to fight the succubus, i’ve heard their attacking the Ethereal Plains again.’ Meera replied. ‘Oh thats a pity and how rude of you pulling me away from such a fine tavern to rest in but i suppose ill join for the fun of killing those damned seduction misstresses.’ ‘Mark my words Grim, it won’t be like last time, the Succubus have a master now, a reaver by the name Beastclaw The Charmer, i’ve heard that this reaver is not ordinary, must be some kind of big character or something so your ready for this?’ I said warning him about the danger and as always, Grim loves danger. ‘If your trying to get rid of me and have fun killing them alone then your terrible at doing so khalid, im coming guardian king or no king’ Grimoir answered with a rueful laugh and he added ‘But allow me to let my friend Brad, the Demon Alchemist to accompany us, if that is ok with you guys.’ Meera nodded and looked at me so i agreed. Brad is a seasoned guardian master of the demonic arts of magic and summoning, he once beat victor the destroyer(you’ll know about him later). Grim set about summoning a portal to the Ethereal plains, a vast landscape of fairies and other good natured spirits, yet invaded by the evil and dark succubus, women armed with black wings and tails and deathly tridents and are exceptional at seducing men into their demise, yet we do not know why have they invaded that place, its not of any value at all unless there is something hidden there.

We entered the Plains and its no surprise that we encountered the first group of succubus with the aid of a Elite rune lady(she is a tought opponent!) Meera quickly dispatched two of them with a chain lightning spell while Grim was busy guarding Brad who was summoning demonic minions to fight for him, while I was left with the rune lady and two of her succubus. The lady threw a few bolts at me but i casually knocked them over with my telekinetic force and then transmuted a BFG sword and started towards her, she sent the succubus who quickly tried to stab me with the tridents but i quickly dodged and fought with them, so far Meera has encountered another rune lady while Grim was fighting with two succubus and Brad was busy making more minions(he already deployed five who were fighting a succubus). I quickly sidestepped from an imminent attack and quickly impaled the succubus and knocked her off my sword but that all was needed for the other one to stab me right in my heart, i bleeded for a while then recovered and hurled the sword at her face but she dodged it with great agility and hurled her trident in return. I quickly melted the weapon and turned the liquid to acid and threw it back, she screamed as she melted away sizzling with acid, now another sword penetrated me from behind, it was the lady but i quickly turned and broke her hand free from the sword and pulled it from my back and threw it aside. She yelped at the sudden pain then quickly threw a few lightning bolts at me with no success and I quickly finished her off with a good earth spike from below. Meera dispatched her last succubus and turned to help Brad, Grim was sitting on a rock trying to transmute his arm into steel(he is not very good at that). ‘Looks like everything is settled guardians lets rest for a while and move on, I doubt that we have come upon this group by surprise’ I said. ‘I think they expected us’ Brad replied ‘It is possible with those two rune ladies, they can sense when a portal is about to be opened.’ ‘It doesn’t matter now, just rest’ Grim said.

After a few hours of sleep I was awakened by Meera. ‘We found Goblin troops, War gangs patrolling the entrance to that underground cave there.’ she points to a nearby valley where as i can see, is choked with goblins and succubus alike. ‘Something is not right here Khalid, I think something bad is about to happen’ Meera said. ‘Fear not! you have me remember, as long as I with you guys, we are undefeatable’ I said assuring the pretty Meera then there were shouts, the goblins have spotted us! and they have a guardian with them!. ‘Hey thats Jules Fortune! the Savage guardian!’ Grim said ‘ He was with me two weeks ago but he didn’t look suspicious or anything’. ‘Ill duel with him, with all these goblins in his presence, they the power to kill us, hehe so much for being undefeatable eh Meera?’ I said nervously. Jules moved to the front of the ranks and shouted ‘ I challenge the King Guardian Khalid to a duel! will you answer the rally?’. I shouted back a yes and we started drawing a huge circle around us marking the boundaries of the arena, in a duel, you have to kill your opponent to prove your the winner. We finished drawing and then charged towards each other, I transmuted my arm into a steel long sword and started slashing at the infamous savage who transmuted his left arm into a spiked club and the right arm into a war cleaver. In these duels its always a battle to the death, I jumped up high and turned my legs into anvils and slammed the ground causing a shockwave which crippled Jules, as soon as i charged at him, Jules shot some arrows from his mouth and it hit me unfortunately in my shoulder, wounds caused by guardians still regenarate but a slower pace. I instantly split my elbow and started shooting bullets at him, luckily he already planted a forcefield to protect himself. I quickly accelerated and hit him with a gas bomb which caused him to gag and double over and there was my chance, I quickly jumped up like a frog and landed beside him and stabbed him right in the stomach, the look on his deathly face, shocked and full of pain as he used up his last breath to tell me something ‘You……will……..die as……….prophecised………..foolish king’ and with one last shudder, he slumped to the ground and instantly my subordinates started slaughtering the goblins who were usless now.

I am sorry for the disappointment dear reader but I am still working on the story, its reall really long, perhaps the longest in the world and its all the result of my continuous lucid dreaming so if you get any suggestions please send them to my E-mail: sheikh_alamry@hotmail.com or if you have bb:282A0757

thank you for reading this first uncut novel the swearing is yet to be seen .

I see people, mostly women my age, worrying to the point of panicking when marital status is discussed. Marriage, it seems to them, is a sort of security and without a ring on their finger to signify they are “taken”, they are doomed!  Not for me.  I am at this stage where I am certain I love exactly where I am —this blissful stage of singleness. Do not get me wrong. Like every normal woman at her 20’s, I also take down mental notes on how I want my wedding to be; from the motif, entourage, reception, and of course the ultimate wedding gown! I also have a list of the possible names I would give my future mini-me’s. But that is just one of the many gifts of being single.

Preparation. This is what I sometimes refer to as my planting season. I believe this is where God is molding, fixing and honing me into the perfect partner and parent He intends me to be. This is when He teaches me to budget my resources, sort out my priorities, manage my tasks, balance my time and develop a sense of responsibility. A daily real-life learning process where I realize my values and obligations as an individual, and discover my skills and gifts that can bless others. He provides me with opportunities to choose my preferred way of living, ministry to serve, places to see and explore and meet people who can be potential future partners.

Since being single means having more than enough time for my Me-time, it brings me closer to the Original Author of Romance. Instead of going out on a date, I stay at home read the Bible or other inspirational reading materials, write on my journal, attend the Feast, meet my Caring Group siblings, or simply spend some quiet time with Him. Our relationship has grown deeper from Creator-creation, Master-steward to Father-Daughter and Best of friends. He allows me to have more time reflecting on and about life. Moreover, I am able to spend more quantity and quality time with my family and friends. Simply put, being single has blessed me in a way by being grateful and being a blessing myself to the people surrounding me.  People who cares and accepts me. This is the perfect time for me to shower them with the gift of time and good memories.

Not having a partner—yet, is my Heavenly Father’s way of protecting me from heartbreak after heartbreak. He protects me from what He knows are not good for my being: chauvinists, liars, “jerks” and possible abusers. He really knows what’s best and prepares the perfect time to give it to me.

Being alone is not always akin to being lonely. More often than not, it is the exact opposite of it. It is an experience of exceptional freedom. A time to enjoy life at its fullest; without guilt or hesitations. The perfect opportunity for growth and choosing wisely for our future and those of our loved ones. Ali Smith wrote in her book that singleness brings protection, provision, proximity and preparation. I could not agree more.

Indeed, life is exuberantly joyful and fun when you are single, especially when you have a great God who guides your every step and never gets tired of being your Loyal Partner, come what may.

A:
You are not romantic but more interested in action. With you, what is seen is obtained. You do not have the patience to play the eye and did not bother to wait on someone who is demure, sweet, polite and pretended to be very attractive. You are the person at the front. Physical attractiveness is important for your partner.

B:
You love the romantic atmosphere, filled with an atmosphere full dinner with wine. You love to receive gifts as a token of love from your partner. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper your mate. You can control your appetite and abstain from sex if need be. You require new sensations and experiences. You want to experiment.

C:
You are a very social individual is therefore important to have a personal relationship. You need the closeness and togetherness. You should be able to talk with a partner before, during and after sex. You want the object of your affection is socially acceptable and visible
handsome / beautiful. You see love as a friend and companion.

D:
Once your head is telling you that you need someone, you begin to move vigorously to pursue it, whoever and wherever the person he is. You do not give up easily. You are the type of people chasing the opposite sex, have a passion ngemong and care if anyone else had a problem. You are stimulated by the eccentric and unusual, free and open.

E:
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you can be a bad relationship. Your partner must be intellectually interesting. If not, you will not be sexually attracted to him. You need a friend for a lover and a companion for a bedmate. You hate disharmony and disruption, but enjoy the occasional debate.

F:
You included an idealist and a romantic and a devotee of the opposite-sex. Your search for the best life partner. You love to flirt but once committed, you are very loyal to the couple. You are sensual, sexy and passionate person. You appear in public
happy to show off, luxurious and strong.

G:
You people are very choosy, seeking perfection in yourself and your lover. You only respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or more and those who can improve the status. You are a sensual and know bagamana reach the peak of erotic stimulation because you
do it very carefully.

H:
You seek a partner who can raise the reputation and gain skills. You are very kind to lovers at a time through commitment. Your gifts are actually an investment partner. Before undergoing a commitment, you are a sensual and patient lover. When you are waiting until someone would like to mollify partners whenever she likes. Dare to compete, and full

I:
Untukdicintai you have a great need and desire to be appreciated … even worshiped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality and physical pleasure. You look for lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested in an amateur but amateur in need of a tutor. You nag and spend a lot of energy to make a wish fulfilled.

A:
You are very romantic and luxury associated with love. Having a partner is very important to you, but sometimes very difficult to obtain. You are free in expressing love and want to take a chance with multiple partners, sex with a partner to try new experiences, makes everything taste good. Trigger your brain. You must feel that your partner is intellectually encouraging.

K:
No other word you’re really amazing amazing!! (Ga ah. believes in sich .. period .. hehe)

L:
You are very romantic, idealistic sometimes believe that love means sacrifice. You end the relationship or attracting the hearts of people who have an unusual problem. You see yourself as the savior of a lover. Your sincere, affectionate, full of passion and dreams. You easily fall in love. You fantasize and encouraged by movies and magazines. You did not tell the secret of life to others. Not also your sexual fantasies.

M:
Emotional and passionate. When involved in a relationship, you throw all of yourself in it. Nothing can stop you, no one ever cross your way. You all out and crave someone who is full of love and excitement. You believe in total sexual freedom. You want to try all. Your supply of sexual energy there is no death. You are also happy to act like a mother? for couples.

N:
Sorry … you suck in bed (upzzz. … sorry)

O:
You are very interested in sexual activity but is very secretive and shy about this desire. You can drive a lot of sexual energy into making money and or seeking power. You can easily extend the period you are single. You are full of love,
passionate lover of requiring the same sex and couples.

P:
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You would not think of doing something that might harm your image or reputation. Appearance is important. You need a partner who looks handsome / pretty good too. Oddly, your partner is sometimes viewed as an enemy to encourage sexual thrill.

Q:
You need constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous physical energy. Not easy for a couple to stay together with you, either sexually or anything else. You are an enthusiastic lover and tend to be attracted to people of other ethnic groups. You need romance, hearts and flowers and lots of conversation to continue to increase arousal and sexual activity.

R:
You are very logical and very action oriented. You need someone who can follow the steps and intellectually equal, smarter is better. You are turned on more quickly because of a great mind than a beautiful body. However, physical attractiveness is very important to you. You should feel proud of your partner.

S:
You are secretive, reserved and shy. You are very sexy, sensual and bengairah but do not allow this. Only in intimate privacy will you let your nature reveal itself. When sex becomes a fundamental thing, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks, and could be on the stage or playing around and make your love life very seriously. You have the patience to wait for the right person.

T:
You are very sensitive, private, and sexually passive. You like a mate who took the lead. Msuik, dim lights and romantic thoughts increase your passion. You fantasize, but do not easily fall in love. When being in love, you can romantic, idealistic, bubbling, and very excited.

U:
You act enthusiastic and idealistic when in love. When not in love, you fall in love and always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as challenge. Your sex drive is strong and eager to immediately admired. You want to put fun on the wishes of the couple themselves.

V:
Individualist and you need freedom, space and excitement. You wait until know someone well before committing. Know someone means animating. You feel the need to understand the contents of his head to understand what moves mambuatnya. You are interested in the eccentric type. Often there is an age difference between you and your partner.

W:
You are very proud, determined, and rejected a challenge when pursuing love. Your ego is at stake. You are romantic, idealistic and often fall in love with love itself and did not see the couple as himself. You feel really throw your whole self into the relationship. Nothing is too good for couples. You enjoy the courtship.

X:
You need constant stimulation because it is easily bored. You can be dating more than one person with ease. You can not turn off your mind. You keep talking while having sex. You have a great love affair, all by yourself and in the head.

Y:
You sexy, sensual and very independent. If you do not get it in your own way, you stop everything. You want to control relationships do not always go well you respond to physical drives, enjoy a touch on the neck and spent many hours just to touch, feel and explore.

Z:
For your business should take precedence over matters of sex. If you are plagued career affairs, business or affairs of money, you will be hard to get relaxed and the mood for sex

Now is the time to take control. Stop people from abusing, mistreating, disrespecting or unappreciating you. One step at a time. It becomes easier as time goes on. You began to demand respect. You can do it quietly, you don’t have to yell.

You can simply start by saying NO when you dont want to do something. You can tell your kids you arent their maid or slave. You can tell your parent to stop treating you like a child. You can tell your friend NO. If these people care they will still be there. If not they didnt anyway and you may be better off.

Empowering yourself becomes easier as you take baby steps. Your family and friends may suddenly ask , “What’s wrong with you?” I had to say I know you love me, but loving me is not enough anymore. I want respect and appreciation. It may shock them initially but as you stick to your guns it works.

You feel better and become confident. I am doing it everyday. Everyday I get stronger where it counts. Taking control of my own self worth. Demanding that others realize it as well.

Good luck on your journey. Baby steps…You will get there

So if you and your partner wish to move in together and make it work then its probably a good idea to set some ground rules. Follow these rules and you should be living in perfect harmony.

Set up ground rules before moving in together – decide who will pay for what and who is doing what chores. Make sure you stick to that and don’t let it slide, otherwise the yelling will begin.

Be Romantic – Just because your living together doesn’t mean you could stop making an effort with each other. Its important to set aside some special time to be together as a couple as not as two people who are living under the same roof.

And last but not least – Don’t rush into it, get to really no each other first before you decide to live together. If you take that step too soon it could be what pulls you apart. If you really feel you want to live together stay over at each others houses a few nights a week and see  how that feels.

I look at older married couples and wonder how did they stay together for 20,30+ years. It seems so rare to see a couple last longer than a year or so. Which brings me to my first question…Why has chivalry died? Is it because marriage is not viewed and honored sacritly by most? Maybe it’s because single mothers have become the head of household? Have we forgotten how we all entered this world? Woman are designed and built to carry life and to endure pain to find paradise. The pains of labor is awful,yet most woman feel a bond of unconditional love at the same time.

In today’s society all relationships are not made up of man/woman,some are man/man or woman/woman.In my mind that doesn’t really matter, there’s still usaually a dominant spouse in each equation. In my younger years I would watch these princess movies, and like most children I wanted my very own knight in armor. It may have taken me a decade or two but I learned I’m no princess..and no one was coming to sweep me off my feet. That was when I had a life change and went from a dreamy little girl to a self proclaimed business woman.

Doing things on my own was so fulfilling and reassring for me…I forgot about my knight. Once I accomplished my goal of becoming independent I starting feeling lonely. When your stable and looking for love you may find more than what you bargained for.When I dated someone who was my financial equal,we didn’t seem to have anything in common but capitol.I watch so many celebs.. marry for money and then I watch them divorce for infidelities. They cheat because they were never in love,they were in an arrangement. Which to me is just painting the wrong picture of love for the youth and a mockery of family values. The lessoned I learned then was that money really can’t buy you love.

With my new lesson in mind I started opening myself of to ppl who seemed to have some of the same interest as I do. I thought if I had a mate that shared my pleasurable past-times,I would feel completed. The relationship started out great..until I started to notice that my partner had champagne taste…with beer money. There was also the issue with changing all of my shopping habits and the self splurging I had become accustomed to. It really made me feel guilty when I bought myself exspensive gifts, only because I knew he wanted to do those things for me. In my defense I would wait for months while he tried to save his money to buy a item for me that I could have purchased six times over.Eventually I started to feel like his loan shark and he felt co-depenant. The relationship ened horribly and I felt awful.Was my ego the biggest issue in our downfall or was it his pride?

Now I am in limbo..asking myself what ever happened to 50/50? If one party carries the bulk of a load it’s not a partnership. Couples are suppose to complete eachother. This is why I believe everyone has a soulmate/twin flame, finding them is the problem.In ancient times ppl believed that most soulmates don’t even walk the earth at the same time. Very few of us have met our equal and if you have,treasure them always. Not much in life is fare,yet I still feel some things should atleat be made equal. We fought for civil rights,womans’ rights, and many other issues. It is time to fight again…this time fight for your families,your children, equality, and most of all LOVE.With out love we are doomed as a whole, without family values are children and the next generation are oblivious to what love is. How do you know if what you feel is a healthy love if you have never been exposed to it? It’s like being a jack of all trades : yet a master at none

Guest book

Compile your memories of dative years your married years. Create a guest book, you and your spouse can enjoy and add-on for many years. Old movie theater ticket stubs, photos from vacations, family dinners and celebrations, and a handwritten note or love poem. Using scrapbook supplies to create a bound book, or opt for an electronic version. Book a creative website domain for your spouse electronic scrapbook of companies such as Blurb, Smile box and Mix book. These companies offer software for digital scrap booking projects.

Photo Shoot

Arrange a photo shoot with a local photographer. Are you planning a shooting that will capture your personality and your love for each other. Select a destination to which your life is as a couple, as important as the place where you had your first date, got engaged or married. Planning a meeting of your favorite park, restaurant and museum. Arrange for hair and makeup for your spouse on the day of admission. Use the photographs to create a romantic photo album, you can display in your home.

Create the memories

Create the magic of your first day. Planning a same day or the evening to celebrate your anniversary. Plan a week of celebration for an elaborate wedding anniversary gift. Visit a participating location or an event that is specifically designed for you and your spouse. For example, online shop for antiques, indulge in ice cream or enjoy a walk in the park

Romantic Cruise

Planning a romantic cruise to a nearby port to celebrate your anniversary. Buy tickets for a cruise or plan a midnight sailing adventure. Planning a dinner cruise and enjoy an evening meal, entertainment and dancing. To celebrate the union on the water with a champagne.

Bed & Breakfast

Local go and spend a weekend at a Bed and Breakfast in your area, or opt for a car ride. Small and intimate than most hotels, bed and breakfast places give couples the opportunity to have personal attention from restaurateurs in a quiet environment to experience. Looking for Bed and Breakfast establishments in historic districts, the food often offer a variety of places and shopping.

Romantic weekend

Are you planning a vacation to your wedding in a romantic place to celebrate. Choose a location that you can both enjoy. During your romantic getaway to surprise your spouse with champagne, decadent chocolates, a bed covered in roses, a few massage or dinner in a five-star restaurant.

Romance in a relationship is urgently needed. In addition to boosting intimacy passion, romance takes to create a harmonious relationship. To that end, a warm hug with a few words of praise can be a marvel ahead of the sex session begins. Without realizing it, this effectively restore the warmth of love and romance you both.
 
In order to make it more lively, let the couple enjoy the indulgence which you cast for him. Sexual intimacy allows the couple to realize how warm the passion that you serve him, as reported by the Times of India.
 
Try to provide the best in bed for couples. Do not make your partner feel that only he who makes all the effort to create romance. You can slip a naughty phrases in his ear.
 
Sometimes, whispering naughty things can actually create the intimacy and sex drive increases rapidly. Remember, do not be excessive. Simply enjoy the intimacy and help your partner achieve orgasm. For burning passion, give her feedback about how well you like the way he touched, kissed and memerlakukan you. This method effectively increases the performance both of you love.