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		<title>Colombian Couple Caught Having Sex in a Public Pool! (Video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 12:51:02 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>No Shame: Colombian Couple Caught Having Sex In A Public Pool! (Video)</p>
<p>Video has been highlighted on the Internet.</p>
<p>Couple came to budge during the act.</p>
<p>Regardless of the presence of others, a couple was caught having sex in a public pool in Colombia. The pair came to change position during sex. The scene was highlighted on the Internet and has been published on various websites and blogs.</p>
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<p>Couple&nbsp;was caught&nbsp;having sex in&nbsp;a&nbsp;public pool&nbsp;in Colombia.</p>
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<h3>Video:&nbsp;<a href="http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh8o7MLT2eXbwO6w1t&amp;set_size=1" target="_blank">See Video</a></h3>
<p>Read More:&nbsp;<a href="http://socyberty.com/sexuality/top-10-most-bizarre-places-with-couples-caught-having-sex/" target="_blank">Top 10 Most Bizarre Places with Couples Caught Having Sex</a></p></p>
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		<title>Top 10 Most Bizarre Places with Couples Caught Having Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 16:29:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sexual act parachute jump is the most impressive.
But the list also has caught on subways, buses, stadium and coffin.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In October, a couple came to prominence in the world press published on the internet after a video of having sex during a parachute jump in Taft, USA. The case came to be investigated by a board of local aviation. In November, a couple was filmed by security cameras having sex in a coffin in China. Below these and other &#8220;weird places&#8221; in which couples were having sex.</p>
<h4>Alex Torres and Hope Howell had sex during parachuting.</h4>
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<h4>In August 2011, a photo showing a police officer having sex on duty on the hood of a car in broad daylight sparked controversy in New Mexico (USA). The scene was recorded by surveillance cameras of a ranch.</h4>
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<h4>Couple was caught having sex in a coffin in China.</h4>
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<h4>In 2010, a couple was filmed having sex in the subway car in Vienna, Austria. The images show the duo performing the sexual act while other passengers crowd around to watch and be able to film them on their mobile phones.</h4>
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<h4>In 2010, an employee of a governmental agency was arrested in Manila in the Philippines after being caught having sex with a woman inside the body of a bus that was parked near a police station in Quezon City.</h4>
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<h4>In 2010, a pair of lovers fell from the window of the apartment while having sex in the city of Lubeck, Germany. The man and woman who did not have publicized the names dropped from a height of five meters.</h4>
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<h4>In March 2011, a couple was photographed having sex on the roof of a building at the University of Southern California (USC).</h4>
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<h4>In September 2011, a couple was seen having sex in broad daylight on the balcony of a hotel in Darwin, Australia.</h4>
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<h4>In October 2011, a couple was caught having sex in the middle of the crowd during a football match in Germany.</h4>
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<h4>In May 2011, a couple of students was filmed having sex at a college in Hebei, China. The duo took advantage of the lunch hour to have sex in the middle of the classroom.</h4>
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		<title>Ambidextrous: Practical Pressures!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Sep 2011 10:39:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most of the people are born right handed, while some are born left handed. It is important for everyone to become ambidextrous, which will make sure that they can make the best use of both their hands equivalently so as to be more successful. What prevents humans from becoming ambidextrous in nature, while most of the animals do not show off their side-preferences unless observed keenly?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Brain Games:</h3>
<p>The right side of the body is controlled by the left hemisphere of the brain, while the left side of the body is taken care of by right hemisphere of the brain. Therefore, those born with left-brain dominance would tend to be right handed, while others with right-brain dominance will become left-handed. Since linear thinking is governed by left hemisphere, it is true that right handed are more towards process orientation, analytical thinking and being meticulous with lesser creative power; while the right hemisphere takes care of creativity and lateral thinking abilities, the left handed are more successful in terms of creative skills, non-linear or spatial thinking abilities, etc. Though it is possible to get comfortable with both hemispheres with diligent practice, it is tough to reprogram the preferences of the sides of the brains completely, as it is one unchangeable gift of birth.</p>
<h3>Mind Matters:</h3>
<p>Since the baby is so comfortable with one side of the body, it is natural that they would not like to change and deviate from their comfort zone and this prevents them from choosing to be ambidextrous in their lives. However, once the person realizes that they have to use both the hands, such as when bicycling, typing, etc, they tend to gain comfort with both sides on a selective basis.</p>
<h3>Physiological Complexities:</h3>
<p>When the baby learns to write, it would choose the dominant hand, right hand in most cases, to hold the pen and write symbols that represent the text of the language that he/she is learning. Even for the dominant and more comfortable hand, it is very tough for getting the right shape of the symbol with the properly written straight lines and curves and joints that are made at the right points. It takes a few weeks to months and even years to get conversant with the right type of writing, with the help of tools such as handholding techniques and handwriting notebooks.</p>
<h3>High Expectations; Giving Up Too Early:</h3>
<p>When the person wants to be ambidextrous and tries to write with their non-dominant hand, they want instant results and do not have the patience of the child or the enterprising ability of the young mind. A couple of days of passionate scribbling would lead to dropping this attempt totally, which is what happened to me after a couple of weeks. However, then I realized that it took some time to make the right arm learn to write when it was a baby of about less than a half a decade old. Now that the left arm has grown up comfortably without taking up risky but adventurous exploits such as writing, it is tough to give it training to do something that it has never done for more than one and half decades of its existence. Gentle guidance and self motivated attempts made it dexterous enough to write independent alphabets then graduating it to the speed of the right hand.</p>
<h3>Social Taboo:</h3>
<p>First reaction from my friends and even from mother when they watched me write in left (to fill crosswords) while I was having food with my right hand is to say that it is not good to write using your left hand and it is a social taboo, etc to wane off that habit. But after explaining its need, she accepted it and even admired it later on. Many southpaws have been disoriented by their superstitious parents, who diligently try to change their child to become right handed, which they would not succeed completely. Parents and society should accept the fact that both arms are to be given equal importance and one need not just follow the herd just because the majority follows the same pattern, which would cause huge irreversible damages in their lives.</p>
<h4>While it is important to appreciate ambidextrousness, it is equally important to gain some degree of dexterity with both the arms so as to achieve new heights in life.</h4>
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		<description><![CDATA[Want to know how to put into practice your sexual fantasies?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our stimulus to sex is basically of three phases: the desire that comes when we think about the possibility of a sexual encounter in the preparation of the environment and / or accessory that will be used, and to imagine sexual fantasies about the act to be experienced.&nbsp;Usually, we learn that sexual fantasies are secret and only serve to stimulate sexual activity, without necessarily being the activity itself.&nbsp;Talking about them is still a social taboo.&nbsp;What we must realize is that it can indeed be used in sex, but more easily by helping to maintain the desire and orgasm.&nbsp;</p>
<p>One possible explanation for her case would be that you do not believe that their fantasies can be lived with her partner.&nbsp;Have you ever tried to bring his fantasies to bed?&nbsp;Is there any chance to talk with your partner about your needs?&nbsp;Often this is enough to request that the fantasy becomes part of the sexual life of you, being a facilitator of orgasm.&nbsp;</p>
<p>There is a very good book about this American author Wendy Maltz and Suzie Boss.The story talks about the different possibilities of thinking and fantasizing about our sexual desires, in order to seek and obtain as much pleasure as possible at the time of the relationship.&nbsp;It&#8217;s a good read on the subject.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Unlike what society in general, leads us to believe, sexual fantasy is not a kind of betrayal to your partner, but rather a way to recognize ourselves as women and learn about our needs.&nbsp;Take care of your relationship and bring two.&nbsp;If you believe that your partner can listen, tell him.&nbsp;If you think it can not or should not hear, save it for you.&nbsp;What goes and happens inside your head, nobody can control is your only one world.Remember that it pays to be happy sexually and seek sexual quality of life with your partner.</p>
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		<title>The Extremes of Anguish</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Oct 2010 14:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[She suffered such pain of anguish over the years partly due to her In-law's indifferent behavior and partly because of her husband's in human attitude.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this article i will go through some of the most frightful and shocking crime being inflicted upon woman in this modern society, which most of the time go unattended. A real story revealed to author.</p>
<p>We both met by chance. She was a widow in her late forty and i was&nbsp; forty, a <a href="http://www.bukisa.com/articles/90911_the-extremes-of-anguish#" target="_new">divorce</a>. She was by far prettier then i had expected,&nbsp;oval face, big deep eyes and sensual lips and white complexion. But its not that what i was attracted to, apparently not.I was rather attracted by her inner beauty, her pious approach to any subject, forever calmness on her face, and&nbsp;&nbsp;miraculously similar thinkings&nbsp;made my&nbsp;heart trembling.We soon become good friends. One day i seriously proposed her,&#8221; Reeta, i have fallen in love and i want to have you as my <a href="http://www.bukisa.com/articles/90911_the-extremes-of-anguish#" target="_new">life partner</a>&#8220;, &#8220;no, friends millions time, but nothing else&#8221;, she politely rejected my proposal. As a result quite apparently i become quiet, less energetic, and withdrawn, which she noticed and called me,&#8221; listen, you are a very good friend of mine and really do not want to loss you but for godsake please do not compel me to something which i can not give you and then her voice trailed off&#8230;&#8230;..i sensed something very serious&#8221; ok ok i promise not to disturb you&#8221;, i tried to calm down her. No, you do not disturb me, its only that you do not know what i had gone through in my life ok,today i will tell you and then she gave an account of her sufferings in her past.</p>
<p>I was barely ninteen years old when i married to this man, she pointed towards a framed picture of a man hung on the wall, the father of my two kids. She took a deep breath and continued&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..every to &#8211; be &#8211; girl goes through pangs of anxiety just thinking about her future mother &#8211; in &#8211; law. Problems are usually more intense with arranged marriages. Its tough to be in such a relationship.All of a sudden i found myself amongs strangers, away from my parents.I still don&#8217;t understand that why they had asked my hand for their son when they did not like me? They were very indifferent and orthodox in their attitude.towards me from the day one.My husband was not different either,never cared for me .</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t imagine how lonely i had become, somehow i managed to survive in spite of extreme diverse conditions.used to think someday my husband , who was very handsome and intelligent at his work, might change, and then i had my first baby child, a baby child? its still treated as curse in india.Things grew more intense, not a single day went by when i was not absued or cursed upon or humiliated and caused mental distress, yet i respected him a lot, after all he was a father of my child. They banned me visiting my parents and imposed inhuman conditions, left alone to die in solace. I sometimes used to wonder what would become of me, years passed by and conditions worsened. I was living just for the sake of , no joy in my heart, no one to look for, i lost all hope of emerging from that house(i would say prison ) in which i was confined for being his wife.</p>
<p>Ahh&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;in the ensuing years of my anguish i gave birth to my second child with that my faith was made manyfest. It was a cry of distress, but not distrust god had withdrawn from me, my faith triumphed by laying hold of god ever amid the darkness. After two years of my second child my husband got an offer from United States and he took all of us.</p>
<p>Although,deprived of liberty i was happy and thought that things would now change,but i was fool and stupid to hold belief based on impirical evidence,i had to realise later that what i envisaged was an illution. My husband used to drink but as he rose the ladder of success, he eventually become an alcoholic brat and would often beat me in front of my innocent kids, their childhood too was at stake. I was the victim of most elusive crime of our society, yet i continued to respect him. We were advancing towards a disaster, unknown and silent as it was.</p>
<p>My husband paid a heavy price for being an alcoholism. One day without any warning he passed away and left us in Bewilderment. I had no one to look for help, a young widow with two kids side by side, nowhere to go, what to do! how would i survive, i had remained in house for the last fifteen years, although i was graduate,but never worked. God had been very kind to me, some of my wellwishers came forward and helped in getting a <a href="http://www.bukisa.com/articles/90911_the-extremes-of-anguish#" target="_new">job</a> for me, i bow my head to these kind people. My friends were very caring they kept pressuring me to re married, i reluctantly agreed upon and then this gentleman came into my life. He was an angel sent by god to pamper me, reward me for all those sufferings i had gone through. He had very little time as though he knew it,he did everything in haste, wanting to fulfill all my unexplored desire, he taught me the true meaning of love, life was running at a very fast pase, every fiber of his being was immencely in love with me, even my kids were very fond of him.I only disclosed about&nbsp;re marrying to my parents and few of my friends,in india re- marriage is still a social taboo.</p>
<p>In his passionate presence soon i forget all the pain that has been inflicted upon me by my ex- husband, moved by his serene approach we worked out a date to our <a href="http://www.bukisa.com/articles/90911_the-extremes-of-anguish#" target="_new">marriage</a>, it was yet to be announced, but unaware of what lies ahead. My destiny had something else stored for me. The day he was to announce the date he passed away in his sleep.I feel not ashemed to admit that his death left me shattered, i owe a great respect to him, he was a true angel</p>
<p>Why all this happening to me? why?&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;the one who was so crual to me&nbsp; was after all my husband, he left me alone, then this angel came into my life, left me alone too! tell me why?&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..reeta looked into my eyes, soacked with tears. I could not face her.Inside i felt something heavy i gently took her hand in my hand and said,&#8221;I am so sorry for just giving you an attitude. I am just being an &#8211; over sensitive selfish jerk. I hope you can forgive me for being such a baby. I shall never ever impose my feelings. A gentleman promise.</p>
<p>She left with a heavy heart, i sat there for a long thinking why this world is so crual, why re marriages are still a social taboo.</p>
<p>Read more: <a href="http://www.bukisa.com/articles/90911_the-extremes-of-anguish#ixzz12EVGjNJR" target="_blank">http://www.bukisa.com/articles/90911_the-extremes-of-anguish#ixzz12EVGjNJR</a></p>
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		<title>Alone at Christmas? Exploring the Holiday Taboo</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2008 10:59:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How are you spending Christmas this year? alone? Surely not? Why? How come? It's a social taboo and many people find it hard to understand but many people will choose to be alone this Christmas.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With the holiday season upon us, the world seems to be going crazy with tips on how to cook the perfect family dinner or avoid tensions in the house. Everywhere you look in the city, people are dashing about with bags of shopping and loading gifts into the boot of the car. Office parties are plentiful and Christmas spirit is rife.</p>
<p>But what about the people who are alone at Christmas? They span every age group from teens to seniors but it is a group that never seems to get a look in at this time of year. A bit like the singleton on Valentine&#8217;s Day &#8211; being alone at Christmas either conjures up pity or disbelief &#8211; depending on the root cause! But some people choose to be alone.</p>
<p>A few years ago, finding myself newly divorced and with a lovely but slightly dysfunctional family &#8211; I found myself with the prospect of spending Christmas alone. I had a few generous offers, from friends and family alike, to spend Christmas with them. But the truth was I wanted to be in my own home!</p>
<p>I know this may seem strange, but I was coming to terms with being single again and there was some sadness attached to this, so therefore I wanted to be somewhere familiar.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t want the pressure of living by someone else&#8217;s rules, customs and traditions as I was not in the right frame of mind to do so.</p>
<p>So I decided to spend Christmas alone. I was fearful at first as it just didn&#8217;t seem right but I came to realise that the only thing I was really battling with was the fact that spending Christmas alone &#8211; by choice- is a taboo!</p>
<p>I can honestly say (weird as it may sound) that it was one of the best Christmas days that I have ever had).&nbsp; I met some friends for drinks on Christmas Eve which I really enjoyed and then set off home for my Christmas Day alone.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not that I want to be alone every year &#8211; of course not &#8211; but let&#8217;s face it, there may be a time when it&#8217;s necessary again and now I do not fear it!</p>
<h3><strong>The best thing about spending Christmas alone was:</strong></h3>
<ul>
<li>My own schedule, having a lie in, eating when I wanted and not having to fit around anyone else&#8217;s plans</li>
<li>Eating what I wanted, when I wanted!</li>
<li>Watching what the hell I liked on Telly and not having to compromise</li>
<li>Chatting to various people on the phone to hear snippets of their day &#8211; and the various moans that went with it!</li>
<li>Having no-ones mess to clear up but my own</li>
</ul>
<p>I like spending Christmas with someone special and this year I am -but if you are on your own this year, make the best of it and ENJOY! It&#8217;s another thread in life&#8217;s rich tapestry!</p>
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