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		<title>[Minecraft][1.2.5] Tekkit Launcher FOR Cracked Players</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 May 2012 06:39:40 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello guys! i dont write here for months!</p>
<p>But today i come with some big news! There is a new Cracked Tekkit launcher on the webs!</p>
<p>For the people who doesnt know what is this:</p>
<p>Tekkit launcher is a Launcher (Inventually) just like spout. It has so many Mod packs, like The official Tekkit mod pack, the Technic Mod pack, YogBox, Voxel Mod Pack and, the best one, Hack/Mine Mod!!!</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll need a minecraft account first, you should register, if you dont know, you can register at minecraft without paying, you will pay just when you want to buy it. When you have it, you are ready to download the awasome Tekkit Launcher!</p>
<p>Here is the MPGH Tekkit Launcher Cracked Thread (You must register to download the atachments at the end of the post)&nbsp;http://adf.ly/8xg4D</p>
<p>The Tekkit/Technic offical site: <a href="http://adf.ly/8xgE5" target="_blank">http://adf.ly/8xgE5</a></p>
<p>And thats all!!</p>
<p>I will make a video explaining what to do, bye all <img src='http://socyberty.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Spiritual Movements:</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 12:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every individual being is the existence of the angle of attraction and aversion. Every individual forms a hypothetical point on this line. Every point is associated with all the points of its species and homologous with other points of its species. This very homology causes it to appear similar to the other points of its species. Each point is called Location. This location is of two types and keeps on circulating. First circulation is the Rotational Revolution which keeps it incarcerated and doesn&#8217;t allow it to be absorbed in points of other species.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><p>Every individual being is the existence of the angle of attraction and aversion. Every individual forms a hypothetical point on this line. Every point is associated with all the points of its species and homologous with other points of its species. This very homology causes it to appear similar to the other points of its species. Each point is called Location. This location is of two types and keeps on circulating. First circulation is the Rotational Revolution which keeps it incarcerated and doesn&rsquo;t allow it to be absorbed in points of other species.</p>
<p>Other is the Linear Revolution which keeps it in touch with the other angles of the universe, that is to say, all these points are tied in the strings of light and the arrangement of the universe is based upon these very strings of light.</p>
<p>One side of the rotational revolution is the record of the individual life of the point and its other side is the record of the life of its species.</p>
<p>One side of the linear revolution associates with the individuals of one species with the individuals of the other species and the other side of this revolution is adjoining to that Reality which is known as the Inevitable Being. This reality comprises of the Personal Attributes of Almighty&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;the most exalted.</p>
<p>The lights which are the root cause of the rotational revolution are named as Aura and the lights that are the root cause of the linear revolution are named Light, in any person these Lights are the Centrality (nucleus) of the person. Each of these lights is di-hedral and each side is the conscious of the system of the universe. For example, in order to prepare a flavored drink, water, sugar, colors, and a flavor are mixed together and kept in bottles. If the bottle is considered to be that light which is present before our eyes then the water could be assumed as the Fourth Conscious, the color as the Third Conscious, the sweetness as the Second Conscious, and the flavor as the First Conscious. Just as we feel and perceive the water, colors, sugar, and the flavor through ostensible senses similarly these four consciousnesses could be realized and perceived through immanent senses.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p></p>
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		<title>What Happens to Our Soul When We Die</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 13:29:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Determining what happens to our soul when we pass on.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Discussions on death and dying are often subjects we avoid as we don&rsquo;t know ourselves what the true answers are. Still, we know there is an afterlife. What is it for the Christians, the Muslims and the Jews? Is it a time at some point in the future where Jesus comes back? The time of Resurrection? The time of paying for our sins? Will the world come to an end, and then come to life again? There are so many unanswered questions, and no one can claim to know the truth.</p>
<p>In Islam, Muslims believe from the words in the Qur&rsquo;an that two angels come to &lsquo;pull the ruh&rsquo; &ndash; extract the soul. If the deceased has led a good life his soul will leave the body easily. If he has led a sinful life, extracting his soul will be like pulling teeth. The two angels have names and come together to get the soul. After this the body rots; the soul lives on. But what happens to the soul? At the moment of death the soul goes into barzakh &ndash; meaning that the soul is in a holding pattern with other souls who are eager to meet with family members. You have probably heard people who have lost a loved one say that they saw, just before the person died, that he seemed to be in another dimension and stretched out his arms to something only he could see, and exclaim that so and so is in the room.</p>
<p>I lost a family member a few days ago. My sister was in the room and said that immediately after her mother died she saw her mother in the room and was frightened. Another instance is where two high school grads, cousins and best friends were so close that they both died instantly in a Mercedes when they raced down the street, were buried together and that one of them, close to death, said that he wanted to go fishing as his cousin was there. I can relate several similar stories. My question is: is this real, a visitation, or a trick of the brain? I have heard that the brain is the last thing to go when someone dies. Is that so? It would explain the white bright light people who have had a near death experience come back from the dead and relate. I would like to hear a Jewish, Christian or even another Muslim answer to this.</p>
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		<title>Buddhism And Christianity. A Buddhist&#8217;s  Point of View.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Apr 2012 06:43:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The name says it all. Read on it is short.]]></description>
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<p>references:</p>
<p>Buddhism: philosophy (system, technique) of becoming a Buddha.<br />Buddha: a person (not a god) that has reached the state of Nirvana.<br />Nirvana: absolute stability of the mind.</p>
<p>Now. Buddhism is a harsh philosophy. There is no help from no one. In Christianity there is a symbol of God: unconditional love, ever helpful, ever watchful, every where and always right &#8211; the source of never ending support and loneliness eliminator. At the end tho, both B. &amp; C.&nbsp; are about becoming a better homo sapience. Human beings are strange creatures: we have the ultimate brain (mind/intellect/intelligence or as Christians call it &#8211; soul), that is not found anywhere else in animal kingdom of planet Earth and possibly in the whole universe. It really is a wonderful machine (Christians would say magical), unfortunately we don&rsquo;t know how to use it. It is a tragedy. There is ALWAYS dissatisfaction, we just can&rsquo;t get full, it doesn&rsquo;t&rsquo;t matter what it is we r consuming (food, goods, sex, knowledge, beauty, love), fulfillment only lasts for a little while. Mind, great but restless, always pushes us to get more. That creates fear and suffering (that we also consume and can not live without). Forever hungry, we roam around as an all consuming super virus looking for its next victim. (With science and technology developing as never before, we are dangerous to existence of life itself, at least on our planet). How we came to be, were we created by God or nature, ultimately doesn&rsquo;t matter. What to do with our selves (the meaning of life) is the problem. To solve this problem in Buddhism one must reach Nirvana. In Christianity one must surrender himself to God. Both philosophies require determination, time, strong will, ability to develop. One can reach God only by following His word. God said (and I am NOT a scholar on exact phrasing but what was said I do understand): I am everywhere, I am everything, love me, understand that I am the ruler not you, do what I said and if you do (and it is not easy), I will give you everything you want:</p>
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<p>heaven. Buddhism has the same understanding minus the symbol of God: everything is everything, life is beautiful, everything&nbsp; belongs to everyone, one is a part of everything, no fight is necessary: just learn to enjoy it. Unfortunately in Christianity one can get it all just by believe: there is eternal life, one just has to wait a bit (80 years compared to infinity is nothing but a spec of dust). This is one of the fundamental differences between B. &amp; C. The idea of &ldquo;God the giver&rdquo; is overwhelming to the common man. It suppose to give one strength, but it is SO GOOD it takes the strength away. Buddhism doesn&rsquo;t contradict the existence of God, heaven, or immortality of the soul (mind), but it is understood that before questions of such magnitude are comprehended or even discussed, one must reach a certain level of understanding of reality: reach Nirvana. Heaven may exist, it may not, but one thing is for sure: one will not reach it, unless one achieved Nirvana while on earth and alive.</p>
<p><strong>The essential book of Buddhism::</strong> <a href="http://www.gutenberg.org/files/2017/2017-h/2017-h.htm" target="_blank">The Dhammapada</a> (23 pages of pure wisdom).</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gutenberg.org/files/2017/2017-h/2017-h.htm" target="_blank">http://www.gutenberg.org/files/2017/2017-h/2017-h.htm</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 19:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><a target="_blank" href="http://www.triond.com/users/Krista+Smith">Krista Smith</a></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An opinionated piece about things I have learned and gone through in my life, that may offer up some advice to others who may have similar experiences...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Growing up, I learned a lot of different things, some that arent even accurate in present day, but will always make sense to me, such as the fact that when I was young, all through the end of high school, I always knew the solar system to have 9 planets. All of a sudden that has changed to 8, yet the original 9 still exist. I always wonder how it can take so long for things to suddenly change by rules and laws, when they havent changed physically. It kind of ticked me off a bit because now that means that someday, even though I will always think there are 9 planets, I&#8217;ll have to teach my child(ren), that there are only 8. Although thats more of an annoyance than a life struggle. Haha. There are other things I&#8217;ve learned growing up that are either no longer considered correct, or are completely cancelled out.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve noticed that the childrens programming I had as a kid, is not what is on television now. I mean, yes, I know that programming changes, shows get cancelled and so on, but seriously, what happened to the quality of television now a days? I feel that it isn&#8217;t even close to as good as it used to be.</p>
<p>I have also realized that drama follows people through life. It doesn&#8217;t end once high school is over, like everyone says&#8230; It hit me a while ago in college, some people never grow up, no matter how old they may be. Drama will always be there; Its all about how you squash it from escalating. If you feed into it, of course it will continue; However, if you show people that you could really care less about the crap they are about to start with you, they will usually move on to some other soul and see if they can be beat down. I have noticed that it is also similar to how the real world works. The real world hands you challenges and it is a test to see how you deal. I myself, can admit, I am not always the strongest when it comes to challenges, and I have discovered how much I dislike change in my routine and in how things work; However, changes in life are supposed to happen. Why? I dont think anyone will know that one.</p>
<p>I am also guilty of over thinking things and being very analytical in situations. Things that I shouldnt worry about, I do worry about, and things I should worry about, I worry about times ten. Haha. I have also discovered that I am unable to stand around in work situations. I must be given something to do at all times because standing around makes me feel lazy; even when all work is completed and there is time left over. I feel like I need to clean something or organize something, or refill empty containers. People ask me if I have anxiety, and honestly, I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if I was diagnosed with it eventually. I worry about what everyone thinks of me, my work ethic and quality of my work, and staying on people&#8217;s good sides.</p>
<p>I learned that having two college degrees does not mean you&#8217;ll get a job right away. In fact, I still haven&#8217;t gotten a job for either degree, although writing does not require being hired anywhere, so that is the beauty of that. I have enjoyed it my entire life since I learned how to write, and used to fill up numerous composition books with stories and poetry as a kid. So I guess I have always been a writer. I&#8217;ve always had a career in that. However, its not paying the bills of course, and college loans are pricy. I&#8217;ve been paying for those with two unrelated jobs, as well as cell phone and credit card bills, and being near my 26th birthday, life is going to get slightly more challenging with losing insurance and having to get my own, as well as making the car payments for my first car. Yes its true, I did not get my license till I was 22 (permit at age 20) because I was afraid of driving until that point. But I enjoy it very much now that I&#8217;ve had a license for 4 years, because its nice to not have to ask people to give you a ride, and once you gain confidence and lose fear of accidents and traffic around you in general, its not so bad. Its actually quite amazing.</p>
<p>Lucky for me, my love life has at least made sense finally. I have someone who truly values me for how hard I work, what I put forth to the relationship, and the fact that I have found the ability to keep trucking even when times are hard on me. A lot of past relationships did not go so well. I was given up on, cheated on, and told that I was stupid and a failure. All things that made me actually start to believe I&#8217;d never have anything for a second there. Yes, life has been a challenge for me. Nothing has come easily, but if I couldn&#8217;t make it through, I wouldn&#8217;t be here. I&#8217;d either not exist, or would have surely ended myself by now. Something keeps me trying harder and searching for something that seems so far away, yet it feels like its nearby and I just can&#8217;t locate it at the same time.</p>
<p>Who knows really? I&#8217;m just glad I am making it in the economy we have now. For example, its a lot harder to survive when you are making minimum at one job, and just over it at the other, and gas prices are $3.99 a gallon. I remember when I was a kid, they were under $1.00 a gallon! Makes it very hard when your car needs gas and you are paying bills and working hard for any money you can get. I just always want more, and perhaps sometimes, I need to learn when to quit wanting more and relax for a bit. I feel trapped in my constant worry and concern about doing things on time and right and impressing others that I don&#8217;t make enough time to do anything for me. Whenever I do, its very miniscule time off. I always feel like I need to be working and that I am wrong for taking time off because that is money I could make, however at the same time, I know everyone needs a break because without breaks, life gets very stressful and any break I do get is near the end of the week and I know that I need that for a few different reasons: I&#8217;m never home anymore, my boyfriend is home on weekends from his job so thats the only time I can see him (not to mention its always amazing to see him becaus of how long we spend being apart), and my friends get time with me too. I need the time I get little of. Without it, I&#8217;d go crazy.</p>
<p>With this said, I bid all adeu; more to come as I get older. Almost 26 now, I have to say here&#8217;s to another 26 prosperous, educational, happy, hopefully children filled, married, loving, hard working, respected, talented, years.</p>
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		<title>Colors</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 07:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><a target="_blank" href="http://www.triond.com/users/Bob+D+Caterino">Bob D Caterino</a></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If we all realize, we are all the same, there will peace in our lifetime.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>A white one, sees a Black one, who see&#8217;s a Red one who  see&#8217;s a Yellow one, who sees a Brown one.  They sit in a empty room  where they keep still.  One asks a simple question. &#8220;Why are we here?&#8221;   Another replies &#8220;We are supposed to wait, I guess.&#8221;  Another speaks, &#8220;I  think we are hear for some other reasons, not sure really.&#8221;  The people  start to argue about reasons why they are here but the simple fact is,no  one really knew why they were brought together in the empty room.  The  empty room starts to expand growing bigger with every second that  passes.  It becomes almost impossible to hear each other as they grow  further apart.  The red one stands up and walks to the center of the  room.  The others follow suit.  They stand together when the red one  speaks.  &#8220;The room is the Earth and we are all of this Earth.  The Black  one adds, &#8220;We were brought here from all the corners of the world.&#8221;   The yellow one speaks, &#8220;We all know the same things, feel the same  feelings, and yet, we are different.&#8221;  The brown one said, &#8220;Ah, yes, but  no two people are alike in this world, are they?&#8221;  The white one  replied, &#8220;But we are all alike, beneath the skins beat a heart, and a  soul guides us, as the mind guides our thoughts.&#8221;  The yellow one adds,  &#8220;Ah, so, we are all alike, one, we live and breath the same.&#8221;  The red  one says, &#8220;But we are separated by traditions, after all.&#8221; The black one  says, &#8220;Yes, but if we can only edit out those traditions which make us  hate enough to kill, we can live a better life.&#8221;  The white one replies,  &#8220;If we start today, we can teach our children tradition without hate.&#8221; </p>
<p>The  room starts to shrink back to normal size as a door opens.  They look  at each other and they all had turned gray.  One by one they walk out  into the world as better people, knowing they are all the same only  divided by tradition. They no longer say a color.  They only knew, if  this world was to exist, they would always need to remember, there is no  place in tradition for hatred. </p>
<p>Another set of people step into  the room. A white one, sees a Black one, who see&#8217;s a Red one who see&#8217;s a  Yellow one, who sees a Brown one. They sit in silence waiting for one  of them to speak.  One starts to speak as another just says &#8220;shh, its a  new tradition.&#8221;</strong></p>
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		<title>Why Abortion is Good!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2012 23:22:09 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Abortion has many positive effects on the world. When people think about abortion, they immediately assume that it&#8217;s murder. However, this is hardly the case. The child has never lived. Their body may be alive, but do you have any memories of being in the womb? No. Because you don&#8217;t have a soul at this point. Aborting a child in that state is completely okay. Now, you&#8217;re probably asking yourself: What is good about abortion? Well let me tell you. If you look at statistics, our world is going to be over run. We are reproducing way too fast, and with medicne advances, living way too long. This isn&#8217;t how the world is meant to be. We need population control. People are going to have unprotected sex, regardless. So just abort the baby, and we will have a happy future.</strong></p>
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		<title>Symbolism of The Cycle of Destinations</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 04:16:15 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>here is an illustration I drew, the images formed themselves as i drew them on paper, almost similar to when writing a poem and everything flows together&#8230; quite miraculous if you ask me. the cross symbolizes faith, obviously. the heart symbolizes love. the cross on the left top of heart symbolizes &#8220;Rest in Peace&#8221; the one on the left symbolizes &#8220;Glory&#8221; the angel on the left symbolizes an infant falling into the bad, still in neautral territory. the angel on the left symbolizes an adult being pulled into evil. the devil on the bottom symbolizes evil striving for peace, and rising to glory. &nbsp;the demon on the bottom left symbolizes the defeat of one&#8217;s inner demon. the &#8220;soul&#8221; on the bottom right symbolizes rising to glory, being released from evil. the trident on top symbolizes the evil in all good.&nbsp;</p>
<p>if you have other opinions of symbolic meanings that I the artist wasn&#8217;t able to even pick up, please share, more than interested in all of your opinions!&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>On Our Fear of The Unknown, and Depression</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 06:25:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I've found in my practice that so many of my clients are so dulled to, or even divorced from their own feelings and inner life that they actively choose to hold on to unhappiness rather than see it as the toxic aspect of their lives that is MAKING them unhappy, not even aware that they're choosing, &#34;The Devil we know...&#34; from the one they don't... and can neither move on in their lives, nor heal from emotional, spiritual, and even intellectual wounds and real damage or injury, choosing unhappiness and depression over the risks they need to take to allow the changes in their lives that they crave and pray for.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is rational to fear the unknown. Encountering it may result in our suffering &ndash; or our death &#8211; from our inability to live with or survive whatever it is.</p>
<p>Therefor, only one who is careless of his or her life&#8230; or a fool&#8230; approaches, let alone openly seeks out, welcomes, and embraces the unknown wholeheartedly and without caution.</p>
<p>This is not the same as those rare, extreme, but nonetheless real moments in our living and exploration of life when we may be faced with having to choose between the certainty of destruction or death on the one side, and the unknown, which may hold out at least the possibility of success and life on the other&#8230;</p>
<p>&hellip; those (hopefully few) times in one&#8217;s life when hope must, and rationally does, rule against caution in choosing the unknown, our doing so then coming from our thrust FOR life, being at those moments the only &ndash; and coldly logical &ndash; choice to be made to HAVE a chance to live by experiencing the glory of a miracle in random chance&#8230; or the Universe&#8217;s (or God&#8217;s, if you prefer) blessing&#8230; instead of the sureness of non-existence.</p>
<p>But in our everyday lives, what is much more often the case is that we hold on to many things that make us unhappy because, for bad or worse, they are familiar and have become &ldquo;home&rdquo; to us&#8230; the place inside and outside us to which we have become accustomed or inured (which is often a palpable dullness), but are at least certain that they exist&#8230; fearing that to venture outside of and beyond what we know simply for the sake of what only MAY be is to risk that the unhappiness, and the awareness that we feel that we somehow don&#8217;t &ldquo;fit&rdquo; well in our life as we&#8217;ve come to know it, may get even worse, that we might not even be able to return to living even with the degree of unhappiness we&#8217;ve become used to and know that we can at least live with (despite our discontent)&#8230;</p>
<p>&hellip; and prove to us NOT that our hopes for the existence of &ldquo;better&rdquo; may be real, but that our fears that we cannot&#8230; and will NEVER&#8230; experience the happiness and joy that our souls innately know and so BELIEVE life is capable of containing for us are (real)&#8230;</p>
<p>&hellip; causing the loss of all hope&#8230; which we fear would be the death of our soul.</p>
<p>In that way, accepting unhappiness in our lives and becoming content with it is to live by a compromise with our desire for happiness, a kind of wager with our souls, clinging to the hope that we may yet find or achieve happiness, but doing so ONLY by never risking loss of it by ever actually seeking it out and possibly not finding it, or, having found it, finding that it doesn&#8217;t last as long as our unhappiness does.</p>
<p>And therein lie the half-lived and continually unhappy lives of countless many&#8230;</p>
<p>.. existing in the purgatory of the misery of life, while believing that they may be avoiding something worse,  Hell&#8230; which is to live with the soul&#8217;s having died&#8230;</p>
<p>&hellip; by never taking the chance &ndash; in any way other than in our dreams &#8211; to be more fully alive, to look for and possibly find and live our dreams, and to soar.</p>
<p>It is no wonder, then, that depression makes us want to sleep&#8230;</p>
<p>&hellip; depression being so often the sadness and frustration of feeling only partly alive and hopelessly &ldquo;lost&rdquo; without enough of a functioning sense of ourselves and who, and what we are (which is the inner flame of our souls) to even know where to LOOK for happiness and fulfillment&#8230; let alone find it.</p>
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		<title>The Only One</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 00:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You make me feel like no one else ever could.&nbsp; I&rsquo;ve been in love with you since we were teenagers and I look back and wonder why it didn&rsquo;t work then.&nbsp; But I guess if it had we wouldn&rsquo;t have what we have now I wouldn&rsquo;t trade my time with you for anything in the world.&nbsp; At times I think you understand me better than I understand myself.&nbsp; It&rsquo;s crazy how you can go so many years without seeing or talking to a person but still know them inside and out.&nbsp; We have a connection, and I just hope and pray that you don&rsquo;t walk out of my life again.&nbsp; We have a love like no other and it is absolutely amazing.&nbsp; After 6 months I still get butterflies in my stomach when I get close to your house or hear your voice.&nbsp; Every time you kiss my lips it&rsquo;s just like it was the first time.&nbsp; I feel so safe and loved when your arms are wrapped around me.&nbsp; You amaze me in so many ways.&nbsp; You are everything a man should be and more.&nbsp; I&rsquo;m so happy you are in my life and thank god for you every day.&nbsp; I love you with all my heart.&nbsp; I know that in all the years I&rsquo;ve known you that I can count all the times you have said &ldquo;I love you&rdquo; to me on one hand but that&rsquo;s okay.&nbsp; It just makes it that much more special when you say it.&nbsp; But actions speak louder than words and your actions show me how much you love me every day.&nbsp; I could not ask for a more understanding, loving, and fun person to spend my life with.&nbsp; No matter what has happened in life or what will happen in life I just want to be the only girl you love all your life.</p>
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