The most successful relationships are based on mutual respect and affection. Many couples that have been together for 20 years will tell you that their partner is their best friend. The bond with a best friend is your most intimate relationship. You tell your best friend everything. You express yourself openly without fear of being judged. You ask for help and offer help when your friend is in need. You know what this person thinks, feels and values. You laugh together, cry together and support one another through every aspect of life. You learn new things, explore new thoughts, share your feelings and grow together.

These are the ingredients for making a relationship a successful one…

In his article Relationships: Why They Never Really Work Out! Silent Wasp made some very valid points. There were some interesting comments made and I left one myself, to which Silent Wasp responded with a complete article. I thought I should reciprocate the gesture and take this opportunity to clarify my comment which I believe has been misconstrued. My response is written to Silent Wasp directly, but I think that it is too large to leave as a comment, so it is here instead for all to read.

Here is just why relationships are always set for failure unless extreme self sacrifice gets made, and with it your happiness and irreversible years of your life!

After reconnecting with friends on Facebook, I came to the understanding why many of my high school friends were still with their mates over 20 years later.

Whether you like it or not, if you don’t have quality relationships with other people, the quality of your own life is going to be somewhat lacking.