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		<title>How to Answer Tough Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 06:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>When you were young, you answered the tough questions posed by your teachers. When you are older, you have to answer tough questions asked by the interviewers.</p>
<p>When you are on a job, you need to answer tough questions that your boss asks.</p>
<p>How to answer tough questions? What are the techniques to answer tough questions?</p>
<p>How to answer tough questions: understand the question</p>
<p>You need to clarify the questions. You need to know what is the question all about.</p>
<p>You can ask the person to rephrase the question. It is very embarrassing to talk so much, and find out that you get the question wrong.</p>
<p>How to answer tough questions: listen to the whole question</p>
<p>Sometimes, a question is not just a question. Some people have the bad habit of asking three different things in a question.</p>
<p>You have to listen to the whole question to find out the intention of the person.</p>
<p>If the question is rhetorical, you do not even need to express your opinion.</p>
<p>How to answer tough questions: think</p>
<p>Always think before you answer. You can buy time by saying that this is a good question, let me think about it.</p>
<p>You can repeat the question to yourself while looking at the ceiling. That is the best way to buy time to think about it.</p>
<p>How to answer tough questions: answer the question</p>
<p>You must answer the question. If you do not know the answers, say so. You can inform the other party what you intend to do to get the answers.</p>
<p>You cannot just say that you do not know, and leave it at that.</p>
<p>You must answer the question simply and clearly.</p>
<p>If you have the bad habit of telling a story in order to answer a simple question, your boss will not appreciate it.</p>
<p>You can answer in bullet points. You can use your fingers to count the points as you answer.</p>
<p>How to answer tough questions: Explain</p>
<p>If the question requires technical explanation, you can get a piece of paper. You can draw the model as you explain about the concept.</p>
<p>The most important thing is to use simple English.</p>
<p>You must not use all the technical jargons to make the listener feels stupid.</p>
<p>How to answer tough questions: do not avoid the question</p>
<p>The worst thing you can do is to avoid the question. If you are facing the job interviewers, you must answer the questions.</p>
<p>You cannot answer the question with another question. You cannot ask them why they need to know. You will definitely not get the job.</p>
<p>You can ask for clarification. If you do not know the answer, you can promise to find out. If you do not want to answer the question, especially if it is a very private matter, you can reply tactfully that your family circumstance has nothing to do with the job.</p>
<p>About me:</p>
<p>Scheng1 is a passionate blogger from Singapore.</p>
<p><a href="http://richineverysense.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><u>Rich in every sense </u></a>reveals my deep desire in enjoying life, and be rich in every possible ways. <a href="http://howhealthyisyourpersonalfinance.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><u>Personal Finance</u></a></p>
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		<title>Dilemmas: A Series of Impossible Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 12:53:07 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Here is little thought exercise.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>What is the best question to ask someone if you are trying to get to know them? In other words, what single question will yield the most telling response?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you could perform one miracle, what would it be?</p>
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<p>If you were given an opportunity to confess to all the lies you&rsquo;ve ever told on your death bed, would you confess? (Of course we are assuming you would also remember every lie.)</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you were at the scene of an accident while it was taking place and there were three people that you knew would die, but you had to power to save one who would you save?</p>
<p>Here are the people: A pregnant woman. Your mother. Your one true love.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you had to describe yourself in five words, what would those five words be?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you had to describe yourself in a single word, what would it be?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you were put in a position to kill one person in order to save the lives of one hundred other people, could you kill?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If the person you were to kill was right in front of you and the people you were to save are in another room and you can neither hear nor see them, does that change anything?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you were put in a position where you could kill one person to save two other people could you kill?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you were put in a position to kill one person who made a believable threat against your friend&rsquo;s life, could you kill that person to save your friend?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you were put in a position to kill one person who made a believable threat against a stranger&rsquo;s life, could you kill that person to save the stranger?</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Fielding Tough Questions</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 09:09:58 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve looked through your resume for the nth time to make sure it&#8217;s presentable and have prepared an impressive portfolio. You&#8217;ve also taken pains to dress appropriately and have done extensive research on a company giving you a make-or-break interview. Nothing can go wrong at this meet-the-honchos session. Or can it? You may think you have everything covered &#8211; until you find yourself stumped when an interviewer decides to ask you questions you have difficulty answering. But many seemingly tough interview questions only sound challenging because you have not had the chance to think through them. If you could, wouldn&#8217;t it make things much easier? While there are no fool-proof means of knowing what a decision-maker may ask, there are certainly ways to reduce the possibility of failure and increase the chance of success, such as checking out these toughies first:</p>
<h3>&#8220;Tell me about yourself&#8221;</h3>
<p>Prepare a short statement in advance. When answering this question, make sure that it does not sound overly rehearsed. You could talk about projects you have managed and past vocations that relate to the post you are seeking.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Why did you leave your last job?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Give positive references and don&#8217;t put the blame on your ex-bosses, management or colleagues as it&#8217;ll only make you look bitter. Say instead that you left because you wanted to explore opportunities and take on new, more or different things and duties.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Do you consider yourself successful?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Saying yes doesn&#8217;t imply that you are a proud person. Justify your confident answer by backing it up with examples of how you have mostly achieved your goals, and are on track to attain others.</p>
<h3>&#8220;What have you done to improve your knowledge in the last year?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Talk about improvement activities that related to your previous job. You can mention an assortment of achievements, but zoom in on a few more pertinent ones.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Why do you want to work for this organization?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Answer with how you think your long-term, personal goals relate to the culture of the company and/or meet the expectations of the position you&#8217;re applying for. Be sincere in your delivery.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Do you know anyone who works for us?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Be careful to mention a friend only if you are sure he&#8217;s well though of in the company.</p>
<h3>&#8220;What kind of salary do you need?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Put the ball in your interviewer&#8217;s court and ask him instead for the range offered for this position. If he doesn&#8217;t budge, and you&#8217;re really not sure, say that you can&#8217;t give a precise figure as it depends on the job description to be agreed upon between both parties, which could be unique or customizable, depending on the needs of the company and how relevant your skills are to the post.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Why should we hire you?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Point out how you believe your strengths will meet the organization&#8217;s needs. Refrain from drawing comparisons with other candidates.</p>
<h3>&#8220;If you were hiring a person for this job, what would you look for?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Mention traits you possess that are required by the company for that position.</p>
<h3>&#8220;Do you have any questions for me?&#8221;</h3>
<p>Always prepare some questions, especially those that will suggest how you are able to contribute to the organization.</p>
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