Socyberty » unachievable http://socyberty.com Sun, 03 Jun 2012 14:17:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 The Positively and The Possibility http://socyberty.com/advice/the-positively-and-the-possibility/ http://socyberty.com/advice/the-positively-and-the-possibility/#comments Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:51:21 +0000 lalitha v.raman http://socyberty.com/advice/the-positively-and-the-possibility/ I have been listening to words like impossible, difficult, tough job, don’t think so, may not be possible, guess not, won’t be able to do and the works! These words are recurrent these days in the conversation of most of the people. It’s distressing to hear such words from the younger generation, who should be having the most positive attitude towards the life and living!

However, the trouble with these words is:

  1. They win the No.1 Negativity Award for being the most negative in all the aspects of their usage!
  2. These words discourage and distress the person who is listening to such a thought process repeatedly!
  3. Such negative words bring with them their cousins, neighbors and friends as well. Ex: impossible dream, impossible situation, difficult to cure and difficult to grow.

Why things should always be treated as difficult, impossible, unachievable and hopeless? Why can’t we try to do things in a positive way as well?

Now, if we can only reverse the usage of words, despite the negativity of the situations:

Instead of saying that, “I don’t think so” or “impossible situation” or “difficult task” etc. we may try by saying, “Why don’t we try to do things in a different way?” “How about giving it a shot?” “Why not?” and “let’s make an attempt at least!”

By inserting the seed of positivity, we are trying to bring in the “possibility” factor to the job in our hand. Who knows, we may end up in completing the job as well!

Always be positive and think positive, whatever the situations and circumstances are!

All of us go through such times in our lives, when everything seems to work against us: the people, the forces, the situations in our life! Of course, we do loose our reasoning, our faith and our trust on us and on others under such circumstances. Agreed!

However, nothing is going to change our situations, neither by being negative nor by being positive, and hence, why can’t we be positive?

There is something wonderful in being positive under all the circumstances.

  • It provides the moral courage to our character. It helps us to pull up our socks and start trying to do things in a different light.
  • It encourages us to get out of the situation by means of finding the solutions amicably
  • It pulls us out of our misery by ways and means that may not be visible to our eyes and reasoning!

There is something fascinating in being positive and upbeat despite our worst situations!

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