We all have our predjudices. They may not be racial, they may have more to do with distain for poor people, or alcoholics, drug addicts, thieves, or any number of other levels of misfortune. We can sound very smug, when we firmly state that “That could NEVER happen to me!” We pride ourselves in making better choices in life. We are so proud to brag about how much better we plan for our lives, and how people make their own bed, and now must sleep in it. 

Most children, when asked what they want to be when they grow up, do not say, “I wanna be an alcoholic and a wife beater, just like my papa.” Most children will focus on what is noble, such as being a firefighter, a policeman, a pilot or a doctor. Little girls especially think about being a nurse, a teacher, a mother or veteranarian. Of course, in little girl or boy fashion, there are those who simply say, “I wanna be rich!” 

Along the way, and long before the child reaches adulthood, hormones kick in, adventure is right outside the door, and the feeling of being immortal is firmly established. In those years of learning and experimentation, much can go wrong. Too much drinking and partying can lead to alcoholism, disease, lack of sexual morality, loss of respect and expectation of self, and disregard of those in authority, including parents. Once a ball starts rolling with a young person who is trying to find their way in life with perhaps little guidance, there is little knowledge about how to stay on the tracks. Fun takes over, and school may drop by the wayside, as does a future that must be built on something stronger than self-interest and parties.

Even those who had “all the right things,” got an education, had money, had success in life and otherwise enjoyed all the benefits, can follow irresistable urges for drink, sex, money, power or worse. If you were to ask that person in prison, doing 30 years for stealing money or some other crime, if they planned to go to prison, they would think you were out of your mind.

At the bottom of this heap of humanity, lies feelings and beliefs we all have. These might be feelings of rejection, feelings that we don’t have enough money or posessions, unworthiness or lack of love. All of these feelings stem from our thoughts about ourself and life. Our thoughts can take over, if not reigned in, and we can believe what we tell ourselves after awhile. It becomes our truth. When we don’t listen to others who try to tell us another truth, a better truth, we sink. Maybe we don’t have evidence of a better truth, and while we don’t plan to end up in prison for 30 years, one thing leads to another, and to another, with an increasing risk of our destroying ourselves.

If I steal $10 from a friend’s coffee table because I am out of work and need food, and that person will not lend me money, thoughts about what I have done may start. “Well, that was easy. I don’t feel right about it, but at least I got some food.” This may lead to, “Heck, I’ve done favors for him many times. It was payback time anyway. He owes me.” It continues to, “A lot of people owe me favors. I’m gonna go collect one way or another.” The world becomes a symbol for all that have done this person wrong. So, when this individual robs a convenience store or steals a car to sell, it can be justified by the thought patterns that preceed them. We convince ourselves that the world is full of rotten people who do not love us, so they get what they get. It snowballs.

Along the way, we may experiment with drugs or alcohol, telling ourselves that the world is so bad, that the only way we can cope with it is to get high or drunk. It starts to feel good, but it takes more and more to feel good any more. And who can think straight, or be responsible for actions under the influence?

People who have damaged their lives didn’t plan for things to happen this way. Inch by inch, piece by piece, things started falling apart. Getting a grip at some point became more of an overwhelming task, and it was easier just to surrender.

“There but for the grace of God, go I” has been around for a long time. I do not know who said the original quote. It is universal. All of us could be in deep trouble or have serious problems. Even being “all grown up” doesn’t save us from becoming an alcoholic or committing suicide. Senior citizens are known for robbing a store for the first time in their 70’s because they have no money and they are desperate. 

Our ivory towers are built on shaky ground, and it pays to do inventory on our foundation frequently. Often little cracks will appear, and they should not be ignored. We have seen what happened to others who did not tend to their own foundations. Health and wellness deteriorated, friends were losts, money evaporated, and trails of sorrow were laid down. The foundations to lives crumbled. 

Compassion begins with seeing that we are all on potentially shaky foundations, and that we make our own foundations stronger when we help those who are in  the rubble. There, but for the grace of God, go all of us.

Many women, according to some romance novels, as well as in real life, when they fail in their relationship with their peers who crossed their paths by pheromones, Pall to such an extent that when they come to realize it has already made a bad choice. It is not always good to be carried away by the passion that body called, grounded in the sexual attraction or animal. True, feelings are very important, those who are born from the depths of our hearts, the true love that is born from the depths of the soul of human beings. Both the infatuation of the opposite sex, tend to confuse the feelings of two you are getting for having a coital relationship, unscrupulous, only for the simple pleasure of satisfy instincts in which the majority of the young they have more to lose than young males, but they are protected. . See as normal living with the person that attracts them, but instead of taking them seriously, they hurt their feelings, causing them frustrations that traumatize them, leading to a life empty, without goals, since they only spend the time although or returning to see the person with which he had his first experience they are still waking up his sense evil orienting to a life without values or dignity, with low self-esteem. When you feel that he awakens your sexuality, look!, caution!, because you think a girl Super experience, but ultimately you’re innocent but apparent it contrary to your personality shy, wanting to be popular, you access to everything, taking frequent failures that you destroy pushing you to the crutches of any Vice, even nymphomania that subtly seizes you. Many girls fall into prostitution by disappointments or easy money, supporting and pretending they do not feel, exposing himself to sexually transmitted diseases that can affect the physical and mental health.

Young men, who also by their nature to be poorly targeted, you are not protected. 

“None has in his youth, but I know example of believers in Word, conduct, love, spirit, faith and purity”, we read in the first letter to the Corinthians of Sao Paulo and Ecclesiastes, wisely recommends: remember your Creator in the days of your youth” before the bad days to come and reach age of whom you say: I have No contentment in them”.

Usually we are vain, and we do not accept the advice as which gives us Ecclesiastes and the Proverbs of Solomon, but everything has a solution, because we can lead a life correctly health, reading the Holy Scriptures, asking wisdom Jesus so that channel you guiding you to a triumphant live with him.  Young men and women: Christ loves them, wants the best for you and for you. Control your self-control and continue with the challenges of life

How much love we remember teachers that we were taught to read, to prepare, with the wisdom of his vocation, good-hearted; possibly with punishment, as long you grateful, the discipline to the study, the acquired culture in your childhood, adolescence, youth, that allowed you your goals with the title of the career that you like or you could go to school.

Forge ideals is beautiful, but to make a reality we must persevere to the established goal which we live. Not everyone has media and/or luck to prepare being excellent professionals and ethical responsibility to future generations with an optimal, not mediocre education because of teachers who enter the “work” for the holiday periods well, salary benefits even if they are loose, dehumanized towards his students, who do not have heart carrying selfishly.

God allows that they change to the honor and glory of his name, as aquí9 in the peninsula, Master Idea Manzanero, master Orlando Ordóñez, the teacher Carmen Santiago de beautiful San Cristobal de Las Casas, Chiapas, who instilled a passion for preparing with the Bible, by all teachers with true love teach their students the way of good sowing love, wisdom, understanding, because fear of God is the victory in this way we will run until that call us into his presence

Through your toil, there are some things that impact on your life.  I have had some work opportunities that gave me extra set of skills and experiences different from others.  This is one of those things that make me a unique, different person that brings those things to the table.  If you imagine, the additions you brought into your workplace created a better environment, increased productivity, or even impact for extra business opportunity.

Imagine if you will that all of your labor is completely changed to something totally different from your effort.  There would be some feelings of angst, anger, or even sadness because all of your efforts were completely removed.  This is an example of vexation that is made known through the wise man in Ecclesiastes.

Solomon makes an effort to work wisely, diligently, and with great labor.  He describes his toil as a point of anger, “I hated all my toil… seeing that I must leave it to the man who will come after me (v. 18, ESV).”  The toil in which you work for, or the wise man endured, was that all of the efforts made were a mere exasperation because someone else took his credit.  The work made would not just give someone else credit, but that effort through work could get botched by someone else. 

The work we do in our lives is rather difficult to accomplish, but there is joy completing work for you.  If you were a writer and wanted your work to come into fruition, you would enjoy your work bringing massive returns.  If your effort really pays off, you will enjoy the fruits of your labor.  As Solomon also points out, “Nothing better for a person…find enjoyment in his toil. This is from the hand of God (v. 24-25, ESV).” 

Here are some takeaways we can learn from Ecclesiastes 2:18-26.

Do you find your work frustrating?

How is your work making an impact?

What are you working for?

Are you allowing your work to benefit yourself or others? Why?

How are you enjoying the fruits of your labor?

In the course of any context, we develop a better understanding on our friendships, relationships, and our so-so life with our co-workers.  I imagine that with our mistakes, and seeing the mistakes of others that we understand human nature.  If any of us were a perfectionist (or know of one) something about human nature is frustrating.

Either way, wisdom is a more developed nature that expels folly, and has an enduring impact on life.  Through wisdom life seems bearable.  As it is said, “Then I saw that there is more gain in wisdom than in folly (v. 13).”  The perception of wisdom in life does have a lasting impact, but what use is it if the foolish expel the wisdom and make the rest of this world life in folly? 

The vanity of wisdom in life is the grievous nature on the lasting impact.  Death still happens, the life cycle continues, and the wind still keeps cycling.  The wisdom would have become rediscovered if the real wisdom is not passed on from generation to generation.  The choice still remains whether we choose to live wisely or with folly.

Here are some takeaways we can learn from Ecclesiastes 2: 12-17. 

How can you give a lasting impact on your environment? 

Where do you find wisdom, folly, and madness? 

Why can this become so grievous in nature? 

And what have you done that is left upon the future?

                How can we have the perspective of owning all of these things and believing that our heart is truly set?  In the passage from Ecclesiastes 2: 1-11, Solomon talks about all of the possessions, wealth, and becoming the wealthiest of individuals.  He even says, “..of pleasure, ‘What use is it?’” (v. 2, ESV).  He chased after alcohol, ownership, displays of wealth, and yet he still claims that this is not the pursuit of life.

                Through his pursuit of all of these things, he still kept his wisdom.  However, through all of the pursuits of his heart, he still felt empty through this endeavor.   Through all of this pursuit, do you still chase after things that still have no meaning to it?  Will not your possessions dwindle over time?  Are you still lost in this pursuit?

                In these many questions, this wise man did understand one thing.  In verse 11, Solomon says, “Then I considered all that my hands had done and the toil I had expended in doing it, and behold, all was vanity…” (ESV).  You must ask yourself this question, what is there you can pursue that all of these things can become a reality for your life.

Here are some takeaways from this passage in Ecclesiastes 2:1-11. 

Are you overfilling yourself with the things that make you happy?

Are you truly finding happiness through self-indulgence?

What type of impact are you making?

Which direction are you focusing on, and how far have you gone?

                The wisdom that Solomon tries to obtain is not the learning and knowledge that one can aspire with.  I imagine that the wisdom that is attained is actually understanding and discernment.  Where else can one try to become wise without knowing the meaning behind it?  The point here is that it is easier for frustration to build when you know more.  As much as knowledge is power, therefore problems could increase with those who do not understand that knowledge. 

                His great experience is through different perspectives of wisdom.  In this, we can correlate the message of, “I applied my heart to know wisdom and to know madness and folly” (v. 17 ESV).  I question whether he set forth to truly gain better perspective based on the self through this world.  Life and work can lead you down a road that will be difficult to answer the question on your personal existence.  The enjoyment you can find is very difficult to find when you attempt to find it for yourself.  The questions for your life still remain, unless you keep reading into this book. 

Here are some takeaways from Ecclesiastes 1:12-18. 

Where are you putting your energies in your life?

Is the path you have chosen runs in circles that you do not understand the way out?

What do you think is the true break through the complexities of life, that everything can be enjoyable?

Life is a yearn to reside, and better still a desire to reside joyously. As we strive to satisfy this yearns, we encounter obstacles that perplex or frustrate our efforts. This difficulty or annoyance allowances to pain because it stands in the way of satisfaction.

Wisdom is designed to help us contend with this suffering. It is an adaptive product of cause in the face of strong circumstances. Thanks to it, joyfulness is conceivable and achievable in spite of everything. It is thus the supreme good.

Actually, religion is a good that numerous grade equally high, since it serves the identical reason as wisdom, if distinctly. The difference lies in the way belief and wisdom depict suffering and characterize the meaning of life.

From the perspective of religion, pain betrays a state of worldly imperfection that is in contradiction with the human yearn for perfect joyfulness. Consequently, life here underneath – where humans are condemned to suffer – is absurd in itself. Or rather, life is significant strictly in terms of means to a fantastic end in the large after: A life of virtue organizes the way for an afterlife of bliss. The religious accept as true this in agreement with the teachings of an motivated religious foremost, who assertions to know the transcendental environment of the hereafter.

While personally I cast a skeptical eye on these teachings, I keep my brain open. They are highly doubtful, but the transcendental environment of their object places them after the come to of any discredit founded on conclusive clues.

anyhow, as I glimpse it, wisdom is independent of belief, though it can complement the latter. According to it, life in itself has significance, regardless of its imperfection that people can discover to accept. Better still, they can discover to worth this imperfection as they recognize that perfection, contrary to well liked conviction, is not infinitely attractive.

Indeed, flawless happiness leaves certain thing to be desired. By delineation, it omits pain and therefore all forms of complication or frustration. It supposes that attenuating factors are wholeheartedly favorable – that is, not strong in any way. Thus, no effort is essential while every dream is likely. At first glimpse, this noise like the most magnificent position imaginable, and yet taking another gaze at it will dispel this illusion.

What odd whim, in the annals of humankind, has compelled persons from every stroll of life to depart their cozy dwelling and embark on risky projects? Perhaps this whim is not so odd after all. A multitude of conquests have been made for the sheer joy of conquering against large odds. The operative phrase is pride, accompanied by exhilaration. To conquest-minded persons the infinite alleviate of heaven entails infinite boredom. To them life – simultaneously with the struggle that is integral to it – is the very thing that flawless happiness departs to be desired. It is an opportunity to verify courageous and victorious, though it is furthermore a risk of falling short painfully.

Joyfulness is about grasping this opportunity with bravery and profiting a victory over the obstacles that stand between us and achievement in all the activities that most issue to us. This victory is often strenuous and always restricted, precarious, and transitory, and we are bound to lose the battle in the end; but that makes the triumph all the more prized and worthy of savoring.

When endeavoring to characterize the undertakings in which we most care to do well, we are compelled to study our environment to know our reason. Our growing shrewd depends on this study and this information, leading to this definition. It begins with a perception of our animal will to endure, as survival is the base on which life, in the truly human sense, is constructed. The awareness of life in this sense follows. It takes into account both our humanity and our individuality, as constituents of society with specific flavors and abilities to which a broad variety of undertakings are matched.

The clearer we are about our reason, the more we can live our lives with conclusion and passion, and so with a larger possibility of doing well and accomplishing happiness. The reverse is equally factual. It thus stands to cause that in striving after wisdom we lay the groundwork for achievement and happiness.

Most people have a relationship problem. Even when they are mentally ill and they have other psychological problems, they also have a relationship problem.  

My example is about love, because love is the most important matter of your life. Love is so important that it is a big danger for your mental stability. This is why the unconscious mind is very generous with you. You have trustful information about the person you love, or clear guidance about how to find your perfect match if you have no relationship. This is a dangerous problem too.

The unconscious guidance helps you calm down and understand the truth.

You will perceive that you can trust the unconscious mind because the unconscious messages have a protective character. Thus, you’ll feel supported and relieved for having precious guidance in your own dreams.

You’ll learn everything you need to know about the special person. You will also predict the future and understand how to correct your mistakes before making them (again) and ruining your own life. This way, you’ll have the chance to change your destiny and avoid bad consequences.

The unconscious mind shows you how the future will be unfolded if you’ll follow the wise guidance you have in your dreams, and also how the future will be for you if you’ll disobey the unconscious guidance.

First of all the unconscious mind shows you your good destiny (if you’ll be obedient). Then, it shows you your bad destiny (if you’ll be disobedient). This order is not always respected in all dreams. You may have first of all negative dream scenes in a dream, showing you your bad destiny in the beginning, and your positive destiny only in the end. Dreams comparing different future results are very common.

You have to be obedient in order to be cured and in order to achieve your goals. If you keep making the same mistakes, you cannot be cured.

For example, if the unconscious mind will show you in a dream that the real reason why your husband told you that he needs some time to think and remain alone is the fact that he is cheating on you, you must be very careful and respect the unconscious guidance.

The unconscious mind will tell you to stay alone and never bother your husband again. It will tell you also not to answer his phone calls or email messages.

Your husband must feel that he completely lost you in order to miss you, and understand how much he really loves you. He must also understand that if he loves you and he wants to live with you, he must respect your relationship.

If you’ll be immature and disobedient, you will face the tragic consequences of your mistakes. You have to obey the guidance of your wise doctor instead of doing silly things that will cause more problems.  

If you are an obedient student and patient, your progress will be visible after a few days of dream therapy. The unconscious mind changes your life into practice, besides helping you transform your personality.

Your husband will regret having betrayed you and desperately desire to be with you.

If you’ll be silly and easily accept meeting him before he will really regret having betrayed you, he will never be loyal and respect your relationship. Of course you miss your husband, but this doesn’t mean that you should believe in his lies. You have to bear your separation during a certain period of time and precisely follow the unconscious guidance if you want to see the positive results you desire.

If you want to solve all the problems of your life in a short period of time, you must be obedient and patient. Each dream will help you calm down and understand what to do. When you are impatient you pay for your impatience with more suffering, and you delay even more in order to finally solve your problems.  

You’ll save time and pain if you’ll be patient, and if you’ll do only what will surely help you solve your problems, instead of making costly mistakes. The unconscious plan may take some time if you have a difficult problem, but this plan is perfect.

If you’ll obey the guidance you have, you will surely triumph in the end. This is guaranteed because the unconscious mind is God’s mind. The unconscious mind doesn’t make tests (like ignorant human beings). You have clear guidance about how to achieve your goals. You only have to obey the directions you have in order to see the results you desire.

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung’s research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to accurately translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.

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1. “Money is better than poverty, if only for financial reasons.” It sounds good to me, I mean the practicality of all things does involve money but it doesn’t have to take an arm and a leg to get it.

2. “I believe there is something out there watching us. Unfortunately, it’s the government.” ‘Nuff said.

3. “There are worse things in life than death. Have you ever spent an evening with an insurance salesman?” This happens to be one of the classic ones. I mean the issue about life’s little problems isn’t all that bad, until ‘he’ shows up.

Sure, relationships can get complicated, or does have its complications that probably any author about relationships is bound to discover it soon. We follow what our heart desires, unless you’re talking about the heart as in the heart that pump blood throughout your body.

4. “Love is the answer, but while you’re waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions.” And if you want more, just keep on asking!

5. “A fast word about oral contraception. I asked a girl to go to bed with me, she said ‘no’.” It sounds, ‘practical’, I think.

And when it comes to everyday life, he really knows how to make the best out of every possible scenario, and it doesn’t involve a lawsuit if he strikes a nerve.

6. “Basically my wife was immature. I’d be at home in the bath and she’d come in and sink my boats.” I never had a boat in my bathtub before. Just staring at it while soaking in hot water makes me seasick already.

7. “I am not afraid of death, I just don’t want to be there when it happens.” If it rains, it pours.

8. “I am thankful for laughter, except when milk comes out of my nose.” It could get worse when you’re guzzling on beer… or mouthwash, and it happened to me once!

9. “If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans.” At least he doesn’t smite us with lightning, and I’m thankful for that.

And despite of what may happen to all of us in the next ten, twenty, or even thirty years, I guess we all have to see things in a different kind of light and not just perspective. I can’t seem to imagine life without any piece of wisdom that could guide us. Whether we’re religious or not, it takes more courage to accept your fears and learn how to deal with them is all that matters when it comes to even just getting along.

And to sum things up, here is the last nugget of wisdom to go by… however, whenever, and wherever we may be.

10. “The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don’t have.”