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		<title>Four Poems:  Lines, Ship of Hope, Mountain Tops, Inner Beauty</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 11:52:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The following four poems  are composed in conformity to the style of some of the ancient poets whose compositions were written in rhyme:]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The following four poems are composed in conformity to the style of some of the&nbsp; ancient poets whose compositions were written in rhyme.</p>
<p>Lines</p>
<p>There are lines of people everywhere,</p>
<p>Standing and waiting to be served;</p>
<p>Some long, some short, here and there,</p>
<p>Crooked ones, broken and curved &#8211;</p>
<p>Lines of people that must spare</p>
<p>Little patience unreserved.</p>
<p>I look beyond the literal stage</p>
<p>Of lines as physical as these,</p>
<p>Contemplate the lines of age</p>
<p>In numbers that will never cease,</p>
<p>Where those behind are full of rage</p>
<p>And those ahead are ill at ease.</p>
<p>Ship Of Hope</p>
<p>My ship of hope is far from port</p>
<p>Where sweet success awaits me;</p>
<p>Where eager souls that never quit,</p>
<p>But gather, glad and free.</p>
<p>My mind is firmly set upon</p>
<p>The compass and the rudder,</p>
<p>And while my heart may flutter yet,</p>
<p>My soul shall never shudder.</p>
<p>No howling wind nor billows wild</p>
<p>Shall make me yearn for shore</p>
<p>Wherefrom my ship of hope had left</p>
<p>For reasons to explore.</p>
<p>Staunch members of the crew on board &#8211;</p>
<p>Faith, Love and sweet Desire &#8211;</p>
<p>Soul mates on my ship of hope,</p>
<p>That strengthen and inspire.</p>
<p>And when my ship shall anchor</p>
<p>At its final port of call,</p>
<p>I shall unload the cargo of</p>
<p>My efforts, all in all.</p>
<p>Mountain Tops</p>
<p>Melting snows renew themselves</p>
<p>On mountain tops so high</p>
<p>That they gather fast and solid</p>
<p>Beneath an angry sky.</p>
<p>So do souls brave, unafraid</p>
<p>Of life&#8217;s winds that blow,</p>
<p>Standing permanent and firm,</p>
<p>Gathering like the snow.</p>
<p>Lagging spirits may rejoin</p>
<p>Life&#8217;s great marathon,</p>
<p>With eyes open to the sun,</p>
<p>Past life&#8217;s break&nbsp;of dawn.</p>
<p>Failures whip the snows of love</p>
<p>That in time abound,</p>
<p>Holding fast the texture of</p>
<p>Fulfillment&#8217;s that surround.</p>
<p>Let new hope, love and desire</p>
<p>Blend, in spite of strife,</p>
<p>Forming snows of sweet success</p>
<p>On mountain tops of life.</p>
<p>Inner Beauty</p>
<p><em>It doesn&#8217;t matter how so plain</em></p>
<p><em>Or rough the crust may be,</em></p>
<p><em>The kernel is what truly counts &#8211;</em></p>
<p><em>The part we cannot see.</em></p>
<p><em>A piece of land perceived as good</em></p>
<p><em>And ripe for human toil</em></p>
<p><em>May yet prove unproductive</em></p>
<p><em>Without the proper soil.</em></p>
<p><em>Can we appraise the sabre</em></p>
<p><em>While still within its sheath,</em></p>
<p><em>Or comprehend the ocean</em></p>
<p><em>Unless we look beneath?</em></p>
<p><em>Sights we often fail to see</em></p>
<p><em>And thoughtlessly pass by</em></p>
<p><em>May yet be those that satisfy</em></p>
<p><em>The palate, not the eye.</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Simplicity and Deprivation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 15:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you happy with what you have right now? Or are you yearning for something but dare not buy or do it?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These two words are always mistaken for one another.</p>
<p>There are simple people and there are deprived people.  Yet on the surface you can hardly distinguish one from the other.  It is actually the individual himself/herself who can  know the real score.  Here is one question that can help you differentiate the two:<br />
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<p>Are you happy with what you have right now?</p>
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<p>Or</p>
<p>Are you yearning for something but dare not buy or do it?</p>
<p>When you look at both of them, they are more or less the same in the exterior.  They wore no fancy clothes, no fancy jewelries.  They are basically soft spoken and very down-to-earth.  But it&#8217;s what&#8217;s inside that matter.</p>
<p>Simple people are basically happy people.  Whatever they have right now, they counted as blessings. They never cared what others think of them.  They have their yearnings.  They want this and that (just like any other human being), but never lose sleep or get obsessed even if they didn&#8217;t have it.  These types of people are not afraid to &ldquo;enjoy life&rdquo; but they aren&#8217;t flamboyant either.  They are very secure with their position in the society and most importantly they are totally &ldquo;at peace with themselves&rdquo;.  These type of people are thrifty but not because they are miser but because it takes so little to make them happy.  Chances are in the end, whatever they want, they will get.  Why?  Their needs are simple, always within reach and realistic.</p>
<p>Deprived people are basically people who wanted this and that as well.  But they get obsessed with things and lose sleep agonizing over them, yet they dare not go out and buy it, which is the very reason why they become obsessed.  The reason is not because they don&#8217;t have the resource to get it (in fact most of them do have the resources), but it&#8217;s more of a psychological fear.  But once they summoned enough resolve to buy, they will feel guilty and will be so protective of what they bought, they won&#8217;t even use and will just keep it instead.  Or if they decided to do something like excursions (or going abroad) they will feel the same guilt (or fear) and will end up scrimping this or that thus depriving themselves of complete enjoyment.</p>
<p>Whether it&#8217;s &ldquo;savings in the bank&rdquo; or &ldquo;new jewelries or clothes&rdquo;, for these people keeping them and just being there is enough.  They are simply contented to just wake up in the morning knowing it&#8217;s there.  These type of people are afraid to enjoy life too much and have this &ldquo;it&#8217;s too good to be true, something&#8217;s bound to happen&rdquo; mentality every time they are having an extremely good time.  In the end, they will  always be torn between yearning and guilt, torn between wanting to be happy and fear of being too happy. A very vicious cycle indeed unless they learn to wiggle out from it.</p>
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