Feelings ,can be so hard to change, anger toward someone, who once hurt you , a lover who left you, years ago and you keep going over the hurt feeling again again.Old feeling which keeps you trapped in your feelings, living in the past instead of living in the now.

How to let go of old feelings, you can write a list ,on all the people and circumstances where you got hurt, and then write to each of them (do not send it) ,Look at them individual ,feel the feelings again , and then let it go because it does not serve you any more. This process can take a while , depending on how much stored stuff you have. But have some patience, and slowly it, will happen. When you feel anger and resentment towards a person who hurt you, they have moved on ,but you keep holding on to old stuff, you are the one who keeps paying the price because you are stuck in the past.

Clutter free zone, stuff everywhere, even broken stuff. Old letters, newspapers, shoes clothes, things you keep, just in case you need it.And when you look at it, the old clothes, that you kept for years, maybe you do not fit them, or they remind you of times you were happier, or maybe you keep them because you worry about if you will ever get any more.You hang on to them because, you were taught ,as a child to hold on to stuff even though you maybe you did not want it any more. But you are an adult now, and you are in charge of your life ,that means you have a choice.

Start with the small thing, throw out newspaper, old jars with half empty food in the fridge, check your bathroom, see if their is empty containers with half used old lotions,that you will never use anyway.

All these are easy ,because it is obvious for the eye.Leave it for a few days, and see if you feel just a bit better about yourself and your emotions.After a few days you go on to your wardrobe, and take everything out, and go through it item after item. And be harsh, do not keep on to things, which do not fit you ,or never will be in fashion again ,let it go. Put in in plastic bags,and give it to the red cross, someone might be able to use the stuff.

The next place is the kitchen, look at all the pots and pans, and cutlery,and what you have not used the last year, you will probably not use the next.year either-so let it go.be .Do not keep two of each can openers, or two wine screws, throw them out.

Do you feel energetic, and inspired ,starting to fell lighter than you have for years, move on to the personal stuff, old pictures, old essays from studying, old love letters from a person which meant a lot to you. All these things can be very hard to let go of, and can bring up some old feeling,and maybe it feels like you are actually tormenting yourself, but you are actually being really good to yourself, and this will help you move on to a better life for yourself.

When you have gone through this process, which can take a while you will feel some much better about yourself, and feel more positive about what the future brings.You might even redecorate your house, have an new hairstyle, change your job. Or keep the home, the same, but you will feel better about yourself, and will not spend so much time living in the past ,with broken stuff around you,and your old and bitter feelings have changed to happier feelings. This simple method will change your life, and improve it.Good luck

When you remember a lot of your past ,
When memories follow you everywhere ,
Every single moment you say I will forget ,

But you find yourself lost between an ocean of endless memories.

Good time , your happiness , your joy , your laugh , your tears , your words , your fights Everything….Everything stored in your memories.

Some of them did a lot for you ,
Another who did nothing but hurt you.
A lot who served a lot why you don’t know but you feel failed after all of these days, Between all of these memories , you find something good.

You don’t know why or how?
You only feel it sounds good.
It tastes like sweet,
It makes you forget for a while all other sorrows and pains,

But you still sink in the ocean of memories.

Every time  you decided to stand up , you find a memory that pushed you down.

Something unsolved in your brain and can be solved by a call,

But you’r afraid of doing so.

Your personality don’t let you to do so,
But your mind won’t let it go.

Memories will be after you and tears will procede it too,
Each day , you will find it similar to something happened before.
Each word , someone told it before
Few are very special.
But almost everything makes you remember.

You want to migrate from this world.
The world of the grand halk day,
The world of deja vu.

You want anything new,
But you should erase the past too.
You should learn from it , to make it a motif ,to make it something that push you not to miss the old crew.

To say I will survive , to solve the problems and to save your life.
You say it is over but it is not.
You said they will and will….
But they won’t.
You said I did but they don’t.

You didn’t listen and they don’t.

So take a step , it is not that easy but it is not that hard.
Don’t lose yourself,
Don’t sink,
Try to invest your breaths , don’t let your life stop.
Open your phone and call,
Open your mouth and talk,
Open your mind and write,

A message , a call , a meeting….
Anything….
Take a positive step.
Don’t let yourself impending.
Don’t say it ’s over , you are sure it is not.
You’r sure you wanna talk,
They wanna talk,
But you’r afraid and they’r too.
You’r afraid from hearing,
They’r too.
You did mistakes and they’r too.

Your brain won’t accept something you’r sure it is not real , your brain and your soul like to face the truth.

It is not over.
You need that talk.
You need it.

Your memories won’t leave you , your present will make you remember.
Your future will make you remember,
Unless you solve it between you and them,
Unless you take a positive step that satisfies your brain.

Every situation will make your brain see it as a deja vu.
So solve it and don’t let your life pass away with memories.
No one can go back to the past,
But everyone can build his future and live his present.
That’s why it is called present,
Because it is a gift from your GOD.

The present is a gift to learn how to learn and forget the past and how to build the future
to be another present like this.

So stand up, take good memories and lets start to build a Beautiful Future.♥

So you’re here because everything fell apart for you? Girlfriend left you, lost your job, parents and friends stop talking to you, and not to mention that you’ve put on a few pounds? Well I can tell you that all you need is one day of commitment to set yourself on the right track and to kick life in the teeth.

First, let me say to you that if you just lost a true love, the love of your life, you have to get angry. Honestly, winning him/her back is definitely not the key, because you’re wishing that all would revert to how it once was. Stop remembering the good times, and just let go. Try forming up some sort of anger, think of the worst times, the neglect you’ve felt from that person, how he/she treated you unfairly. Now we’re getting somewhere.

The only thing that makes one person more special to you than a stranger is the memories you share together. Clearly, those need to be wiped by new memories; your brain has an amazing and unique way of suppressing memories to the back of your subconscious until it can manifest new content to deal with the potential threat that your emotions were once harmed by. So to hell with it, you’ve already lost it all – just go out and have a date, no matter how ugly, one night stand, and go to a strip club. This is all part of your one-day plan to set yourself up. You need to plant the seed, like some Inception moves. Now you have the knowledge that whatever you did makes you feel quaint, as before you met your evil ex.

As a friend of mine used to preach, “It’s only after you’ve lost everything that you’re free to do anything.” It’s only when you hit bottom that you’re capable to crawl your way right back to the top. The only action you can carry out is to form yourself into something new and improved. In that one day, go sign up for a 1-year gym membership and pay in full: that way, you’ll have wasted your money if you don’t go. Go to a job website such as snagajob.com and turn in no less than thirty applications: even if you don’t get a job, someone’s bound to call you back for an interview and that will give you the confidence to search for more. Like I’ve said before, go to a strip club, honestly. What you need is for someone to love you, even if it’s short-term. Anything to get you away from your previous relationship.

Set everything up now so that it will later feel as if you’re wasting your time if you don’t leave the house. You’ll have wasted your money with the gym membership, you’ll have almost had a job, you’ll have felt love from another person, and with all that you’ll feel like sitting in your bed crying for the majority of the day is a complete and utter waste of time compared to what you did in that one day. Plant that seed; perfect yourself.

Maybe this is not what you’re looking for. Maybe none of those things have occurred to you. Well here’s my advice to that: whatever crapshoot you may happen to be in, always make sure that you know, not fear, that it isn’t the end, and there is always something you can do if you set your mind to it.

I may feel jealousy towards others, towards situations or things, but mine is not one I would willingly change. The things that can be, one day slowly will be, but not if I sit here and wallow in self pity. Things don’t come too those who do nothing. I need to play an active role in shaping my future and setting myself goals.

I should not dwell on my past, or the things that can not be changed, nor should I lay blame too others who do not deserve it.

I have friends, and food and clothes, I have more than others have ever seen, more than they could ever imagine. I should learn too never forget this. To take pride in this, and too not be afraid, or ashamed by this. I am happy. I have grown and explored and laughed and loved and felt warmth inside of me. I have shown respect, and been given understanding.

I appreciate where I’ve grown, and where I am growing. 

So when I am quick to judge, or break or falter, when I am sad and down, I am never out or defeated.

I do not show you this, because I have always been afraid of it, and so I bottle it in, building it up, until I explode, as I have done many times recently, when it has been unwanted and unneeded of me. I want to show people, and I believe in doing so, this will no longer be an issue.

I am happy and content, and I am a free person within this world. I need to just remember this when times seem trying, and I need to remember how others may not feel the same.

I need to stop snapping at people when they can not help the path we have walked along, and I need to be honest with my words.

If sorry is only a word, I shall show sorry in my actions, in my writing, but most of all I shall lay this behind me, so that all that stands between is present and future, not scarred by the past. Why regret something we can not change, when the past is something that defines the past.

I am happy, and every day I am taking steps closer to my dreams, and further from my doubts.

I am happy, for myself and for my goals, and I am happy for you and the dreams you too are chasing.

I am not perfect, I do not want to be. I have many flaws, but they are a part of me.

I have more than most, I am happy.

The answer is it isn’t a big deal at all. If you say hello to someone as you are passing, do it loudly, clearly and confidently. If they don’t say hello back, just think to you “whatever”, smile and walk on. One of the best ways to boost our self esteem is to adjust the way in which we recognize ourself. People often underestimate their true value and this places limits on one’s thoughts and behavior. Start by imagining yourself as the person you really want to be.

The way we carry ourself also affects our state of mind. If we sprawl or slump, we are likely to be impassive and unenthusiastic about whatever we are doing. Pulling our shoulders back, keeping our head up and standing straight automatically makes us feel alert and prepared. Also ensure that we maintain eye contact whenever we are in conversation with someone.

It is a common inclination of unconfident people to remain unseen in large groups of people. By making it a point to walk up to the front and sit in the first row at meetings or assemblies, you are instilling a sense of self-confidence in yourself. It also gets you noticed by the important persons in the room.

We lose confidence when we cannot think clearly. It is common to feel nervous or inadequate when faced with important tasks. It is essential to face such situations with calm and ease. This is something that requires practice. Engaging in activities that bring you calm such as listening to music, taking a walk or gardening helps in bringing about a sense of well being. Doing such activities at least twice every week will go a long way in keeping you unruffled and composed even when faced with stressful situations.

Our diet and lifestyle play a key role in the way we think and feel. Poor nutrition can leave us feeling weak and unfocussed and an inactive lifestyle can lead to laziness. Hence to stay confident, it is necessary to eat right and stay active

Heart swollen as eyes are shut with tears

No resilience is the defeated’s only fear

Struggle to feet with such strength of self

Rejection is the greatest reinvention of what’s left

Of the broken veins of a brokenhearted fool

Wove a new person of your own wool

Allow this new facade and assurance

To be the greatest nuance

Of the loveless, momentarily.

Seek not what you look for

Search to see what is not visible

Step over your shield of comfort

Surely be accepted by the many tangible

Yet self-slaying souls of superficiality

Conformation as the factor of all who is not

Retort the shunning of true personality

For what seems to be all in a knot

Of the superfluous society of stiff souls

Of those who share strange expectations

Of those not yet known for their own.

Pierce my thoughts of profoundness

With a new fondness

Which allows the praise of self

Do not litter your head

For you must have it to be lead

By you, to a greater understanding

Of what is epidemically misunderstood

The declarations of the eyes which do not see

Are the ones who will eventually want to be

Fill their vision with dread of self-enslavement

To the superfluous society of stiff souls.

Love with thy own understanding

For you are not forgotten

Unless you forget yourself

In this vast and superfluous society of stiff souls

That lurk in the consanguinity of our mold

Break it only with your own strike

Stand back up and fight

For as long as you remember

You will never be forgotten

In this superfluous society of stiff souls.

I also went to every question a blogger whom I’d like to read the answer. Because I like how they express themselves although many disagree with them. I would be honored if you drill in an article the answer that everyone can read.

1. How old would you give if you do not know how old are you? ( Victor Kapri )

2. What’s worse, to fail or not try? ( Bobby Voicu )

3. If life is so short, why do so many things that we like and we do so many things we like?( Cabral )

4. When you think was said and done what was done talking and you feel that you have talked more than you do? ( Adrian Ciubotaru )

5. If the national currency would be “happy”, how rich would you be? ( Andrei Rosca )

6. Which is what you want most people to see it changed? ( Ecostin )

7. Do what you dreamed of doing what you do or simply because circumstances have brought you here? ( Buddha )

8. If the average life span would be only 40 years old, you live your life differently? ( Richard)

9. You’re more concerned about doing things right or the right thing? ( dono )

10. If I had to give a child a single piece of advice about life, which is supposed to be? (Mihai Dragan )

11. What would you rather be: a genius or a fool stressed happy? ( Sabbra )

12. What you choose to lose all the memories you have up now or to be incapable of doing your memories now? ( SandyDeea )

13. Do you remember that moment five years ago when you were very nervous and unhappy? Does it matter now? ( Michael Bendeac )

14. What is the most beautiful memory of you from childhood? makes it so special? (Krossfire )

15. If you win a million dollars to give what you do now? ( Manafu )

16. When was the last time you were thrown headlong into something that everyone thought all my heart though, you should not try? ( Pyuric )

17. When was the last time you heard the sound of your own breath? ( Raluca Pop )

18. What is the thing you’ve always wanted to do it and yet you did not? What’s stopping you? ( Arch )

19. What is the thing you do better than anyone that I know? ( Dreams )

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1. Give your love to people – If you want to have love in you life, you’ve got to give other people love in their life! You must give out your love to as many people as possible, otherwise you will find yourself with no love since you haven’t given your own love first! 
2. Take care of your body – In our modern day world, if you eat McDonalds 24/7 no one will find you attractive, and they will find it hard to give you love… They won’t be able to take you seriously if you wobble about the place, knocking things off shelves all the time.. I’m sorry if this hurts your feelings, but I also hope it gets you to change but you need to start exercising! Unless you have a very good reason to why you cannot exercise for 20 minutes everyday, I think everyone who wants to be found attractive and loved should do it! 
3. Love yourself – Now here’s a question for you… If you don’t love yourself… How can you expect other people to love you? If you hate yourself, people will see that you’re not a very happy person, and that being with you may cause them to be unhappy as well! Always love yourself like you would want others to love you, as that’s where the whole love thing starts! With you…
4. Don’t hate on people – If you are known for hating anyone, just simply go up to them and become great friends or something while you can! This is because if you keep that hate inside of you, it will spread to others who will end up hating you for hating them! Trust me never hate anyone unless they did something absolutely unspeakable to you!
5. Talk to people – Now this is very important to listen up! Be interested in peoples thoughts and opinions, and they’ll take you as being an interesting person! The person you’re talking to will also hopefully come to love you as time goes on, and if you do this well you’ll have a lot of people who are starting to admire you for who you really are! 
6. Stick around with lovers – The best way to get loved, is to hang around people who receive love as well… By doing what they do (Within reason…) you’ll become someone who is heavily loved as well! 
7. Treat others as you would like to be treated – Now I’ve got a little challenge for you, that you must do for the rest of your life… Treat people as you’d like to be treated! When you see someone randomly that you know, treat them as if you were them and they’ll begin to love you! You’ll also grow with a reputation of being a delightful person to be with, as you treat others very well! 
8. Give people reason to love you – Think right now what are 10 reasons for someone to love you today? If you haven’t got 10 already go find 10, and make them so strong people notice them as soon as they pass you! Trust me this works like a charm!
9. Give respect to people – By giving respect to others, you will find that respect comes travelling back to you very rapidly! This is also where 2 things happen which are fantastic for people loving you! One is that you’re creating a strong bond between you and other person, and that you’re building a strong relationship! These both are key for true love! 
10. Always smile and be polite to people – I’m glad you made it as far as here, as this is the best way in the whole guide about getting someone to love you! you’ll also be glad to know that it is the easiest way as well! It’s simply smiling and being polite to other people everywhere you go! Wow! That’s all there is to it! Smiling makes you 30% more attractive to other people, and being polite shows you’re worth being around! That’s all there is folks now get to action! 

Excluding arabic, chinese, japoneze languages, which really can’t be learned quiclky without a real teacher, European languages, and those who evolved from them, are not so difficult to learn. Scientists in foreign languages say that in the Middle Ages, when the concept of the nation state became increasingly important, nations adopted particular dialects as their own languages. Therefor, it’s not a strange thing to understand that all of the languages, no matter how scary they may seem, have something in common. 

The first languages that promoted standardisation where italian, french, english, and high german. Every one of these languages resulted from other languages: 

• italian=modern tuscan/florentine vs. Old Tuscan/Florentin vs. Venetian > Modern Florentine+archaic                        Tuscan+Upper Italian
• french( the standard is based on Parisian)
• english(the standard is based on the London Dialect)
• high german=the dialect of the Cancellary of Meissen in Saxony, Middle German and the Cancellary of       Prague in Bohemia.

Looking through history, we can observe if we study for example italian, that many words and frases are indeed very close by the spanish, romanian, even french ones. I was amazed when I started to learn greek language, that the similarities of this language with romanian, turkish, italian, french,spanish and other languages are huge. Of course, I learned the new greek, not the ancient one.
So I will try to give you some tips before you start learning foreign languages:

1. Try to search on the internet or from special books, informations about the language you want to learn: where are it’s origins, with which language is related to, informations about the grammar, how used it is in the present, etc
2. Search videos that present people from that certain country speaking free, for the begginig not some kind of course, because they speak slowly and different in those.
3. You can try closing your eyes to avoid distraction and listen closely to the words they say. You don’t have to understand something, it’s obvious..It’s a different language! Just try to figure if there is something that seems familiar in your mind.
4. Learn some casual words and frases like ways of saying hello, colors, fruits, vegetables, things you usually use in your home, etc. Most of the times, the similarities can be found in this kind of words.
5. If you find words that sound the same in your language, but their meaning is different, write them down, and try to remember them.
6. Don’t try to learn grammar before you have a base a certain language. It will confuse you more!
7. After you have some words, it’s good to find the words that connect verbs, nouns, adjectives, advers, etc in a sentence. Ex: For, and, from, because, in, out, to, with (conjunctions, interjections, prepositions). Once you have them write down some sentences to see how it looks and sounds.
8. If you don’t have a teacher or an online course, then search some easy texts, grammar for the begginers, and analized them from the first view. Don’t get anxious because you don’t understand very much, it’s perfectly normal.
9. Take it step by step! Share with your friends and familly the new words that you discovered, and it will be easily to not forget them.
10. Find some new friends on the internet from the country that owns the language, who can speak your language or an international language, and communicate with them.
11. Try to connect in your mind the meaning of a new word with something very familiar to you, or familiar to the words in another languages that you already know.

Using these steps, will help you not only learn some new languages, but also to know yourself better. Don’t worry that you don’t own a real teacher. The foreign languages we learn in school are surely stronger based, but once you go visit the country that own the language you will see that there’s a big difference of what we’ve learned and how they communicate. You can be your own teacher at home, at school and in a foreign country; you just have to pay attention !