The Beginning
Five years ago, I met many new people from all occupations. From hood rat to the well posed. In my reflection, I scrupulously entangled myself with both men and women to find a probable cause of the social personality demeanor. I wont indict myself with exactly how many people were involved. Nor will I register any names. I discovered myself meeting the same personality type repeatedly, although the bodies were contrast.
My Theory
I was not confident what I would soon come to understand.
Truth
I learned that not all men were dogs and not all women were about games, but many of them shared the same character.
The Study
I have been a woman who in the past has dealt with the surpassing of hurt. From abuse to low, self esteem. I quest to understand myself and those around me. I set out to meet new friends both that of man and woman. I learned a lot about people, I learned that people have more in common the cars or rings. I begin to study the conversations and wisdom’s of both man and woman. Their habits their likes and dislikes.
In addition, in spite of the fact that they were not 100 percent alike, I learned adequate information to understand their personality. I hope that my findings will help you to interpret who you are dealing with before the hurts should ever come. I cannot promise you that having obtained this report here today will lead you to marriage, but it certainly helps with single living.
Here and now, some of you may conceive me to be out of my mind. The truth is this; I believe that within my heart many people share many of the same personality traits.
Now I am not God, a doctor, or therapist. I am just a traditional person with a wide range of curiosity.
The Liar
This personality type will have you believing that everything is authentic when it is not. The liar habitually does not recollect his or her own lies. He or she will umbrella lies repeatedly to hold onto your good faith in them. The liar often lives by a phantasm, and you too will and do become a part of their terrestrial sphere. Should the liar be caught in his or her falsehood, either he or she will lie more, or will inclusively evade both you and the matters as a whole.
When the liar is entirely revealed, he or she will discharge you as quickly as possible, realizing that he or she cannot fool you. Included in this category are the user and cheater.
Close Relative of the Liar: The Manipulator
The manipulator is also a moral liar, but is more persuasive. He or she may melodrama on your kindness or emotions. I have found that many people who are remarkably spoiled are good manipulators. As this may be, the aspiration manipulation started in the first place. The manipulator is a form of salesmen who will talk a damn whole in your head. The aim for this? He or she is trying to influence you. If you allow the manipulator ten minutes into your head, e will spend several months in your heart. The manipulator also tends to throw people on a guilt trip. The manipulator will buy you a sandwich today, while awaiting on your tomorrow to buy them a big screen TV. The manipulators rapt are getting the biggest reward in return.
The True Gay & Lesbian Lover
The true gay and lesbian, I have found will provide you the least amount of struggle, if you let them know upfront that you are not interested.
The Player
Well I do not have to go into too much detail to tell you about the player. The player is a good manipulator and often lies. While not all players lie about their influence to get their monster on, many of them spend a lot of money on clothes, jewelry, cars etc. This is the outside appearance they want you to see. The reason for this is… the player likes to be noticed, feel designated or momentous. He or she likes to make you feel that you are the one who is fortunate to have them. The player often takes for granted that everyone loves, him or her.
The Drug/Alcoholic Abuser
I have found that many of those on drugs on alcohol may recover 100 percent, but the personality of the abuser almost never changes. This personality cannot be changed, only the behavior itself. Changes on behalf of the abuser may need to be evaluated by a professional therapist. Not by the domestic or married partner. Having been into recovery ten years – yet the mindfulness of the drug and alcoholic relics the same. I find them in many ways like the abusers. They have moments of vehemence, may stop sleeping in their part of the house, and may abide the basement or den for several hours or days.
You may notice them spending several hours away from the home without allowing you to know where they are. They may spend a great deal of time in and out of pawnshops, meeting new friends, and will give money only to borrow it back. Their portion of the bill money is usually less then expected. The drug and alcoholic may buy you the world when feeling great only to steal it back when the urge hits. I call this personality type “The Indian giver”.
The Abuser
The abuser may come into your life like a heavenly body or monarch, but when the abuse comes, it comes. The abuser usually finds any or every reason to hit you. It may be conveyed to the victim that he or she has done something to deserve the abuse. There is no hesitancy in my mind that it first starts inside of the abuser. The abuser pledges that his or her ways will shift and is always sorry. The abuser, much as if the alcoholic may use many curse words. These words are used to ridicule or demote ones self-esteem. You alone cannot change the abuser. Pushing, fingers in ones face, a little smack, yelling scratching are all forms of abuse.
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