Comments on: Signs That You’re Being Bullied at Work

By: salena

salena — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 06:41:38 +0000

I have been bullied at my job for the last 2 1/2 years from my supervisor, i have to keep re-proving myself to higher management every time she decides that she has a new grievance. Other people that i work with tell me that it is awful what she does to me, however, nothing ever changes. i do not go to HR about this because i work in a very small field and if this got out it could ruin my entire career. i have an interview for a new job in 36 hours and that is the only thing that is making this bearable…

By: hazel

hazel — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 11:06:00 +0000

I am being picked on and ridiculed by a member of staff I have made a complaint to HR but it is taking so long I feel like I want to quit. The problem is Ineed the money He has plenty of friends in work to think he is lovely I feel like no one beleives me other people in work have made complaints about him why is HR taking so long

By: marie

marie — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 01:20:19 +0000

I am being bullied at work i have work for the same people for over 20 years. the manager has been there 2 years. it has got to the point that i am sick.

By: Linda

Linda — Sun, 15 Feb 2009 12:07:13 +0000

I don’t seem to socialize a lot at my job and because of this I am being called anti-social, depressing, and stuck-up. Many wish I would quit because I mainly do my job and mind my business. It has got to a point that I can’t even do my work at my cubicle. Without someone walking by saying stuck-up. I sit next to a co-worker who is constantly complaining and other than saying hello and job related questions. I really don’t have much to say to her. I actually like my job, any suggestions on what I should do about my co-workers?

By: Former soldier

Former soldier — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 05:09:24 +0000

Having worked full time for the Texas National Guard as a female soldier with a bunch of “infantry” men was hell. Interestly enough they work doing admin stuff, and even though i had more experience in the that field, they manage to make feel like good for nothing. Everything i did or suggested was stupid or was the only one who made mistakes. A couple of times they used obsene language and when ever complain, their superiors would “talk” to them aobut it. Then the entire office would treat me like I was teh bad guy. Disruptive gossip and dirty looks were aimed at me and anyone who complained. On a particular incident my boss watch as another male who I didnt even worked for, started disrespecting me. I couldnt believe he just sat there and said nothing to him, and it wasnt even like i had started it. Now, I am glad to say that I am gone out there, and I wish i would had done this sooner. Its takes toll on your self-esteem, confidence as you blame this incidents on your self. Now, i am generalizing that every male soldier is a bully, but i somehow ended up working with a few (enough) and it was a horrible experience.
Workplaces should not tolerate in type of foul language, gossip, bullying at work. Especially when is aimed to harm another female/male worker. For the record, i am now happy working for people who respect me and allow me to be who I am.

By: becca h

becca h — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 07:25:41 +0000

Hi,i am being bullied at my work place im working there 7 years and my female manger is only working there a year and a half and she is making my life hell we are both working in the same cosmetic dept she is picking on me the whole time and is trying to get me fired and is causing me a great deal of stress what shal i do? thank you.

By: dave d

dave d — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 18:19:01 +0000

my wife is being bullied at her fed government job what should she do it is getting out if hand ..and causing great stress…