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How to Know If a Girl Likes You

Is someone thinking about you? Do they have a crush on you? Learn how to find out!

  1. Watch the way she looks at you. If she keeps looking at you, she just might like you
  2. If she flirts with you too much, she probably likes you. Girls might flirt with you just for the fun of it, and it can be misunderstood as a crush. Watch out for girls who flirt.
  3. If she acts weird when you come near her, she might like you. Watch her behavior when you are talking to her.
  4. If she wants to pair you up with someone or says “I know who likes you,” then she probably likes you.
  5. If she constantly tries to get close to you or touches you, she probably likes you.
  6. If she turns red when you come near her or when you talk to her, that means she likes you.
  7. She might ask you a few questions that might make you uncomfortable, for example if she asks if you ever had a girlfriend or have you ever been on a date, she might like you.
  8. Make friends with her close friends. They might say something about her liking you. Talk and flirt a little with them. If she gets mad for flirting with other people, then you know she likes you.
  9. Start a small conversation with her and her friends. Try to notice these things:
    • If she keeps trying to get close to you or tries to hold your hand, she likes you
    • If she is confident, they will match your voice tone and will act like she does with her friends
    • If she is shy, her voice tone might be a little higher or lower depending on what she acts like. She might smile and laugh nervously at your jokes. She will probably start playing with her hair.
  10. If she says she likes you, then she likes you!


  • Be yourself. You don’t want to start acting like someone else, because she may start to lose interest in you.
  • She might be looking at you while your not looking, so keep an eye out for her.
  • If you know a girl likes you, try talking to her and be nice.
  • Try starting nice conversations.
  • Compliment her. Girls like being complemented.

Girls love good smelling people. So try to smell nice and use cologne.

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User Comments
  1. james

    On November 13, 2007 at 6:09 pm

    wow..i think this girl in my class likes me now

  2. wolfman

    On November 14, 2007 at 1:18 pm

    I like a girl, and she likes me, too…
    nice article, keep up the good writing

  3. Mike

    On November 15, 2007 at 7:30 am

    Pay attention to the pupils. If they dilate (get wider) when she looks at you, girl at the very least likes the way you look. Don’t confuse with dilation from her looking at a bright light.

  4. Jesus

    On November 16, 2007 at 2:24 pm

    Pretty good.
    by the way mike its sorta hard to start at a girls pupil and tell if it is dilating.

  5. You

    On November 16, 2007 at 6:51 pm

    Once again same thing…”this is just the same as”, “How to know if a boy likes you” article. I don’t understand why triond allow this. I think this is a bit unfair. You just change the pronoun and the noun but same thing.

  6. syed

    On November 17, 2007 at 7:58 am

    it was nice to read your artical and the best things is in it its very plane just like a conversation

  7. me

    On December 12, 2007 at 7:09 pm

    your article helped me this really hot girl taylor likes me keep. up the good work

  8. Lexxanator

    On December 13, 2007 at 9:53 pm

    The problem is, is that every site is the same. No body has any different answerer’s there all the same. And why are all the hot chicks called Taylor?

  9. rolyaT

    On January 10, 2008 at 6:14 pm

    We aren’t. You just think we are ;) Our mama’s knew we were going to be just like the last Taylor in the family, and named us after. I bet you Taylor means ‘Hott’ in Guy language.

    lol, what the hell possesed me to right that?

  10. unknown

    On February 24, 2008 at 4:25 pm

    I like this girl in my spanish class I dont know if i should tell her or not I dont know if she likes me back.

  11. johnboy

    On March 5, 2008 at 8:16 am

    i wish EVERYONE fancied me. that’d be well gooooooooooooood

  12. random guy

    On March 16, 2008 at 2:12 am

    This helps a bit. I can use some of these in the future, and know to do the exact opposite for someone who likes you but you don’t. I STRONGLY disagree with 10! A girl in my class last year said she liked me, her friends “confirmed” it, and I ended up heart-broken.

  13. pickle

    On March 18, 2008 at 11:57 am

    How about meeting a girl working at a gas station – cant tell if she is just being nice or if she really likes me. this has been going on for a long time…I was talking to a coworker the other day that I bumped into at the station and the girl told her, after I left,that she thinks I am her favorite customer. My coworker told me the next day. Sound like a hint??

  14. Savione

    On March 21, 2008 at 1:26 pm

    This girl,does like all this stuff.
    Her name is Zoe.
    She knoes she likes me she just to shy to addmit it!
    yeah she’s HOTT! I like her!

  15. Savione

    On March 21, 2008 at 1:27 pm

    This girl,does like all this stuff.
    Her name is Zoe.
    She knows she likes me she just to shy to addmit it!
    yeah she’s HOTT! I like her!

  16. smiles

    On March 23, 2008 at 9:29 pm

    dude i like this girl.
    shes beautiful!!!
    everytime i see her in class we tend to flirt.
    when we watch movies in class or shes tired she tend to lay on my shoulder a lot.

    i wonder if she likes me??? what you guys think? yes??? or no????
    i want to ask her to prom too

  17. Trish

    On April 17, 2008 at 11:42 pm

    Hay boyz i have a nice tip for all of u If a girl stares,or smilles at u go and kiss her u never know she mide like u

  18. sara

    On April 18, 2008 at 6:53 am

    Is this for girls and guys/ girl and girl???
    Anyway, what if a girl keeps on looking at you but does not talk to you; And if i like that same girl who does not talk to me, what does it means?
    Any idea, cause i really need help!!!!

  19. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 5:49 pm


    Okay dude,
    You have to talk to her..she is probably really shy. if you have classes with her ask her if she did the homework. if not try to find ouut things she likes ..sports..movies etc. But YOU have to talk to her…if shes constantly staring at you theres like a 99% chance she likes you.. trust me!


  20. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 5:56 pm

    RESPONSE TO: smiles

    YES! DUHHHHH she likes you if a girl is freaking leaning on your shoulder..obviously she REALLY likes you…go ahead ask her!


  21. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 5:59 pm

    RESPONSE TO: smiles

    DUHHHH! YES! yes she likes you..if a girl is freaking putting her head on your shoulder there is a 99% chance shes crazy over you! ask her!


  22. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 6:01 pm

    RESPONSE TO: smiles

    DUHHHH! YES! yes she likes you..if a girl is freaking putting her head on your shoulder shes obviously crazy over you! ask her!


  23. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 6:07 pm

    RESPONSE TO: smiles

    YES! DUHHHHH she likes you if a girl is freaking leaning on your shoulder..obviously she REALLY likes you…go ahead ask her!


  24. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 6:07 pm

    RESPONSE TO: smiles

    YES! DUHHHHH she likes you if a girl is freaking leaning on your shoulder..obviously she REALLY likes you…go ahead ask her!


  25. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 6:08 pm

    RESPONSE TO: smiles

    YES! DUHHHHH she likes you if a girl is freaking leaning on your shoulder..obviously she REALLY likes you…go ahead ask her!


  26. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 6:09 pm

    RESPONSE TO: smiles

    YES! DUHHHHH she likes you if a girl is freaking leaning on your shoulder..obviously she REALLY likes you…go ahead ask her!


  27. someone

    On April 20, 2008 at 6:59 pm

    OMG! sry about all those coments i thought it wasn’t working my bad :)

  28. Street Kings

    On April 23, 2008 at 9:15 pm

    the girl I like freaking flirts with every guy including me…I can never tell if she likes me so annoying…

  29. Young&&insane

    On April 24, 2008 at 5:22 pm

    Street Kings…she could ..there is only one way ,to ask her!

    “Yes, you want her
    Look at her, you know you do
    It’s possible she wants you too
    There’s one way to ask her”

    lol i found that.. i am bored lol

  30. sam

    On April 28, 2008 at 4:58 pm

    worked. now going out with my ggirlfriend who i love.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

  31. joey boy

    On May 2, 2008 at 11:35 pm

    yes, maobahhhhhhhh

  32. matt

    On May 10, 2008 at 12:21 am

    i really like these girls libby and leah and there both reall y pretty but i dont know which one to pick but when i read this well leah shes really pretty but shes a reall really girly girly and libby is really pretty and shes really sporty so which one should impick please tell me because well libby has brown hair and leah has blonde hair and i really like both and there really pretty and fuuny and HOTTTTTTT! PLEASE TELL ME WHO I SHOULD PICK

  33. DA BOM 12

    On May 10, 2008 at 5:29 am

    i offended this girl in class but dispite that couple of days later she started to stare at me i guess she thought i notesed her so she started to talk to me but i dont know if i really like her

    but there is a girl who works at the shops accross the road from me she is a hottie. she goes th my school but she isint in any of my classes how do i get her to notice me

  34. alexandro

    On May 10, 2008 at 9:40 am

    ok so there is this girl that is so freaking hot and i think she might like me. she just started talking to this one person that sits close to me that i didn’t even know was her friend and she kept on looking back at me. also no matter where she sits in the room, she is facing towards me more or less. i also have been trying to like look straight into her eyes and the longest i’ve done that is like 2 seconds gee i hope she likes me

  35. alexandro

    On May 10, 2008 at 9:57 am

    oh another thing just the other day i was like tapping on my desk and i was watching her and then she did so too for like five seconds

  36. alexandro

    On May 10, 2008 at 10:58 am

    she was tapping

  37. qwerty

    On May 12, 2008 at 2:45 am

    i still….still…argh…do no what to do…

  38. qwerty

    On May 12, 2008 at 2:48 am

    sometimes she look at me but sometimes not……when i talk to her fren she just act like she in other world….it make me confuse….what should i do???

  39. qwerty

    On May 12, 2008 at 2:50 am


  40. alexandro

    On May 12, 2008 at 6:11 pm

    i am pretty sure now

  41. deenbodeen

    On May 12, 2008 at 10:26 pm

    i have a friend thats a girl and i really like her
    she just broke up with her boyfriend and i’m not sure if she wants
    to be more than friends or what

    What should i do?

  42. Joshua

    On May 19, 2008 at 4:38 pm

    Her friends say she likes me when she said something in spanish to me. She likes when I sit by her.When I get in fights she helps me out. When all the girls are mean to me shes nice to me. She gives me hugs. Once she said I was her boo does she like me?

  43. henry

    On May 24, 2008 at 10:54 pm

    I think this chick likes me now.

  44. dude

    On May 30, 2008 at 8:06 pm

    theres a hot girl in my class. she looks at me a lot and sometimes flirts. dose she like me?

  45. Justin

    On June 1, 2008 at 8:22 am

    > This is very cute!> And even written by a guy!

    > You might agree with it, but

    > when it actually happens 99% of girls don’t realize it ’til it is too late

    > and that guy who did it is so frustrated that he has moved on to someone who

    > will take notice.

    > From a guys point of view:

    > We don’t care if you talk to other guys.

    > We don’t care if you’re friends with other guys.

    > But when you’re sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room

    > and you jump up and tackle him without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

    > It doesn’t help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without

    > even acknowledging the fact that we’re still there.

    > We don’t care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned.

    > Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can’t wait till he morning.

    > Also, when we tell you you’re pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

    > Don’t tell us we’re wrong.We’ll stop trying to convince you.

    > The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

    > Yeah, you can quote me.

    > Don’t be mad when we hold the door open.

    > Take Advantage of the mood im in.


    > We enjoy doing it.

    > It’s expected.

    > Smile and say ‘thank you.’

    > Kiss us when no one’s watching.

    > If you kiss us when you know somebody’s looking, we’ll be more impressed.

    > You don’t have to get dressed up for us.

    > If we’re going out with you in the first place, you don’t have to feel the

    > need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.

    > We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

    > Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she’s just in her pj’s.

    > Or my t-shirt and boxers, not all dolled up.

    > Don’t take everything we say seriously.

    > Sarcasm is a beautiful thing.

    > See the beauty in it.

    > Don’t get angry easily.

    > Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

    > Don’t talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us.

    > It’s boring, and we don’t care.

    > You have girlfriends for that.

    > Whatever happened to the word ‘handsome’/'beautiful’.

    > I’d be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with ‘Hey handsome!’ instead of ‘Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy’ or whatever else you can think of.

    > On the other hand im not sayin i wouldn’t like it ether.


    > Someone who will honor your morals.

    > Someone who will make you smile when you’re at your lowest.

    > Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.

    > Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.

    > Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the eyes….and say ‘i love you’ ……….AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!

    > *****Give the nice guys a chance*****

    > Holdin Hands- Girls : If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times.
    > Guys : Grab it if it happens more than once.

    > Cuddling- Girls : When you want to cuddle with him, tell him you’re cold.
    > Guys : Automatically move closer to her.

    > Movies- Girls : During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder
    > Guys : Lift her chin up and kiss her.

    > Loving each other- Guys : When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too… And mean it.

    > Laying below the stars- Girls : When you’re both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heart beat
    > Guys : Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers. Now make a wish about something you would like to happen Between you and your crush….

    > guys: no grabbing!!!

  46. crushed by love

    On June 7, 2008 at 2:06 pm

    there a girl at my school who i like but i dont know if she likes me its kinda scary if i just walk up to her and ask her out
    i did that befor and well i dont wanna say but the thing is i dont know if she likes me. one day she went up to me and asked me all these question like whats my favorite anime show? what the hell should i do

  47. ryan

    On June 12, 2008 at 7:43 pm


  48. no one u know

    On June 12, 2008 at 7:45 pm

    thanks i got my eyes set on sombody that sounds like she likes me

  49. runner_babe

    On June 19, 2008 at 11:55 am

    okay, so i really like this guy, he’s so hott!! but i’m not sure if he likes me. sure, he calls me sometimes for no reason, when we haven’t seen eachother in awhile he texts me and says that he hopes he can see me soon. when another girl and i get in a little fight, he’s the first one to pull me back and holds me there for a second. he’ll throw things at me and laugh or softly hit me. anyways, i think he might like me, but he won’t ask me on a date! what should i do?

  50. runner_babe

    On June 19, 2008 at 1:31 pm

    i know, this is a “how to know if a girl likes you” but there aren’t any “how to know if a guy likes you”

  51. runner lady

    On June 26, 2008 at 3:42 am

    this boy gives me hugs and talks to me should i ask him out but he is HOttttttttt

  52. amal

    On June 29, 2008 at 5:02 am

    can i ask?
    you all is a guy right?
    there is a guy

    everytime we met he will and absolutely will say hye to me..
    ‘hye amal’

    and he tell me the thing that should not or a waste thing
    he knows that i didn’t join camp and cadet
    but there is a meeting that was hold for peoples who join camp and cadet.and he is one of the organizer

    he keep asking me to go..although he know im not into it..

    actually we just know for a week because he is my broter’s friend
    we are at the same school..

    for almost aweek,he keep says hye to me whenever i am far or not..

    he is totally ignoring me
    i am infront of him,still he ignoring me

    i dont know why..

    and im just confused right now
    and because you guys are man..hopefully i’ll find the resolution for this.

    thanks a lot..very appreciate

    he is ignoring me

  53. sebcy

    On July 1, 2008 at 1:14 am

    look,i’m a girl and a university student. i’m from different country and this spring semester was my first semester. so i met this guy. he was in my English class. the first time i saw him i feel like he is kind of guy here in America u called them Popular in high school, but then all his action makes me to see he really is. he is so cute for me.i don’t agree with a word hot. if it is love he don’t have to be hot but nice and handsome somehow.he start talking to me in every chance he got.i use to go to class late everyday cuz i use to work on campus. so i didn’t get the chance to sit with him. but this day i went class fast and he was not there. when he get to class he was with his friend but instead of sitting with him he came and sat beside me. that was when know he like me. after that day he start doing all he can to make me interested in him, talking to me in any chance he got, catch eye to eye suddenly in the middle of class. it was good. at the final week b/c i’m gonna change university i gave him drawing and a necklace i brought from my country. he ask me to put it in his neck and i was so nervous and shaking.he asked me if i liked it and i turned the neck less in the right way and said it is perfect now and he was laughing and asked me to eat breakfast with him.the drawing was cool and it was suppose to be for my self but b/c it was to late to draw another i gave it to him that and in the middle it says LOVE. i couldn’t do anything. then in the break fast he invited me to his house party and that night it was Friday i went to his party with my roommate & other friend. i felt so scared b/c i don’t think i’m beautiful, i’m international & i was the only black girl not only in that room but in campus.i really liked him cuz he likes me for who i’m , & if u see him u might say u don’t have anything in common, but inside both of us sre the same. as soon as i get it to his house he asked me if i want a drink & i told him i have never tried it before & he said” here try mine & i’ll make another for me” that was so sweet b/c he only asked me and he gave me his drink. then he start showing me his home and then he showed me his room. and before all this he saw me drowing a cartoon & he told me he liked but not he draw, but there was funny drawing in his room. i sat there with other people & my friends and he start coming & check if i was having good time. but i didn’t realize till now that he was coming to check with me. this time he came and sat with me. he was little bit drunk and i was playing with small car in my hand. after he sat he asked me if i’m bored. then he start talking about how he got the small car and the cartoons in it. he start playing in my hand and leaning in my shoulder.we talked stuffs and i asked him the funny drawings, and he said i know it is funny but i draw them cuz i feel good & i enjoy it. he said ” it is not being perfect but nice, & funny & it is for my self” he is right. i tried to touch his hair act like i’m just playing but b/c of other lot of people were in the room i was shy. i regret that still now.then he said let’s go outside and i couldn’t believe so i asked him again then i think he thinks i’m mad he said lets play this game(it was trowing a boll in to a cup, if u loose u have to drink )then when i left his room i tried to say bye, kiss or hug him but he was with his friend so i didn’t get the chance, but i was hoping i’m gonna see him in my farewell party. i called him in the last day for me in the campus & told him abut my farewell party he was sad when i told him i’m changing college. he said we should hang out & start searching an occasion to take me. but he didn’t find any and the final exam week passed with out we know it.he said definitely i’m gonna come. i was planning everything to happen that day, my best guy and girl friends were so excited for me more than me. guess what HE DIDN’T SHOW UP that day. i was so sad . i start crying & i taxt him with my friends phone but he didn’t answer back. in the next day i came to different state for summer . i left my love & friends there. i felt lonly.
    nice story huuuuuu ya. the truth is i know he likes me but he won’t admitted that he likes me & tell me he loves me.
    guys please tell the girl that u like that u love her, cuz most of the time we girls expect u to do the first move.don’t be afraid. the question should be about love not only like. if u need relationship it is Love u should ask, but if it is for friend ship then it is LIKE. i am sure no one is here to ask about friends relation right guys………. ya
    well see ya any advice for me or question ????????? then write me

  54. bobby mc bob bob

    On July 13, 2008 at 4:46 pm

    Most of these things (shy ones) and looking at me add up with the chick i like, plus i always smell nice lol, i think she likes me :P

  55. manpreet singh

    On July 24, 2008 at 5:19 am

    there is one girl in my class she sits at back of me i love her so much that i cannot tell you i dont able to understand that she loves me or not

  56. anonymous pinneapple

    On August 12, 2008 at 1:23 am

    theres a girl in my class who i like and she knows i like her ubt i dont know if she likes me. she starts laughing whenever i say anything though and we both play piano and sometimes she immidiatly looks away if i see her looking at me or shell keep looking. i needz help
    sorry for bad spellin

  57. mac

    On August 15, 2008 at 12:58 pm

    I have never seen so many guys with the same old stupid question(s) . If you want her, tell her, look her straight in the eye and tell her, be confident, straight foward. If all you want is in her pants then tell her that . Worst thing that happens is she tells you no and hopefully her friend heard who is looking for some. The Mac

  58. THe man

    On August 16, 2008 at 12:00 am

    This article was copy and paste, same crap as other sites

  59. ur mom died by a viechal

    On August 20, 2008 at 1:49 am


  60. casanova

    On August 21, 2008 at 9:45 am

    I have a question (I’m a guy by the way). You see, i have this girl who i like shes friends with another girl. The friend of the girl i like likes me but i don’t really like her back (if thats not to confusing). I don’t want to make things awkward between our group what do i do.

  61. tiny dong

    On August 21, 2008 at 8:22 pm

    Does anyone want to blow my job???

  62. crowraven

    On August 22, 2008 at 6:43 pm

    wow now i think she really likes me…

  63. scott

    On August 26, 2008 at 8:35 pm

    what should i use as a conversation starter

  64. scott

    On August 26, 2008 at 8:37 pm

    when is the right time to ask for her #

  65. Pointing out stupidity person

    On August 27, 2008 at 4:19 am

    Jesus, ever read the ten commandments.

  66. plz help me

    On August 29, 2008 at 4:42 pm

    theres a girl that i like and i sit in front of her in one of my classes

    im 15 (16 in about 9 weeks) and when i done work experince last year she was at the same place as me to do work experince and this is how i meet her and got talking to her.

    Some i know who i talk to every now and then (but not a lot usualy just on the bus sometimes) told me that she heard that the girl liked me (as in she wanted to out with me)

    now it is about 4 months on and i ended up in the same class as her for RE and i just rememberd what i was told and also realised that her ( and i mean everything about her not just the way she looks) i talk to her and we can have a joke with each other but im not sure if she is flirting with me ( or if im flirting with her? )

    i think she may still like me and i really want to ask her out but i only started talking to agin about 2 weeks ago. Im not if i should make a move on her by asking if she wants to into town with me. And if i should make a move on her how should i do it and when?

    sorry for writting so much im just really confused

    thnx and if you can could you plz email me with what you think i should do

    my email;

    p.s. that is just one i made up especilly for this as i dont want to give out my real one


  67. Bobby Tomatoehead

    On September 12, 2008 at 5:43 pm

    I don’t really know if this is the type i wanted but its really good but u should try making it so that u dont embarrass ursself at the same time

  68. portagee

    On September 15, 2008 at 4:54 pm

    hey, i don’t do this necessarily but im givin it a shot

    k so theres a girl, my age . shes been kinda flirtin b/c as some websites say “girls may play rough” is actually true. this girl is always lookin at me whenever i cant see it and touches me and asks many many questions. the thing is that if i ask her it could screw up the relation i got with her now, and all i just wanna know is if you got a girl laughin at ya bad jokes, makin mad excuses while touchin you, flirtin, and compliments you, should you make tha first move? cause i’ve known her since last year and things went not so good and not so bad. and if she does like me should i wait?

    get back at this.

  69. Man

    On September 21, 2008 at 9:52 pm

    this girl I met a while ago and idk if she likes me. She im’s me everyday asks me to hang out with her and her friends compliments my guitar skills and says hi to me everytime I see her laughs at all my jokes and makes me notice her. please respond

  70. anonymous

    On September 23, 2008 at 9:39 pm

    hahahaha dude thats so fking funny!!

  71. anonymous

    On September 25, 2008 at 8:34 pm

    Well, I was madly in love with a girl, and she met about 90% of the so called tests, except for the fact that she sometimes don’t answer calls, sometimes she will call back, other times not, but again she told me she was bad at phone calls at when I first met her, and a lot of her friends complain about that too. However all seems to go well until one day, when we had a one of these bad days (she was in a bad mood, did not manage to make much conversation with her, and this in turn made my mood turn grey), to my horror she told me she doesn’t like me from day one. And that is it. I loved her so much, she is the only woman I had such strong feelings for. Tried to repair damages, but that just got no where, and sunk deeper. It effected my work etc. too, nearly got into a depression. Glad I am almost over it now. But don’t think I will ever love a girl that deep again. I guess sometimes it is wise not to love.

  72. portagee

    On September 28, 2008 at 4:17 pm

    if you guys truly need help about how to get a girlfriend do this. STOP LOOKING ONLINE FOR HELP OR ADVICE! god none of this stuff NEVER i repeat NEVER works. if you actually like a girl and got feelings for her you would spend as much time as you can with her and you’ll find out more about her. if she looks like shes having fun she may either like you as a boyfriend or just a friend. and if shes having a bad time forget her. its not like shes gonna randomly like you again.

  73. Dave

    On October 1, 2008 at 10:34 pm

    Amen to Justin.

    If you want to know if a girl likes you, try to get her alone and flirt with her. If she flirts back, then it may mean shes into you. It works best if she isn’t with her friends.

  74. kurt

    On October 2, 2008 at 4:17 am

    actually u all sucks

  75. ma

    On October 4, 2008 at 1:37 pm


  76. meagan

    On October 4, 2008 at 1:54 pm

    ok im a girl and i read this to make sure i wasnt being to obvious that i like this boy …but all these are true…i have done all of this …so im guessing he probably know that i like him….

  77. Al

    On October 5, 2008 at 2:49 pm

    Ok this girl sits across the other room from me so I can look right at her.. All I do is look at her and my max time is 4 seconds without looking away lol.. She is more confident then me :( .. Well if you are confident then just smile at her and keep staring. If she frowns and looks away then she doesn’t like you. If she smiles back then she likes you. But if she smiles and hides into the crowd of her friends then she is curious that you like her. I’ll try tomorrow again..

  78. Johnny

    On October 7, 2008 at 1:12 am

    Hey guys, I have this girl who’s in my physics class.
    I’m relatively good at physics, so she tends to ask me a lot of questions, despite the fact that there are other guys that are better at physics than I am. It’s not that I’m more approachable or anything like that. She compliments me and such on MSN but doesn’t flirt or anything like that in class. I think she’s the quiet type, but active, and she smiles a lot.
    Is she trying to take advantage of me (use me to help herself) or is this a sign of some sort.

  79. disclosed

    On October 9, 2008 at 11:18 pm

    ok, now i really like this girl in my class (REALLLLLLLLY), i do not know if she has a relationship with someone else. EVERY time i talk to the people sitting next to me, like one time i told this really funny joke i catch her smiling at me, not at them AT ME, she seems very friendly and shes not shy but i am very shy. I know she thinks im funny THATS ALL I KNOW about her. i have Never been this attracted to someone EVER. its like shes perfect in every way possible. what should i do?

  80. disclosed

    On October 9, 2008 at 11:39 pm

    i cannot discribe how much i like this girl. she appeared to me as an Angle. iam attracted to her so much I CANNOT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER. she is not even comparable to this other girl i liked in junior high, NOT EVEN CLOSE. oh iam Sam by the way iam a junior.

  81. Sam

    On October 9, 2008 at 11:45 pm

    i wonder if anyones had this same feeling as i do and I CANNOT IMAGINE not being with her. SOMEONE PLEASE COMMENT ON THIS tell me what u think. she is so perfect its like shes not even human. love with me is stronger then with other people

  82. sam

    On October 13, 2008 at 8:48 pm

    i would appreciate anyones comment on this. Has anyone ever been VERY interested in a girl that turned out not to be interested in you and it took a long time to ger over it? And you thought NO ONE and i mean NO ONE was attractive as her but then there is someone else who is EQUALLY OR MORE attractive has her AND THEY ARE INTERESTED IN YOU?

  83. Johnny

    On October 14, 2008 at 7:38 pm

    I don’ think your last sentence there made much sense…
    Personally, no. But You’re a junior. Stop worrying yourself with these girl-antics. I’m sure there are millions of girls out there for you. A girl you might meet now may seem to be stunningly beautiful than all the other girls, but later you will find Another beautiful girl that you feel the same about, and they’re just going to keep on coming.

  84. nick

    On October 15, 2008 at 5:33 pm

    i like this girl but i find it very difficult to talk to her because i get this very intence butterfly in my stomach if i make eye contact with here or if i bump in to her. i guess iam really shy. However if she starts the conversation iam able to look her in the eye no problem. i just want to start a simple conversation with her so i can give her the idea that i like her
    (she probably does not already know. can anyone tell me how to talk to her without being so shy?

  85. jerry

    On October 18, 2008 at 8:17 pm

    I had two different occasion with two different girls who claimed they liked someone else i know and they acted very interested on my opinion but i had the suspicion that in reality they liked me instead, would girls do this often or they really meant what they told me? cause i followed their congruency up to the point where i tricked them by making them believe i was gonna tell the person they claimed to like and they would get upset or very uncomfortable
    Any opinions on this matter?

  86. answering comment 86(nick)

    On October 19, 2008 at 12:05 pm

    Well, nick according to my experience and my skills this is what i can come up with to help you, first of all discard the idea that you like her, and just try to accomplish only to be her friend only, then set your body position side to side when you can like if your always going to do something else and you have something else to do and you got short time to spare, set in your mind your a confident person and that your only trying to get this person to be your friend. The eye contact is great according to your description keep at it, whenever is getting a little overwhelming look away briefly but sharpen your eye contact again. Come up with funny things to laugh about and try not to laugh much specially at your own jokes.Sometimes it dont matter what you have to come up to start a conversation, what matters is how you carry yourself with the conversation.Just for better results dont talk about the same old boring subjects everyone talks about instead try to come up with things that are uncommon to talk about and talk slow with pauses.This is general help let me know if of all this anything helped:)

  87. nick

    On October 19, 2008 at 8:51 pm

    thank u answering comment 86 i will continue 2 make i contact with her. she trys to make conversations with me and i no she thinks iam funny do u think she likes me

  88. replying #88 comment nick

    On October 20, 2008 at 11:32 am

    Women love funny, confident, chivalrous, interesting men so you tell me if this applies to you;)

  89. nick

    On October 20, 2008 at 8:54 pm

    thanks replying comment 88. i need to let u no that i CANNOT approach her iam way to shy. but if she were to approach me i could talk to her no problem. is there any technique i can do to make me not shy?

  90. replying to nick again

    On October 21, 2008 at 7:40 am

    how would it sound if u read the opposite you wrote: I need to let you know I CAN approach her I am not shy! Even if she was to approach me I could still talk to her no problem because i am a confident cool and very interesting honest guy!
    Do me a favor and repeat this to yourself out loud several times and be serious about this, when you feel something inside once you believe this, you will know you are indeed a very social cool confident honest guy who just needed to believe he was ready all along to rock this girl’s world, how about that?

  91. mrSOMEBODY

    On October 22, 2008 at 2:03 pm

    we live at the same house , she rent one room , everyday we usually talk to each other , and i usually tease her , and she will tease back , one time we go out , she suddenly , said she;s sleepy , becoz we sleep late ,be4 we go out , suddenly , she put her head on my shoulder , is that a sign ?

  92. a guy that is hot

    On October 23, 2008 at 6:44 pm

    i like a girl that used to like me but now i think she likes someone else and i wanna ask here out to a dance but i dont really no if she likes me can someone plz tell me if i should ask her out or not

  93. sam

    On October 23, 2008 at 11:30 pm

    i have you heard rumors that this girl already has a boyfriend but those rumors are not credibal. does anybody think i should still talk to her because i really really like her

  94. a guy that is hot

    On October 24, 2008 at 2:55 pm

    yes you really should becouse im post 95 the same thing happened to me and i asked her out to da dance and she said yes so i think u should just ask her out even if she says no ull find out if she likes u and wen u do dat it flatters da girl so she might like u a little bit more and this post is to post number 97

  95. guy

    On October 24, 2008 at 9:15 pm

    im a guy that likes a girl dat flirts wit me alot but she also flirts wit everone else how do i no if she likes me

  96. comments to 97-99 posts

    On October 27, 2008 at 1:37 am

    Like i mentioned before to a few people; Even if the girl doesn’t like you, wth just be her friend and express the best out of you without thinking or hoping she will suddenly like you. By being yourselves you will not only telegraph to her that you are confident and a great person but also that she is the one who is supposed to be after you and not you after her. Attraction is not a choice but we can use methods to build attraction. Even if she rejects you i am sure she may not be the only girl you will like in life, best advice is to move on and while she is sometimes and desperately looking for someone, you already did the same and there is no harm done by doing that. Accept reality the way it is,which is one of the first laws of attraction. So be smart and instead to try and change the girl’s mind to like you, just invest in yourself to make you a more attractive guy without expecting them to like you. That alone will do its will and you will be amazed by the results. Let me post here proven facts that will make you attractive: Self confidence, Funny, Honesty, Chivalry and best of all being yourself with the help of the previous tools mentioned before. please do not misinterpret these concepts and apply them with moderation and balance not exaggeration.

  97. Jack

    On October 29, 2008 at 3:47 pm

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  98. James

    On October 30, 2008 at 5:48 am

    I like her alot. Man she is so hot. i wish i can get her in 1 more week

  99. josh

    On November 1, 2008 at 4:12 pm

    there’s this girl in my school that i really like and i know that she likes me she always holds my hand and leans into me i think i shud ask her out

  100. to post 102

    On November 2, 2008 at 3:53 pm

    thanks for tellin us but we dont care

  101. hey

    On November 3, 2008 at 7:35 pm

    Obviously theres a girl I reallllly like, she gives me hugs and writes me notes saying I

  102. john

    On November 3, 2008 at 9:50 pm

    does anybody know how long relationships in highschool last?

  103. to john

    On November 5, 2008 at 5:37 pm

    im not in highschool but probably minutes

  104. Dieter Hentz

    On November 11, 2008 at 12:40 pm


  105. ryan

    On November 14, 2008 at 10:01 pm

    does she like you if she talks about you alot
    or tries to talk to you alot?

  106. repliy to 108#

    On November 16, 2008 at 9:20 pm

    most likely yes

  107. Smart Guy

    On November 19, 2008 at 3:19 pm

    you used the wrong compliment. and know i’m not so sure if this girl in my school likes me or not.

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  109. Leslie

    On November 22, 2008 at 11:08 pm

    What if you are lesbian?

  110. Leslie

    On November 22, 2008 at 11:10 pm

    What if you are lesbian?

  111. need help

    On November 28, 2008 at 10:51 pm

    yea I got this problem cause there are these two girls that I like. Both of them are hot and funny but I don’t no which one to pick. Here’s the problem,they are sisters. The older one knows that I used to like her but now I like the younger one more. The olderone is sometimes always flirting with other guys and the younger one sometimes played hard to get. I know for sure that one of them likes me(younger one) but I’m still confused. Please help.

  112. legoloser4

    On December 4, 2008 at 11:40 pm

    theres this girl and i think she likese me because she always seems to be behind me in school and toches my shoulder.sometimes she stares at me for ever at lunch. what do you guys think is it a crush? by the way i love her she is hott

  113. legoloser4

    On December 4, 2008 at 11:45 pm

    do you thingck she likes me i need help girls.
    and girls hint if a guy stares at you or trys to talk constantly inisheate your own conversation he likes you trust me

  114. legoloser4

    On December 4, 2008 at 11:51 pm

    #114 need help: responding talk to the younger one you know she likes you so pick her and pick the one thats giving the most singhs

  115. Lil CrIsTiAn

    On December 6, 2008 at 5:15 pm

    Your article is great. I’m 15 and this girl, Desiree, my life and love in my algebra class is one of the hottest and intelligent girl’s at my school. At a dance on Friday we finally talked and I brought up the courage to ask her out even though Im a bit nerdy, and all went well. But I know shes been with other guys COOLER GUYS and Im thinking if shes really right for me?

  116. hemant kapoor

    On December 8, 2008 at 11:36 am

    never love anybody

  117. matt

    On December 13, 2008 at 11:38 pm

    wow i REALLY like this girl and we are really good friends i just dont know i she likes me cus half of this fits but some doesnt we definetly flirt a lot and her friends thinks she likes me but she just wont tell them if its true or not

  118. matt

    On December 13, 2008 at 11:46 pm

    and shes always in my mind ALWAYS i cant go 5 mins without thinking about her

  119. comment to matt

    On December 16, 2008 at 8:28 pm

    i can go 10 with this girl

  120. cesar

    On December 21, 2008 at 12:16 am

    i know this girl in the library she a student too she is realu cute everyday i see her in the library and she sees me all the time every time i walk pass her she turns and when she is alone she gets shy and just look around that happends to me too

  121. Marc

    On December 27, 2008 at 11:41 am

    Hey I am 13 and and I really. Like this girln in my school and she’s always sayin that she’s imagined us vein together andshes always puttin her head on my shoulder. Do ya think she likes me and if so how should I go about askin her out

  122. cool

    On December 29, 2008 at 7:55 pm

    there is a girl that i think likes me(she is doing almost all the stuff you mentioned). But what if i dont want her to like me. And besides she is older than me. WHat do i do? Plz Help

  123. sroz

    On December 29, 2008 at 11:32 pm

    thare is a girl we are not in the same class but she is always looking at me but im not the best with words and i cant confront but she dosent talk to me much my friends tell me she is shy she actes wierd arond me but still someone just anwser back ty

  124. shy

    On December 29, 2008 at 11:37 pm

    there is a girl that i like but she is shy around me but my friend is thare to dose she like me or him but whe she talks to me and actes wieard around me but dosent blush please anwser back please thank you :D

  125. sroz

    On December 30, 2008 at 12:21 am

    i really like this girl i think she is really really really really really hot!!!!!!! i really like her but all my friends say i dont have a chance but im not going to give up im not giveing up if she says she likes me ill be happy im just scared if she says no ill make a fool of my self what should i do please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    please tell me (yes)or(no)

  126. shy

    On December 30, 2008 at 1:09 am

    there is this really cool girl she is good at everything sports school shes hot really hot you name it if you saw her you would catch on fire thats how hot she is i really need help how can i tell if she likes me she showss me sighs but i dont know if she means it or not please help??????????????????????????????

    ps.i need some tips on asking her out on a date

  127. sup

    On December 31, 2008 at 11:58 am

    This is for sroz

    I think you should go for it you might be scared but its ok you will never find out if you dont try go for it you might get a date.

  128. rot

    On January 1, 2009 at 2:10 pm

    I need help i dident put my name on my test and she hade to stay in and she saw that i was going to get in troble and she put my last name on my paper bearly anyone nows my last name

    ps.dose she like me or not?

  129. ananonmis

    On January 6, 2009 at 8:48 pm

    attractive people r attracted to attractive people, not so attractive people r attracted to not so attractive people. if there is someone who everybody says is hot they probably r hot.
    for example most people would agree that brad pitt or angeliana jolie r hot but that does not mean they are ATTRACTED to them. there is a diff between being generally beautifle and being attracted to someone who is not as beautifle but still above average.

  130. john

    On January 6, 2009 at 10:40 pm

    (If you have good advice please respond)

    There is this really beautiful girl in my social studys class and obviously I find her extremely attractive. I think she already has a boyfriend or at least she knows this guy likes her. I cannot go 10 minutes without thinking about her. Even if she does have a current relationship i know for a fact she is interested in other guys. She gets attention from other guys but i know she is out of there league. I get attention from other girls and i know iam attractive because they all tell me iam. Every time there is a tolo i get asked to it by other beautifull girls but the girl i mentioned who is in my class is the only girl i like back. i want to ask her out but her looks are intimidating. But the number 1 reason iam afraid to ask her out is that IAM AFRAID OF REJECTION VERY VERY AFRAID. Somebody please give me your thoughts. Thank you.

  131. danny

    On January 8, 2009 at 1:22 am

    Ok so theres a girl that I like in my P.E. class. I never talk to her because she is with her friend plus i dont even know her. I know two of her friends but i never get to talk to them a lot. I have a feeling she looks at me when im not looking bc sometimes when i turn around shes looking at me. I dont know how else i could explain it. I just dont want to tell my friends bc they r kinda big mouths, so if you understand my paragraph please respond with helpful info.

  132. IvorY

    On January 16, 2009 at 11:22 am


    i dont know how old you are, but ill tell you something.

    rejection isnt the worst thing in the world.
    in my 10th grade, there was this beautiful girl i liked. we had a nice friendship, we held hands and such but never got any further. that pissed me off, so much, that for almost a full year i didnt talked to her, or even looked her in the eyes.

    one day, at a night club, and after a few drinks (btw, i dont live in the states, so at 16 we can drink alcohol here, legaly) she felt dizzy and had a stomach ache. i was still pissed at her, and was trying to ignore her, but i saw her in a corner feeling sick, and went to help her. we stayed for a couple of hours sitting and just caressing… after that, she chose to hang with another guy, that didnt treat her right, and it dissapointed me.

    its been almost 4 years now, since that little “thing” we had, and all i can say, is that if you do get rejected, theres nothing that says that you cant be friends. we are still great friends till this day.

    my advice to you is to do a slow approach, and scout her feelings. when she is down, you get close to her (assuming she is away from the herd, yes, the herd, her girlfriends) and ask her how she feels. listen to her, and in the end, say “i dont know if i helped, but you can count on me for anything. at all time.”

    it may not help avoiding the rejection, but at least you dont lose a friend.

    now, i dont know if that helped, but a good lecture always does something… xD

    remember, you want to make her feel good, its not just about you.

  133. IvorY

    On January 16, 2009 at 1:00 pm


    soz m8, only saw you post now.

    the best way to know a girl is talking to her…
    if you have a bit of difficulty in your PE homework (i dont know if you have them or not, its the same thing). either way, make an excuse to talk to her, and you’ll notice the small details that will tell you if she likes you.

    instead of focusing your attention on her friends to get to know her, focus on her.
    and about yor friends… well, you can tell them, but do it after you get to kow her, or else your feelings might be confused with stalking… not good, trust me.

    its hard, but you need to gain a little courage, and talk to her. be a man, and everything will get easier.

  134. danny

    On January 21, 2009 at 9:37 pm


    Sounds good but when you say talking to her, do you mean like butting in her conversations. Because girls are really confusing when it comes to figuring out whether they like you or not. I asked my friends for tips on how to straight up and start talking to a girl i like. Do you know some by any chance? I don’t want to mess things up and approach her as some weird random person.

  135. Juliet

    On January 23, 2009 at 8:41 pm

    Hey guys, if you like a girl get to know her better and then just simply start flirting. If she responds she more than likely has a crush on you! If you want to just tell her that’s fine but a great way to let her know how you feel is just to kiss her! If she accepts you have your answer, but if she rejects give her some time she may come around another time! :)

  136. john repliy to IvorY #132

    On January 24, 2009 at 1:32 pm

    Wait a second, just because u hold hands with her doesnt mean u are together?

  137. KingJ2000

    On January 27, 2009 at 6:43 pm

    SSSSSHHHHIIITTT!! I think this girl in my class likes me. She’s a little weird, her name is Amber Johnson.

  138. danny

    On January 27, 2009 at 11:20 pm


  139. IvorY

    On January 28, 2009 at 11:29 am


    holding hands is a good sign, but doesnt mean you have a girlfriend. it just means the girls like you, and if you have warm hands during winter, even better.

    in my situation, it meant we were and are good friends. and that was it.

    to remain good friends despite getting rejected is very good, and i recommend it. its better to have a friend, than no friends.

    if you still have questions, dont be afraid to ask you friends, or your parents. it might sound bad, but remember, they once were kids like us…

  140. ma-tt420 :0

    On January 28, 2009 at 7:48 pm

    but how can u tell if she likes u if she doesn’t show any of these sighs ?!?!?!? some one plz tell me!

    and if she she haze a boy friend how do i make them brake up 1 ROFL THAT SOUNDS CRUEL !

  141. love

    On January 28, 2009 at 11:16 pm

    try to know from her eyes. eyes express the feelings very well

  142. love

    On January 28, 2009 at 11:23 pm

    how to know whether u r facing crush or luv. reply fast

  143. IvorY

    On January 29, 2009 at 11:39 am


    we cant see them, but they are around us. im talking about pheromones (go look it up). ever had the feeling of “love in first sight”? thats cuz of pheromones.

    the only good way to know if a girl likes you, is to talk to her, and “scout” the “terrain” ahead of you. like i said before, her moves, the way she talks, if the voice is a little trembled, that says alot.

    if you dont see these signs, either shes very good at hiding them, and if she does like you, its almost impossible, or she doesnt like you that much.

    about the boyfriend, im sorry but nobody can help you there, and honnestly, you shouldnt do anything about that. let things flow, and stay close to her, maybe one day, who knows…

    nobody can really tell you if you’re in love or not… only you can know that. but ill tell you, if you listen to love musics, or slow musics with strong lyrics, if you draw or write and you feel good doing it, those are some good signs that the cupid has hit you…

    my advice to you, is take things slow, in case of rejection (im not saying its gonna happen, but its best to cover every possibility) you’ll get less hurt, trust me. going head on is very easy, but if you hit a wall, it does hurt.

  144. ma-tt420 :0

    On January 29, 2009 at 3:46 pm

    lol i9 found out today that’s shes single but it seams like shes wait for me to express my feelings , but idk because she really doesn’t talk to me unless i start the conversation.

    right back!

  145. ma-tt420 :0

    On January 29, 2009 at 3:47 pm

    also im not sure if she likes me !

  146. IvorY

    On January 29, 2009 at 4:59 pm

    well, then start a conversation…

    do some small chat, and see if she listens to what you say, and if she looks right at you. eye contact is very important.

    if you see that things are going well, go ahead and express yourself… “its very hard for me to say this, but i like you… alot…” this is a good phrase… worked for me.

    or, if you dont like the shy approach, use the direct route… start a small chat, and after a while, ask “do you like me?”. she’ll probably be stunned for a bit… and will probably giggle a bit… but thats a good sign.

    if this sounds a bit vague to you… it may be. friends are a good source of info… specially the ones that already have girlfriends. they are gold mines.

  147. ma-tt420 :0

    On January 29, 2009 at 5:35 pm

    thanks all try that tomorrow ,also-if i ask here if she likes me do u think that shell take it the wrong way ? plz write back

  148. ma-tt420 :0

    On January 29, 2009 at 10:34 pm

    cant wait till tomorrow

  149. IvorY

    On January 30, 2009 at 7:32 am

    honnestly, theres no way to say… i think she’ll be too worried wondering what to say…

    time will tell.

  150. ma-tt420 :0

    On January 30, 2009 at 1:49 pm

    omg sun of a bi*$@# i forgot to set my alarm clock ,i missed school, nooooooo!! now i have to wait till monday f$%#

  151. help

    On January 30, 2009 at 11:23 pm

    this girl use to hang out with me but she dosent talked with me for like 2 years but she dosent talk with me anymore but for 2 yers now all she dose is look at me when im not looking my friends tell me she is looking at me but i dont know if she is looking past me or something

    please anwser back i dont know if she likes me dose she yes or no???????????????????????????????????????????

  152. IvorY

    On January 31, 2009 at 4:19 pm


    well, the answer is very simple…

    since you’ve been hanging with her before, simply go to her and ask “do you still like me?”.

    if shes looking past you, she will avert her eyes long after you start looking at her. if you look at her, and she looks away or giggles, theres your sign.

    or if you prefer the tactical approach, get close to her and start talking about the time you guys spent together and the good times you had… talk about places you’ve taken her to, and the way you “clicked”.

    good friendships are never lost, even though you guys dont talk much. and girls tend to remember good things they had with us guys.


    On January 31, 2009 at 9:11 pm

    if you took a girl to a dance and she kissed you and put her head on your shoulder and then she says at least i wont lose you for a while then what does that mean

  154. IvorY

    On January 31, 2009 at 9:58 pm

    it means that you now have a girlfriend (assuming it was a kiss in the mouth, not in the cheek, then you are just very very good friends), and that she likes you alot.

    one of our men properties is that our shoulders are great for girls to rest their heads…like it has a special shape designed specially for them.

    have fun now, and treat her right.

  155. ma-tt420 :0

    On February 1, 2009 at 5:25 pm


    i will post more tomorrow at 300 Pm

  156. IvorY

    On February 1, 2009 at 7:21 pm

    3 pm pacific, eastern, central… its all the same to me, i dont live in the US…

  157. ma-tt420 :0

    On February 1, 2009 at 9:11 pm

    k um i hope i don’t get turned down ! :(


    (eastern time zone here )

  158. oki_ballin94

    On February 2, 2009 at 6:24 am

    I need someone’s advice for a minute please.
    Well, I just found this and i’m tired, so im gonna go ahead and ask this for the girls n guys out there.

    I’ll lay it out for yall. I’m a freshman in High Schoolon a Air Force base on a tropical island in Japan.

    There’s a Junoir that i like thats in none of my classes but we got the same lunches. I know a few of her friends. Anyway, she’s been lookin at me for a while sometimes at school. We’re friends on Myspace, but i’ve only talked with her like once. I talked to her awhile ago in person, but she didn’t really say much. I guess she was shy. Sometimes she post bulletins and stuff on myspace, and though im pretty sure she’s talkin about me when she says stuff like i’m waitin for somebody, i’m pretty lost. The other day we met eyes for like at least four seconds. Yeah, i know I sound lame, but it’s real talk. I don’t know what im supposed to do, but i wanna ask her out cuz v- day’s comin up.

    She’s really amazing and hers eyes are beautiful. I know i need to do something before i lose whatever little i have, but i really don’t wanna fudge this one up.



  159. IvorY

    On February 2, 2009 at 9:37 am

    you wont fudge anything… all you need is love. (beatles)xD

    now serious.
    if you feel that there’s a spark between you, ask her out. easy. start talking to her, get to know her a bit, and feel how she feels.

    you still got 2 weeks till if you dont close the deal by then, and you see that things are a bit more “interesting” between you 2, do the most simple gesture that amazes any girl… offer 1 red rose. just 1. but do it in private, it will be more romantic.

    its probably the one thing of a few that can make a girl either be quiet or stutter. and like i said if you didnt closed the deal by then, this will certainly do wonders to you.

    btw, to all love birds, that one person is always amazing and the eyes are always beautiful… love is blind.

  160. ma-tt420 :0

    On February 2, 2009 at 4:42 pm


  161. Greg

    On February 3, 2009 at 11:29 pm

    I like this girl alot…but i dont know if she likes me…i just talked to her today….and she did talk to me…i said something…but wasn’t funny…but she still laughed little bit…

    But my question is that..does appearance make a big difference…cause i don’t look like a western teenager…but so is there anyway that she can still like me…?

  162. IvorY

    On February 4, 2009 at 11:02 am

    if you’ve seen my posts, i had a little something with a friend of mine. i can tell you, i dont have the average teen look either. besides, i am kinda fat… and she isnt. but that didnt stopped us.

    the appearence doesnt mather, like i said before, love is blind. if she really likes you, the small things dont make a difference.

    if you dont feel confortable enough to feel that she likes you, just post here the way you see her act when shes around you. we can help you with that…

    if yall want, i can even suggest some things for V day…

  163. Mike

    On February 4, 2009 at 10:54 pm

    Hey i need help trying to hook up with this girl i like, her names Katie and shes a junior and im a sophmore. Im not good talking with girls because they’re a total different gender and im not sure if im able to even have good conversation to talk with her. I want to be able to have an actual conversation to the point where she gets to know me a little bit. Even though looks may get most women, they’re only a temporary thing and “talking” does the most part, which im not good at. I’ve only talked to her once in my biology class. So I need some helpful examples of a good coversation.

  164. some guy

    On February 5, 2009 at 2:32 am

    can some1 help me out with this? alright well ive liked this girl for a few months and it seemed she liked me but recently she hasn’t really been talking to me alot like she used to and i think she likes another guy but they hardly talk now i caught her staring at me in class one time but i dint want to stare back becuz wat if she wasn’t looking at me well anyways she was looking and the teacher told her to pay attention and she just looked down and smiled and also ive been catching her looking at me but from the corner of my eye so yea idk if she likes me or not… :( havent been able to do that good in school becuz ive been thinking about her…

  165. IvorY

    On February 5, 2009 at 10:13 am


    You’ve already got a pretty good theme… Biology. if you’re good at it, offer your “services” and try to help her. if its the other way around, ask for her help…

    That whole thing of being another gender, dont worry about it, its normal, and ill tell you one thing. girls arent much different from us. the way we talk is the same as they talk, the subjects are different. thats all, they do the same stupid things and so on…

    i cant say im that guy that talks to a girl without any problems. my advice, to get more loose, is flirt with her (yes, we guys can also flirt). cross your sights every now and then, smile when she looks, a little laugh doesnt hurt.
    hope this helps.

  166. IvorY

    On February 5, 2009 at 10:23 am

    uhhh thats a though one some guy…

    exactly the same thing that happened to me. there is a high chance she likes you, and i talking around the 80%s.
    a good way to tell if she is looking at you, is when she looks away, look back, and see if another guy is doing what she’s doing.

    if you dont see anything, a good way to get her attention, when shes looking at you, is: you put your hand in front of your mouth, like a fist, covering the lips, and then while your looking down to your stuff, smile, but it must be visible through your hand, so just put your knuckles in your lips. then, look up, and if shes still looking at you, blink your eye, but in a subtile way. thats the magic touch. if she starts to blush (and you’ll notice it even if she looks away) and giggle, you’ve got the game going.

    now try this, and tell me how it worked.

  167. Greg

    On February 5, 2009 at 4:35 pm

    I am heart broken guys…i REALLY like her…but i just found out today that she is a mother…and that really broke me….we are in the same chemistry class…and i really like her…cant focus because i think about her…but now…it’s just weird…i dont know if she is a single mother or what….

    What do you guys suggest…i really really like her.

  168. IvorY

    On February 5, 2009 at 5:42 pm

    wow… thats a complicated situation…

    first, and i should have said this in previous posts, your studies are more important than any girl.

    second… i have no idea how to advise you… regardless of your, hers and the kids age, if you start hanging with her, you will have to become sort of a father to the kid. so if you dont feel ready, i’d say get her out of your mind. on the other hand if you think you’re up for the task, go ahead…

    this is a very hard thing to answer… and i really dont know what to tell you… im guessing she’s still available, the kid is just another thing you can work on, to impress her…

  169. Greg

    On February 5, 2009 at 6:50 pm

    Yeah…i dont mind the kid…i just dont know if she is available…

    That is what is sooo depressing…and and yes studies are important…but it is hard to focus when you like someone…almost love…and that you dont have them….

    I feel like crying.

  170. Alex

    On February 5, 2009 at 10:30 pm

    Theres this girl that that i like. She likes me too because its obvious but i dont know who she is. she looks at me you know, shows all the signs of lookingness there could ever be and now since last thursday i think, she hasnt been looking at me a lot almost barely. Its like she doesnt notice me anymore. What is up wtih this? I havent been changing a whole lot that she wouldnt like me anymore. In fact i have been tryin to impress her and it was working but it stopped last thurs. She still is happy, she isnt angry or sad so im confused. and if she still kept on looking at me i was gonna go up and tell her straight up my name and that she was beautiful. But now i dont know if i could do that because im not sure if she likes me anymore. a;so she isnt in any of my classes. What should i do to get her attention again?

  171. some guy

    On February 6, 2009 at 3:40 am

    oh yea im putting some guy becaue i dont want to put my real name oh yea and i’m 13…just thought i’d point that out

    Anyways…i’ve only told 1 of my friends who i like and idk but he says she likes me but i kinda said she probably doesn’t becuz we dont really talk alot but like i said ive caught her staring at me and she lookmed away like nothing happened oh yea just to tell ya that i havent been doing that good in skool lately becuz ive just been thinking about her and stuff…oh yea and when she’s not around her “girlfriends” shes kinda shy and stuff i also kind of tease her becuz shes like all into Twilight and stuff XD

  172. some guy

    On February 6, 2009 at 3:44 am

    oh yea and my friend said that she avoids me sometimes becuz she doesnt want to be obvious and i think hes right….hmm

  173. IvorY

    On February 6, 2009 at 6:10 am

    if you knowshe likes you, thats a very good sign. the fact that she hasnt been giving you much attention can have lots of reasons… school being the number 1. remember that friends and family come first, the rest comes later.

    now, give her a few days, and check for the signs again. it cant all be easy.
    oh, btw, you cant just give yourself in, it has to be a little like cat and mouse, being you the mouse.

    and remember, if you hold something too hard, you’ll end up losing it. take your time with it, and dont force things.

  174. IvorY

    On February 6, 2009 at 6:21 am

    some guy, your age doesnt really mather, it just affect the the way you do things.

    now, to business. at this point, it all shows that you 2 are in the good way. girls tend to be shy when they find themselfs alone, and thats a good time to approach her and talk. common tastes are the best subject. when you talk to her again, talk about the twilight, and then ask “what else do you like? just to know if we have anything more in common”.

    for now, this is all i can offer, ill help you later when you’ve found out more things about her.

  175. Alex

    On February 6, 2009 at 8:40 am

    Oh well its been over a month since shes been looking at me i just thought it was a right time to make a first move or something, but i got what your saying, thanks.

  176. Mattnebo

    On February 7, 2009 at 10:58 am

    MAn i know a girl but she never does any of this stuff. does that mean she doesn’t like me? i’m not sure she really likes me. everybody sayes she does but i really don’t know.

  177. IvorY

    On February 7, 2009 at 1:45 pm


    not all girls are alike, try talking to her, and if you want, ask her if she likes you. this whole thing doesnt apply to everyone, its just a general catch, of what we observe and decypher.

    the chances she likes you are 50-50, so lighten up. how bad can it be??

  178. mattnebo

    On February 7, 2009 at 5:17 pm

    ok i’ll do that thanks for the advice.

  179. Alex

    On February 7, 2009 at 9:29 pm

    Hey ivory u were right i gave it a few days and right in the morning when i was going to my locker she was right there with her friend. I guess she has a friend thats by my locker because she was waiting for her to get her stuff. But the point is she gave me attention that day, man what a relief, but how long should i play this so called “cat and mouse game?” I mean i want her to know i like her before anythings too late and if i was too and ask her out she might get scared or something and turn me down, but i dont want her to feel rushed either, i dunno im confused.

  180. IvorY

    On February 7, 2009 at 10:58 pm

    good to know. it really helps me to help you guy(or girls) when you give me a feedback.

    the cat-mouse game lasts as long as you want, you just need to get to know her a bit more. get her to talk about her tastes and other stuff. try to get her to talk about herself (hair, clothes, whatever, just pick one good subject, being her body one (”how do you stay so thin”, thats a good one, cuz girls love to be complemented)).

    timing is essencial when asking a girl out. the only problem is that most times, its either too early, or too late…
    a good way to ask her out without many surprises is asking about her favourite place (mall, a shop, something) and if you like that place, just say “you know, we could go there together one day”. its a simple date proposal, and it works. partys work very good as well, you can volunteer to pick her up (if you drive already) and take her and friends to the party.

    dont be scared, take your time to do things, theres no rush. V day is not as important as it seems.

    let me know how it worked.

  181. IvorY

    On February 7, 2009 at 11:05 pm

    btw, people im thinking of opening a new place for you to post your problems. this one is getting a bit full, and i think it would be nice to have something a bit more personal, with a good service. maybe a blog or something.

    keep on posting here, ill still check it, but if i really go ahead with this project, ill let you all know.
    im open to suggestions.

  182. Alex

    On February 8, 2009 at 2:38 am

    @ ivory

    I think u should go ahead & do it bc ppl will still come here to get every1s answers & like u said it will get too long or full

    p.s. I’ll tell u how the girl & I worked out

  183. Jeff

    On February 9, 2009 at 10:25 pm

    Ok i know this one girl for about 6 months. We met at school and have been friend ever since. We would hang out in the cafe at school and take the bus home together. We started taling on aim after school too. We talked about 4-5 hours a night, talking about music life you name it. She saves me a seat on the bus and is always touching my arms and gently slapping me. But she called me her bff, i think she likes me, but im not sure if im stuck in the “friend zone.” I’m kinda scared to ask her out, not because im scared of rejection, but im scared that i’ll lose her as a friend. If you guys have any advice, ill take it all.

  184. some guy

    On February 10, 2009 at 1:12 am

    yea um right now ive only told my older brother and 2 of my friends who i like and from what ive told them they all said she might like me oh yea and beofre i like liked her during the summer we were talking on myspace alot we even stayed up till like 1 or 2 in the morning! idk it was fun talking to her and stuff :D and another thing today she talked to me more than usual and yea laughed at the jokes i said even when they werent funny and she was like playing with her hair when we were talking and i noticed she did that mirroring thing u know when they copy what ur doing oh and just to tell ya that i tried out that thing u told me to try it kinda worked hehe oh and one last thing this guy i know told her that she likes like me and thinks im hot or something like that and she was just ignoring and i said this idk if this is stupid but i said(not gonna put his real name)”[name] ur gay” but in like a funny voice and she kinda like giggled a lil so wat do think or do i need to give more info? and srry if this is long XD

  185. IvorY

    On February 10, 2009 at 11:12 am


    that is a great friendship you have there. the best way to enhance that is to really ask her out. but you have to be smart, instead of asking out on a date, say its not date, its a good friends meeting. you have nothing to lose, if you get rejected, you’ll just lose a date, not a friend.

    girls have that one big problem. its very hard to know if you are in the friends zone or over it.
    I’ve said it before, and ill say it again, rejection is not the end of the world, nor should it be an excuse to end a friendship. the simplest way to deal with rejection is moving on.

    hope this helps.

  186. IvorY

    On February 10, 2009 at 11:28 am

    some guy

    not long at all, i’ve posted a few things longer than that… way longer.

    now then, from what you’ve told me, thats a big sign saying ” i like you alot”. it all seems to point in the good way, and if you feel confident, make your move.

    about your friend, no matter how old we are, we will always be jerks sometimes. thats a good example. but it also helps to see how much she really likes you.

    if you want, theres something you can try: ask or if you see one of you friends saying that you like her, go to them, and deny it, but as soon as you friend leaves, say “just joking, i like you a lot”.

    hope it works out for ya.

  187. lovestruck

    On February 10, 2009 at 9:24 pm

    omg.i hav to tell my story..kk so there is a girl in my band class that i like.ive drempt about her 4 days class she stares at me for between 1-2 minutes..wht to do!my email is i barely hav time to talk 2 her..thx

  188. IvorY

    On February 10, 2009 at 10:03 pm

    relax dude.
    first you need to calm down and clear your mind. then, when you do talk to her, simply ask her out, or tell her that you like her. get to know her a bit more, and make her trust in you.

    theres not much more i can say, thats not many details. next time, please take a bit longer and write more things you see her doing, it helps me to help you.

  189. lovestruck

    On February 11, 2009 at 4:27 pm

    srry..i was writting on PSP and had limited space.well in band she sits in front of me and sometimes(not everyday)she turns around and looks at something then at me than turns…i talked to her today.not long but still… just gonna keep trying to talk to her then maybe one time ill ask her out(school is not a good place to ask someone out)well ttyl.srry again for not alot of details..0(^.^)0

  190. Alex

    On February 12, 2009 at 12:29 am

    Hey i dont no if u remb but i said i was going to talk to the girl and compliment her. So yah it worked and we talk everyday now and its funny bc she shows all the signs u no. Laughing at my dumb jokes etc. So im going to give it some time and see if she wants to be more than friends. Thanks for the advice Ivory.

  191. IvorY

    On February 12, 2009 at 9:25 am

    Great to hear that mate, its always good to see my advices working.
    You’re welcome.

    the only conforting thing i can say is, im in the same place. im even worse than you, i’ve been at home for 2 years straight almost without any female contact.

    but, back to your problem, its natural you feel pressured to have a relationship, school and parents do that… let me tell you one thing, myspace is the worst spot to meet people… you never know what you’re gonna get.

    you need to sit down for a bit and think, there’s lots of “fish” in the sea, and even though she has a relationship already, tell her what you feel. same thing happend to me, and here i am. couldnt go any crazier (was born crazy, so you see my dilema) so i made new friends and tried to forget the girl i liked. you’ll see that soon or later, she’ll start remembering you, and what you did with her (assuming that you talked to her and all that) and you’ll probably end up together.

    for now, forget girls, and focus on your studies (it does help, alot), the year isnt over and things are not good if you fail a whole year.

  192. some guy

    On February 12, 2009 at 7:23 pm

    hey after yuor probably gonna call me stupid or something but there was a valentines dance yesterday and i didn’t go idk y i didnt becuz the next day my nephew who is one grade lower than me said that the girl that i like said why i dont go to the dances anymore and i shouldve came after hearing that i told him i shouldved gone man. oh and i havent told her how i feel becuz i dont have the guts to yea ill admit it :( i couldve danced with her on the normal dances and the slow ones i just made a big mistake on not going huh? oh yea and there have been 2 guys that tried asking her out but she rejected it was like 4 months ago and one of them asked her out again like a month later but again she rejected just thought id tell you that…oh i only went to one dnce this year and it was the first one and yea she was like happy to see me but i kinda didnt want to dance cuz i was too shy oh and one more thing i tihkn theres one more dance coming up and yea im going to it this time

  193. IvorY

    On February 12, 2009 at 8:55 pm

    hehe, its perfectly normal you feel that way.

    you got nothing to worry about, if you still got one more dance. even if you dont, dances arent the only way to conquer a girl.

    being shy is normal, and it will go away as you gain confidence in youself. try dancing alone, and practicing talking to her in front of the mirror.

  194. Greg

    On February 12, 2009 at 9:29 pm

    Hi guys…you guys didn’t answer my question…can you please…

  195. AJ

    On February 12, 2009 at 10:49 pm

    Hey. I’ve got something of a problem, and I’m quite confused about it. I know this girl, and I have had a crush on her for like, 2+ years, or something totally ridiculous like that. Anyway, I’ve been making friends with her and her two best friends, but I’ve run in to a dilemma – I’m not sure if she likes me, but I’m pretty sure that her friends do. Recently, I think I’ve been noticing signs that she likes me back, but I’m not really sure…

    For example, they all compliment me on my hair quite frequently, and sometimes ask if they can touch it. And more recently, they seem to be complimenting me on just about anything they can. They talk to me about how cool my shirts are, or they talk about how smart I am, etc. But, being a guy with no sisters, I honestly am REALLY confused. Not to mention, I never had much to do with girls until high school. It’s as if my stock has suddenly shot up, because I’m noticing other girls beginning to give me some signs, too. I’m just really confused.

    So, uh, what do I do?

  196. Greg

    On February 13, 2009 at 1:24 am

    Come on…Please!!!

    Here is where we left off:-

    Yeah…i dont mind the kid…i just dont know if she is available…

    That is what is sooo depressing…and and yes studies are important…but it is hard to focus when you like someone…almost love…and that you dont have them….

    I feel like crying.

    So what do i do…..please help!!! this is driving me crazy!!!

  197. IvorY

    On February 13, 2009 at 6:01 am

    Greg, you just need to treat her like a single woman, with no kids. think of her the same way, and all will be fine. use the same approaches, the same methods.
    im sorry if this doesnt help you, but its a situation i’ve never seen before, and i dont really know what to say.

    being wanted by 3 girls, all friends, can be complicated…
    either way, go for the girl you like the most… thats the only thing i can say…

    its normal you start noticing girls in high school, thats basicly when the hormones kick in. we start seeing the world in a different pair of “eyes”. its natural to feel wanted by girls, and its confusing when you have a whole bunch of them going for ya.

    keep it cool, and think your decisions.

  198. Greg

    On February 15, 2009 at 12:57 am

    K thanx IvorY for your help.

  199. AJ

    On February 15, 2009 at 11:07 pm


    I was messing with my phone around them, and masterfully struck up some phone-related conversations. Eventually, as this discussion continued, the girl I like more mentioned her woefully short contact list and mused: “I wish I could get your #” or something like that. Numbers were exchanged, and I got hers, as well as her friends’. I’ve been texting with them fairly frequently throughout the weekend.

    Two of them, on valentines day, indirectly asked if I was with a “special someone”.

    Just wanted to ask what you make of all this.


  200. IvorY

    On February 16, 2009 at 11:15 am

    well, some girls tend to be a little “meddling”, but in that case, from what i see, you got a few fans…

    as a good “artist” you are, (xD), you must give your fans what they need.

    now, 2 girls at once is good, and many of us want to know your secret, but i really dont advise it, cuz i’ve seen those cases, and when they cross in the hall, it can be tricky… specially if they are friends… 2 girlfriends fighting is the end of the world for whos with them…

  201. chris

    On February 16, 2009 at 4:45 pm

    Yeah I need sone help. This girl in my English class sits four rows away from me. I always catch her glancing, staring and looking in my direction, but she usually avoids me in the hallways. I sometimes talk with her, but she gots kind of shy around me. And one day, she got really close to me as we were going the stairs. She then suddenly went to a corner by herself just to look at me. Please help!!!

  202. IvorY

    On February 16, 2009 at 4:58 pm

    sounds like she likes you.

    since, as you say, she’s shy around you, the easiest way to know if she really likes you, is to ask directly. simply go to her and ask, “do you like me?”. thats the thing about shy girls, it can be a little hard to get an answer out of them, but its honest.

    hope it helps

  203. chris

    On February 16, 2009 at 5:19 pm

    Hhhhmmm Im still trying to talk with her a bit more. But its all her stares that keep me guessing, but then I always say Hi to her, but she tries to avoid me.

  204. chris

    On February 16, 2009 at 5:21 pm

    I mean I say Hi to her and she cheerfully responds back. Please dont misinterpret.

  205. Greg

    On February 16, 2009 at 10:45 pm

    One more question guys… said i should treat her like she is single and no kids….but what if she is not single (i dont know yet)…how would i find out…and also if she isn’t…what should i do then…i just like her sooo much…maybe even love her.

  206. AJ

    On February 17, 2009 at 9:30 am

    Well, I’m not sure if two like me, if only one likes me, or if none of them do. Maybe one of them only asked to confirm the story for another? They’re very good friends with each other, so it wouldn’t surprise me in the least.
    Other hints that I think indicate they might like me: they absolutely love my hair. They like to ask if they can touch it, even.
    They like to talk about how smart they think I am.
    They tend to freik out about anything I bring to class. For example: hats, shirts, stuff made from duct tape. They remember stuff that I’ve brought in that I don’t even remember bringing in.
    They’ve been inviting me to go to youth group, choir practice with them.

    What do you think? I am really confused, and really bad at reading into these situations.

  207. IvorY

    On February 17, 2009 at 2:13 pm


    to start, theres a difference between love and crush. its too early to tell, but for now, just relax.
    to find out if she’s single or not, ask either someone she knows or her. go to a nightclub, or a party, and if she’s not single, her date will probably be there.


    Well, thats a nice situation… but too much fondling starts to be annoying… do they follow you around, or are constantly looking at you?

    either way, you need to increase your level of trust, make them trust you more, and use that to make your move.

  208. chris

    On February 17, 2009 at 4:08 pm

    Sorry, but I have more questions. I can only talk with her a bit right after class, so we really dont have time to have a big conversation. And Ive also noticed that she enjoys it whenever I say Hi or talk with her. While I cant say she gets as red as a tomato, I do notice her cheeks changing color a bit… so please help!!! Im still undecided!!!

  209. IvorY

    On February 17, 2009 at 7:13 pm

    crap i had a great post and it didnt posted…

    anyways, it seems to me that she likes you alot, and you should go ahead and make your moves. ask her out, but say you wanna talk about the next test, or to know her a bit more.

    parties are a good choice as well, and it reduces the risk that she’ll be bored. if she gets bored in the party, take her to the outside and talk. talking is always the best option to get to know people.

  210. some guy

    On February 18, 2009 at 4:35 am

    hey IvorY i don’t know if i posted this already but what does it mean when she talks to me alot one day then the next day rarely next day kind of then…well yea some pattern like that cuz its been going on for awhile and right now im confused its like she just changes moods or personalities everyday another example of this is when my nephew(who i mentioned in my last post)rides the bus home she’s on the same bus and when i told him what i put above he vsaid that she talks to him all the way till its her stop one day then fully ignores him the next…oh and just to tell u that he danced with her at the dance(i got kinda jealous xD)the next day she didn’t even say hi to him or me when me and him were talking and she went right passed us…so yea

  211. IvorY

    On February 18, 2009 at 7:59 am

    some guy.
    mood changes are very common, specially in that time of the month. if you’ve already talked to her a few times, and you feel that shes trusts you, then simply go to her and say “is everything ok?”. if she starts to talk, explaining whats happening, LISTEN TO HER, and make her feel good. the right word at the right time makes all the difference.

    on the other hand, if she doesnt talk, and just says that its all fine, its not. just ask once “are you sure?”, and if she still doesnt say anything, simply offer you help at anytime: “ok, i know you’re lieing, but i wont push it. if you need anything, at any time, i’ll be right here for ya.”.

    Its a simple offer, but a very valuable one. demonstrating that you will be there for her is a good way of telling “i like you, and i want to help you.”.

    Oh, btw, this doesnt apply only to one girl, it applies to all, every friend you have, everybody likes to hear that he/she has someone that they can trust.

    tell me how it went.

    ps: if you guys start talking and she starts crying (just in case), you put one arm around her, one hand on the shoulder and the other in one of her hands, and say “its all gonna be ok. things may be rough now, but it will get better.”.

  212. john

    On February 18, 2009 at 2:31 pm

    u guys can respond to this…. Anyways this girl i like had a boyfriend but they broke up. em i suppost to wait a while to let her know i like her? because she might need to recover first

  213. IvorY

    On February 18, 2009 at 4:06 pm

    yeah, its good to give her sometime to get back up, she’s probably in a delicate state, all you can do now is to make her feel good, and give her some confort.

  214. some guy

    On February 18, 2009 at 5:58 pm

    so it was probably “that” well i wish i could do all that wat u said but she hides stuff alot oh and i forgot to tell u that was last week she’s acting like herself again i guess…oh and is this a good sign in history we were watching this video and how i sit in my chair it looked like she was copying wat i was doing but i only saw through the corner of my eye and i saw her like staring at me i think and i pretended i was gonna look her direction but i looked down at my paper and i saw her look away but ive caught her staring at me alot and when i look at her we hold the stare for like a second then she looks down or pretends she was looking at something else but i think i saw her blush a lil hehe…

  215. some guy

    On February 18, 2009 at 6:08 pm

    oh yea did i tell u we kind of used to play hit eachother and when she would pretend to punch or slap me she would make this funny sound effect and i would do the same but when she actually hits me i still pretend to hit her because i don’t want to turn into another chris brown :O!nah but seriously i just don’t to like hurt her…

  216. chris

    On February 18, 2009 at 6:39 pm

    Ok from what Ive noticed as of lately, she’s trying not to make her glares as obvious as when she stared at me. She always does them in a quick and sneeky way, thinking I wont notice, but I do. Also, I saw her playing with her hair for a few seconds in the middle of class, and when she finished, I know she looked at me or in my direction.

  217. IvorY

    On February 18, 2009 at 7:11 pm

    some guy

    its cool to see you taking it easy. when she stares down, she either blush and giggle, or will be ashamed. either way, she still likes you. its a good thing.

    when you’re doing those kind of games, you can hurt her a bit, but just a little bit. when she complaints (dont exagerate on the punch, or else, she’ll slap you hard), you “oh, im sorry… was it too hard? (if you punch in the shoulder, rub it,if you punch anywhere else, tap it a few times) let me do it on the other side to make it even.” it should help.


    its cool you notice those things. keep it up.

  218. chris

    On February 18, 2009 at 7:33 pm

    Thats cool, but is she trying to flirt or what?

  219. James

    On February 18, 2009 at 10:38 pm

    Hi I’m confused about this girl I like. She checks me out but doesn’t look at me a lot as some girls would from what I see. Today she was checking me out again at lunch! This time it was the longest. I just don’t know if the girl likes me or not. I only have lunch with her but no classes so can you guys help me out here?

  220. Greg

    On February 19, 2009 at 12:39 am

    How do i know if she is an outgoing person??? also if what i feel is called crush then i might add that it is hardcore crush…

  221. IvorY

    On February 19, 2009 at 8:21 am

    Not exactly, she seems shy more than flirty… flirt would be if she winked at you, or if she put the tongue out for ya. those kinds of things.

    Lack of time to talk to a girl is a bad, but not impossible, way to get to know her. Chat with her, dont be afraid. you wont lose anything, you’ll only win either a friend or a date.

    well, the best way to know if shes an outgoing person is to simply ask.

    As I said before, there’s a difference between love and crush.

    Crush can be worse than love, because you might see things that you wont like but you’ll keep pushing and you’ll end up in an obssession, wich you wont notice.

    Love on the other hand, makes you do stupid things as well, BUT!! when you reach that obssession part, you notice what you are doing and will calm down, remembering that you only want the best for the other person.

    Love is that one thing we cannot describe, its that thing that warms us up inside, that makes you cry when the other is hurt. Love is based on more than anything a spiritual connection, a bonding of beeings. its the ultimate feeling.

    the crush is more of a physical attraction, that is incredibly hard to forget. Im not saying its bad, but its just not the same.

    if you’re really in love, nobody can tell you otherwise. if you really feel in love, you will simply deny to yourself everything i just said here, and will keep on.

  222. chris

    On February 19, 2009 at 12:37 pm

    Actually, I kind of like her, but Im to shy to approach her. But Im beginning to think she doesnt like me, because she completely ignores me, and wont even say Hi, unless I say Hi to her, but she still gives me those quick glances.

  223. chris

    On February 19, 2009 at 12:51 pm

    I kind of feel as if we are playing a game of cat and mouse. Sometimes she’ll look at me a lot, sometimes she wont. Do you know what can I do to make her comfortable when shes close to me?

  224. IvorY

    On February 19, 2009 at 4:19 pm

    sure, act cool and relaxed.

    if you look like you’re sure of what you’re doing, you’re half way there. really, just pick a topic you’re good at, or that you know for sure what you’re saying.

    its like you’re applying to a job, you gotta know what you’re doing and saying. confident people rule the world.

  225. Greg

    On February 19, 2009 at 5:07 pm

    IvorY…yes that means I am in love….

    What do you recommend to do…how should i start etc…

  226. IvorY

    On February 19, 2009 at 7:03 pm

    well, i guess i’ve told everything i could to get you started. read pretty much all the posts i’ve made…

    im sorry, but its too many things to write again, and i hate repeating myself…

  227. Greg

    On February 19, 2009 at 10:36 pm

    no problem…thanx for your help…i’ll keep you guys updated….man i hope she is just wearing that ring for the hell of it…and not as an engagement or a wedding ring.

  228. IvorY

    On February 20, 2009 at 9:13 am

    engagement/ weddings rings are worn in the left hand, 3rd finger or the ring finger.

    if its in the right hand, ring finger means commitment.

    thats usually the tradition, but some girls wear rings just for the fun of it.

  229. chris

    On February 20, 2009 at 2:25 pm

    Im gonna start to give up on her, because I still talk and say Hi to her, but she still completely ignores me, which really bothers me, she wont show any interest at all, but then, why does she still look at me?

  230. IvorY

    On February 20, 2009 at 6:07 pm

    cat and mouse… now its you time to play a little bit of chase.

    dont give up on her, except if you really get that hard no!.

    to gain something, you must risk something.

  231. chris

    On February 21, 2009 at 12:32 pm

    Maybe your right, but she’s too shy!!!! She wont talk or say Hi to me, and I barely have anytime to talk with her. I dont know what to do, I dont even now if she likes me!!!1

  232. chris

    On February 21, 2009 at 12:33 pm

    I mean, is it possible for a girl to be so shy she wont even say Hi to me?

  233. post to comment #232

    On February 21, 2009 at 4:37 pm

    yes some people r just like that, in fact iam shy like that but if u start the conversation first it makes it easyier for them to talk to u and just because she ignores u doesn’t mean she doesnt like u she is just being really shy.

  234. sroz

    On February 21, 2009 at 5:16 pm

    there is this girl i like but i dont know if she likes me my friends tell me that she looks at me but i never see her her friends are always watching me it kind of scares me so i dont know if she likes me i dont know what are her friends telling me please someone help please i really need help please

  235. IvorY

    On February 21, 2009 at 6:34 pm

    wll, if her friends usually are watching you, it may be a sign that she’s seeking her approval, ence the watch.

    but what friends say doesnt really mather, if you really wanna know if she likes you or not, you gotta go to the source… her.

    this is all i can say, theres not much info i can work with.

  236. chris

    On February 21, 2009 at 10:25 pm

    Ok thanks for the help. But I was wondering, since Ive not had much of a chance to talk or say Hi to her, will she keep on ignoring me, or will she open up to me?

  237. Greg

    On February 22, 2009 at 12:45 am

    The ring she is wearing is on her left hand…on the ring finger…but it isn’t like a normal engagement/wedding ring….it doesn’t have like a stone (diamond)…in the middle sticking out…it’s just a ring with very small stones on it….so what do you think that represents?

  238. IvorY

    On February 22, 2009 at 9:21 am

    Chris, it all depends. if you’ve gained her trust, she’ll end up talking to you. but its hard to tell, i dont know the level of your relationship/friendship, but just in case, talk to her every chance you get. its always good to have friends to talk to. even if its for just a bit.

    im really sorry to say this, but the ring with the big stone is out of date… smaller stones are cheaper…

    from all it seems, it is a wedding ring. it looks like this aint your lucky day…

    we all know that some girls are single and some are dating, and when we feel we like them, its always a huge dissapointement to find out that they are not single.

    but its not the end of the world. although it may seem that “shes the one” you/we are still young and we must keep our chin up, and move on. you’ll learn that in life there are many heart breaking situations, but we cannot go down, we have to fight that feeling that its not worth it, and rise to the top. that is why they are called life lessons, we must take something from it, and move on. its that simple.

    it doesnt help, i know, but i’ve been in similar situations, and all i can say is that what you need to do it be happy for her, and remain friends.

  239. chris

    On February 22, 2009 at 11:09 am

    Ive also noticed she does the same thing to other boys, but its me the one she ignores the most. Again, unless I talk or say Hi to her, she wont talk to me at all. Sometimes, Ill go walking down a staircase, and she’ll be right behind me, but she wont talk with me.But yet, I still catch her giving me those quick glances, and she’ll immediatley look away. I guess Im gonna have to use mu time wisely and speak with her whenever I get a chance.

    ( By the way, sorry for all these posts!!!)

  240. chris

    On February 22, 2009 at 11:13 am

    And Ive also noticed she doesnt have that many friends that are boys, but I still see them having normal conversations. So is she ignoring me on purpose?

  241. IvorY

    On February 22, 2009 at 1:42 pm

    chris, i have no idea. its hard to know what a girl thinks unless you know her a bit. unfortunatly i dont have all the answers you need, so, my advice to this is, either wait till a girl posts her toughts here, or ask one of your girl friends.

  242. chris

    On February 22, 2009 at 2:46 pm

    Ok Ivory, thanks for all the advice. Ill post back if anything happens between me and her.

  243. Amber

    On February 23, 2009 at 11:36 pm

    The other day the guy that i liked came up to me and said this, “Hi my name is _____ and i just wanted to say that i think your cute. I just wanted to get that out of my system but im already embarassed enough so i better go, so c ya around.” Something very similar to that. I wasn’t sure if he was joking or not. My galfriends said that he likes me. But whenever I walk by him he doesn’t look at me or even henever i seem him on campus. I feel like im not even noticed. I’ve been looking at him for about a month or so. Hes cute, a very attractive guy and hes a grade older than me. Do you guys think he likes me or was it a bet or something?

  244. some guy

    On February 24, 2009 at 2:09 am

    yea its me again XD hey today i heard my name come up in a few convos when the girl i like talks to her friends during class and whenever i heard it(maybe like twice) and i noticed i heard her go sshhh to her friends and they got more quiet and stuff. Oh yea and at the end of math i was putting my stuff in my bakpak and i noticed she was talking to one of her friends and i looked up at her and at that same time she looked at me but she turned away to her friend quick i think i saw her blush but idk she did it quick! oh yea and chris if u read this i have that same problem she’ll like see me but not say hi or anything and yea she doesnt have many guy friends she has i think a couple but theyre in 7th grade and still look and act like lil kids

  245. some guy

    On February 24, 2009 at 2:16 am

    oh yea i kinda teased her a lil bit becuz for some reason she had a band aid on her face covering some of her left cheek i dont think she had a cut or anything she just like had it there for the rest of the day

  246. IvorY

    On February 24, 2009 at 10:33 am

    Amber, its nice to see a girl asking for advice.

    it all depends… did you see him laugh after he said that, did you saw him blushing or did he walked away with relaxed steps?

    girls are always noticed, specially those that keep it simple. remember, there is no ugly. there is pretty for some and others.
    but, in the best of cases, he likes you, and it does seem like it. hope this helps

    some guy
    its good to hear from you again.

    seems like someone likes you… all that chit-chat and the blushing (btw, if it seems like it, it probably is, even though its fast), looks like shes shy and that she has a little something on ya. give it a try, and do something like that guy did to Amber. get it out of your system.xD

    good luck yall.

  247. chris

    On February 24, 2009 at 3:11 pm

    Hey Ivory, a lot has happened between me and her in just two days. To start, I just want to clarify that we’re both sophomores. Anyways, yesterday in class, I was noticing her looking in my direction a lot, but I didnt pay much attention to it. After a while of this going on, I look at her and there she was staring at me. We locked eyes for about 5-6 seconds, and then she looked away. And then after class, she told me bye in a sweet way, like never before.

  248. chris

    On February 24, 2009 at 3:16 pm

    And then today, a friend of mine that has her for a class found out that she likes a boy in that class, but there, they always talk, unlike with me, due to our time restraints. But Its not the first time Ive catched her staring at me like this. So Im confused. If she does like that boy, why does she keep on staring at me like that? Please I need help. This situation has only gotten more confusing.

  249. lao nope

    On February 24, 2009 at 9:28 pm

    well the girl i like knows i like her she told me and i dont know what to say???

  250. IvorY

    On February 24, 2009 at 9:43 pm


    I’ve been in the same situation. unfortunatly for me, i only knew she liked another guy after we ended up.

    but, back to you. well, its time to get some time to talk to her. use every chance you have to talk to her, it cant do any harm.

    you see, being in a “love triangle”, lets call it this way, isnt good. either you’re in one of the ends, or in the middle. at this point, you, and I, have no idea in wich you are. she probably has made up her mind, and all you can do is wait. or, if you dont like to wait, tell her how you feel. be impulsive, take the first step.

    lao nope, (strange name btw)

    well, if you like her, and she knows it, and its true, wheres the doubt? either you expose your feelings to her, and say “yea, i like you” and ask her out, or deny it, and later confirm it. but i suggest the first, the second might seem that you’re afraid of her, and i doubt thats the case.

  251. chris

    On February 25, 2009 at 6:58 am

    Ok Ivory Ill see when I can speak with her about this. But Im still wondering, why does she still look at me?

  252. IvorY

    On February 25, 2009 at 4:04 pm

    i know… it makes no sense right?

    its the mistery of that thing called woman. sometimes it should come with the instructions manual.

  253. chris

    On February 25, 2009 at 6:16 pm

    Ok Ivory I had a chance to talk with her today during lunch. We spoke for a while, and I told her Ive noticed her looking at me a lot as of lately, and acting kinda strange around me sometimes. She did admit it, but she said she looks at people randomly. So I dont know that to think. While I do understand she looks at people randomly, I dont believe all her stares and glances at me are random at all. What should I think??

  254. IvorY

    On February 25, 2009 at 8:59 pm

    hmm… how did she said it? was it in a kinda stressed way, or another way?

    in a stressed way, id say she was nervous, and was making an excuse for something.

    right now you need to stay calm, and not get ahead of yourself, you might make the wrong decision.

    give me some more details, and ill see what i think of it.

  255. chris

    On February 26, 2009 at 6:31 am

    Id say she a little bit of both. I know I saw her giggling and looking at the floor every once in a while, but she was calm.

  256. chris

    On February 26, 2009 at 2:56 pm

    Well, after today, Im starting to think shes lying to me. Today in class, she could not keep her eyes off of me. But I tried to never look at her in the eye today, but yet she still kept going. And twice today, when I looked in her direction, she would quickly look away, or at the floor,an even at the roof. It doesnt seem to me that these are randoms looks at all.

  257. IvorY

    On February 26, 2009 at 7:25 pm

    well, its time to go to her and tell her your side of the story. but you need to start with her part, meaning: start by saying you have noticed that shes been lookin at you (yes, repeat yourself) and that you dont think its random. then, tell your part, that you think about her, and that you like her as well.

    if you want, you can say that you didnt exactly knew how to get to her, and that you’ve been asking for help. you can even mention this site.

  258. chris

    On February 27, 2009 at 6:30 am

    What about that boy she likes?

  259. IvorY

    On February 27, 2009 at 8:18 am

    what about him? its not like hes gonna get in your way to talk to her. consider him as an incentive for you to hurry up, or you’ll miss the boat.

  260. chris

    On February 27, 2009 at 2:31 pm

    Ok Ill see what I can do, but do you think her looks are random? I may be wrong…

  261. sam

    On February 27, 2009 at 11:50 pm

    LIFE SUCKS when u cant have the girl u want. i feel like jumping of a bridge

  262. chris

    On February 28, 2009 at 11:24 am

    Yep she still stares at me.

  263. mark

    On February 28, 2009 at 11:25 am

    Help! While at my local bank branch, a teller that has helped me before and was very friendly (as they are supposed to be) can’t find my account because I accidently reversed a few #’s when writing my account on the deposit slip, she then says that she does the same thing all the time with #’s and gives me an example of how she remembers her phone#, and then states her phone#, then mentions her twin daughters having the same dislectic problem, how she gets them help from their teachers and that she has an ex. She had very constant eye contact with me and I want to know if she was flirting or just doing her job and not wanting me to feel stupid because of my mistake. I should also add that I have a difficult last name and as she attmpted to pronounce it incorrectly, I replied I will answer to just about anything but prefer being called by my first name, she then pronounced my last name with a sexy french twisty tone. Is she flirting? or just doing her job?

  264. IvorY

    On February 28, 2009 at 1:11 pm

    Ok, everything STOPS!
    sam, take it easy. keep those toughts about suicide burried deep. girls are very nice, but they are not worth it. it does suck when you cant get the girl you want, but life goes on. there are other girls out there.
    if you want me to help you more, you have to talk to me. if you dont want to do it here, ill give you my email and ill help you.

    well, it does look like shes just doing her job, but I may be wrong… it wouldnt be the first time, but in this case, I’d say the chances of her be flirting would be around 35-65%. bankers usually arent very talkative persons, but every now and then, they tend to share a bit of personal life.

    i dont know how old you two are, but if you have the courage, go back to the bank, make up some excuses and ask her out… just like in the movies.

    but the one thing you MUST NOT DO is to call her. dont remember the number she spoke of and call her it will look many things…

    cheers mates.

  265. sam

    On February 28, 2009 at 2:22 pm

    o no i would never do anything like that iam just really pissed off and sad

  266. IvorY

    On February 28, 2009 at 3:26 pm

    i’ve been in that position… about three or four times now. it is depressive, but usually paying more attention to school, or hobbies help, alot.

  267. sam

    On March 1, 2009 at 1:16 am

    yeah, i should have given u a better description because what happened is that………ummm never mind, but i have a question for u : what do u think is the most common thing girls look for in a guy? And i have another question: can looks be intimidating?
    because for example if someone like brad pitt went to our school would girls be afraid to ask him out because of his looks and if someone like angeliana jolie went to our school would guys be afraid to ask her out because of her looks?

  268. some guy

    On March 1, 2009 at 5:45 am

    hey i don’t think she likes me anymore and i haven’t went up to her and told her that i like her or anything i can just tell by how shes acting now and i didn’t do anything that make her stop liking me…and since tuesday me liking her and stuff has been starting to fade away slowly but the good thing is that i’m finally finishing my homework early :D but I still think about her just…not as much now. oh yea i heard that she was going out with some1 from another skool but when i heard about it i was thinking how would that work??? seriously well the next day i heard that the guy she was supposably(i think i spelled that wrong) going out with already has a gf so yea it was a lil confusing hearing that the very next day and on that same day i heard she likes some1 right now…who could it be is wat im wondering…oh btw I didn’t hear about all this by stalking or listening in on convos. like i told u before(i think) one of my friends sits at the same table as the girl that i like and her friend so he tells me if he hears anything or whats going on and stuff. Oh and one moar thing…the reason why i din’t tell her awhile back that i liked her is becuz it seemed like her friend liked me and i din’t want to hurt her feelings or anything and another reason is that i first heard about something with her and that other guy from another skool a few months ago that kind of stopped me from telling her so yea…

  269. IvorY

    On March 1, 2009 at 10:09 am


    the looks can be intimidating, BUT there are many girls that dont really care about the looks, and will get along without them.
    and i’ll tell you one thing. if a girl like scarlet johansson would come to me, i wouldnt be intimidated at all… just cuz shes a celeb it doesnt mather at all.
    whats to take in all this? pretty girls (or guys, gotta put them both in) are not a reason to be afraid. they are normal people, and are not different from us.

    now, common things girls look in a guy. very simple. visit myspace pages of girls under 20. you’ll see a very distinct pattern: under 20 is the crazy years zone, in wich girls look for the typical “hottie”, example, brad pitt, as you said. its the hardest time to find a girl that doesnt have that “shallow” personality and isnt looking for the “jokey” (dunno if i wrote it right) kind of guy, instead of the “nerd”.
    after that, girls ideas tend to settle down a bit more, as they grow up and will begin to see a bit more of the world, and will prefer the kind of guy that has plans for the future, and that knows how to treat them right.

  270. Greg

    On March 1, 2009 at 1:11 pm


    She is engaged….and i feel really horrible about it….what do you suggest???…I really want her man!….I’m almost in tears.

  271. IvorY

    On March 1, 2009 at 4:00 pm

    dude… i know, it sucks.
    im afraid i cant give you much help, what i can suggest is for you to focus on other things, besides her. start hanging out with your friends more, pay more attention to classes.

    or you can get yourself a good friend and open your heart out. tell him/her your situation. trust me on this one, its good to share a problem every now and then. a friend in need, is a friend indeed.

    and this may seem like moking the situation, or joking about it, but looking to other girls, and feeling wanted by them as well, helps, very much.

    in here, we’re all friends, we all lend a hand, a shoulder or anything else that is needed. everytime you feel sad, or you just need a kind word, come here, and we’ll give it to you.

  272. Greg

    On March 1, 2009 at 11:14 pm

    Thanx IvorY…I really needed that…Ur awesome bud.

  273. AJ

    On March 1, 2009 at 11:26 pm

    Haven’t been around lately, sorry. Just wanna give a status report. :)

    The three girls have stopped texting me, because I found out that I have a cell phone plan that is pay-per-text. (Oops.) I do have the email of the girl I am most interested in, and we’ve emailed back and forth once or twice a day for a week, week and a half now, with replies that are like essay-size and take like 30 minutes to write. I’m really having a good time, and I think some friendship is definately starting to form. Is that good?

    She’s also not been completely avoiding the topic of romance – which I know would be my first reflex around her, if she didn’t bring it up first. Is this a hint, or is she just really comfortable on the computer? Also, she’s a year ahead of me in school – does she maybe just pity me, or see me as a little sibling?

    We talk back and forth about TV shows, and music, and such, and even tease eachother a bit. What do you say is happening? I’m still no good at reading things like this~~~!

  274. IvorY

    On March 2, 2009 at 1:17 pm

    its a great thing AJ.

    you are on the best way to become her BF (best friend). and i must say, its nothing to worry about the PPT plan, except when you have a 2000$ bill to pay…xD

    gradually increase the teasing, but dont go too far with it, that would cause a “once step foward, four steps back” situation.
    being 1 year ahead of ya has nothing to do with pitty or anything. a good friend of mine has a wife that is 7 years older than him. my dad is almost 8 years older than my mom. age has nothing to do with the romance.

    i wont ask you to send me one of them emails, that would be invading your privacy, but what i can say, is read it 2 times. the first time, take the literal meaning of it, the 2nd, try reading the little letters, then put it all together.

    now, keep it up, and remember, before you conquer her heart, you must conquer her mind, meaning, become friends and share toughts. then you make your way through her heart.

  275. some guy

    On March 2, 2009 at 5:40 pm

    was last one(before Aj) directed to me? well anyways i know it sux man and i think i know who she likes it’s one of my friends and its not the one who sits at the same table as her in math its another friend. But I’m not too worried about it becuz since november she would say stuff like hi (name) and stuff to him but he doesn’t hear her or when he does he ignores her. like today we were leaving becuz it was already time to go and I heard her say bye (name) to him but he didn’t hear her when she used to say hi and bye to me I would say it bak and stuff but idk know she’s kinda been ignoring me and lil bit more like mean lately. Me him and some of our other friends make fun of her becuz of twilight and say something like she turns into a vampire or like she turns into bat and flies around or something like that its pretty retarded i know but its funny XD

  276. Greg

    On March 3, 2009 at 2:43 pm

    IvorY….guess what…she got married this SUNDAY!!!!

    What the heck…that is just messed up for me.

  277. IvorY

    On March 3, 2009 at 5:39 pm

    well… sounds like things are really hard on your side Greg…

    my advice, and a good thing to do for not losing a friend, is go to her, and congratulate her. give her the best hopes. you wont win a girlfriend, but at least you wont lose one.

  278. Greg

    On March 3, 2009 at 9:32 pm

    Yeah…I will congratulate her…and hopefully become a good friend of her…that way we can still hang out and stuff.

  279. some guy

    On March 4, 2009 at 12:00 am

    hey u know wat was kinda wierd during math we were working on how to do this problem then after it i looked at her and she looked at me and gave me a quick smile and yea i smiled bak of course and stuff. Oh yea I also made her laugh a few times during the day

  280. chris

    On March 4, 2009 at 4:21 pm

    Hey Ivory. I had a chance to speak with her today. We enjoyed a nice conversation in the hallway, on our way to class. We mostly spoke about school and stuff. Her voice sounded a bit nervous, ans she kept prolonging the conversation by asking me questions. Then in class, I caught her looking at me a couple times, and she would look away, after about 2 seconds.

  281. jake

    On March 5, 2009 at 8:18 pm

    iam in grade 11 and i do not have a car yet but the girl i like does so how iam i suppost to ask her out?

  282. IvorY

    On March 6, 2009 at 7:04 am


    a car is a good accessory, but it aint all. it might seem a bit lame to be taken to a date by your parents, but at least you’ll show up.

    you think I drove to all my dates? one thing that girls like is to be in charge, and she being the one driving you around is nothing to be ashamed of. she wont think less of you, just because you dont drive yet. if you’re smart, you’ll ask her to give you some driving lessons…

  283. jake

    On March 6, 2009 at 7:00 pm

    ok thats a good idea, but before i ask her out should i get her phone number?

  284. IvorY

    On March 6, 2009 at 10:01 pm

    that is a good idea… you do need to contact her. but since we are in the modern days, i’d say it would be better to ask her email first, and when you ask her out, then you ask for the number.

  285. some guy

    On March 7, 2009 at 3:12 am

    hey she changed her hairstyle she used to have bangs covering her right eye now she has like bangs down to her eyebrows. Yea she looks…WoW….anyways I talked to her more on friday and made her laugh and everything she found this eraser and i told her it was mine XD well anways during the day she asked me if she could use it and i let her use it but after the 3rd i shouldve just told her to keep but of course say it in a nice way but i didn’t but i shouldve…well idk anyways during L.A.(language arts) We had to write a story about First Impressions like some1 u first met and while she was writing hers she kept looking at me and when i would look she would look away quikly so I think she was writing about me…? and can u reply bak IvorY cuz u havent lately…i posted 2 things like a couple days ago and…yea.!.

  286. some guy

    On March 7, 2009 at 3:13 am

    yea I’m doing better in skool just to let u know…ok?

  287. IvorY

    On March 7, 2009 at 8:53 am

    sorry, i’ve been a bit busy with my studies and im a bit worn out right now.

    it does seem that she was righting about you, but the best way of knowing it without peeking her work, is to ask her. dont get too jumpy, keep your cool, and do things slowly.
    nice to hear that you’ve taken my advice and that you’re improving your focus on school.

    you have to understand that i too have a few problems, that i cant always answer right away. i drop here everyday, but right now, i just need a little time off. ill still answer, but it wont be to everyone, ill see wahts more important, and how i can fit other answers into the same post.

  288. chris

    On March 7, 2009 at 9:32 am

    Hey Ivory, so as of lately, we’ve been doing pretty good. We still look at each other in class, and we talk now everyday. Is this a good sign?(specially when she always tries to prolong the conversation, but I also notice she wont make eye to eye contact in the classroom. Instead, she’ll look when Im not looking at her direction, and if I catch her, she’ll look away.)

  289. IvorY

    On March 7, 2009 at 1:38 pm

    Chris, yes it a good sign. extend the conversation as long as you can. but be careful, dont make boring conversation. you’ll notice that when she starts to take deep breaths, or start to look away.

  290. mack

    On March 7, 2009 at 8:21 pm

    yesterday i’m hangout with my friends and found a very beautiful girl when i line up to buy a train ticket… she was a different station with me then i got down with her and i try to tackle a girl.. she look at me but i dont have a confident to try her.. i think i dont see her anymore… so how? will you help me.. i never likes a girl from a first sight that means i very likes that girl.. actually i dont likes to have a girlfriend because i likes to be a free but yesterday i feel so weird when i seeing her… i chase her yesterday but i dont have a confident and today i’m very regret… can anyone help me? i’ve never feel like this before and today i still remember her.. i love her at a first sight….. . …. …

  291. chris

    On March 7, 2009 at 8:33 pm

    Yeah she seems to enjoy speaking with me, as she prolongs the conversation by asking me questions, so I’ll try not to make it boring.

  292. IvorY

    On March 7, 2009 at 8:39 pm

    ok, for now, what i can say is that until you get to know her, its a physical attraction, may not be that love at first sight.

    ” i try to tackle a girl” im sorry, but i dont understand this part.

    this may be just a sign to you that you are ready or that you need a relation. its time to start thinking in a different way.

  293. mack

    On March 9, 2009 at 12:26 am

    to ivory:
    “i try to tackle a girl” that mean i try to seduce her but i dont have a confident… so how? until today i still remember her..

  294. ancient mariner

    On March 9, 2009 at 10:04 am

    looks like there isn’t much to add. all is said n done well.. a small advice “when your in love u laugh and cry at the same time” …..

  295. ancient mariner

    On March 9, 2009 at 10:05 am

    looks like there isn’t much to add. all is said n done well.. a small advice “when your in love u laugh and cry at the same time” …..

  296. alex

    On March 9, 2009 at 9:56 pm

    i need some advice on this, ok should i just call up this girl iam friends with and tell her i have a huge crush on one of her friends? and if this is a good idea what exactly should i say?

  297. ancient mariner

    On March 10, 2009 at 1:06 am

    hmm… its been long time…. anyways alex… i read in many sites similar to ur ideas.Some say it is good n others say it is bad. Well i think if u have crush on a girl u should say.Say it somewhere u both r alone or u could use ur idea.Give some kind of hint to her friend n she will tell it to her. Before doing so search it up the net for more adivces. My best advice go tell the girl u have a crush on her. hope this helps. I am getting too old. Ah! well a day! what evil looks!

  298. IvorY

    On March 10, 2009 at 10:11 am

    age is relative…. we are the age we feel we are.

    Now, despite this, he is right… i’ve said it a few times before: if you like her, go tell her.

    but here’s my advice. instead of calling your friend, i believe these things are not good to talk on the phone. for me, its better to say/ask/talk these things face-to-face, you can better understand the reaction of your friend and if you have doubts, you can talk for more time, without the big phone bill.

    btw, thanks mariner, its very nice to have some help with this topic, i was running out of ideas

  299. chris

    On March 10, 2009 at 9:03 pm

    Ok Ivory something interesting happened today. Me and my friend were walking around in lunch, when suddenly I see her near a staircase with a friend of hers. So I went to talk to her. It was a nice conversation where we all talked to each other( including my friend as well). After a few minutes, she asks me for the time, and I told her it was time to leave. So I walked away to go to class, but my friend stayed behind. He told me he saw her friend whisper in her ear of the girl I like, and that both girls were staring at me as I was walking away. Does this mean anytihng??.

  300. chris

    On March 10, 2009 at 9:05 pm

    He also told me he also saw both girls walking behind me and staring at me when the bell rang.

  301. IvorY

    On March 10, 2009 at 9:15 pm

    well chris, from what i see, theres nothing wrong with that… so i guess its good, and that she does like you.

    why not ask her out? it seems to me that things are on a level that allows it. a movie, a party, anything, but invite her first, then say to bring her friends as well. when girls are among friends, they are a bit more easy to seduce, although it might seem otherwise.
    or you can just ask her out alone, its up to you. either way, she’ll probably be open to your moves.

  302. lizard rocker

    On March 10, 2009 at 9:30 pm

    i got a girlfriend by this advice its awsome it rocks

  303. chris

    On March 11, 2009 at 6:21 am

    Well the thing that worries me is that other boy she likes. Is he going to get in our way?

  304. Cuddlemuffins (LOL!)

    On March 11, 2009 at 11:08 pm

    Sweet!!! I got a date with twins with this advice!

  305. some guy

    On March 12, 2009 at 1:51 am

    hey its me again…IvorY shes starting to talk to me more since last friday and a new trimester or semester or w/e started this week and im doing good so far :D !!anywaysshe started to talk to me more when i decided to sit next to my friend and hes at the same table with her friend were just talking about normal stuff or i make her laugh alot and stuff now its like how it was in the beginning of the year kinda oh yea today in builders club they were picking a VP and the nominees or w/e were me her and this other kid when they were picking it was a tie between me and her so they did a revote and i won i noticed she like smiled at me but they did ANOTHER revote or sum reason and se won i smiled at her and gave her a jokingly thumbs up haha! but when my friends saw that she was also going for VP they made a big deal about it. It was kinda stupid…oh yea just tell u i voted for myself on the one that i won but the other 2 i voted for her…

  306. INFINITI!!

    On March 12, 2009 at 2:47 am

    Voting for her was cool bro. did she know this? keep playing your cards right.

  307. IvorY

    On March 12, 2009 at 9:46 am

    way to go. i got a little confused, you got the VP position, or she got it?
    either way, help her anyway you can, and remind her that anything she needs, you’re there for her.

    and now, for a day or two, congratulate her, in a joking way, but remember, dont push it. do it in a friendly, “hehe” way.

  308. ancient mariner

    On March 12, 2009 at 12:05 pm

    History comes full circle.Sometimes, humanity survies.Other times… it’s obliterated.We tell stories to remember history. I wish the best to those who find their love.One cover a little secret,who follow the trail…,who reconstruct my nightmare… -ancient mariner

  309. chris

    On March 12, 2009 at 2:27 pm

    Hey Ivory I think I can forget about her. I saw her with that boy she likes, talking and hugging each other. So for now, Im just going to stay friends with her, because I really dont want to get in any trouble with her.

  310. some guy

    On March 12, 2009 at 4:32 pm

    she got it not me srry ivory XD

  311. chris

    On March 14, 2009 at 11:10 am

    Guess what Ivory. We were assigned groups of four, and she’s in my group!!. Maybe I shouldnt forget about her just yet. We will be in groups until next week. Also, she did something interesting yesterday in class. She was passing out papers to give out, and she had one for the girl behind me. Instead of going up to her and giving her the paper, She got right next to me and LEANED to her desk, almost touching me.

  312. ancient mariner

    On March 15, 2009 at 9:10 pm

    haha… what a fool… u my friend are the bait.As always,you perceive its reality as little as a utensil perceives the taste of food.It is u who underestimate her… maybe she was lazy and that is why she leaned.It is obvious that they would “almost touch” u when anyone is leaning towards anyone. When your in love u laugh n cry at the same time.

  313. AJ

    On March 15, 2009 at 10:37 pm

    Hey guys, what’s up?

    I’m still emailing back and forth with her – the emails are getting pretty long, too. We’re asking each other questions, and trading music, too. It’s lots of fun. :) I hope she feels the same way. Anyways, I got an incident to report. I was sitting in a corner, just resting there, and she came up and asked me if I was tired. I said yes, and that I was sitting down in that corner because of it. She sat down next to me, and just sat there with me for a while, until her friends (who are now kind of my friends too) came and sat down, too. Then I got out my DS. (My little bro put it in my backpack.) It was a game that I had mentioned to her in an email, and one that she was interested in playing. She said “Hey, scoot over.” And sat right next to me, her right leg practically on top of my left leg, and asked for the DS. Needless to say, I gave it to her, and she didn’t move the whole time she played – she kept the contact, which I would’ve been exceptionally uncomfortable about if she’d been anyone else. Lol, she smelled nice. :)

    I don’t want to read into this, so I’ve been taking the things she’s been doing at face value (or trying to) but I’m honestly starting to think that she likes me back.

    So… what do you think?

  314. jake

    On March 15, 2009 at 11:12 pm

    hey she gave me her number! what can i say to her, like in a text message to let her know i like her without actually saying

  315. IvorY

    On March 16, 2009 at 10:51 am

    AJ, its good to hear that you’re friendship is growing, thats the starting point for everything.
    as you know, all i do here is give my toughts to you, i cant give accurate judgements, because im not there with you.
    that is why i ask for the most info as possible, even though its partial info (its what you see, not exactly as things are).

    now, from what i see, i see good friends having a good time. the problem with girls is that sometimes they test our ability of staying in unconfortable positions, thus knowing wether we are/are not willing to put up with them.

    i’ve said it before and ill say it again. if you have doubts that she likes you, simply ask her. in a occasion like that iwht the DS, ask in a low and quiet voice, “do you like me?”. she’ll probably answer in a low voice as well.

    im afraid i wont give you any advice on that, because i believe that our feeling should be exposed face to face. because this way, you can measure the way shes gonna react, and you can prepare yourself for it.

  316. jake

    On March 17, 2009 at 12:04 am

    ok i totally agree with u,but in my case she has track after school every day and i know she does, shes busy. i asked her if she wanted to hang out on weekends and she says she doesnt hang out much. iam confused because it sounds like she is avoiding me but when i talk to her she is really nice and smiles alot. Her face also gets really red when i talk to her. Mabye if she likes me then she actually is this busy. Should i just ask her out?

  317. IvorY

    On March 17, 2009 at 10:20 am

    yeah, try to ask her out. from what i see, she seems like an athlete, and they dont have much spare time, cuz they train alot.

    but, despite it all, she’ll probably get a free time to go on the date with you. assuming she likes you, and that you invited her.

  318. jake

    On March 17, 2009 at 9:02 pm

    ok thanks that might work.

  319. jake

    On March 17, 2009 at 9:05 pm

    oh by the way what can i say to her in a text message that will make her feel really good?

  320. IvorY

    On March 17, 2009 at 11:00 pm

    “whenever you feel down, remember that you have friends that like you and that you can rely on, for anything you need.”


    “when things down look too shiny, remember that im here to give you a hand, and try to help you have a better day.”

  321. chris

    On March 19, 2009 at 2:27 pm

    Things have been really strange as of lately. She’s with him now. But the thing is she still flirts with me. I mean I notice how she checks me out, and touches me. Like when we were in a group recently, sitting right next to me, she kept hitting my elbow, like 3 times. And today, I noticed her staring at me for about 10 seconds! No lie! What should I do? Im not sure if I want her anymore!!!

  322. ancient mariner

    On March 20, 2009 at 11:10 am

    chris….. my pal… for the love of god… plz… take a .9mm gun n point it to her n say “hey pinhead do u like me or not?”

  323. Ana

    On March 20, 2009 at 5:00 pm

    I like a guy his name is Ryan and he is HOT but it is so hard to talk to him cause i am shy with guys will see if those tips work!!!!

  324. person lol

    On March 21, 2009 at 8:48 pm

    i fink a girl likes me lol n i bin told by ppl it looks like she likes me, but she keeps sayin that this FITTT boi looks like me n shes sed i looked like another boi who she thinks is fitt lol, does that mean wat is sez or does she think fit, yer she flirts alot aswell n shes told me that she knows who i like, im jus real nervous cuz shes dank

  325. guri

    On March 22, 2009 at 2:14 am

    nice work
    keep it up!!!

  326. person lol

    On March 22, 2009 at 7:01 am

    i need advice lol, any1 no?

  327. IvorY

    On March 22, 2009 at 6:57 pm

    im sorry, but its a little hard to give advice when i dont understand more than half of what you have written…

  328. person lol

    On March 23, 2009 at 12:37 pm

    ite sorry im young and i use slang. Theres a girl i like and people have said they think she likes me, and she flirts alot, n she acts shy when she speaks to me, also she said there are guys that she think are atractive and i look like them on more than one occasion, i dunno if it means she likes me.

  329. IvorY

    On March 23, 2009 at 6:37 pm

    flirting girls are dangerous… you’ll never know what you’re gonna get…

    keep an eye out for her, and try to talk more to her, try to know if she really likes you.

  330. jake

    On March 24, 2009 at 12:27 am

    hi its me again. ok so that girl i described sounds like she is avoiding me because i just texted her and i asked her questions like, “If your always this busy how do you have time for friends?” and she says she doesn’t really. ive also asked her if she and i can hang out before school, if she has track after school but nooooooooooooo she told me she has quir before school. ok……….. then i asked her if we can hang out on weekends and she says she doesnt hang out much. WTF! and every time i call her she allways gives me the same damn excuse, ” Iam busy i got to go bye!” i really love her goddamnit! i know she had a boyfriend but i don’t know why they broke up. And iam thinking that how was she even able to have a relationship if she is allways this occupied? Does this sound like she is avoiding me? what should i say to her? she i tell her i like her?
    The only reason iam not giving up is because iam in love with her.

  331. ancient mariner

    On March 24, 2009 at 7:47 am

    jake:-damn u people asking the same questions even when the answers r given……. anyways jake the girl isn’t interested in u, well that’s what i think. O n’ if u like her u should say it to her.but frm what i see she isn’t interested in u advice:-life sucks.Get used to it.

  332. IvorY

    On March 24, 2009 at 10:11 am

    Im afraid im going to have to agree with mariner on this one…

    if you are giving signs that you like her, nad she keeps ignoring you, either 2 things: she’s stupid, and doesnt realize it, or she really isnt interested in you.

    My advice here, is give up… im sorry, but its the best way for you not to get hurt. love or not, this isnt the right time, or the right girl…

    and mariner, remember, this is supposed to be a helping site, not a “tak’em down” site. ease up on the comments, and do it more gently.

  333. ancient mariner

    On March 24, 2009 at 12:52 pm

    mind my harash(or bad) comments everyone.its I am to old…anyways jake sry that girl hates/dosnt likes. remember there are many other girls! Now I know why everyone hated me, cuz hate is all the world that’s even seen lately.And there ain’t nothin i can do cuz life is a lesson, you’ll learn it when your through.

  334. Tom

    On March 24, 2009 at 9:44 pm

    Hey guys im confused whether this girl likes me or not i mean she use to show the signs that she might like me when she looks at me but just let me explain first. I only see her in my mass media class, a class where we watch movies basicly. She has noticed me thats for sure but when a girl likes u she looks at u, stares at u, right? Of course, the thing is she use to look at me but now she hasnt been looking at me. I havent talk to her cus i never get a chance her next class is practicly all away across the entire school. But what i was saying is that she hasnt looked at me for at least half a month. I mean maybe a couple looks if i get in her way but thats it. But oh i almost forgot she looked at me last week. She did her hair that day and i was about to compliment on her hair bc she walked and stood right next to me like i was her best friend for no reason. but for some reason by body moved on its own and i walked away from her like i didnt like her. I didnt no why my body did that but that entire class period she didnt look at me a lot i dont think bc she sits behind me but whenever i looked to the side i could see she was checking me out. I then looked right at her face to make sure and she was brushing her hair looking me right in the eyes and looked away after about like a sec later. So does she like me? SOrry for the long ass paragraph.

  335. Tom

    On March 24, 2009 at 9:51 pm

    Oh yah once in a while (barely)the teacher is late and we have to wait for a couple mins. so that was the day she stood right next me, i mean she was like a foot away from me.U think she wanted to get my attention that day. But yah i guess i could talk to her, come to think of it but not that long bc u no she needs to get to her other class.

  336. MiGZ

    On March 25, 2009 at 12:42 am

    yOu sEe tHeRe’s one girl I LiKe, she’s not that very close to me but something just struck inside of me and just fell for her,i dont know whther if it’s her looks , her beauty, her gorgeous smile, i dont actually know. But there’s a big problem, I think HeR BeSt fRiEnD LikEs mE. thIS thing happened to me before and i dont want the same sad outcome again.

  337. person lol

    On March 25, 2009 at 6:15 am

    this girl said she thinks im fit, and she said that she used to realy like me, and then she said when my mate was with me that she would be sure that if she asked us out we would say no. Were like naa try it.

  338. IvorY

    On March 25, 2009 at 9:56 am

    ok, this is gonna be a long post…

    mariner, using limp bizkit lyrics is rather original, but wont help much here…xD

    You are in a difficult position. Being best friends with a girl is complicated, because if you get rejected, your whole friendship can be ruined…

    Im indecise in this one… keep talking to her, and if you see that interest of her, i believe it would be a good moment to ask her out. from what i’ve heard, spring break is over, and it would be a relaxed time for you, so i really believe that a date would work.

    unfortunatly, sad outcomes happens to us all. the best way to prevent that from happening, is to keep low expectations, and never set the bar too high…

    person lol
    liking her or not, a double date just for fun, would be a good time spent… just my oppion

  339. person lol

    On March 25, 2009 at 10:59 am

    i do like her shes gorgeous and all i do is think about her.

  340. person lol

    On March 25, 2009 at 11:06 am

    soz just properly read what you said, fair enough.

  341. ancient mariner

    On March 25, 2009 at 11:35 am

    finally my backup as arrived.I thought I was going nuts! Anyways Migz(aka elmo) my best advice is just be friends with them, this way no one get hurt.if u want more advice search up the net.hope this helps elmo. ivory:-DING! DING! DING! U hav just won 300,000 woollongs (that is 50 cents) for guessing the correct song!

  342. IvorY

    On March 25, 2009 at 4:43 pm

    soz mariner, but this time, you’re wrong!!

    i didnt said any song name xD…

    but i know wich song it is, its the MI2 theme… either way, i think that 300 000 woollongs (never heard of it….) arent enough…bring it on!

  343. person lol

    On March 25, 2009 at 6:08 pm

    ok, she told me she likes me and that shes liked me for ages years…., but she didnt say she likes me anymore, although she told me she think im fit…, peple keep saying to me now i should just ask her out, but i cant because she told me who she likes and i said would you go out with anyone else and she said ye. i dunno what to do lol she makes me really nervous.

  344. Tom

    On March 25, 2009 at 8:29 pm

    lol no no shes not my best friend i said she was standing right next to me (like) i was her best friend. Basicly she stood too close to me. I dont even know her and people dont stand close to strangers. People only stand close to people they know of course. The problem is i dont even know her and im afraid to start up a conversation. Because what if she ignores me and thinks im weird or says one word and walks away. I mean i dont want to ruin a first impression you know. So i need a little help here guys. Thanks.

  345. IvorY

    On March 25, 2009 at 10:38 pm

    person lol, where is the doubt? you like her, she likes you, both know it, wheres the problem?

    “where’s the beef, my friend?”.

    ask her out already, you’ll know if its gonna work out or not. just that simple.


    im sorry to tell you this, but you’ve already given out your first impression…xD
    if she stood next to you, and you didnt said anything, you gave the impression you’re shy.

    go ahead, make conversation, dont be afraid, theres nothing that can go wrong, you’ve got nothing to lose. if mariner comes here, he’ll probably say the same.

    every step you take is new, and in the words of a song “life is a lesson, you’ll learn it when your throught”.

  346. Tom

    On March 26, 2009 at 1:23 am

    True I am shy around girls so should I start a conversation by complimenting her? Or what’s a better way to start a friendly one? Oh btw ivory I was just curious but how do you know all this information about peoples relationships and body language?

  347. Tom

    On March 26, 2009 at 1:29 am

    It’s crazy how you know all this, just wanted to point that out in a good way… XD

  348. heartbreak kid

    On March 26, 2009 at 1:45 am

    i also have a problem like migz but a little bit tougher…..i fell for dis one girl at our school on my junior year and it is the first time she had been my classmate ever since the past school years but we both know each other , im not that very close to her also and instantly i just fell for her…. she’s smart, beautiful, everthing that i could dream of. but there’s just a big problem her best friend really, really likes me. And this also happened to me before were i also like this one girl and her best friend really likes me and i took it all the way and things just just didn’t worked right,the girl’s friends got angry , her best friend wasn’t the same, i felt sorry for the girl and to make things right i just did’nt continue what i wanted and the friends got back to each other and i just had been friends with the girl…this time i really, really like this girl and i dont want to make a mistake. now that our junior year is finished and our senior and last year as an high school is upcoming and i know that it is my last chance. any advice guys…….

  349. IvorY

    On March 26, 2009 at 8:35 am

    Well, to tell you the truth… i dont know…

    its like something thats inside me, and just flows naturaly… no books, no nothing.

    the best way to start a conversation… for example, between classes she shows up, you havent seen her that day, you say, “hey how, you doing, what have you been up to?”.

    after that, you just need to find a topic where she’s confortable, like stuff she likes, and sometimes, say one or two things you like as well, and see if she likes. theres nothing hard about talking, you just need a good subject. after that, its easy. the words, just start flowing of your mouth.

    ok, kid, one thing. when i was in my last year, i also tought that it was my last chance to get a girlfriend, but guess what? the 4 years of college, those are the good years, there is the best time to get girlfriends.

    that is a sad story you got there, cant say i’ve been throught the same.

    your situation is the probably one of the worst. you dont know if the girl you like shares the same feeling, and her best friend likes you… no mather what you do, you’ll just do something that will dissapoint someone.

    my advice for now, is choose neither. clear your mind of all toughts and think things. wich girl do you really like, and what kind is the feeling. is it true love or just a fisical attraction?

    what do you feel?

  350. heartbreak kid

    On March 26, 2009 at 8:59 am

    i know and i feel the girl that i like likes me somehow because sometimes in our class i often see her looking at me and maybe staring sometimes…i dont no whether it is physical or true atrraction but i know it is not just physical attraction….anyways tnx for the advice…

  351. person lol

    On March 26, 2009 at 11:18 am

    yer i know IvorY, lol and i found out also why we didnt work out, her mate told me that she didnt like me ages ago when she did because her mate liked me lol, yer i should deffinetly ask her out lol, ima do it 2moz if i still have the balls

  352. Domino

    On March 28, 2009 at 1:50 am

    WOW the last question is SO RETARDED.
    If she says she likes you,then she LIKES YOU!:0
    fkn idiots

  353. sroz

    On March 28, 2009 at 3:17 am

    i don’t know if this girl likes me my friend told her that i liked her. I didn’t know and he said that she was speechless that’s what he told me dose she like me or no i really need help please answer back

  354. phatty

    On March 28, 2009 at 3:27 am

    today in class we were in groups and i looked at the teacher to see what to do and this girls friend said something to her and she looked at me and i think she knows i like her or she thought i looked at her what da heck is going on

  355. ancient mariner

    On March 28, 2009 at 7:07 am

    1 question.How many comments can this site store!?!

  356. IvorY

    On March 28, 2009 at 7:26 am

    mariner, we hope it stores every comment we put on… i’ve no idea how many.

    im sorry but theres not enough info for me to say anything. if you notice previous comments, people share part of their lives, so that i can judge and cast my opinion on it.

    again, not much i can say…

  357. nick

    On March 29, 2009 at 5:03 pm

    theres this girl that i like in my class. she dosent try to hold my hand.she talks to me a little bit. she acts goofy all the time.near he friends and near guys
    when she gets near my friends she talks to them a little more than when she gets to me.she looks at me she looks at me like wen im sitting down she takes a peke at me and turns back to talking wit here friends ad shes like the “head gurl of the class”
    ppppppppppppppplllllllllllllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help
    i really like her

  358. josh

    On March 29, 2009 at 10:13 pm

    Sounds like shes checking u out to make sure to herself that she likes u, thats my opinion. Try getting to know her more and then she might start to pay more attention to u.

  359. ryan

    On April 1, 2009 at 3:59 pm

    some girl name maya likes me and i like her but i can never
    keep a cool convesation.i told her i like her but she didn’t
    say nothing.she bought me a candy bar,then she told me if
    i want something ask her.

  360. IvorY

    On April 1, 2009 at 4:49 pm

    well, ryan, the best way to make her know that you’re serious, is saying you like her, and then say “im not joking, i really like you.”

    cool conversation… well, theres no secret in there, no magic formula. just relax, and find something you both like. its more than enough, you’ll see that the words will start to flow, and it will all seem easier.

  361. some guy

    On April 3, 2009 at 3:42 am

    hey i havent been on here for awhile but hey during spring break i was talking to her alot on myspace but nothin serious tho we were just calling eachother stuff it was funny XD and last week when we came bak from spring bbreak they changed the seats in science now i sit at the same table as her along with another guy and one of her friends but i dont really like her like her that much anymore so i just wanna be her friend 4 now but its kool sitting at the same table as her now :) and making her laugh or we argue with eachother (jokingly)hehe…im not really worried if she likes me or not anymore…not THAT much…oh yea & its not like she only talks to me she also talks to the other guy 2

  362. JD

    On April 6, 2009 at 8:48 am

    thats a good article but im still not sure if she likes me because sometimes she seems intrested in talking to me but sometimes she just ignores me and i dont know what to do

  363. (-(-(-(-.(-.-).-)-)-)-)

    On April 7, 2009 at 1:14 am

    Ya well u no im confused bout dis girl thats in my art class and shes older than me. in my opinion i think im pretty attractive bc girls give me those looknig signs and flirt. I only been in a relationship twice. So the girl thats older than me looks at me from time to time checking me out. I like her a lot that i dont even think bout talking to her. I want to become her friend b4 school ends but i just get so nervous its crazy and my hands sweat which is kinda nasty. but im quiet around ppl i dont no, not shy just quiet u no. So what should i do to get to no her bc i dunno if i can talk to her & hold a conversation bc im afraid its going to turn into utter silence.

  364. (-(-(-(-.(-.-).-)-)-)-)

    On April 7, 2009 at 1:22 am

    I ment that shes a grade older

  365. IvorY

    On April 9, 2009 at 9:54 am

    well will, there you go… they “seem” to be… not all are jerks, i know lots of the hottest girls you’ve might find out there, and they are incredibly nice and very cool.

    (-.-), the best way to mantain a conversation is to find a subject you both like. thats the secret to sucess. so what if you’ve finished talking and it goes into silence? its the perfect excuse to use the “wanna do something else?” card.

  366. epoh

    On April 10, 2009 at 2:35 pm

    I’m a girl so guys, listen up! This is coming straight from the source! I know this might not apply to all girls because I’m sorta shy and I’ve never said a swear word in my life (people who swear a lot need to learn ENGLISH!) so that gives you an idea of the type of person I am. So, here are some things a girl like me looks for in a guy:

    *He has to be patient. He should let a girl go in front of him in certain situations (not always). He also should for sure be very respectful with a girl.
    *He has to be nice-gentleman. Why do you think they call them “gentle” men? Be polite…duh!
    *Give us some space to ourselves. You shouldn’t be jealous if we just want to hang out with OUR friends or just be alone and relax. Personally, it’s a big turn off if is calling or texting you 24/7 to see what you’re up to. Bad vibes!
    *Don’t worry if we don’t look a you in the eye. A lot of times that means we like you VERY much and we’re just shy.
    *Sometimes though, even a shy girl can surprise herself by looking into her crush’s eye too long.
    * Smile! Don’t be fake though!Give a real smile, even if it isn’t directly to the girl. All girls love when a guy smiles a genuine smile.
    *Don’t constantly poke and prod and tickle a girl. Not only can people around you get annoyed but the girl also can too, even if she still plays along.
    *Be mature. That’s the reason girls usually like older guys, because they are more mature. Don’t swear left and right and instead of saying a girl is sexy or a cutie, try beautiful or lovely. You’ll see that the girl will be much more flattered and impressed.

    I hope this was helpful! I just wish more guys would listen to it. Thanks for reading! :)

  367. epoh

    On April 10, 2009 at 2:47 pm

    Oh and by the way, another sign that a girl SUPER likes you is that she might start breathing all weird. Like, sharp intakes of breath or just breathing rickety and shaky. She might get goosebumps if you pass her or her legs and hands might shake unnaturally. She might also get unusually hyper when she thinks of you or when your around! It’s incredibly painful to a girl when she isn’t sure if the guy that she gets dressed up for everyday even likes her, so let her know! It might be scary at first for both of you, but it could be worth it. And finally, don’t be discouraged if a girl says she can’t go out with you. Sometimes she really DOES like you but says that because there are complications going on currently in her life. Just try some other time if she still seems interested.

  368. IvorY

    On April 10, 2009 at 9:28 pm

    well, info straight from the source is always the best…

    stick around epoh, you might find that you’re very useful here… as you might ahve seen, i give advice, but i only know my side… your side is the kind of help i need, and some answers i dont have, you might give them.

    thanks anyway.

  369. epoh

    On April 10, 2009 at 9:43 pm

    fire away.

  370. epoh

    On April 10, 2009 at 9:54 pm

    And a question for you. Do think it still means a guy likes you when he looks you straight in the eye when you pass, but the next day you notice he went a different route maybe to avoid you? Does that mean he’s shy? I’m almost positive he isn’t doing it because he doesn’t like me because guys just don’t give you that look if they don’t like you. Oh I’m so confused! If anything, I should be the more shy one!Do you think you can explain this?

  371. epoh

    On April 10, 2009 at 10:02 pm

    OH and another word of wisdom from me: SAGGY JEANS THAT GO BELOW THE BUTT ARE BAAAD. DO NOT WEAR!!!!! Most girls don’t feel the need to see a guy’s plaid underwear! Believe me!

  372. epoh

    On April 10, 2009 at 10:19 pm

    Sorry if I’m being annoying but it’s sorta fun telling guys about a girl’s side. This may be a personal thing, but I would suggest asking the girl what her favorite flower is before buying roses. If she says roses, then it will make getting roses all the more sweet. If she says a different flower, then give her those of course! You might be surprised that some girls would love,say, tulips (my favorite!) even more! For me, for example, roses are kind of sad. You know… funerals and such. Then again, most girls DO love roses best…oh I don’t know.

  373. epoh

    On April 10, 2009 at 10:49 pm

    Ok. You help me and I’ll help you. I need to get inside a guy’s head. And you think women don’t make sense!

  374. will

    On April 10, 2009 at 11:07 pm

    yo, ivory start that blog because socyberty emailed me and said that they are going to disable comments on this site on 4/17/09

  375. jeffery

    On April 10, 2009 at 11:11 pm

    ok, i know this sounds crazy, but are there any prescription meds that i can take that will reverse my shyness????? because i want to talk to this girl and i cant do it my myself because iam reallllllllly shy.

  376. epoh

    On April 11, 2009 at 7:58 am

    hey jeffery, I’m a girl (read my other comments :) and I’m shy too.Well actually, I’m really only truly shy around this one guy I really, really like, so we’re in the same boat. I’ve never talked to him and he has never talked to me, but I’m almost absolutly positive he likes me (a lot?). Oh, back to your problem jeffery, take it slow. Give her the signs that you like her (you probably don’t have to work at that) so she isn’t surprised if you do talk to her. I wouldn’t suggest taking medicine for shyness :) Sometimes, shyness is the appeal of a guy the girl likes!A lot of times, now that I think about it

  377. epoh

    On April 11, 2009 at 10:07 am

    Ok Ivory, I’ll tell you my story of how I began to “like” this guy, that is, if you want to hear it.

  378. IvorY

    On April 11, 2009 at 10:17 am

    wow, this is the most posts i’ve ever seen in such a short time…

    anyway, epoh, girls arent the only ones that are shy… if he gave you that look, and you felt that, the thing of taking a diffrent route the next day may not be to avoid you, but to avoid making you think hes stalking you. or maybe, its just a normal thing, we like to do different things every now and then.
    nothing to worry about.

    im starting to work on a website, ill give the link as soon as i get it ready.

    jeff, shyness is something that gets every single man. trust me.
    its a normal thing, and its simple to fight. the mirror helps a bit, but the best way, it to ask a friend to help.

    as our good epoh says, many girls like shy guys… it makes the “game” funnier.

    now, if you dont mind, im gonna get started with our new website.

  379. IvorY

    On April 11, 2009 at 10:41 am

    btw, we still have a few days till this is closed, according to will, so i need your help.

    i need:
    - names for the website;
    - ideas on what to put there.

    please do hurry, I want to get it ready and running till the 16th.

    i got an idea for a name, but give me yours.

  380. epoh

    On April 11, 2009 at 10:54 am

    Well, is the site going to be like this one, about crushes and stuff or what?-crushers inc.

    Anyway thanks for the help Ivory, but I don’t think it’s because he doesn’t want me to think he’s…erm…stalking me. I mean, that’d be all right, but something gives me the feeling that that isn’t the reason. Personally, I’m going with the shy and nervous reason.

  381. epoh

    On April 11, 2009 at 10:58 am

    But it’s okay. I’m not worried about it much. Just confused.

  382. IvorY

    On April 11, 2009 at 12:05 pm

    its a bit hard to make a new website, so for now, im just gonna copy the layout of this one, and apply to mine. Its gonna be very similar, with a few other things.

  383. IvorY

    On April 11, 2009 at 1:09 pm

    well, sorry to dissapoint you, but i was misleaded to believe that the website was free.

    at this point, I cannot create a website without paying for it, and since my blog knowledge is 0, there’s pretty much nothing i can do.

    again, sorry to dissapoint you.

  384. epoh

    On April 11, 2009 at 1:49 pm

    hey, no worries. It’s all right!

  385. epoh

    On April 12, 2009 at 9:08 pm

    Happy Easter everyone! Good luck to you all, follow my advice and follow your heart!

  386. d1

    On April 14, 2009 at 9:06 pm

    hey does anybody know how iam suppost to get over a girl that i really really like who does not have any interest in me? i cant let her go no matter how much i try to not think about her. i thought she was perfect. we have so much in common. but she says she does not like me the way i like her. i even thought i was in love with her. please help.

  387. some guy

    On April 17, 2009 at 1:44 am

    hey i havent been on here for awhile but hey during spring break i was talking to her alot on myspace but nothin serious tho we were just calling eachother stuff it was funny XD and last week when we came bak from spring bbreak they changed the seats in science now i sit at the same table as her along with another guy and one of her friends but i dont really like her like her that much anymore so i just wanna be her friend 4 now but its kool sitting at the same table as her now :) and making her laugh or we argue with eachother (jokingly)hehe…im not really worried if she likes me or not anymore…not THAT much…oh yea & its not like she only talks to me she also talks to the other guy 2

  388. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 3:29 pm

    Hey! congrats some guy! Sometimes it can be liberating to be crush free right?! It’s great that you guys became friends anyway. So, Ivory, if you ever read this I need your opinion again. So you know the guy I was talking about before? Well, the other day, I was heading to the gym and HE was talking to his gym teacher/gymnastics coach and then when I passed, he seemed to stop talking, and looked directly at me, but I put my head down so I wouldn’t look in his eyes so much. The problem is, I’m pretty sure he likes me, but I’m too scared to talk to him and he might be too scared to talk

  389. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 3:44 pm

    to me. The thing is, IF he ever so happened to ask me out this year and maybe even next year, I feel in my heart that it would be the right thing, for personal reasons, to say no. But I’m afraid that he would take this as I don’t like him. I wouldn’t want him to think that! How would I handle this while letting him know I still really like him? And don’t you dare say that I should just tell him up front that I super like him! I would never have the guts to do that! SO HELP ME! Please!

  390. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 3:53 pm

    Anyhow, today we ran the mile on the track and then after we stayed outside and could play football and stuff and HE was playing football with his friend and I was playing football with mine. It was sorta funny because neither of us were good at it at all, which was I relief because I didn’t want to look like an idiot in front of him! Well, I suppose both of us looked like idiots then, because he kept dropping the dumb football too (but he was still better than me :) It was pretty funny. He still was an angel, and I’m a little relieved that he wasn’t good at it-I hate football! hehe! Anyway, wish me luck! woah! I wrote a lot didn’t I? woops.

  391. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 3:56 pm

    I get a little carried away…when it comes to this subject ;/

  392. IvorY

    On April 17, 2009 at 4:49 pm

    busy busy busy, thats the main word these days, and im no exception.

    happened to me and probably to many guys that come here.
    best way to let it go? well, i’ve tried forcing her to tell me she didnt liked me (she did tell it, btw), and it helped for a year or so, but now, its hard to forget her. so, not much i can say here. try to keep yourself busy, keep your mind at full speed, it should help you thinking about anything else but her.

    epoh, my dear epoh…

    when personal reasons get in the way of a couple (being it or not, doesnt mather, its still 2 people), it can be messy.

    in your case, if he asked you out, i think that you should just tell him the truth. if he really likes you, when you say you cant accept the invitation, and after you’ve explained that you have a few messed up things in your life and that now isnt the best time for a date, he will understand, and if you say “but if you ask me out in a few days/weeks, ill say yes”, then he should be much more interested.

    BUT…, but, i really do think that you are being too shy, at least look him in the eyes. remember, a look in the eyes says more that a thousand words. you need to let him know that you’re interested in him, or else, he’ll just assume that you’re ignoring him and he’ll move on… im sorry if this is harsh, but its the truth. at least, thats something i would do.

    and im not too fond of football either, specially since last time that i almost broke my leg, but anyway, its a sport and a great way to loosen your tongue.

    (and yes i do think that you should tell him you like him, but not super like him, that can be a little too much. XD)

    well, and if this is the last day that this topic is active, then good luck ya’ll and i wish you best of lucks in love and everything else.

  393. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 7:50 pm

    Yeah, thanks for everything Ivory. And don’t worry, I DO look in his eyes when he passes a couple times, just that sometimes it’s a little scary to do it when you KNOW he’s looking back

  394. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 8:01 pm

    Well, about the dating thing. I don’t really think you understood. It would be great if could say “ask me in a couple weeks, I might say yes”, but I can’t. It’s more of a “bigger” thing. Oh, well. If anything ever came of this, I would at the very least have to let him know that I really DID like him, maybe we could

  395. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 8:05 pm

    just be friends until…yeah. I shouldn’t jump ahead of myself though, since we’ve never even talked to each other XD ! Go one step at a time right? I just know there’s something special about this “crush”, because of the circu

  396. epoh

    On April 17, 2009 at 8:10 pm

    circumstances of how I came to er…like him :) Maybe sometime, if they still allow it on here, I’ll write about that. But for now I want to wish you, Ivory, and all the other great guys on here the best of luck!

    “All we have is To-day”

  397. epoh

    On April 19, 2009 at 2:00 pm

    Well would you look at that! We can still comment! :)

  398. ddub

    On April 20, 2009 at 9:13 am

    okay so not to make this a long story….i’ve been talking to this gorgeous girl for a while and i’m pretty sure she knows i like her and she has a BF but it seems like she talks to me more than him, so we were texting each other bout prom and stuff and shes going through a rough patch with her BF and I didn’t want her to go alone but she told me she was going to be fine and i then for some reason told her “i like you, and i don’t want to see you sad” and it was like 5-10 more minutes till she texted me back but she is still talking to me and stuff…….I just want to know if you guys think she may have interest in me

    and o yeah we went to the movies and i guess she told her best friend that “it was so hard sitting next to me bc i smelt really good and that i looked really good to, but she has a BF” and i just want to here your guy’s opinion….mostly girls or guys that have dated a lot

  399. Ddub

    On April 20, 2009 at 9:29 am

    and she still wants to hang out with me so i think she might like me but i’m not to sure

  400. IvorY

    On April 20, 2009 at 12:56 pm


    from what i know, you’re doing the right thing. if you two are friends and you know shes going through a rough time, supporting her and making her feel good is the best thing to do.

    from what i think, the reason why she took long to answer back to your text message, is that she did understood that you like her and she may be having second thoughts about her relation. but, nevertheless i think that you shouldnt directly hit on her, it may ruin everything. just let things flow, at this point, dont rush anything.

    let time decide things.

  401. epoh

    On April 20, 2009 at 4:27 pm

    Yeah, I have to agree with Ivory. Just take things slow and let it play out, I DO think she likes you anyway. If she’s having a rough time with her BF, she’ll probably move on… most likely to you :)
    Well, good luck with that!

  402. epoh

    On April 20, 2009 at 4:30 pm

    By the way, the reason she didn’t text back for a while was probably just because she was doing something else, you know, busy and stuff. I might be wrong though, sometimes you can get “vibes” when those things happen so… yeah.

  403. chris

    On April 21, 2009 at 4:23 pm

    Hey Ivory, its been a while.Lots of stuff has happened with her. She’s flirted with me( touchedme, mimicked, followed me around). This has happened variuos times, like in groups and auditorium presentations. She still keeps looking at me, and getting nervous around me. Its obvious she likes me. So I asked her out, and guess what? She said no, and that she doesnt like me? I was really surprised. What should I do? I mean she still keeps looking at me and stuff. Is she lying to me?

  404. epoh

    On April 21, 2009 at 8:27 pm

    Personally, I think she was just nervous and blurted out the wrong thing. Trust me, it can happen- maybe she’s never gone out with a guy before? It is always very scary for the first time, so she probably panicked and stuff. I actually think she still likes you…a lot maybe? I dunno, what do you think Ivory?

  405. epoh

    On April 21, 2009 at 8:49 pm

    Well, anyhow, today was pretty great. I’ll explain. On my way to band, I was half looking for HIM if by chance he might pass me. Then all of a sudden he was right there and… he was looking DIRECTLY at ME!!!! I looked straight back into his eyes (I couldn’t help it!) and forgot everything I was doing and where I was going :) I could’ve sang on the spot, but I reminded myself I shouldn’t because I’m not in singing classes! Then, on tuesdays he has the same lunch period as me and I was heading to my table and saw him going to his and he was looking at me AGAIN! All the way across the lunchroom too!Wow wow wow wow wow!!!! And then lastly, after lunch me and my friends went out into the hallway and were just standing there talking when out of the very far corner of my eye I could’ve sworn I saw him pass behind me so when this “guy” passed I looked and yes it was him! I wonder if he was testing to see what I’d do? I sorta stiffened and held my breath and my friend was still talking to me but I had no idea what she was saying :D Oh it’s so great!!! What’s your opinion on all this?

  406. IvorY

    On April 21, 2009 at 9:15 pm

    do you actually need an opinnion epoh?

    girl likes boy, boy likes girl… what more to say?

    whats keeping you from pushing foward? as someone wise once said, “no mather how many fish there is in the sea, if we wait too long, someone is gonna reel it in.”

  407. epoh

    On April 22, 2009 at 6:22 am

    Wow! This is the best thing you’ve ever said to me Ivory… but there’s actually a lot of things keeping me from pushing forward-just yet- but don’t worry about me! Things’ll come together! Thanks for the reassurance!

  408. epoh

    On April 22, 2009 at 6:26 am

    “boy likes girl”… YES!!!!!!!!

  409. mr. confused

    On April 22, 2009 at 9:36 pm

    please help i really like this girl but im not sure she likes me and my best friend likes her to she looks really good but im kinda the smart kid but people dont act like that towards me im so confused pls help

  410. ddub

    On April 23, 2009 at 9:36 am

    Mr. Confused – My advice, talk to the girl more and get to know her

    Boy – Yeah, first of all have you guys talked before or have you just been looking at each other in the hall? So if thats all you’ve been doing then i would say like i said to Mr. Confused talk to her more, if you do talk to her then idk what to say but just try your hardest

    GL to the both of you

  411. epoh

    On April 23, 2009 at 3:16 pm

    Ummmm…. Mr.Confused this is a weird question but I need to know…what’s her first name?Or if you don’t want to give that, then the initials?

  412. Boy

    On April 23, 2009 at 8:55 pm

    No i havent talked to her b4 and ya we just look at each other in the halls but i forgot to say that i think her friend liked me bc she randomly ask me when i walked by what my name was plus she came over sometimes to ask me whats up and stuff, sometimes the girl i like was there with her, but i never talked to her just her friend when she would ask me questions like how my day was going. lol i dont even no the name of the girl i like

  413. Boy

    On April 23, 2009 at 9:07 pm

    Oh and i forgot to say that her friend stopped talking to me like a month in a half ago… and i dont think i can go up to her again to just to talk bc she might say like, “I gotta go.” or something else… so what do i do? I know for a fact that she liked me in the beginning of the year and all year ive been dropping hints like smiling at her,only looking at her by showing that im picking only her out of the crowd to show that shes special, so what should i do?

  414. 0527999

    On April 24, 2009 at 6:48 pm

    well i had a gf but i moved so now i don’t know wat 2 do but wat should i of done if i get a new gf

  415. epoh

    On April 24, 2009 at 7:16 pm

    To boy: What did you say to her when you talked to her? You must have said something that offended her because if she really did like you, there had to be a good reason for looking angry. Did you swear at all? If you did, that might be a reason. Hrrr…I know it’s a reason for me… anyway, I’m sure you’re a nice guy and all but I’m sorry to say things aren’t looking good if she doesn’t seem interested anymore. I’d keep trying though if you really do like her. Good luck anyway.

  416. epoh

    On April 24, 2009 at 9:15 pm

    And now a…serious question for you Ivory. Huhh this is hard… what would you do if you felt that your crush or love or whatever had betrayed you, but without maybe realizing it? That they did something that you feel is against some of your own morals, but you still have to love them and care about them because of who they are. If you could talk to them, would you tell them that you feel what they did or … said was wrong? Would they change? Would they even listen… if they liked you too? Please help me… I’ve had a very bad day.

  417. IvorY

    On April 24, 2009 at 10:09 pm

    epoh, if it was me, i’d talk to that person, asked if he/she did that thing that i would be against, and if he/she did it, i’d talk, explain how it felt to me and what i think was wrong.

    if the feeling of love/crush/whatever goes both ways, then that person should be willing to change.
    thats why they call it love… cuz you’ll give your hand and your arm for your loved person…

    well, i’ve said too much already…

    and boy, pay attention to epoh… she’s a girl, and she knows what shes talking about… the force is powerfull in that one.

  418. epoh

    On April 25, 2009 at 2:46 pm

    I know your right that I should go and tell him how I feel but the problem is… he doesn’t know me and I probably would just freak him out-that’s considering I was brave enough to go and talk to him in the first place. I mean, yeah if he does like me, he should change, but he doesn’t know the part of me that thinks what he did was…well, offended me. So let’s pretend I was actually brave enough to go and talk to him about it. How exactly would I approach the subject? Without making it seem weird? Don’t ever say you’ve said too much because your such a great help.

  419. IvorY

    On April 25, 2009 at 5:40 pm

    well, in this case, since you’re not dating yet, i’d say an open conversation about tastes and other stuff might be the best situation… you’d see the best or the worst in that person, assuming he/she would be honnest.

    and yes, epoh, sometimes i do talk too much… quite often, actually…

  420. epoh

    On April 25, 2009 at 8:23 pm

    I can’t believe I’m actually saying this… but you’ve gotten me to consider… :)

  421. epoh

    On April 25, 2009 at 8:26 pm

    P.S. I’m feeling better than on Friday… rough day.

  422. Boy

    On April 26, 2009 at 1:01 am

    Ok all I said was this, “hi srry to bother u but I was just wondering if it would be allright with u if I could talk to u in private real quick?”
    That’s all nothing offensive I hope?

  423. IvorY

    On April 26, 2009 at 10:17 am

    no, thats actually the best way to do it. saying your name could help a bit as well.

  424. epoh

    On April 26, 2009 at 12:26 pm

    hmmm… that’s definitely not something to get offended about. Sorry I can’t help. Don’t know what that girl’s problem was :( … especially if she liked you… weird. You might want to try talking to her again, maybe try to get the reason why she gave that look out of her. But do it slowly and not intrusively. Sometimes girls don’t make sense even to me!

  425. dblock

    On April 27, 2009 at 10:58 pm

    hey, if u have been heart-broken which in my case means the person i liked who i was probably in love with and they have rejected me, will i ever have that feeling again? i still am in love with her even though i know my chances with her are slim to non. she is the only girl i ever liked. Will i ever have that feeling with someone else?

  426. Boy

    On April 28, 2009 at 12:32 am

    I guess ill try again, im gonna have guts some time this month to do it…

    To dblock: Maybe, maybe not, but theres always a girl out there just as beautiful as the girl u still love or even better, i promise u there is, but dont worry about it especially if ur in highschool like me, pssh just move on u have an entire life to experience. or even if ur older, same thing, there still will be some1 out there 4 u that will see past whatever the reason for getting turn down. i mean, i got turned down twice and 1 of the girls i really liked turned me down, i mean she was everything i wanted and needed, the funny thing is she even told me that she liked me and when i waited a good amount of time i asked her out and she said sorry but no, so i moved on. so dont feel bad if u get rejected once or even twice, i mean every guy is bound to get rejected once,twice or even more… So keep ur chin up and dont worry about getting turn down again.

  427. kevin

    On April 28, 2009 at 12:55 pm

    theres this hot girl at school. i asked her out but she said said no. it was school. she is always looking at me evry time she is colse to me. her face turns red when im near her or talk to her. do you think she likes me ?
    please anser back

  428. kevin

    On April 28, 2009 at 1:02 pm

    theres this hot girl at school. i asked her out but she said said no. it was school. she is always looking at me evry time she is colse to me. her face turns red when im near her or talk to her. she said i was cute. also when i go swimming she looks at me alot. i love this girl.
    do you think she likes me

  429. kevin

    On April 28, 2009 at 1:03 pm

    theres this hot girl at school. i asked her out but she said said no. it was school. she is always looking at me evry time she is colse to me. her face turns red when im near her or talk to her. she said i was cute. also when i go swimming she looks at me alot. i love this girl.
    do you think she likes me

  430. epoh

    On April 28, 2009 at 3:19 pm

    to dblock: Yeah, like Boy said, there’s always other girls out there. Trust me, I know that it feels like you could never love someone else so much as that one person at that time, but I think that it can happen more than once :) I know how you feel

  431. epoh

    On April 28, 2009 at 3:25 pm

    Sometimes it’s incredibly hard to move on because you feel like, “What if I miss my chance?” and other times you just don’t WANT to move on because you don’t want to let go of that feeling that you got the first time you saw them… the butterflies, the euphoria of it all, the weak legs, everything…
    But let time play it out all right? I hope everything works out!

  432. Axeman

    On April 28, 2009 at 5:17 pm

    I really like this hottie and when we go in her base ment she encourages pillow fight and likes to touch me alot. When she stands in front of me she is so close almost for her lips to touch mine. She laughs at every on of my jokes and I diss her a lot but she dosent take it seriously. She is really kind and likes staring at me. Last time I saw her we were standing really close and I was staring at her breasts and she liked it, and did not shoo me off. She is always sitting next to me in classes we have. She touches my hair a lot and i touch her arm but it seems like she likes it. I like her and I think she also likes me but she is a bit too shy to admit her feelings. what do you think? What should I do?

  433. epoh

    On April 28, 2009 at 9:06 pm

    umm…..okay? I’m pretty sure if she was shy she wouldn’t appreciate you staring at her boobs, perv! Jeez people are sick…

  434. epoh

    On April 28, 2009 at 9:24 pm

    yeah, I’m a girl >:(

  435. justin

    On April 28, 2009 at 9:35 pm

    ok somebody explain this: i finally find someone i like and turns out that they are not interested in me. i know iam pretty attractive because i get ALOT of attention from girls and have been asked out ALOT and one of the popular girls likes me and shes really hot but i dont like her. The only girl i have any feelings for rejects me and to tell u the truth shes not that pretty but i like her for who she is. Iam very confused wtf. i should have a chance with her.

  436. some guy

    On April 29, 2009 at 12:59 am

    hey i havent been on here for awhile well anyways i was talking to this other guy on wikihow and he sed she mite like me as a friend or more than a friend…yesterday when she was talking to after lunch(she sed she hid my backpack XD)and when we were just there talking a guy that she used to talk to came and tried to talk to her but was telling him to get away and stuff and kept on talking to me haha…but im jsut kinda confused about that if she does or not cuz alot of ppl have told me stuff but still idk today after lunch me and friend were walking to homeroom snd she was kinda ahead of us and when were there she was just standing there looking at the backpacks and she was looking at me and when i noticed she looked down & i think i saw her smile she did this like twice then she saw one of her friends and went 2 her i thot she was thinking like i dont wanna see him or w/e but i went to go get a drink (she was around there)my friend was eavesdropping and said that she sed to her friend that she didnt know what to say to him(me)im kinda wonderin wat it was? and i got to sit next(or infront)of her for like the 1st time in awhile we were takin a benchmark test we both were the last ones to finish cuz we kept on talkin and helping eachother out XD and we wfinished 1 minute before the bell haha it was fun talking to her =)and idk if this means anything but when we were talking on myspace she kept on putting at the end of her messages =)

  437. some guy

    On April 29, 2009 at 1:01 am

    idk if this means anything but when we were talking on myspace she kept on putting at the end of her messages =)

  438. epoh

    On April 29, 2009 at 3:32 pm

    Haha! It sounds like she likes you some guy :) I think she thinks of you as maybe more than just a friend!
    Oh, and to justin, I’m glad you like her for who she is… that’s awsome. Too bad things had to happen like that :( Like I always say though, just keep trying. Just start talking to her a little, ask a few questions about your homework or something and maybe get into a little conversation.She might change her mind about you if she gets to know you! GL!

  439. Axeman

    On April 29, 2009 at 3:59 pm

    I am not a perv

  440. Axeman

    On April 29, 2009 at 4:07 pm

    Im allowed to look I like her and i am ulmost certain she likes me back and i didnt have to ask you if she likes me because i know she likes meok epoh. Just a curious question how old r u epoh. I am sorry I got mad.

  441. Epoh

    On April 29, 2009 at 4:58 pm

    Yeah I was on an angry streak there,sorry.
    I mean, I just would feel really ticked if a guy was always looking at me…there >:(
    seriously, and no I’m not some random little kid spamming people on here. Whatever…I sorts rambled didn’t I?

  442. Axeman

    On April 29, 2009 at 5:34 pm

    I dont want you to get you freaked out i just looked quickly but I did not stare. Hey how old r u I am curious epoh and what state do you live in. Dont worry I am not a stocker I was just curious.

  443. epoh

    On April 29, 2009 at 6:10 pm

    All right… you’re forgiven…still…

    I’m nearly 15 but I’m not going to tell you where I live!!!Are you crazy????!!!

  444. Epoh

    On April 29, 2009 at 6:33 pm

    Why the heck do you want to know?!

    Anyway, this is something for Ivory to help me with:
    Ok, there is this guy in my grade and I know he has a crush on me. Now that’s all good and well…until you hear who it is. It is a guy that everyone absolutely entirely dispises, including me. He is slumpy, gross,no sense of personality, and-this might sound harsh but it’s true-he is “rather” uggglly. Ugh!he’s always staring at me and it makes me want to puke! How am I going to shake him off my back?! I don’t want to be mean but how do I drop the hint that I really really really do NOT like him AT ALL? Someone get me a barf bag now!

  445. epoh

    On April 29, 2009 at 7:05 pm

    pheeww… anyway on the brighter side, there is this guy (cute :) in my spanish class that I think likes me because I always catch him looking at me-not creepily like the other dude-

  446. epoh

    On April 29, 2009 at 7:25 pm

    and I also noticed that he gets all tense and stiff when I walk by. So… I think I might try talking to him sometime and see how it goes. It should be easier talking to him than my major crush since I wouldn’t be so nervous :) Ahhh the wonders of high school!

  447. Axeman

    On April 29, 2009 at 8:00 pm

    hey sorry about the where you live thing but I think you should start flirting with the cute guy so the one everyone dispises would get the hint that you are taken and not to interfere. This is comming from a boy and i just wanted to help, sorry if it isnt what youu expected

  448. IvorY

    On April 29, 2009 at 8:27 pm


    guess what? i once was that ugly guy with almost no sense of humor that nobody liked.
    you wanna know what made me change? a girl, that i liked but wasnt that interested on, said in a “truth or dare” thingy, “i would consider, but after a serious change.” and she wasnt talking about my looks. i gave some hard thinking about who i was and did a 180 turn. and it did help a lot.
    i started having a better sense of humor, and in a few weeks i was the guy loved by all.

    now, the best way to give the subliminal message to the other guy is not to ignore him, that will only make him feel bad. just see if he really is interested in you and say that you’re not interested in him.

    and one last thing. what the problem in telling where you live?? he was asking for the state, not the city… all the states are pretty big, so it would be an incredible coincidence he would find out where you’re from…

  449. epoh

    On April 29, 2009 at 8:45 pm

    Ok Ivory believe me! This guy is not like what you think… He’s… gross. Let’s put it at that. I don’t have a problem with guys that stand on the sideline, but this guy is just super yuck. I’m sorry but it’s the truth, I don’t really know how to describe him any other way. Like, in gym today we played softball and I would move around and then he would like, inch his way close to me no matter where I moved and so I wanted to whip around and just say,” Would you PLEASE stay away from me!”. He’s almost stalking me and it’s really disgusting. I was serious when I said I needed a barf bag! Oh and about the where I live thing… I didn’t mean for it to come out like that. I just don’t really think it’s a good idea K? And Axeman, I think I might take your word for it

  450. Boy

    On April 29, 2009 at 10:36 pm

    hey guys and epoh remember that girl i like that gave me that look, well when we switch classes in the morning, i guess her class is in the hall im coming out of. so recently she has been coming down the hall im coming out of instead of what ever way she use to go, she use to go down the same hall as me in the beginning of the year where i knew she liked me but im not sure if she looks at me because i dont see her until i walk by her. so does that mean anything?

  451. Boy

    On April 29, 2009 at 10:48 pm

    Also im kinda confused about this other girl ive really liked since last summer and she didnt notice me at first but as this year has gone by shes looked at me in the way she likes me. some days she would stare at me for a short time but its just so hard to tell whether or not she likes me and i think everytime she walks in my health class she looks around the room and looks at me, i think tho, im not sure its just in the corner of my eye. but today when we went outside for an activity she kept looking back or at the corner of her eye, im not sure if she was looking for her friend because recently they arent so close to each other because there not talking or standing next to ec other like they usually do. so i was wondering if she was looking at me because i was a pretty medium distance talking to my friend. If she was, what does it mean? if u guys dont understand this HUGE paragraph then ill try to rewrite it to make more sense.

  452. Fir

    On April 30, 2009 at 3:19 am

    i like your writing.little bit helps me.i like a girl but when we having conversation face to face, i felt that she wanted to look at me but she always avoid looking at me,maybe shy.shes always look at others my question is is shes like me or not?when i ask her out she have no please help me

  453. IvorY

    On April 30, 2009 at 12:15 pm

    if you two are good friends, i suggest that when she starts looking away, you can just gently make her look into your eyes. i dont know exactly how to explain, but ill try.

    you can do it with open hand or just two fingers. you very gently put your fingers on her chin and make her look at you. oh, and saying “look at me” helps too.

    this should work, and she’ll probably keep looking at you for a bit.

    when you notice she wants to look at you, its probably true, and she looks away to see if you really are interested. its kinda their way to test us…
    epoh might say a few other things, and can help you a bit more.

  454. epoh

    On April 30, 2009 at 2:53 pm

    hmmm… if you two are close enough friends, you COULD try what Ivory said, gently turning her face towards you. But… that could be a dangerous move if you don’t know each other very well yet. I would try to just ease into it, like, get into a conversation and when she hasn’t been looking at you for a while, just ask quietly, “Why are you afraid to look at me”. Don’t say it very loud because then it might come out too harsh sounding,so-as weird as this sounds- you might want to try and practice saying it. She definitely likes you… this is from personal experience but it applies to almost all girls: It’s extremely hard to look your major crush in the eyes when you know they are looking back… it just has to happen subconsciously. The best of luck to you! I hope I helped a bit :)

  455. epoh

    On May 1, 2009 at 9:45 pm

    Haha! Jazz (his nickname) is such a goofball! Today after lunch I passed him and he was goofing around and he did this sort of waddle run… I nearly died!Chehe! Then at the end of the day I was waiting in the hallway for the bell to ring and he and his friend went by and suddenly both bolted for the doors(to the outside) But our gym teacher caught them, not that they would have gone anywhere, they were just joking around. All the gym teachers love him though, so he didn’t get yelled at TOO much :)
    WOW! He’s just the kind of guy you want to plow over and give a hugantic bear hug /:)
    All right you probably didn’t need to read this whole thing, but I just felt like writing sorry.

  456. justin

    On May 2, 2009 at 6:23 pm

    ok that makes me infuriated and really sad because i know i do not have a chance with her because she confirmed it because i asked her and she says she has other interests. Mabye when im like 22 or something ill call her again and ask her. you would think i would have a chance with her because i talked to her for like 2 hours on facebook and i make her laugh and she says im funny but when i tell her my feelings for her she just says “im not interested”

  457. epoh

    On May 2, 2009 at 6:57 pm

    Wow… that’s tough man…
    Does she just like you as a friend???
    It’s obvious she likes you, but maybe just not in that way.
    Sorry, I don’t know what to say

  458. epoh

    On May 2, 2009 at 7:23 pm

    To Boy: sorry I didn’t reply sooner but anyway, the girl definatly likes you if she changed her route just to see you. And another thing you should know about any girl with a crush: She will always scan the area top to bottom to see if HE is there, even in the craziest of places (i.e. grocery store, the park, grandma’s house XD no seriously!)So about the other girl that looks around the room for YOU, she really does like you. You weren’t imagining it :)

  459. justin

    On May 3, 2009 at 10:53 pm

    u know what im probably just going to half to let her go because i asked her 2 times if i have a chance with her and she tells me the second time the answer is still no. she does not want to hang out with me because i asked her that to and she always tells me shes busy after school and i asked her to hang out on the weekends and she says she doesent hang out much. The only way im going to stop thinking about her is if i meet someone else who i really really like and i know they like me back. and ok im going to say this: iam in love with her i know iam, i want to be with her forever and ever and marry her and everything.


  460. justin

    On May 3, 2009 at 10:56 pm

    i dont even know if im going to experience this much love for somebody again. life sucks.

  461. Fir

    On May 4, 2009 at 3:10 am

    thank ivory and epoh for your advice.. i think i dont have guts to do what you guys told me..because she may think that i have lost my mind, or crazy and will slap my face off hehe..but do you guys have any idea how to make she like me more than a friend?

  462. epoh

    On May 4, 2009 at 6:47 am

    A word of wisdom from my sister’s ipod to justin:
    If the world didn’t suck, we’d all fall off.

  463. epoh

    On May 4, 2009 at 3:08 pm

    Yeah, I get what you mean Fir… I probably wouldn’t have the guts either. I’m pretty sure she wouldn’t slap you though :)
    As for making her like you more than a friend, I think she might think of you than more than that already. She’s setting off all the signs anyway. Maybe you could suggest doing something together, but say that she can bring some friends or someone (if she is still nervous around you)if she wants. Something simple like a bike ride or whatever would be great to ease the tension. I wouldn’t start with anything where you

  464. epoh

    On May 4, 2009 at 3:20 pm

    have to be awkwardly close and alone (dinner for two :) just because she might turn something like that down at first.

  465. epoh

    On May 4, 2009 at 3:22 pm

    One of you is going to have to make the first move sooner or later. And between you and me, girls ALWAYS want the guy to make the first move…

  466. Fir

    On May 4, 2009 at 11:57 pm

    I think you right,i should start first, i must be gentlemen but do you know i have done something wrong to her, i have sent her an scary email. this email is so terrified,for your information it is about ghost and corpse and right now she’s never replied my email and message.i think she mad at me,really2x how am i going to ask her out this Saturday.very confusing me.

  467. Fir

    On May 5, 2009 at 12:05 am

    one more thing epoh, there is another girl who like me very much, but i cannot accept her because i like/love someone else(my bestfriend which i have mention to you last message)..what im confused is how am i going to choose which one is the one for me?for your information the girl that i like have a boyfriends.

  468. epoh

    On May 5, 2009 at 6:39 am

    hmmm… well in replying for your first message, I don’t see why she would be mad at you for the email. Aren’t those just supposed to be funny??? But if she really is mad when you see her, I’d let it settle down for a couple days. Things should be all right for you on saturday. woops! Gotta go. I’ll write more later!

  469. poopyman

    On May 5, 2009 at 8:18 pm

    so thers this girl in my class her name is jamie she’s pretty and shes always staring at me were friends and we text and email each other and she likes me and i sorta like her so wut should i do

  470. Boy

    On May 7, 2009 at 1:46 am

    oh hey theres this girl that transfered into my class and shes really cute in my opinion and i noticed that this whole week shes been giving these long looks when im not looking bc i can c from the side and she brushes her hair with her hand while looking in my direction. but i mean she just looks at me at least 4 times i think, and then thats it. but other than that theres no more signs, and i cant talk to her bc we’re in groups and we r doing some project only with group members. so i cant ask like whats for hw or even go up to her and ask a question bc we have different assignments on the project and it would seem random and weird, and she just transfered like last thurs or i dunno, and my school ends in 2 weeks and i wana get like her # or something to chat over summer and get to know each other, so what do u think i should do? Oh wait theres just this week and next week of a full school day and then a week of finals so theres really just 1 week to get her email or #, so i guess im pretty skrewd here huh? lol dangit if only i had just seen her around school b4, man i h8 how i see all these beautiful girls at the last minute/end of school year :(

  471. epoh

    On May 7, 2009 at 6:44 am

    Haha! I know! I hate it when that happens :) Why do guys get so much cuter at the end of school? Just kidding (well…sorta). If it were me, I’d get any excuse to have a chance to talk with her. Maybe if she ever goes up to go to the bathroom or something, you could ask at the same time and just walk down the hall with her, introduce yourself and stuff. Maybe that’s a dumb way to do it but… I dunno. I’ll cross my fingers for you okay?

  472. Boy

    On May 7, 2009 at 6:08 pm

    haha ok then, thanks.

  473. epoh

    On May 7, 2009 at 8:17 pm

    :) Ok, this is way off topic but it’s something you might find interesting about girls: Whenever we hear a song, any and every song for that matter, we try to relate it to our relationship with the guy we love.

  474. IvorY

    On May 7, 2009 at 8:36 pm

    well then, the girls that hear the songs i hear wont like it much….xD

    and btw epoh, its not off topic. its something that makes sense and that may help to some relations.

  475. Boy

    On May 8, 2009 at 1:34 am

    ok today was weird bc i was dissecting a frog with 2 girl lab partners, they happen to laugh at all my jokes and look at me a lot more than usual. As that was going on i looked to my right to see what other people were doing and then i noticed that the girl i liked was looking at me. Then another girl that i think is pretty attractive came over and asked us where some organs were, and she smiled at me and tried to not look at me as much. so then i go to my next class where the girl i really like is in and she wasnt really looking at me at all. so i went to go sharpen my pencil and i had a feeling she was looking at me so i turned around and her upper body was towards my direction and once she saw me turn around she turned her away. and i then thought, wow she was looking for me or at least looked at me lol. so howcome she doesnt show much affection towards me, i mean she isnt shy, and shes always happy. btw srry for this long msg bc this site take like half a minute for me to load bc of all these comments

  476. Boy

    On May 8, 2009 at 1:42 am

    i mean that was the most happiest day i had all month, i literally got attention from 9 to 10 girls that day that smiled or looked at me. so how come that happened bc i had nothing on my face and i looked the same as every day, they still notice me just not as much as that day. Man, girls sure can be a mystery, which can sometimes make the affection game fun, for me at least…

  477. epoh

    On May 8, 2009 at 6:43 am

    Hehe! Wow Boy, you must know how to reel ‘em in don’t you? Well about the girl you like, she might have been a bit jealous that you were talking with all the other girls… and she probably is only shy around you because she REALLY REALLY likes you. Man, that girl sounds like me!!! Hmmm, something fishy is going on though…were any of the girls that came and talked to you her friends?

  478. Boy

    On May 9, 2009 at 2:03 am

    What nah thers no way she really likes me, I actually really like her but those girls weren’t her friends and the girl I really like is in the class after my biology class with all those girls. But this morning in the hall, as I was going to my class I saw her coming towards me to get by and she gave me a quick glance and then gave a long -checking me out- look as she passed right next to me. I mean that was the look, lol she really made my day with her beautiful face, smile, blue eyes, brown hair, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her all day. I just wanted to get that off my chest.

  479. epoh

    On May 9, 2009 at 10:53 am

    Yeah, I love it when that happens! I mean, “the look”.
    Doesn’t it make you want to scream out,” Good God! How could someone be so incredibly,so perfectly beautiful!” ???
    I know you don’t believe me, but I seriously think the likes you!

  480. epoh

    On May 9, 2009 at 10:54 am

    I meant she.

  481. Boy

    On May 10, 2009 at 3:33 am

    Ya lol I no, the look huh. But ya I just can’t believe it until I see her more, gosh I gotta talk to her.

  482. epoh

    On May 11, 2009 at 2:54 pm

    Gah! Today was soooo worth the wait of getting through! Ok at the end of the day I was going to gym and I saw him coming so I sorta half put my head down because I didn’t know where to look. Then I felt his eyes on me and I was like “oh come on epoh(my name isn’t epoh :) you HAVE to look up!” so I did and we looking into each other’s

  483. epoh

    On May 11, 2009 at 3:03 pm

    eyes for a moment and then I looked away. All while this was happening my legs and arms went completely numb and I forgot how to walk! I’m not even exaggerating! Great mother of the EARTH his eyes are beautiful! Sorry if I’m freaking you guys out, but…AHHHHH!!!!!!

  484. Boy

    On May 12, 2009 at 12:38 am

    lol yup i love when that happens to me too! where i meet eyes with the girls i like. From my point of view it seems he has interest in you for sure because if u saw him coming and u put ur head down u cant see whats going on up ahead of u and he most likely was looking at u from when u put ur head down. Plus he was still looking at u and locked eye contact with u, its so obvious, because why would he look at some1 he doesnt like for a long time until he made eye contact with them, u no, also smile most of the time. Because if u do that, he can only get 2 thoughts, either u have some interest in him or ur just happy and wanted to smile. Smile most of the time tho not all the time. Because if u do that, not only will he probably like u more but ur making it easier for him to make the first move, which is what u want, right? Btw what color r his eyes, just curious?

  485. Boy

    On May 12, 2009 at 12:52 am

    oh hey epoh when he passes by u should try looking benhind u to see if he looks back, if he does thats another hint that he likes u, if he doesnt then oh well because then he probably isnt the type that does that, some boys look back some dont. Just like girls, some girls put there head down,some dont.

  486. epoh

    On May 12, 2009 at 6:28 am

    :) His eyes are green (I’m pretty sure)… just like mine!
    And yeah, I have smiled when he passed, but not directly to him so I’ll try to do it. We have the same lunch period today anyway.
    The only problem is that there’s only 16 days left of school!!!
    Hrrr… hopefully we’ll have the same Spanish class next year because we’re both in Spanish I this year.
    OH I’m so nervous!!!!

  487. epoh

    On May 12, 2009 at 6:32 am

    P.S. Blue eyes are over-rated. :}

    Blue is good though…

  488. Boy

    On May 12, 2009 at 12:21 pm

    Lol tru but I never seen blue eyes & brown hair b4, usually blonde hair & blue eyes but ya…

  489. epoh

    On May 12, 2009 at 2:37 pm

    What do you mean?

  490. Boy

    On May 12, 2009 at 4:28 pm

    I mean that I usually see girls that have blonde hair have blue eyes and girls that have brown hair usually have black/brown eyes but this girl has brown hair and blue eyes.

  491. epoh

    On May 12, 2009 at 7:18 pm

    Shoot! I so stupidly sick of not knowing if he likes me… I passed him a lot today and each time I felt him glance at me for a second, but I can’t be sure because I never met his eyes. Then at the end of the day I told myself I would look him in the eye even if he was looking back and so I did but then he wasn’t looking at me. He has got to know I like him! It’s pretty obvious! AARRR!!!!
    I wish I had enough guts to just run up to him and yell out,”I LOVE YOU JAS!!!” I would never do that of course. It would scare him big time anyway :) HELP!!!! (Who knew love was so painful

  492. Boy

    On May 13, 2009 at 12:35 am

    OK wow i really hate the ipod touch! I couldnt type meassages on my computer because its old. So I just typed u epoh, a message that took me 30min on my ipodtouch and once i hit submit, the ipod crashed. lol Ok well u said u walked by him a lot today right? So he probably saw u from a far distance every time and got the thought that u have interest in him and he is playing the cat and mouse game. As of right now ur the cat and hes the mouse.Compared to before where u were the mouse and he was the cat that tried to catch ur attention but it was kinda hard because u would ignore him by putting ur head down or something. but lil by lil he caught ur attention by making eye contact with u. and lil by lil the game started to switch around until now where ur the cat and hes the mouse. Now i could be wrong but i could be right. It may not be the best advice on what to do but i would avoid him(kinda not be seen by him at all) for 2 days and on the third day i would make myself visible and see his reaction. Because usually when some1 likes some1 and doesnt see them for 2 days or whenevr they miss them and once they see them come back they have a happy expression or something that shows interest like eye contact or something around there. but now would be a good time to have Ivory help us out as well… haha

  493. epoh

    On May 13, 2009 at 6:21 am

    My sister has an ipod touch too and yeah, it takes FOREVER to type on. Personally I’m not sure about the cat and mouse thing. I think I was the cat from the beginning that was (and possibly still is) hiding in the corner from the mouse. I’m tired of hiding in that corner! I wish someone would just come up and slap me in the face and say,”Pull yourself together! Let him know, one way or another, how you feel!”
    Your a great help Boy, but there really isn’t much I can do to “avoid” him. I mean, I’ve got to go to gym :)

    And yeah, where the heck has Ivory been lately???

  494. IvorY

    On May 13, 2009 at 8:56 am

    i know nothing about Ipods… never had one, and im not planing to have one.

    and for those who follow my advices, i’ve jjust been very busy… but, if it makes you happy, i’ve been watching your comments and i’ve been on top of the situation.

    but, honnestly, i really dont know what you want me to say…
    you want me to talk more about the cat mouse game? i already did..
    you want me to slap you in the face (epoh), and tell you to tell him how you feel? i’ve already did…

    epoh, you need to start thinking a bit outside the box… put yourself in his position, think how he thinks, feel like him.
    not much more i can say…

    you want a good pickup line? “A smile says more than a thousand words… and i just love yours…”

  495. Boy

    On May 13, 2009 at 8:33 pm

    well then, Amen, lol. Oh and great news, the girl i really really like really looked at me a lot today, god im happy. My whole attitude and personality has changed in a good way ever since she started paying attention to me. But i only have 1 week and 2 days of school left!:( So then i only have 3 more class periods with her… but other good news is that i get my yearbook this friday! God i wish she had notice me in the begining of the year. Everything good always happens near the end… :(

  496. epoh

    On May 13, 2009 at 10:04 pm

    Haha! That’s so awesome! I’m really glad she started taking notice of you! It is a shame there’s so little time left though :(
    I’m starting to get the feeling that Jazz is finally noticing ME too, but so late in the year… oh well, better now than never right? Best of luck to you!

  497. Boy

    On May 14, 2009 at 12:39 am

    lol thats good, thanks u too!

  498. epoh

    On May 15, 2009 at 8:07 pm

    okay something interesting happened today and I need to hear what you guys think: In gym we ran a mile and a quarter and after we could go inside to the gymnastics room (I did of course). So, outside the locker rooms there is this bulletin board

  499. epoh

    On May 15, 2009 at 8:18 pm

    that has a bunch of pictures of the advanced gymnastics team and Jas is in it. Now, when I came in the building I was about 10 ft from that bulletin and HE went up “to look at the pictures”, but some vibe told me that wasn’t REALLY why. And when I passed him(rather closely), he sorta shifted his weight like he was going to start walking but decided against it… Do you think this had something to do with me??? There was no other girls really near by the way. I dunno… it just gave me that sort of feeling.
    I got to gawk at him doing flips on the bars too :) He’s really good!!! Tell me your opinion! sorry for the long post

  500. eric

    On May 16, 2009 at 1:51 am

    i was about to ask out this girl but then i found that she was moving now my life sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  501. eric

    On May 16, 2009 at 1:59 am

    i loved her so much and also she was realy hot and think she likes me the only time i will see her again is on graduation witch is 5-20-09 man i love her she is moving like 3 conteys away

  502. jim

    On May 17, 2009 at 1:37 am

    she hot but i dont no what to say i just muter you cant wait 4 days cmon but i do see 1 min eye contacts and she moving 4 ever to california

  503. epoh

    On May 17, 2009 at 2:49 pm

    I have absolutely no clue what you just said…

    Where is everyone???

  504. Boy

    On May 18, 2009 at 12:48 am

    lol, sorry i was busy makin a facebook account so that i can add friends and then later add the girl i really like and chat with her over summer. Anyways perhaps he wanted to walk by you to get your attention at first but then he didnt want to reveal any feelings for you, thats my guess. Seems like things are flowing. btw how many days of school do you have left?

  505. epoh

    On May 18, 2009 at 6:22 am

    13 days I think… and things ARE going nicely, but there are a couple bumps. Ok, here’s the picture in terms of cat and mouse (seeing as we always seem to go back to that). I’m the cat, there are two dogs chasing me. One of them is quiet and keeps his distance, he’s afraid of my claws. The other is a big lumbering ugly drooling bulldog who won’t leave me to myself even if I DO give him my claws. But at the same time, I’m “chasing” a mouse. I too keep my distance, but I send all the signals. The mouse is finally starting to notice, possibly starting to inch a little closer to me

  506. epoh

    On May 18, 2009 at 6:25 am

    sorry if you didn’t understand that

  507. epoh

    On May 18, 2009 at 3:16 pm

    Okay good news guys! Today I was going to English when he passed. I knew he was coming so I turned my head just enough so I could still see him out of the corner of my eye. As we went by each other he literally turned his head 90 degrees, looking at me the entire time. That made my day! Then at the end of the day I came out of the locker rooms to talk to a friend and I just glanced in the health room (which is sort of a ways away) so as I might catch a glimpse, but my heart leapt when I saw him looking back! I’m actually starting to believe myself when I say he might like me!!!!! Anything interesting happen with you??

  508. Boy

    On May 18, 2009 at 7:56 pm

    Im glad u asked, i acutally came face to face contact with her! Ok so it goes likes this, when she came in the class i was standing by the door talking with my friends. She ignored my friends and made eye contact with me but tried to look away but her eyes couldnt help it. So as we were like 30 min. into class i saw here talknig with her friend and checking me out but tryin to disguise it. After class was over she was talking with the teacher about the finals. So i waited for her disguising it by asking ppl to sign my yearbook. As i was looking at my yearbook getting signed she stopped and started talking with her other friend that happen to be close by. I got the feeling that she was looking at me but i didnt want to look up bc i was nervous lol.

  509. Boy

    On May 18, 2009 at 8:07 pm

    So then she started to leave to go to her next class and walked by her where she usually waits outside and talks. She was checking me out again but with her friend. Also later that day once school ended, i was walking back to my locker and met up with an old teacher of mine and made jokes that made us both laugh. And i kept thinking about them and didnt notice that i was smiling all the way down the hall and was kinda daydreaming. Until i ran into her and she looked at me and her eyes dilated and she noticed that i was looking at her and smiling so she nervously smiled and walked by me to get pass the crowd. Now that made my day byond all her other looks she has given me! That was the 1 meaningful look that really ment some interest.

  510. Boy

    On May 18, 2009 at 8:11 pm

    Oh my god! My last day with her is tomorow and its when i take the final! No! why does something good have to happen in the last minute, Ivory, Epoh, anyway have any idea on how to get her email or somethin in 1 day?

  511. epoh

    On May 18, 2009 at 9:17 pm

    Wow! Sounds like we both had a VERY good day! :) I always find myself subconsciously smiling too when people have no idea why, so your not alone.
    Now on to the subject of getting her email/phone, I would try asking her to sign your yearbook tomorrow… that would be the easiest way (even though it would still take some guts). If she doesn’t write her phone on it, try asking quickly, “Hey, um… do you have an email or something?”. Sorry if that’s too nerve wracking for you, but that’s the only way I can think of getting her email in one day, since you guys haven’t gotten to know each other yet. Oh and if you DO work it up to do that, don’t forget the,”um”. It’ll make her feel better knowing that your nervous too. Trust me, girls love it. I know it’ll be extremely scary, but once it’s done it’s done and then you won’t be dreaming about what might have been all summer at least. I don’t know what more to say, maybe Ivory has a better idea?

  512. Boy

    On May 18, 2009 at 10:06 pm

    What! but oh my god… that takes so much guts which i dont have, especially if its the girl i really like. Plus shes always by her best friend. I would do it if i wasnt so afraid of rejection, i dunno which would be better not asking or getting a a chance of rejection or a her email. I dunno im thinknig real hard about doing it. Ivory u got any ideas?

  513. Boy

    On May 18, 2009 at 10:18 pm

    what if she kinda lifts her eyebrows and looks at me weird and says sorry . I mean thats in fornt of every1 that would see and hear that major rejection, and to ask her of her email, man that is hard but it sure is an option that i might take if i have too.

  514. Boy

    On May 18, 2009 at 10:22 pm

    u no she might say sorry but i dont know you or says no thanks… man that would break my heart, just that… lol man im so nervous! =(

  515. epoh

    On May 19, 2009 at 6:34 am

    OKAY listen to me boy! I’m telling you right now that she would NOT give you a weird look, especially if she likes which is obvious she DOES!!! You just gotta hold your breath and take the plunge or else you’ll be regretting it all summer. The only thing that could happen is she’ll just say she can’t give you her phone/email, but do NOT, whatever you do, take that as rejection! You can’t just be going off of “what if this happens or that”, and I mean, I know I shouldn’t be talking because I’m not very brave either, but I know you have it in you. There was this song I used to listen to a lot and some of the lyrics were: “I’m gonna muster every ounce of confidence I have, but for her I will. I’m gonna cannon-ball into the water, but for her I will. For her I will.” I’m begging you to muster every ounce of confidence you have now… you’ve GOT to try. Extra Good Luck!

  516. Boy

    On May 19, 2009 at 8:15 am

    lol okay… im gonna do this today! I got this :)

  517. Boy

    On May 19, 2009 at 4:35 pm

    Ok so today went…. okay. Ok so we finished our final in like 30mins, it was that easy and so we had about an hour to just chill and talk. So the entire hour i was sitting down talking with my friend and looking at the yearbook. I noticed that she sat by me about 30 ft and she could only see the side of my face so she moved back far away to get a better look at my face. I was watching all of this and was curious that i could actually do this and ask her. Then she moved like almost across to look at my face but i wasnt paying much attention bc i was kinda nervous to look up at her. And then i really wasnt paying attention for like 5min and after i looked to my right and shes 6 ft away from me talking with some of my friends but sitting practicly close enough to look at my face. When i saw her i was like, wow she is really close and wants my attention. It look like she was going to do what i was going to do, ask to sign the yearbook but i could have been wrong. But man i was nervous to look at her bc she was so close. But i still couldnt help it and looked up at her to my right and we made eye contact bout 2 times when i looked.

  518. Boy

    On May 19, 2009 at 4:46 pm

    So she basicly looked at me the whole period, i just realized that now. But the thing is,i couldnt do it, i wussied out! But even after the class was over i waited for her at the end of the door and looked at her one more time and she saw me and i left. Also i waited to get picked up by my friend for 30min and as i was walking i saw her coming my way and then she cross diagonal from me and looked at me 1 last time also… i kinda regret not looking at her a lot bc if i did she would have more confidence than me and probably asked me to sign hers. i also kinda regret not about not asking her to sign my year book but i dunno i might see her in summer school like i did last year, thats when i first set eyes on her :) i dunno what i feel right now, im like “duh” right now just confused lol, ahhh im lost right now!

  519. epoh

    On May 19, 2009 at 9:02 pm

    Shoot! That’s too bad :( Aww well, maybe you’re right, maybe you’ll see her in summer school and stuff. Don’t worry about it. I would’ve done the same… seriously. There’s always next year right? Who knows, you might catch her in the hallway too and oh yeah, that song is called “For You I Will” just so you know.

  520. Boy

    On May 19, 2009 at 9:49 pm

    Ok ill check that out but yah thanks for the advice. I was kinda hoping she would send me a msg on myspace or facebook, lol but just a day dream…

  521. Boy

    On May 19, 2009 at 11:09 pm

    Ok i have it now, i have the guts to go to her tomorow if i c her and ask her! God i cant wait till tomorow!

  522. epoh

    On May 20, 2009 at 6:13 am

    That’s a Boy! Haha just kidding, I hope I didn’t scare you, I just had to say that ;)
    But seriously, I’m really glad you changed your mind. I hope for it to all go well!

  523. Boy

    On May 20, 2009 at 9:47 pm

    Dang, well i didnt see her at all today! :( so i dunno its almost friday and thats the last day and then i have a week of a break and i got back to school for summer school, lol. But i gotta get her attention and have her know i have feelings for her by having her sign my yearbook or something…

  524. epoh

    On May 20, 2009 at 10:20 pm

    Hrrr… yeah, you might see her tomorrow. I’m contemplating giving Jasper a bit of a smile tomorrow. Directly to HIM and no one else.
    I dunno, I’ll probably chicken out

  525. Boy

    On May 21, 2009 at 1:45 am

    Awe cmon a smile is easy. Asking the person to sign a yearbook is hard and possibly asking them 4 their e mail as well

  526. epoh

    On May 21, 2009 at 6:17 am

    Hehe! Yeah, I know it’s extremely easy compared to what you’re doing, but still it makes me nervous :) All right. I AM GOING TO DO THIS! JUST TAKE A DEEP BREATH, LOOK HIM IN THE EYE, AND JUST… SMILE LIKE HECK!!!!!!!!!! Sorry, I needed a self-pep-talk. Wow… we’re talking about the guy who just hearing his name makes me weak kneed. Pheewww… okay I’m ready. I WILL do this! Oh,and I hope you see her today too.

  527. someone

    On May 21, 2009 at 8:19 pm

    wat happens if girl like to tell u that she
    likes you but she tell it in front of her boyfriend
    wat does it mean

  528. someone

    On May 21, 2009 at 8:26 pm

    to Respone to Eric:
    i know how it feels to have a crush on someone and the next
    thing they move to another place that sucks

  529. epoh

    On May 22, 2009 at 6:27 am

    Yeah I chickened out. Well actually, not really because I never really had the opportunity to smile at him because each time he passed 1. He wasn’t looking my way 2.He came so fast and suddenly that by the time I realized it was him, he was well far behind me.
    So, I’ll try again today since all we’re doing is walking around school ground with yearbooks and stuff. I don’t have a yearbook so I can’t do what you’re doing boy (not that I’d have the guts to do it anyway). Oh well, I’m feeling pretty good about today.

  530. Boy

    On May 22, 2009 at 5:19 pm

    lol ya i no what u mean, it is kinda is hard to look at them and smile. but today i finally saw her right when i was about to give up and just go sit on the bench and wait for my friend to pick me up. She came out of the building where i guess she finished her final and i was going to smile and say hi but she with at least 5 of her friends. So i coldn’t do it plus i didnt bring my yearbook today bc i was thinking i wouldn’t see her today but i was wrong. But she was looking at me with glances and stuff, so i decided to stand there and act like i was waiting there for someone and i was kinda smiling but i wasnt looking at her. then when she got in the car with her friends she looked back at me as she was leaving the parking lot… but it sucks that today was the last day of school in my opinion. but then i gota go back to school in 2 weeks for summer school, i hope she is too.

  531. Boy

    On May 22, 2009 at 5:35 pm

    I really hope u and jas, right? get together or become friends whatever u want. i just hope u do something b4 anything is too late, good luck! ;)

  532. epoh

    On May 22, 2009 at 6:09 pm

    Yeah, Jasper (Jas for short). I didn’t see him today (about half the school skipped since all we did all day was mosey around the school grounds). It’s too bad because I was actually feeling strangely brave all day. I felt like if I saw him, not only would I smile, I would say,”Hey, Jasper!”. Well of course, in the spur of the moment I wouldn’t work it up to do that, but I felt strong enough to do it. Weird, huh? Anyway, even though you never got a chance to say something to her, at least she gave you that one last look to think about =) I hope you guys get to know each other too!

  533. chris

    On May 22, 2009 at 6:50 pm

    Hello guys. Well we have two weeks of school left, and she keeps staring at me and stuff!! Today she stared at me so much!! I dont know why she would reject me, so what should I do before school ends???

  534. epoh

    On May 22, 2009 at 7:27 pm

    Chris: Sounds like your in a bit of the same boat that Boy was, so maybe it would do you some good to read up on his and my posts, it might help. It all depends on what type of person you are. Are you shy or outgoing? Would be brave enough to go and talk to her? I need to get an idea about what personality you are before I can help you.

  535. chris

    On May 23, 2009 at 10:14 am

    Well Im a shy guy, but I already told her I like her. Im planning on talking with her next week about all this..

  536. epoh

    On May 23, 2009 at 1:09 pm

    Well if you were already brave enough to tell that you like her, then I don’t see what you want me to tell you. Just have a conversation with her, get to know her. If she likes you, you’ll know (it seems she already does anyway) so it shouldn’t be too bad :) .

  537. hottyboy

    On May 23, 2009 at 7:24 pm

    i think this girl likes me cuz once when we were hanging out in my backyard she took my shirt off for me so yeah im happy i like her back

  538. cutegirl

    On May 26, 2009 at 8:18 pm

    i read this and itz so true girls are like this and girls love it when a guy smells good…thumbs up on the work…:) a girl lol

  539. epoh

    On May 27, 2009 at 6:11 am

    Yeah it’s nice when guys smell good, but too often (gak) they seemingly pour on half a gallon of cologne. Not good. Luckily guys get a little more talented with putting on the right amount by high school :)

  540. IvorY

    On May 27, 2009 at 9:25 am

    personnally i find a bit hard to know wich cologne to use… i always think if i should wear a cologne i like, or a cologne she’d like…

    anyways, its good to see that ya’ll are doing fine without me.
    some of you are still a bit afraid of taking the first step, but you’ll see that its all simple and that once you do it, everything will become smoother and words will just pour out of your mouth (in the good way).

  541. CHILLU

    On May 28, 2009 at 4:57 am


  542. menor

    On May 29, 2009 at 1:54 pm

    hope it works… :D

  543. Boy

    On May 30, 2009 at 12:29 am

    Ok it’s almost Monday till I start summer school, I hope I c her bc I blew it on the last day with her by not talking to her… Man I’m so nervous for monday!!!

  544. epoh

    On May 30, 2009 at 11:32 am

    Heh :) you have a right to be nervous… I would be! It’s probably gonna get pretty quiet on here during the summer but I’ll try to check up on here so keep me updated if anything happens, all right?
    Aww man… there’s only 4 days left, and seriously I was starting to think he’s actually noticing me. Like, for the last two days he has been going routes that he NEVER has taken before and his “new” routes crossed with my routes. I dunno, it happened 3 times each day where he passed me in places where I really wasn’t expecting it, he just sorta popped up out of nowhere. I hope he’s in my math class next year!

  545. Boy

    On May 30, 2009 at 2:09 pm

    Ya sure I’ll keep u updated for anything that goes on.

  546. Boy

    On June 2, 2009 at 4:08 pm

    Well today was the second day of summer school and i didnt really look around for her bc i was distracted with my friends. So i still dont know if shes going to summer school i have a feeling she isnt so i’ll still see this week…

  547. epoh

    On June 2, 2009 at 9:27 pm

    Ugh! That sucks… but at least you’re not alone. I won’t be seeing him till next year either. Things haven’t been going as great as I had hoped, but oh well…next year, right?

  548. Boy

    On June 3, 2009 at 8:36 am


  549. epoh

    On June 4, 2009 at 6:41 am

    Ugh! Today’s my last day!!!>:(
    Wish me luck! OH and if you don’t write over the summer, can I count on you being back when school starts up again???

  550. IvorY

    On June 4, 2009 at 11:01 am

    tell you waht, if you come back by the end of the summer, we’ll still welcome you. at least ill be here.

    and dont worry, sometimes when you least expect, good/awesome things will happen. every now and then, something good has to happen to us all.

  551. epoh

    On June 4, 2009 at 6:27 pm

    Thanks Ivory… I’ll probably be back. But if you think something good happens to us all sooner or later… well then I guess today wasn’t that day. It was awful. What a way to start the summer eh?

  552. epoh

    On June 4, 2009 at 6:28 pm

    You guys take care.

  553. epoh

    On June 7, 2009 at 6:30 pm

    I’ve been thinking… If life be measured by how many moments take your breath away, then would I be right to say that HE has made my life measurable? Just a though I got from reading a quote. Sorry, girls a wierd like that.

  554. IvorY

    On June 8, 2009 at 9:42 am

    if you want to measure life like that, then yes, you life might be measurable….
    BUT you have to remember, you’re still young, we all are, life is only at the very beginning, so its a little soon to start measuring it.

    there will be plenty of breath taking moments in the future, so dont stop in this moment. if you do so, you will miss alot of things…

  555. epoh

    On June 10, 2009 at 11:17 am

    You are right of course… I didn’t mean to make it sound as if he’s the only thing (or person) that takes my breath away. I do have a life you know :) it’s just that, seeing as this is a site about that sort of thing. I sure do hope their will be many more breathtaking moments in my life, for whatever reason. Cheers!

  556. Gogs

    On June 18, 2009 at 9:55 am

    This is absolute nonsense. I cannot beleive a thing you wrote here

  557. epoh

    On June 22, 2009 at 11:33 am

    No gogs, these aren’t nonsense at all. In fact, almost all of them are true to a lot of girls. I should know. I am one :)

  558. Canali

    On June 23, 2009 at 3:44 pm

    wow, now i know she likes me…and i like her…but it was at a tennis camp and she left for a week, i hope she comes back, then, ill check if she does like me. thanks for the tips, keep it up!

  559. geoge

    On June 27, 2009 at 6:13 am

    i go to an all boys school and the only way that i can see girls is on the train, I have only just plucked up the courage to sit with ome girls on the train and i think one of them likes me becoz she keeps laughing at everything i say, wot shud i do

  560. epoh

    On July 1, 2009 at 3:42 pm

    You don’t know what you’re missing geoge :) First of all, if you haven’t done so already, I’d learn the names of all of them, and let them know yours. I don’t really know what more to say, just get to know them and stuff (talk particularly to the girl who might like you) and things should go from there.

  561. John

    On July 10, 2009 at 12:02 pm

    I’m 14 and Yeah I also like a Girl but her friends hate me and they say she hates me but she blushes stares and plays with her hair etc I also crashed into her once and she looked down at the ground and not at me and she didn’t say excuse me or can u move etc

    Me + her were at this party and I went over to talk to some of my friends who were girls and I notice that she repeatedly kept on looking back at me and Some of the Girls I was talking to

    Her Friends gave me her screen name and i imed her and she told me that she doesn’t like me and she recognized me as the “guy” in her class…….

    Also she never talks to me I will have to go up to her and start talking to her…

  562. Boy

    On July 12, 2009 at 9:37 pm

    Thats a good idea because she seems shy and the only way to get her to open up is to get her attention and talk to her and to earn her trust. In my opinion i think she likes you from the info you’ve given. So just try getting to know her better.

  563. sporty

    On July 14, 2009 at 7:26 pm

    ok so theres this girl that goes to my school, i like her and she likes me, but she doesnt want a boyfriend yet, and she likes another guy, and were like best buds almost haha, anyways i think she likes him more than me,i dont get it…and im tryin to get her as a girlfriend, you know, what should i do….please help me!!!

  564. sporty

    On July 14, 2009 at 7:31 pm

    and i dont know what to text to her about…or talk to her about…please somebody respond

  565. sporty

    On July 17, 2009 at 2:43 pm

    how come no one resonded i need help badly

  566. epoh

    On July 17, 2009 at 4:55 pm

    Sorry I haven’t been here for a while. So, to John, she likes you. If she kept on looking over her shoulder at you that’s a definite yes. She wouldn’t go through the trouble of it if she didn’t really like you. And to sporty now, if she wants to ask the other guy she likes out, let her. As hard as that may be, she will respect you a lot for it (if not now, then later on) and it might help her realize that you are more of the guy for her. Just let it play out and try to be patient with her. I’m sure you guys will eventually get together:)

  567. unnamed

    On July 18, 2009 at 11:36 am

    im a 4th year high skul student that means im graduating this see i like this girl named steph since 3rd year but i have 2 problems …1st im not that very good with girls ,,,another is that im linked with her best friend that i think who likes me and all their friends always tease me to her best friend and they think that i like her best friend which is not right and they dont know that i like steph very much and have feelings for her..before i graduate this year i want steph to know that i like her so much and have so many feelings for her..before its too late i want her to know that….any advice

  568. IvorY

    On July 22, 2009 at 8:24 pm

    Im sorry, but its time for me to abandon this project. Its been some good 6 months with nearly 250 of my posts and many others with your questions and requests for help.

    Im sorry i cant go into many details, but its mainly due to personal issues.

    I thank all of you that have helped me answering and thank you too to those that have asked for my advices and help.

    This site wont be closed by me, nor i know when or if it will be shut down.

    Once again, thank you, with a special thanks to epoh.

    May you all continue to do a great work and may your life have the greatest moments with all the joy and happiness you need.

    Peace out.

  569. roull

    On July 25, 2009 at 6:28 am

    is this true because there’s a girl who always talks to me and she exchange sit with my classmate in my front and always talks to me and she ask me if i have guys to hang out on recess and said no and she said i must come with them is that mean she likes me answer me

  570. LoVE

    On August 15, 2009 at 10:32 am

    PLEASE I NEED HELP AND ADVICE……this is the situation….. im a 4th year high school student… see there is a girl whom i like since 3rd year high school(im sorry but i cant say the name) and i just knew last week that she sorta likes me too because my best friend told me that the girl whom i like told him that that she likes me and suddenly just dreamt about me which also happens to me sometimes about her….. so after that i really have fallen for her….but this is my problem whenever i see her in school i become shy….like this one day when i gone up late to school and rushed i suddenly passed by her in the corridor and she sorta looks at me and i just looked back for i quite……..and now my best friend gave me the girl’s number to me and its in my cellphone for 3 days now and still not texting the girl…because i dont know what to text her,tell her,etc…please give my advice …tnx

  571. epoh

    On August 31, 2009 at 10:19 am

    Okay…We have just a week until school :( . I might not go here a lot anymore because, well, things have changed a lot over the summer and I think it would be best not to get in so deep anymore. Summer has really cleared my head, made me rethink everything… I was a little too over the top about it all last year. WAY over the top actually. So anyways, I’ll be seeing you guys (maybe not too soon)

  572. epoh

    On August 31, 2009 at 10:25 am

    One more thing, it was a stupid thing to give him the nickname “Jas”. I don’t know how much more dumb I could get… oh well.

  573. Boy

    On September 21, 2009 at 1:54 am

    Hey epoh!! its me again im back yeah long time no talk but man i\’ve missed a whole lot! but hey guess what that girl and i have really gotten to know each other thanks to facebook! :) man its just great i have a feeling shes going to be my girlfriend this year hopefully real soon. oh umm did something go wrong with the guy you liked btw because it seems like it and if you don\’t want to talk about it thats cool.

  574. epoh

    On September 29, 2009 at 10:41 pm

    Great seeing you on here again boy! Sounds like you’ve had good luck… it’s awsome that you got to know her (and I’m sure you’re right about the girlfriend thing ;) )
    And about “the guy” … let’s just say I got too tangled up.
    Aww well, time heals right? :D

  575. Boy

    On October 4, 2009 at 9:08 pm

    yeah i mean we’re just talking now and so im taken it steady but i just never thought this day would come when i talk to her in person. im so glad i pushed myself tho. oh im sorry yeah you’ll be fine don’t worry it took me some time to heal from this other girl i use to like so much she was like perfect but yeah my heart was broken but i told myself i cant kepp being sad and negative like this so i just went on and bam im with this other girl well almost. but hey cheer up you got a long life ahead of you :)

  576. epoh

    On October 9, 2009 at 10:57 pm

    Thanks for the encouragement :P Say, this is a random question, but what kind of music do you listen to? Sorry if that sounds wierd, I was just wondering.

  577. Boy

    On October 10, 2009 at 1:13 am

    Yeah no problem! Hmm well i listen to just about everything except country. But i actually listen to alternative the most.

  578. epoh

    On October 11, 2009 at 1:40 am

    Haha! lol I hate country too… I guess I would say I like piano rock the best. But really in general I love any song with meaning behind it, ya know?

  579. Boy

    On October 12, 2009 at 2:33 am

    hah! piano rock? thats crazy i’ve never heard of that before! i gotta look that up to know exactly what it is ha. yeah i know what you mean. i just listen basicly to anything that sounds great. So have you already started school yet?

  580. epoh

    On October 12, 2009 at 10:56 am

    never heard of it? What about The Fray? They’re piano rock. Coldplay sometimes is too. Those are some of the better known ones… and sure, we started school September 8.
    It’s been a long month it seems like :/ But whatever. I only have to go to school for two days this week! :D

  581. epoh

    On October 12, 2009 at 11:20 am

    Did you know that Ritz brown sugar cinnamon crackers taste like bird crap smells when you have a cold? Well, I just found that out.

  582. Boy

    On October 13, 2009 at 9:55 pm

    lol ahh of course, then yeah i have heard of it. man i feel stupid haha. man i’ve been in school since august 13th! lucky i would kill a person to get 2 days this week. well not really but i would go to the extreme i need some rest and at least a couple days to relax haha :) wait what? lol it tastes like bird crap? now thats nasty, how do people know it tastes like bird crap did they actually try some one day lol.

  583. pailey

    On October 14, 2009 at 6:34 pm

    howdy ya’ll

  584. benicetogals

    On October 15, 2009 at 1:05 am

    From a guy to you other guys out there. If you want to get a girlfriend etc. there’s one thing you need to do. Treat girls as people, not as objects that can be girlfriends etc. It makes them like you more if you treat them as people, and not judging them just by their physical appearance, since I think girls prefer to focus on the emotional, rather than physical part of a relationship.

  585. epoh

    On October 15, 2009 at 12:03 pm

    Finally someone with a brain!!!!!!

  586. Boy

    On October 21, 2009 at 3:43 am

    Wo! that was the best basicly factual statement i’ve ever read! That really changed how I’m approaching the girl i like now. But man shes the best! Shes so awsome and she really likes me now! I am so f****** proud of myself for pushing! It’s like the greatest achievement i have ever done, im glad i had hope.

  587. epoh

    On October 29, 2009 at 9:17 pm

    I would have expected you to already know that boy ;)
    No, but really, what benicetogals said is absolutly THE most important thing to have in a relationship. And yes we do focus more on the emotional.
    You had hope??? lol XD

  588. Boy

    On November 3, 2009 at 11:06 pm

    lol well kinda but not exaclty knowing you know. Well yeah i believe that it is the most important thing in a gf bf relationship but not as much as friend i didn’t think as much. lol yes, i had tons of hope haha. well now where im standing with her is that we’re friends and like we talk everyday and she always txts me no matter what, and shes always happy to see me so i have this feeling she likes me a lot but i don’t know what to do to become her bf because i know im the guy and i should ask first but im just a little scared of like the reaction, especially if it would ruin our friendship i never thought this problem would occur but im just unsure right now.

  589. epoh

    On November 6, 2009 at 12:06 am

    Well, actually I lol-ed at “hope” because epoh is hope spelled backwards but okay :S….:D
    But anyhow, even though I don’t know anything about this girl, I’ve got a feeling that she feels the same way about you as you feel about her. You’re stuck in one of those situations where you both like each other more than just friends, but you’re both too afraid to tell the other for fear it might ruin what you’ve built up. For now though, I think you’ve just got to be patient and wait for the right moment to tell her. That could be soon, or it could be a while from now, I don’t know. You’ll never know what might’ve been if you don’t take a chance though…

  590. Boy

    On November 6, 2009 at 2:07 am

    haha i see now, lol okay. well hmm i think your right, lol im txting her right now as i type this! yeah i mean ive droped some hints and told her she was beautiful and stuff like not sraight up telling her but like blend it in and shes just said awwww thanks:) but she doesn’t complimetn me as much as i would. but she talks and cares about me a lot i dunno its sometimes a mystery tryin to figure out if she feels the same way. yeah i can do that im patient type more relaxed kinda guy. Yup yup thats what i had at first when i first talked with her. thanks, i’ll let you know on anything else when i get stuck.

  591. epoh

    On November 6, 2009 at 6:41 pm

    Sure! Heh… sorry if I’m no help <:/

  592. prince

    On November 8, 2009 at 4:27 pm

    ok guys well i have question for yall this is serious ok so here i go well this girl in my math class sits right behind me an she’s always poking me with a pencil playing in my hair touching my neck with her pencil an writing on my back an plus being clumsy dropping stuff an calling me demon boy teasing me an giggling an i do the same to her laugh whatever is going on at the moment i react to her and i know i like her because i get nervous an my heart starts racing an i was gust thinking what should i do i know i can be oblivious sometimes i was gust seeing what you all would suggest me to do about this situation or does she likes me so i can make my move on her let me know guys plzz write back.

  593. epoh

    On November 10, 2009 at 9:35 pm

    lol yeah she likes you, that’s sure enough :) Girls don’t do that stuff if they don’t like the guy. As for making the first move, I don’t think it should be a problem getting her to go out with you, but whether or not you have the guts to ask, I don’t know.
    I always think doing something with a bunch of friends would be the easiest way to start, so it’s not so awkward.

  594. prince

    On November 11, 2009 at 5:39 pm

    yea thanks bro. you boost my confidence a whole lot now seriously but now she’s tagged her name all over my back pack in big letters an she likes to put her foot on my thigh wile im sitting and everything so yea im pretty sure she does to dude thanks bro you dont even no lol…… =)

  595. epoh

    On November 12, 2009 at 12:41 am

    she… what??? Why was she putting her name on your backpack just wondering?

    By the way, I’m a girl XD

  596. prince

    On November 13, 2009 at 5:59 pm

    lol yea epoh she did in big letters an she put mi name as well but now im so frustrated cause i gave her my number on a piece of paper yesterday at 3rd period an she didint text me or call me an today was the same old thing gust flirting talking back she hit me an that was it an right now im gust lost i guess she wasnt expecting me to make first move i guess so im going to wait this weekend an see if she texts me an i know she has mi number cause she would of told me that she lost it and now i know she likes me thanks to you an you do as well know she does so i gust came back to see what u think this could be all about. plzz right back

  597. epoh

    On November 14, 2009 at 6:42 pm

    Have you tried texting HER? ‘Cause sometimes that’s all it takes to get things going. She might just not know what to say and so she doesn’t say anything at all. I mean, I could be completely wrong… do you know if she has dated before?

  598. prince

    On November 15, 2009 at 1:11 am

    i think she has lol epoh were in high-school umm thursday i gave her the number an friday the next day u know like i said she didint text me on thursday or friday after school and not now so on Friday i didn’t show that i was bothering about it we gust did the same thing as usual she called me demon hit me an we started flirting u know an that was it all i have to say that was different that day is that she was walking slower than usual but at the same time idk i dont want to think that shes running game on me an you said it your self that she likes me so what you think the problem is please write back.

  599. legacy of ancient mariner

    On December 28, 2009 at 11:30 am

    my mentor was right this site is filled with idiots.

  600. Think I killed our friendship

    On December 31, 2009 at 1:01 am

    I am really good friends with this girl who I’ve always liked and one day we got talking and I let it slip that I liked her and now she won’t talk to me,answer my texts or anything. I asked one of her good friends who is also one of my good friends and would tell me anything cuz we have known eachother since preschool she said that C ( the girl) hasent said anything Now I feel like a complete idiot for ruining our friendship. What should I do?

  601. Alex

    On January 3, 2010 at 1:15 am

    So I am in love with this girl and I used to talk to her during latin. She used to alway say thing to me like i love ect… but now she stoped talking to and advoid me for a few week now since the time i tryed to help her feel better during her break up. It is like i am not even there… Whats is up with that? How do i make it feel right again?

  602. joker

    On January 19, 2010 at 7:10 pm

    i have problom i like this girl but i dont no if she likes me because she laffs at my jokes and is nice to me but some times she seems mad at me for no reson

  603. JC(GOD)

    On January 23, 2010 at 2:09 am

    ok she might be interested
    OR she might think your gay
    ask if she has a boyfriend
    ask if she wants a boyfriend
    thin if shes still listening
    ASK HER OUT ! ! ! !
    or tell her how you feel :b

  604. Jeremy

    On February 4, 2010 at 3:16 am

    I went out with this girl early this year. We broke up but I never stopped likin her. A week ago she told me to kiss her and that she liked me but we hardly talk anymore except for textin late at night. I’m gettin close with her but I know she like me and someone else. And she told me that shed go with who eve made da first move. I’m shy and I told her day but she says that to just take a risk. Any advice?

  605. dtix

    On February 7, 2010 at 11:53 am

    a girl in my class likes me and i didnt need the tips

  606. james w.

    On March 6, 2010 at 11:29 pm

    A fun thing i love to do is check my phone or watch to see what time it is in class or in a waiting room and see who does the same a few seconds after i do. if they do ill wait a couple of min and do it again. if they do that means they are looking at me a lot. it works because peolpe mimic people they like. try it someday you will be shocked, and that long wait in that place you dont want to be will not seem as bad.

  607. amit

    On March 29, 2010 at 3:55 pm

    i think she likes me and i like her

  608. amit

    On March 29, 2010 at 3:59 pm

    i love her very very much but i am afraid to say

  609. woop

    On April 7, 2010 at 9:05 pm

    u guys ar dooshbags ahahaha

  610. pz

    On May 7, 2010 at 12:12 pm

    hey there is this girl in my class and she is so hot!! and i like her and i told my friend and she told her i like her and well she knows and i think she likes me but she said in art class she didn’t like me …… well kinda she keeps saying that she likes me as a friend. i think she likes me what do u thin



  611. FishMasta

    On May 11, 2010 at 5:11 pm

    @PZ : Dude…. don’t sweat it. If she told you she don’t like you, maybe she’s just testing to see if u will still chase her after that reply. If that’s the case why not continue chasing? What have you got to lose? Just a few minutes of “face”? And ask yourself one question…. How much do you love her? If you are so deeply in love with her just approach her, strike up a conversation, tell her honestly that you meant what her friend had told her before, and you are not satisfied with just being friends. Just be honest and truthful. Do not deny or make excuses. Just pure honest heart pouring.

  612. Anamika

    On June 13, 2010 at 7:46 am

    If a girl likes you, you should be able to find her interest through her body language and mannerisms.

  613. abi

    On September 25, 2010 at 8:54 am

    there a several things a boy shouldnt do dont send kisses at the bottom of your text unless u lyk her if u send her a kiss she will ask u out if she lyks u and u will tell her she misunderstood it and she will slap u as hard as she can coz u have just humiliated her if a girl wants to talk to u in private do it and do it quich otherwise she will get ticked off and leave . next dont smell like youn just took a bath in aftershave it really turns us off and we wont be able to be around u 4 more than 2 minutes. stick to ladies first and opening doors for her we love that and if she says thanks tell her its a pleasuyre or something we feel so special when you say that . saying i wont go out with u it will ruin our friendship is not a reason because by saying that u just did ruin you friendship . if u shoot a girl u lyk a sexy smile and she turns red not with laughter though she lyks u

  614. abi

    On September 25, 2010 at 9:09 am

    if u hve a question 2 ask and about what turns a girl off and on email

  615. JinxJoe7

    On December 7, 2010 at 7:04 pm

    I know that I like this girl but I don’t know if she likes me. My friend recently told me that this girl likes me and said that she said I would look good in a swim suit.And that she always looks at me and sometimes smiles at me.


    On April 16, 2011 at 9:29 am

    Thx 4 da advice,but j am also searching

  617. person

    On September 5, 2011 at 7:30 am

    hey i like this girl she is fuck hot as and i was talkin 2 her and shit i said that i didnt even think was funny she laghed at and she keeped on smalein at me and i chach her starin at me wout the coner of my eye and wen i look at her she look away soo do u think she like me yes or no

  618. legacy of ancient mariner

    On October 3, 2011 at 2:00 pm

    Love is for the weak is forthose who want the “easy mode” of life.

  619. G'day from Aus

    On July 20, 2012 at 6:32 am

    you guys are messed up!! Americans and poms are such idiots. You are american right? Come live in Australia guys!!!

  620. Vito

    On September 23, 2012 at 2:51 am

    In my Italian class my teacher forces guys to pair with girls and vice-versa and out of about 24 students 7 are boys (counting me) so no compitition in that class

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